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)8 see the dirty environment. indeed God hears our prayers. otherwise... hmmm

improper dressing is a discussion Nigerian ladies are not ready to have.

osanobua help me, so arch bishop go task me too.

SirMichael1:
Hello Good afternoon Familanders. This is very long, so please bear with me.

I’ll start from the root. Well, in my church, there’s usually a committee for the married men where most times we can proffer solution to the issues or need of the church members and other times organize get together monthly within us (married men) just to foster unity. Since we're like 20, different men host the get together. Therefore, it's spaced out for 1year and 8months.

It all began last Sunday when I was chosen to oversee the next get together which comes up this Sunday after church. When we (my wife and I) got home after church, I told her about it and she immediately asked, “who would do the cooking”? I was taken aback as the question sounded strange. I replied her saying, since she did the cooking the last time, I figured she’d do it this time.

She got angry and said there’s no way she’ll be going through the stress of cooking for 18 to 25 men and that I better know what to do concerning who’s going to handle the cooking. I tried to calm her down and reminded her of how I assisted her in the kitchen by pounding the yams while she made the soup -two soups actually and that I was going to help her this time. Yam is quite expensive so we’re not pounding this time, just Semo.

She remained adamant and said there was no way she would do anything, that the work stressed her so much and she won’t partake in any cooking and that I better go find anyone to do the cooking. Thing is, I understood the fact that the work was stressful for her because she was 5 months pregnant then and it was her first time.

Yesterday at work, I kept pondering about a solution and a thought struck me. I called her from work and asked her, "how about I get one of the women at church to offer you support?". She blatantly refused and still held on to her words.

My mind hasn’t been settled since morning because I got hold of a caterer and she told me that she’ll charge a thousand naira per head, that is approximately 20k. Truth is, the get together came at a wrong time and considering the prices of drinks, the cost of the food stuff, meat, ingredients, etc. I really can’t afford a caterer right now.

I’m at a cross road now. I don’t know what to do because it’s causing a rift between us. I thought of bringing a church member to assist on that day without informing her so she wouldn’t surprise me and leave the house but I fear that if she comes, my wife might not join her in the kitchen and the woman will begin to feel a certain way (thinking of how ungrateful we are). Then again, who will purchase the food items? I’ve just been confused. I really need insights.

Note: I said I'll help her make the swallow, she just needs to make the soup.

Abraham saw 3men who happened to be angels. without warning he ordered Sarah to make haste and cook. probably she was busy, tired, sleeping or even sick but she got up and did as as her husband asked.

so me no con understand. in my nicest voice and with due respect na wife you get wey no fit cook for your guests?
my brother go into prayers something is stealing her

ehnnn you and the anger should settle down and cater for the child naa. ABI?

Simplyleo:
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My instinct tells me these are fulani herdsmen terrorising our communities but the zoo police is just parading them as cultists having received instructions from Buhari. Forget the names up there, they are fictitious.

We are wiser than that.

Igbos cant harm anyone with a razor blade, let alone guns, cutlasses and charms.

Buhari fulanizing Nigeria since 2015.

Igbo amaka.

you sef is this sarcasm or what?

whela:
up North..
If you know you know.

story. forget up north na the whole con3. was it up north a woman drill a nail on a child's head. all the maltreatment we saw on children last month was it also up north. abeg talk better before you go sound hypocritical

truthfulparrot:
Jesus entered Jerusalem riding a donkey. In his days, it was the poor that use donkeys as means of transportation while the rich used horses and chariots.

It is rather sad that most Nigerians pastors are materialistics and do not follow the footsteps of Jesus. I don't need the help of any pastor to serve my God. I would rather give money to the poor and less privileged than pay tithes to these Pharisees called pastors.

okay
did Jesus also used a donkey while traveling for evangelism by the sea?

am not in away blindly defending so Called MoGs but we shouldn't be also blind in baseless criticism

chatinent:
That dude wore lipstick.

it's vitiligo. please don't body shame here.

Haywhysat:
OSINBAJO THE STAR BOY

Which star boy abegi. star boy hanging with rogues, thieves, cut throats, fanatics....

how you get freaky to perform special style on someone's wife.. na him pain me pass.

EvenBlogger:
Source: https://www.instagram.com/p/CEom5V5nnNZ/

story don't add up. just like that? why will he just show up and start pounding her?

majamajic:
Na u we go face this period ?
No problem oo .

No mind the idiots I just corrected one of his too. here now.

Englishisamust:
luggage not lougage

Always start your statement or whatever with a capital letter

Mathantics:
TTC.

what is cool about someone's death.

iammo:




DSS invitation is not an arrest why are some Nigerians like this


.

is an invitation to chop rice and drink champagne. you hear? keep daydreaming. sometimes I wonder if we haven't learned enough. smh

make Una wait make I laugh finish

September wetin?
konji never hit some people fess. do all you like a man is ever a man. we Sabi our self

MikeMicheal:
Why are some nairaland moderators so obsessed with snakes?
This particular moderator should seek help against the spirit of serpent.
He might not know, but the spirits are the one driving his obsession.

that guy and snake na 5/6 come moo dey go jare

abdullahi45:
I don't think it will ever stop... It is getting more into our society. A form of mental colonialism, I suppose..

cheers bro. na oyibo undercover feminism instilled into the African man. people who do that I don't really know what going on in their mind. are you begging her to marry you or what?

