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How person wey dey offer me flyer go dey slap him wife for my front.

Jackanda1:
Who ask you?

Before you embarrass yourself ni.

Jackanda1:
What religion do you subscribe to?

I don't subscribe to religion. All religions are the same to me. Over 4000 religions in the world and everyone believes theirs is supreme. I can't count how many denominations come from Christendom alone, and y'all don't have the same doctrines or are united.
I subscribe to evidence and facts. I don't dismiss the possibility of an higher intelligence, life didn't come on its own.
The God of most religions sounds like a made up character to anyone who can reason.

I'm not an extremist, I'm friends with people from all walks of life and orientations. Some of my closest friends are Christians and Muslims, doesn't change the love i have for them even tho we don't believe in the same thing.

Jackanda1:
You could have simply Ignored the fool

The demons disturbing people like that are from the dirtiest part of hell.

Just to correct you.
Atheists don't believe in god and satan. Imaginary beings are non existent in Atheism.

geoworldedu:
A soldier was released from the forest to go back home. He was paid his 50k salary, only to reach the park and was told transport fare to his destination was 35k. That's 70k to and fro. The guy kukuma return back to the bush. I watched the video on YouTube.

Na to switch to banditry be that o.
It's kuku lucrative. Easy cash out lol

geoworldedu:
With 50k as salary of soldiers, they won't give their best. Don't be surprised if they are parts of the kidnappers themselves.

Come to think of it. I won't be surprised.
How soldier go dey collect 50kpa? Chai!

What's your problem with atheists?
Is it because they don't believe in your imaginary God that can't do shi for no one.

God that can't deliver a religious country like Nigeria from corruption, insecurity and greed.
God wey no fit stop genocide of his own jewish people during the Holocaust. God wey no heal 1 patient during corona outbreak but una dey fool una self with sunday miracles.

God this, god that, all of una go resume the week tomorrow with the same dubious mentality. Just dey play.

One celebrity don kuku talk am earlier this year. In Nigeria, you're responsible for your own security. Security agencies can't do shi.

If people in top positions are being kidnapped, what hope has a commoner got? Our military can't contain bandits and terrorists but can assault civilians on the street. Police force ain't better, can't remember the last time we had any major crime solved or cracked in this country, their own na to obtain motorists and youths.

If care is not taken, Inspector general would be kidnapped also. Na that time una go know say this thing serious.

Dtruthspeaker:
So shall you burn with him forever.

At least he's not delusional like you.
God took more souls in the bible than any other entity, most times for absurd reasons.
A god that tells his worshipper to sacrifice his son, or allows satan to wipe out the family of an innocent and faithful Job, let's not forget how he took the life of David's son as a punishment for no valid reason. Who's the wicked person? Who's fooling who?

The church of Satan's agenda has nothing to do with satan but rather the opposite of the ten commandments. They encourage gratification of all pleasures. Na only one life we get.

Ade49:
nawa oo, but how can someone be a successful farmer ? Do you have any guidelines ?

Maybe he means something else.
Maybe he's trying to indirectly tell you to forgo your certificate.

Farming is lucrative, very lucrative.
I'm not a farmer, you'll need to ask a farmer, a successful one to be precise.

Omo I don't know what to say o. I don't believe in religion buh I'll tell you a story.

2022, things hard that year, for like 3 months. Wasn't getting gigs. Was down asf. Opelope sugar mummy laiye mi.

I went to redraw money from pos in my hood one fateful hot july afternoon. After giving me my cash, the pos attendant grabbed me by the hands, looked into my eyes and said "Young man, the lord said i should tell you something big is coming, your watchword is Focus". I was shocked, it felt like i was just waking up from a deep slumber, like a veil had been lifted off my eyes. I didn't say anything, i just walked away staring at her oddly. Like what nonsense.

The same week, got a dream like engagement. Things changed within the space a month asap. When i went back to the hood, first thing i did was run to her pos stall. They told me she had been chased away from the spot, wanted to cry. Haven't come across her till date.

Some humans have an innate talent or would i say instinct to accurately predict future events. Whether it has to do with the religion God or not, i have no idea. Don't debunk prophecies given to you. You can never tell.

I remember when i working my ass off at a certain organisation and one of the head foreman said i was wasting my time there. That i should follow my dream. Felt like an insult to me that year. Like he was telling me i was incompetent.

Looking back now, he was right, we're not even close on the pay grade level. And he's still at that organisation. If I didn't listen to him, I'd prolly never have left either.

Use your discretion my bro

Yugoslavia247:
Now they chat with another guy even a single guy and the husband does not even bother.

I think most men don't even bother because of the choking responsibility.

This married woman give sex timetable for man.

While the guy outside already telling her how he will knack the kpekus everyday and she smiles sheepishly..

She will "yinmu" to the man while she shows the man sleeping or in a vulnerable state to her newly found lover.

