₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
. She says she deserves better. So, yes, let her go, and you, too, can move on to finding yourself a woman well within your range. Work on getting a woman you can afford, or better still, put all of your energy into building your financial capacity and strength so you don't run up against the same issue again.

If women are for sale as your comment suggests, then women shouldn't get angry when men treat them like a purchased item. I can't buy you with money and you still give me conditions. After buying a dress the dress will be giving you conditions on what days you should wear it or not.

Igirigimercenar:
My a.nger is on the y.orubas, why are they hellbent on preserving the unity of this country even after watching this?

Why why why?

Y.orubas,why are you guys so in love with Nigeria that you cannot see that it just can't work? Work with your fellow southerners so that Nigeria can be balkanized peacefully

Yorubas are not the ones preserving the unity of this country. It is the Northerners. The Northerners are united and more powerful than the South.

I am not Yoruba but I know the Yorubas are making quiet moves. They just don't do it aggressively like the Igbos and IPOB because they understand the challenges of going aggressive mode which is what the South East is suffering today when you consider the sit at home effects and the military operations.

RollinTNDA:
My first sex was in Boarding school with Angela jss3

Boys and girls boarding school was the best thing to ever happen in my life

The sweetest time of my youth was from SS2 to SS3. We terrorize junior students like bandits

I had 2 school sons who I protected and one introduced me to her mother. Her mother will give me money and provisions as gift for looking after her son

We would storm Jnr hostel, carry big bowl of garri and command them to provide mil Milo and sugar and they will do it out of fear

I want to go back to boarding school
Chaiii the enjoyment was something else

Which school is that?

Adaisback:
okay, we love it that way. Thank you for the compliment

It's the noise making and bragging that attracts the push back you all term as hatred or envy. Humble yourselves.

Jakpon:
What a minute. Na namdi kanu house be like that poultry farm?

It's the outer surroundings some distance outside the compound fence.

Adaisback:
yes we are all special. They too used to praise themselves when it comes to a thread concerning them. Some igbos used to acknowledge it too or support them.

Igbos make noise more.

Adaisback:
for exactly saying the truth ?

Please every human being is special. When you believe some people are more special than the others it leads to tribalism, racism and discrimination. How can you prove that Igbos are special while others are not?

ceeceeco:
The Igbos are just so exceptional.
There's something special about the Igbos, they have so much grace.

People like you are the ones causing tribalism on Nairaland. I am Igbo and we are all the same humans as others. Stop the superiority complex.

Phred1717:
This is why The Yorubas hate the Igbo and try to bring tribal and ethnic sentiment... Kudos to the Igbos for their industrial revolution

Please don't spoil this thread. You are the first to mention Igbo and Yoruba.

Kobojunkie:
Many of you simply hate women is the major problem here. 🥱🥱🥱
For women, to add to the above burden laid on them in marriage, to have to bear the burden as breadwinner, you think people should not be bothered... clearly you lot hate women, your mothers included. 🥱🥱🥱

You don't really sound smart.

There are many marriages where men are the breadwinners and also do house chores.

There are many marriages where men do tedious jobs which are much more stressful and difficult than the house chores women do at home.

There are many marriages where women are the breadwinners and men do the house chores.

Did you really account for all these different configurations of a marital home? Marital homes are not universally the same. In some marital homes men work harder than women. And in some other marital homes women work harder than men. But generally the fact is that both men and women collectively work hard. But you only want to believe that only women work harder than men which is absolutely false.

Kobojunkie:
What aspect of that leads you to believe that gender equality should no longer be a goal?

Why did you state that 50% of women are breadwinners? Why should we be bothered about it if women want gender equality?

Kobojunkie:
That is partly the reason why almost 50% of married women in Nigeria today are breadwinners.

Don't you want gender equality anymore?

festacman:
It is obvious that Genevieve misunderstood the context and bantering or sarcastic nature of the original post that referenced the unfortunate story of a woman who falsely accused her husband of raping their own girl children.

She was driven or rather BLINDED by the spirit of femininism mixed with a large dose of misandry. She will be fine.

The original post was plain dumb. Genevieve was right.

Moveittothem:
So IPOB doesn't kidnap people like some people would want us to believe?

I can't believe South East has the lowest.

The media had been over reporting kidnapping cases in the south east because they thought the South East is unsafe as you believed.

Kingosytex:
Married men actually cheat more you say, but married women are the ones scared of DNA test.

They are not scared of DNA tests. They just feel uncomfortable that you don't trust them. Men cheat more than women. Just Google and research it.

Kingosytex:
It's the way to go. The rate at which married women cheat now is alarming.
If Nigeria goes this way, many marriages will crumble.
Paternity fraud should be considered a big crime.

