₦airaland Forum

Celestialsword:
It all depends on the financial muzzle of the man, some men don't want their wife to work, they even place her on monthly salary and allowance.

The man want her to take full charge of the home front, including taking proper care of the children

When you share responsibilities with your wife, you will surely loose her respect for you as a husband.

If you know you don't have the resources to take care and run a home, you better remain single until you are strong financially.

Having a sit-at-home wife ended the day Tinubu became president.

What you're failing to understand is that when you marry a jobless woman from a struggling background, you're not just marrying her, you're marring her family members (your in-laws) as well.

Every financial responsibility in her home would be moved to you. If her younger sister gains admission, you would be expected to contribute something, if her parents are having accommodation problems, you have to bring money. If there is any event in her family, everyone would be looking up to you. Every month they would be expecting you to send them something for feeding no matter how small because the economy is bad.

And since your wife isn't working, the whole load would be on your head. And it's not even like she'll give you peace of mind. She'll frustrate you with nagging. How long do you think you can endure all that before succumbing to stroke or HBP?

With the way the economy is any man who marries a liability or tells his wife not to work, has shortened his life span by over 50%.

Only a fool would marry a jobless liability in this Tinubu's administration. Cos no matter how much you earn, you'll go bankrupt sooner or later.

folake4u:
😂😂😂😂😂

You even dey try go on Sundays. Good for you though.

I have to stretch my legs after working all week. And the dancing is a form of exercise.

folake4u:
Who made Shiloh only for women? There are men that also go there too, dear. Married and unmarried.

You're older, you need it more than me.

That's their problem. I'm not going biko. So you want me to go there and waste 6 days shouting hallelujah, I receive, Amen when I can be at home making money?

The church I go some Sundays is enough for me.

T-shirt they forced us to pay 4k for upon graduation, till date we no see am collect. So I'm not surprised seeing this.

Personally I don't allow people who reside in the same state stay with me cos I know it would require a confrontation to tell them to leave.

If you're coming from another state for a course, program, lecture, job...etc. I can easily accommodate you cos I know that you'll leave once you're through with whatever it is you came to do.

That's how I operate since Tinubu came into power.

folake4u:
Cc

Nazgul
Kaycee54321
KingRex1
izzou

Shiloh 2024 is here!!!!! You must find a wife and be married before mid 2025.

Shiloh is for women looking for husbands and not the other way round. Everyone knows this.

So dust your Bata and start going there.

They would need evidence. Maybe audio or video recordings. Coming online to claim someone wants to kill you without evidence wouldn't move the hand of the law in your favor anywhere in the world.

It's just that Nigerian police are clueless and useless. In more developed countries, the police can plant an undercover to blend with naira Marley's crew and gather concrete evidence which after gathering they would take him to court and send him to jail.

But naija police never reach that level.

Of what use is the refinery if we're still buying fuel over 1k per liter. Has the refinery benefitted the common in any way?

If fuel dropped to N500 I would have commended them, but since I'm still paying over 1k for it, the refinery is useless to me.

And her husband tolerated this madness?

Amumaigwe:
Once you attack corruption, corruption attacks you back very ferociously. You can witness how it how it plays out on this thread.

Exactly.

All these zombies attacking Peter Obi up and down should know that Obi is a baby in corruption when you compare him to Tinubu.

Under Tinubu the judiciary has been bought, the armed forces, the media...In fact every sector of this country reeks of corruption.

Nigeria is where it is today because of corruption. There's massive looting in all the sectors. No accountability...

In less than 2 years he has borrowed billions of dollars with nothing to show for it. All the development his zombies applaud him for are on paper. The average Nigerian doesn't feel the impact of any of them.

Companies are leaving this godforsaken country in their dozens, the ones left are struggling to survive.

Families are struggling to survive.

Just this morning a friend of mine was telling me that their company told them that they wouldn't be organizing end of the year party for them this year. This is something the company has been sponsoring since he joined them. That if they want any kind or form party, they should organize it themselves.

Even the rich are struggling. Yet these programmed bots wouldn't hesitate to attack a man who left governance when most of them were still in secondary school.

What an achievement.

ayjay45:
Please I used to do it from a cybercafé. Help

1. Download the OPAY app if you don't have it.

2. Register, then on the home page you'll see airtime, data, TV...click on more.

3. On the top left corner I attached a Pic to make it clearer to you, you'll find electricity. Click go and load the amount you want.

Pic2 the home page...click on more down right.

Pic 2 you'll find electricity on the top left corner

Pic 3 select your disco and the amount you'd wish you recharge and a token would be sent to the number you registered your OPAY account with. That token is what you'll use to load on your meter.

Good luck

snowball11:
You want to make top 4 by displacing which team from the top 4?

The same things we've been displacing in the past.

folake4u:
Make we mark this post.

I don bookmark am already.

folake4u:
Songs of consolation.

I still believe that we'll make top 4. So relax.

Silentgroper:
Two loss bruh, two 😒😒😒

Mancity lost 4 straight league matches and heaven didn't fall. Ours is just 2. 😏

folake4u:
Nazgul how market.

Y'all can now see that Ten Hag wasn't the problem. This una Amorim, e better make him go open mishai shop.

Last I checked, all the top teams have lost matches this season. So it's expected.

omooba969:
Nazgul weytin dey happen? 😳😳😳

It happens. You win some, you loose some.

Silentgroper:
Maybe she was having twin after twin .. so she calculated the abortion by each of the baby ...

Lol

Zonefree:
The story is legit.

Most Nigerian girls have done worse things than this.

It's not legit. She might have actually committed abortions for the guy but it's definitely not up to 10. The number of abortions she's quoting is unrealistic.

Every woman ovulates once in a month. So if she took in every month for the 6 months she dated the guy, it would be 6 pregnancies and 6 abortions. How did it get to 10?

Frezhkid10:
It’s better we buy fuel at its true cost without scarcity than to buy at cheap price and fight everyday at the petrol station!!..

Independant marketers placed the landing cost of imported fuel at 970 and NNPCl is selling their which is refined here in Nigeria for over 1k. And you're saying it's better for us to buy it that way.

Or are you not aware that the economy is linked to fuel. Meaning if the price of fuel goes up, the prices of food and other commodities would definitely go up.?

It's very obvious that you're still feeding from your parents and. That's the only explanation of this rubbish you posted.

PressMyButton:
Jagaban is not joking, he will make his enemies run mad.


After God, na Tinubu 💪 God bless Nigeria.

Can you point one sector of the economy that's working and the masses are enjoying ever since Tinubu came on board?

Una go just de defend rubbish. You have 2 refineries yet fuel is over 1k per liter. Electricity has become more expensive than house rent, inflation keeps rising, people are being taxed to their deaths.

Yet you lots keep defending him. First it was costal highway, now this. Common sense can't even tell you that all these projects are just conduits for syphoning public funds.

Babypal:
Is this black market rates? Which website do I check the black market rates from pls?

This rate is from Geepay and it's still N1,606. I don't understand what people here are saying.

It's still on N1,606. The appreciation isn't massive.

Question is how sustainable is this appreciation? Something similar happened some months back. It even appreciated to 1k to $1. Then crashed after some weeks.

She'll still maintain her rich clients in the marriage and would keep having dealings with them whenever she needs urgent cash.

Mariangeles:
You reside in the North?

Nope. I reside in Lagos.