She wants to be everything a woman should be to the new man without asking the new man to pay a dime instead she prefers to pay the bills.

The man at home is either a stooge husband or a problem solver depending on how the wealth is distributed.

A woman who is richer sees the man as a figure head. A poorer woman sees the man as a simp who came to the world to solve her financial problems.

Fact is, if you have banged people's gf while on the bed they call their bf and tell him they need funds.

They won't even dare ask you.

Funny but true.

Like this I fear women

Both the religious and nonreligious

Don't ever believe that deflowering your wife means she won't fall out of love with you or cheat on you.

Women are triggered more than that and more sophisticated.

A woman can show you so much love and empathy but still cheat on you.

She can be your queen and someone else's "sarewagba"

Don't play

I've posted my chats with one married woman i was swiping on this platform before. You sef before you marry, do proper research on her well. Especially those young ones wey quick marry and dem still wan experiment, or the ones with extremely busy husbands.

Got a first hand experience of this today when a elderly man dressed in Sunday's best going to church with his family slapped his wife in public in my street. To my utmost disappointment, observers around ignored them, all of them moving about their daily activities like nothing happened.
I walked past the man and from a safe distance shouted at him "See person wey dey go church dey slap him wife, and you be apostle for church o"
He was embarrassed and said how is it my business.

I replied and asked what example he was setting for his kids. I've seen him distrbute winners pamphlets on many occasions and i have always declined collecting it. I'm proud to say i don't regret.

toujurs:
I had a very disappointing experience yesterday, i should have walked out on her, after expressing how she doesn't look even close to the pictures she posts, than wasting my time and money on someone deceptive.

But i kept my cool, and behaved like a gentle man

What even got me offended, was her greed, to have a taste of every meal on the menu.

I had to tell her, to pay for her take away, which she took alone, can you imagine she started giving me an attitude.

I don't understand, should i also pay for your own take out as well

That's what made me quit online dating. Met this babe on Facebook, chatted for a month and things got serious in the process. We were really into each other. Did video calls and all, was really happy i hit the jackpot.

She finally had the confidence to come around, went to pick her at the bus stop. Didnt see no one like her. Got angry and wanted to bail when my phone rang. Someone was waving at me. Got closer and couldn't believe my eyes. She was nothing like her pictures. Not saying she's ugly. Took her home, we watched couple of cartoons and conversed extensively. Couldn't bring myself to have sex with her even as she was clingy, her hands were all over me, she's the touchy feelings type. Escorted her back to the bus stop. Promised to call her and all, kissed her goodbye.

On the way back the dots began to connect. Realized i got worked over her because she was so good at talking, her pictures were mostly misleading and heavily embedded with filters. Even the video calls, she always covered up with poorly lit environment complaining about power outage. I had been catfished.

After i confirmed she had gotten home. I deleted her number, deleted the Facebook app too, stopped picking her calls.

If our initial connection had been physically, tbh i would have no objection being serious with her. The fact i had high expectations only to be let down killed all feelings i had for her. Why should i date someone I'm more physically attractive than. Ever since i switched back to associating with real people, i have rest of mind somewhat.

This experience is from 2018.
My views have changed somewhat, i priotize women who have interest in me now. Never went back to online dating again. It's a scam, for me oo.

Jeon:
Quick reminder
"Men don't need women cuz they have nothing to offer".

😼😼😼

Most times it's majorly sex women have to offer.
I believe if a man ain't happy on his own, he shouldn't bring a woman in to share the same misery.

Haynnie:
Here’s the talk bout this, if your sis reject a broke man when she hasn’t been doing well off herself, it would make her a hypocrite. Who’s willing to work when the opportunity arise would not hesitate but would make plans out of what they get for now. I would not agree to get married if I’m still broke for I need to have a means of income enough for sustainability for two talk less of having a baby. So for a man to be earning 50k and has the need to get married means two things which is, the salary isn’t is only source he realize his income and the other is having enough to sustain his new family after the marriage. If we are real with ourselves, we should ask bout people who live in the village or those who do menial jobs earning less than 50, 10-5k still do get married and still find means to sustain their selves in their marriages.

For someone to say she can't settle for a broke guy, she is obviously doing well for herself. It's a matter of standard and choice.

nedekid:
Oga, I just cut 2 trees in my house because of bats, just 1 moth ago .
There were lots of them, active at night. How do we know if one gets rabid, bites someone or even a dog that now attacks people? My bingos know no life outside the compound so it is only through bats infections can come in. We have no squirrels here in urban Lagos.
2 twice I have seen rabies and what it can do. Many years ago, down my street, a young girl was bitten or scratched by a bat. About 10 year old. That girl went through hell, it got to a stage she was barking, frothing from he r mouth till she died.
2nd time I have written on this forum before. If you know anyone in UI 1993, surely they will give you the gist of when a profs dogs went rabid along Amina way biting people. I saw a lady walking, a dog sneeked on her from behind and grabbed a chunk of flesh from her leg and ran off with the "beef" in its mouth! That was how knew something was wrong. The whole area went on shutdown with gunshots all over. Long story, 15-20 people were bit and had to take rabies vaccines at huge cost.
Nothing like superstition, brainwashing here, you do not need bats around you, especially if you have pets or worse, kids, why? Kids may not tell you something scratched them, before you know, symptoms show and at that stage, a painful death is inevitable.