Married men actually cheat more than women.

SlavaUkraini:
Yes it is..

There is dignity in being a woman that would not sell her body for favors

Let them decide what to do with their bodies. You should also enforce the same dignity on men who pay them for sex.

Topnotch95:
All these ladies acting like they don't know what they are doing while they play their manipulative games. She dressed so seductively just to pass a message to her helpers that she wouldn't mind going down with them just to exit this country.

She is indirectly saying she is available for sex and will give her body willingly to anyone that wants to help her. You can tell from the dress she wore.

Is it bad?

You will also do the same in her shoes

SlavaUkraini:
With this kind of desperation, she will sleep with anyone willing to help her..

Is it bad?

DeltaOil:
So it's igbos who were the main characters in Nollywood.

In every topic on Nairaland somebody must mention Igbo. Na wah o.

God1000:
but her husband who is a black man was elected president twice, I think this is not about race, we still have black female governors, mayors, senators and house of representatives in US.

Obama is biracial please. Removing the white side make it lose the exact context.

Mariangeles:
Buttery.

Now, more like milky.

Wow. I used to see the biscuits many years ago but I didn't have the opportunity to buy it. I bought it for the first time last year and I liked it. But I never knew I was eating the inferior model. I am sad to know I never got a chance to taste the original version.

Mariangeles:
I know.
Not like how it used to be.



Not the same.
They don't make them like it was before.

How does it taste before?

SeverusSnape:
Most SUG presidents are cult members, So most probably, A rival cult took him down.

Where did you get your stats from?

Validated:
When agberos, touts and school drop outs are ruining the country, professionals leave for greener pastures. Tell me how many of your leader's children are schooling in Nigeria. Tell me how many of them do not have a homes abroad. Tell me how many of our leaders have no foreign bank account that they stash our commonwealth in.
When you finish answering these questions, then tell me how many foreign Presidents, Prime Ministers, Heads of Government, etc buy houses in Nigeria or even come to Nigeria for medical.

You now see that those of you defenders of evil governments are the problem, not the professionals japaing.

Everybody is an agbero by default from birth. But a few people got western education and ideology and their native country automatically became unsuitable for them to practice the western system they copied. Then.tbey decided to run away from their native country. If want our country to be like the western countries we are running to then about 80% of us will have that western education and culture.

PigTormentor:
So one-man story is now evident of anything?
Complete crap.
I was once in Alabama many many years ago and d I had a car malfunction. This white guy was just too nice. He went out of his way to assist and made sure that I was able to continue my journey to Atlanta.
Does that mean that the vast majority of whites from Alabama are not racist?
Nope. Just an outlier in sampling.
Another true story. When I first started in IT back in the days, my black co workers were not willing to show me anything. A white guy with confederate license plate was my life saver. But reality is that most of the whites with confederate flags are pure racist and sees nothing wrong with slavery.

There are nice Igbos, my in law is one of them, but most are tribalistic and some have admitted to that fact using the war and other events for why they are that way.

Did you skip the part in the video where the Yoruba guy said PEOPLE were begging so he wouldn't pay for the damage? If it was a single person begging then you may have a point. But when PEOPLE were begging then it should tell you there is a good amount Igbos who are not tribalists as you want us to believe.

MartinCorridon:
Hehehe. 3rd Class at a Mira kuru Center= high IQ in SE

No wonder they were celebrating Julius Berger logo in 2024 and a water fountain in 2023.

No wonder

If you had high IQ you would have known that academic performance is different from logic and reasoning ability.

ayoncox:
think about what you just wrote again, so you mean I can come to your house and declare myself as the head of my own family even while living under your roof and you won't chase me out

Your analogy is not the same as what you are complaining about. Oba of Imo or Enugu means the leader of the Yoruba community in Imo state. Same as Eze of Lagos. They both mean community leaders in the particular state. How exactly is that a problem?

olayinka63:
A lot of anti Islamic threads on front page. We understand that Seun is a Christian but atleast you and your mods should apply common sense and fairness.

He is an atheist.

ayoncox:
As a Yoruba boy I hereby declare this as nonsensical. Why should there be a Yoruba Oba in other man's land of different ethnicities, this is so so wrong

There is nothing like "another man's land" because we are in the same country. Even if we are in different countries how does it change anything?

DrAda:
I agree. I alluded to this when I mentioned that someone out there would end up being executed. One does not go about executing someone for a failed project. You execute someone if he or she is culpable for a failed project and in this case, it is most likely the case.

Someone failed to do a proper job evaluating the terrain thus putting lives at risk and the nation in disrepute.

It was stated that a landslide caused the bridge to collapse. In this case nobody will be executed.