Mogajunior:

Kneeling to propose publicly happens by default for most men because the west has instilled it in us and I don't see men breaking away from it anytime soon. Anyway, I wish them well.

ya you've spoken well. but it's a start, Pete edochie has got the ball rolling that nonsense will stop some day. certainly not abruptly today but it will. I personally hate that nonsense.

Austineva:
Arsenal will always be Arsenal no matter d kind of players they buy, that's why their life matters

guy why are you like this sef

gypsey:
this individual is mentally unstable, go see a psychiatric ASAP

have you taken a good look at yourself?

flyingpig:
They couldnt even use it they had to donate it to neighbouring CHAD republic

Me trying to understand if this is an insult or admiration to our technology

which ever way you look at it. it's still patronage. which our government haven't done.

obembet:
Seriously, some clubs or let me say some coaches don't even have players to club relationship. How will Barcelona that Messi serve for over 20year now be thinking of battle the same Messi in court over leaving or not. He is a CLUB LEGEND for God sake. Treat him as such. The only party that has something to lose here is Barcelona. either sell Messi for 1billion or so, the club will lose it respect, fans and identity. Messi continues with his career. I just believe that when Messi said he wants out, the best thing the club would have done is support him on this decision and be planning a ceremonial match on his behalf now and not all this legal battle. Shame on Barcelona

Lalasticlala

just so you know this thing is purely business, we the fans are the ones for the passion.
yes he has done great things for the club and thanks to them he is a very rich man today. infact more influential than most billionaires. so it's a two way street.
I honestly can't blame Barca for anything business before pleasure.

soo, who abandon a loaded vessel? Una never ready to tell the truth.

Righteousness89:

We are Fine Bro..
The Gospel has to go Places..

sure, sure bro. it's well

Righteousness89:


Condolences to The Family of the Deceased ..

Naming a Stadium after him will not Resurrect Him or add anything to Him .

Let us Alive understand the Importance of Living our lives in the Conciousness of Eternity, knowing that One day we will also go down 6ft..

Live this Life in Preparation for Eternity at all times...

Don't play with this !

bro
where have you been, I miss you o

warrizdis chineke

FunkyAlhaji2015:
What you wrote about our government not been patriotic to its us so it deserves no patriotism can only come a person who knows nothing. Let me give you a scenario, if I come across a neighbour beating my father, I don't need any prompting, I will beat that neighbour to stupor. Even if my Dad is a piece of shit, he is my piece of shit. No one should disrespect him outside. That's patriotism.

If it were just a migration issue like in Libya, our govt would have jus brought back its citizens safely and dealt with Ghana squarely. The ibos in their typical style have established big businesses in Ghana, owning big buildings and plazas. The govt can not tell them to abandon their businesses to return home. The Ghanian and South African govt know this, that's why the Nigerian govt can do little in this matter. Our govt can only beg on behalf of it citizens.

you just proved my point. the picture you painted has no reflection of the situation at hand. the Ghanian aren't beating the father but they are beating the son thanks to who the foolishness of the father who can't even stand up to defend his children.

please be kind not to speak on the Ibo properties again. because wallahi Baka San abin da Ka ke Fadi ba.

in Nigeria here, foreign owned companies are doing far better and own bigger properties than we the citizens. if foreign nationals pull out their businesses and infrastructure you will then understand.
so don't make it an Ibo thing that's tribalist
Maryam abacha owns a uni in Niger republic. indimi owns businesses all over the world. so also other thousands know and unknown Yoruba and Hausa people. drop sectionalism an reason on your own and not what people are telling you.

FunkyAlhaji2015:
The difference between Nigeria and Ghana is that, their citizens are patriotic and always side their government in times like this. Here in Nigeria, people like you know nothing about patriotism. You write just to get cheap likes from your likes.

If not for the ibos that are ever so migrant, Nigeria won't be scooping so low to be insulted by Ghanian govt lies. They know they have found Nigerians in a tight corner like South Africans.

I wouldn't know what to call this, your ignorance or stupidity?
you should know when the govt isn't patriotic to her citizens how do you expect to citizens to be?
you mentioning the Ibo as immigrants alone. makes me wonder who have been feeding you this dumb trash.. have you been to Libya, Morocco, Gabon, Chad Even Niger republic ? go n see the number of Hausas there, go to Italy and see the number of Edo people (my tribe) there go to England from a reliable source I heard an entire street is dominated by the Yoruba and you come to NL spewing nonsense. please go get and education you need it

mumu mumu contracts everywhere, Messi over bearing influence in managerial decision. no player fit try that shit for Stanford bridge.
Barcelona messed up big time