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Touching,,

Amarabae:
you are wrong.
1) it is the yoruba doctor that called for Igbos massacre that want to bring in hate.
2) it was oba akiolu that threaten to drown Igbos in lagos that want to bring in hate.
3) it was awolowo who starved many Igbo kids to death that brought in hate.

4) it is ur like who are very Igbophobic that want to bring in hatred.
5) it is ur APC that played a bitter politics that is bringing him hate.
ok?

Fact

RIP

Ok..

Cool..

I love that car..

She went to a club with her friends ( slay queens) and went out with an unknown guy to an unknown place as a slay queen wey she be..


Mean while, that guy that loves her so much (her boyfriend) was at home hoping that the girl he love was somewhere at home reading her books or doing something good, not knowing that the girl he love and believed that she loves him back is at the club cheating on him with an unknown guy..

Had it been that she's loyal and faithful to her guy, she would've still be alive by now..

I don't pity her..

samuel051:
yes o,i took it as one of d lessons of life,majority of girls if not all can never take u serious as ur family member will even if u pull down heaven for dem,one little argument a girl dat was all over u just a minute ago will start flaming like pipeline bombed by NDA u go begin wonder if its same person u have been dating all these while.

I'm telling you bro..

Mine was very stubborn, stonehearted and hard to please.. I regret wasting the precious time I would've used to do something great with her in the name of caring.. What pain me most is that she later accused me of stealing money from her bank account to the extent of telling her friends that I'm a criminal, na that one hurt me pass.. But I live everything to God sha..

My ex possess non of the above, the only thing she knows how to do best is f**king d*cks and insulting people.. Changing d*cks like cloths in the name of looking for a perfect guy.. Lol

Lol..

RIP

BeeBeeOoh:
E enter am well well

Lwkmd..

End time students.. Lol

Ok..

basilo102:
The world always align with the point of view of IPOB, only the zoo always think otherwise

That pic self.. Lol

koolet:
love khaleesi too

Yeah bro, but I love missandei more..

Cool..

thuggCheetah:
Oh my goodness ...
I heard 6 out of 11 charges were dismissed from his case in court today

Omenkalives sarrki ngeneukwenu, victorvezx darknetcom I tot our slimy Yoruba skulls were saying dat KANU will rot in jail??

@Ipobexposed, after all our "mighty" exposures, he still won

Plz u pple should come join me and cry
See as my Muslim mouth don open yakata!

That pic got me, Lol..

Oba indeed.. Lol

cummando:
I'm no bigot....but I just have to say this
The Igbo's are good people....but once they are convinced,they become stubborn,hard headed and irrational humans.
If one person can answer these questions for me I will forever fight for themthem
1. What are you guys fighting for?
2. Reasons for independence!!!
3. Why the Biafra war stopped!

Truth be said....asking for independence from a country that was formed with you as a major player is treason. If this is how every people ask for independence then we won't have countries and presidents anymore... Only streets and baales.
My talk doesn't matter but I bid you all to change. Its stupid to come challenge a landlord in his house. If its a zoo then leave.to me PMB is lenient. I would have given him the abiola treatment a long time ago. Who you be to come challenge me in my house
My prayer...y'all should repent. Our disunity na I'm dey make common South Africans dey kill us. Let's unite for once and see us become a world power. If independence finally comes to y'all Una go still fight.
Stubbornness won't help. Succumb to a one Nigeria. Left to me if independence happens which I doubt...I'll be the first person that would seek to break it! I'll collapse it.
.....BTW. I'm one of yall somehow

You shoud preach that unity stuff to your president cos he was the one that divided this country before going to mission of no return..

SweetBoyFriend:

It's very very easy to lure a girl to have sex with her

You have a girlfriend and she goes out everyday, at least 200 men would try to hit her up every 8 months, i tell you what *She will not say "No" to those 200 men

99.9% of this new era ladies do cheat(excluding our mothers because they're not olosho like these Instagram age girls)

Just give them that attention and pretend you love them and act like a fool for them, they will have sex with you

Remember how many married women who tried to have sex with you ?? That's that's exactly how your wife is trying to bang other dudes

You're correct bro, but my wife can never cheat on me..

Nawa oo..

skedman:
i guess you are the lady that nairaland guy has been searching for ,i must confess you are pretty,looking smart and gorgeous .

Lol.. The pic got me laughing

Ok

CaroLyner:
On behalf of all ladies we hereby disown her

Lol..

Hmm..

Rihanna and Nathalie Emmanuel aka (Missandei) in Game Of Throne..

Cool..

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Nice one bro..

24SEVEN:
I depict fear and uncertainty in your tone. Obviously you are scared shitless by the prospect of being trapped with Fulani's in Arewa republic. Its really a sorry situation to share a country with retards but you can't help it. You are neither Hausa, or Fulani or Igala or Tiv or Kanuri... and neither are you Yoruba(whom you side with your life. Yoruba never show you tribalism before). You're just one guy from a voiceless tribe about to be trapped in eternal abyss in the inevitable split of this fundamentally unbalanced and flawed setup called Nigeria.

Lol..