We have lots of trees at home. Birds visit a lot, owls, bats, crows. No one has ever been infected in my house.

This country na cruise walai.

nedekid:
Oga, seems you don't know bat is one of the main sources of rabbis.
Hope you know rabbis has a 100% mortality rate. Once bitten and the vaccine is not taken with 24 hours, that person is walking dead. Once the symptoms start, that is the end of the person, no treatment. Only 1 person is known to have survived, an American girl, bitten by a bat, the treatment given to her could not be replicated on other patients.

Both men in the below videos all died.
If you have a tree with bat's in your house, please cut it down.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LZFNbCHVXKs?si=ekEqx_JsO1E8GO0G

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7JgYhxcVQ3Q?si=GAHl_V_hcXS6DVVY

Same with dogs, squirrels and a host of others. Africans are superstitous. Your fear of bats stems from brainwashing, not experience.

DrSamOnowu87:
Bat are harmless? Does it include the one in Aso Rock Villa?

Another obedient. So obvious

Gentlesoul2021:
He's the man u disgraced lol. That's his handle reason am...

Lmao....

PinkNature:
I understand your point of view. An average 18 years Gen Z has probably been with 5 or more men/boys.

While having that in mind, they're are still a few of them that still preserve themselves till marriage and I make it prayer that I'm divinely linked to those kind of women.

It's crazy, marriage is crazy, even virgins after 15 years in marriage, might just wake up and decide to start exploring and sampling. It's really bleeped up.

Swears. Na God go help all of us.

PinkNature:
I'm talking about marriage here. I certainly can't marry my age mate.

My woman is going to be under 25. For reasons best known to me.

I get you sha. For reasons best known to me. This younger generation has a higher mileage. Dem don too scatter ground. You can't tell these days. Marrying under 25 doesn't guarantee success in marriage. What I'm after is compatibility and understanding.

Jman06:
I've checked my dictionary and your definition did not come close. BTW, we wouldn't be having this latest argument if you hadn't tried to be smart by half by trying to give a wrong meaning just to make it seem like you're right.

Wahala. I know a lot people like you in real life. Over sabi online warriors. But losers in real life. Please don't quote or mention me again. Giving losers like you attention is not worth it.

You're giving immature vibes. Juvenile!

Jman06:
Are you trying to give the word a different meaning just to cover up your error? Because what you wrote up there is not what the word 'juvenile' is.

Go and check your english dictionary. Mr over sabi.

Haynnie:
Ehnn by he must have skyrocketed from the actual 50k he earns to much more than his former cost of living.

Logically, birthing his first kid is enough for his income not to remain the same not to talk of 2 kids.

I've seen a lot of folks go down this way. Marriage is shaky or destroyed now.

My lil sis and i were having a convo with my old man and she told us blankly she can't marry a broke man. I'm in support of that.
Sounds funny buh when you look at it, Finance is everything. It's better to be practical and realistic about things like this.

Pineapplelove:
You acted like the Kings but a king must always be careful with the kind of H0es he chooses to warm his bed and keep his time.


If e remain small, my bruh show me love

Not even that. The fact that this dude is well to do is wah pissed me off. Anyways, that's what you get when you chase women that can sort themselves financially wise.

CrazyBen:
Those who love are actually strong & alive, they just fats find who'll match their energy

No one is saying anyone shouldn't love.
Just be wary. Most times what humans love the most is what destroys them.

SweetBuns:
Fake story but watch as the redpillars and alpha mails drink it all up because it agrees with some of their twisted world views

This is not for red pillers. If you have a son or brother, would you want em to be simping like this dude?
Thank God you're a lady. You know what men go through in the hands of y'all.

Same way i never want my daughter or younger sister to be manipulated by any man.

Jman06:
26 years old is a juvenile

Illiterate!!!

Anyone who is of age and still making wrong and immature decisions is a juvenile.
I'm not talking in context of age.

We have 26 year olds already mothering kids

fidelmarshal199:
How I wish i could LIKE this post more once. You just made my night with this comment. Thumbs-up

The post triggers you right?
You're hopeless with Nigerian women, especially the young ones, just guessing ni o

PinkNature:
Even if one is 40+, shouldn't the target be 20's?

Brother, erryman to his own.
I roll with women within my age bracket or above. Can't say for others