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PinkNature:
Even if one is 40+, shouldn't the target be 20's?

Brother, erryman to his own.
I roll with women within my age bracket or above. Can't say for others

Jman06:
This is the reason why I don't pity any girl who comes crying that she got dumped or heartbroken by a guy. I've noticed that once a girl sees that you're deeply into her, there's 99% chance that she'll reject you. She'll rather prefer going after guys who care less about her, then when she gets her fingers burnt she'll start accusing men of being "scums".

They forget that men should be the ones hunting for women they fancy and not the other way round. Marriage and relationships place alot of responsibilities on men and it takes a man who adores his woman to shoulder those responsibilities with little or no grudges.

Las las, all guys would absorb the red pill knowledge and the the consequence is that more women would suffer in relationships and marriages. Of course, they shouldn't blame anybody when they start suffering the consequences because they caused it all. You can't continue to humiliate and degrade guys who have genuine interest in you (aka simps) and expect nature not to give you heartless jerks (red pillers) as partners.

You understand what this is all about. I see grown men lusting after women that don't have them in mind. It's a win win for these women. I want Nigerian men to wake up to the reality of things.

YorubaKing:
God bless you, Baba. OP is the simp and fool here. I can bet my life he spends a fortune just to fuc.k this Olosho, and here forming tough guy. Mtcheeew!

Ok

EreluRoz:
Mtcheww tales by moonlight

All these boys that practically live their lives in bars and hotels and frolick with prostitutes actually thinking they are enjoying life.

Fyi. I've said it here countless times. I don't patronize prostitutes. It's men with low self esteem i believe would stoop so low.

Kenn55:
Guy I think you are the simp here. A small girl that doesn't even worth it is trying to set you up with your fellow guy and you are here forming real man.
A real man avoids anything that can lead to potential problems for him especially when it is on behalf of a useless girl that is not even your wife. You shouldn't have allowed her to do that. What if the guy is also useless and came to start fighting over a girl, what will you tell real niggaz? That you are fighting publicly over a useless girl that would jump to the next available guy? Is it worth it? Common, man use your senses.

This was how a guy in my street those days humiliated a guy cos of a woman. The humiliated guy came back with hired thugs to beat up the guy and mistakenly the guy died in the process. The humiliated guy (simp) is in prison as I write, the "real" man is 6ft under now and the useless girl is now married and living her life well. Who lost?

You're not getting the point. Nobody is humiliating anyone. Just got irritated that a man is simping on a woman who isn't interested in him. Women know what they want.

As for me. We both know what we are after. Remember i said no feelings attached. And it's beneficial for both of us. I ain't tripping.

Westerhoffe:
This is how they lost good men and later end up disturbing Oyedepo at the annual Shiloh.

Shots fired

Eunoiaa:
Lol... reads like a piece of fantasy.

Daily occurrences in my life are most people's fantasy.

100smile:
But you can be your age and still be having sex with a 26 year old in a public pool?

I don talk am say the day i go catch any couple dey fvck for pool again, that day i go bring my prick come out, piss for the water make dem know say nor be only dem dey mad for the country.

You don't know my age so don't judge.

100smile:
Cus i can't go into a pool where someone's doing or has done "18+ shi"

Btw. I don't think that man is a 'simp'. If you were to be the 30+ man, how would you react?

I can't be 30+ and simping over a 26 year old juvenile.

DevilsEqual:
Omo...A 30+ guy simping for girl they are far older than is a common something

Chasing a lady thats emotionally unavailable is the most stressful thing in life, next to explaing further maths to a dullard

Onetis is the reason for this...he thinks she's the best gift for Mankind

Little wonder why paternity fraud is prevalent.

100smile:
You join the reason i don't go near pool again. *spit*

Why?

Magnificenttop:
Quite funny.
I wish the simpleton sees this. No sympathy for a simp-pathetic.
Even a gorgeous queen Rihanna who would add value, fame and wealth to your life, you shouldn't simp after her to this level, much more less a smelly, pump n dump leftover who would bring loss and add no good thing to you.

I don't hate women. I'm just trying to let men become aware of basic relationship laws and principles.
But you dig sha.

GreatAchiever1:
Well, in ancient times and even in some cultures, by 15, most ladies had already gotten married.

Don't mind em. Calculate the age difference. 89% of married men ain't better. She obviously wasn't into the dude. Mr simp just collect wash for nothing. Dude is still a young chap. Our president ain't better, Ned nwoko ain't better, Ojukwu ain't better.

JessicaRabbit:
Subtlety isn't your strong suit, is it? Next time, try @-ing me so I can join the party 😉.

By the way, I'm actually impressed that you managed to fit more fallacies in one tiny rant than a circus tent can fit clowns. Your passionate little submission deserves a standing ovation, if I can peel myself off the floor from laughing at the logic holes.

Stating that all women will back each other up no matter what the truth is, is not only false, but also beside the point. The OP is looking for guidance based on her own situation, not on some fanciful "girl power" allegiance. You've also committed a red herring fallacy, referencing actions by the girl that you perceive to be disrespectful, but are ultimately irrelevant to the core issue. Whether OP donned a shirt from a male pal or stashed away some chow from her partner are trivial matters that do not excuse the abusive actions of her partner. You are attempting to sidetrack from the real problem here, which is the absence of regard and love in their relationship.

Furthermore, you are just setting up straw men and knocking them down by yourself. The OP didn't claim to be flawless or infallible. She just shared her feelings about how her partner treats her. You're acting like there are only two options: she's a "vile creature" or he's a saint. But life is not black and white, it's full of shades of gray. Maybe you should try to see things from a different perspective. You write off the poster's emotions as a sign of madness and prejudice, then insinuate that because she is a woman, she is unfit for rational thinking and fair judgment. This is not only sexist, but also nonsensical. Emotions are not evil or good, they are human. They can guide our choices, but they do not negate them. Besides, you are being two-faced, since you are obviously emotional yourself, as shown by your overuse of exclamation marks and emojis.

So you don't expect me to get Ed12's point when he says "she should be happy with the bf", huh? Please indulge me. What point are you making exactly? That women should kiss the feet of any guy who hires them, even if he's a jerk? Sorry, but that's not a point, that's a red pill delusion, a toxic and dubious worldview that you have swallowed without any proof or reason, and has produced an army of bitter dudes who hate women, facts, and logic. They live in a fantasy world where they are the oppressed heroes and women are the evil villains who want to ruin their lives. And they have no clue how to relate to other human beings, and they use their twisted ideology as a cover for being socially inept. I repeat that the OP should dump that loser who follows the red pill nonsense and treats her like dirt. She should find a partner who will treat her like a queen and who will appreciate her as a person, not as a prize. She should be happy, and she has the power to walk away from a relationship that is hurting her. And so should you, if you ever end up with a lady who makes you feel like you ain't worth shit.

I hope you'll snap out of your delusions and get some therapy if you have to. The red pill is a bitter placebo, and relationships are not a game of chess. They are about love, trust and compassion. And those are the things that truly matter.

What's your take?

So Nigeria dey learn work?

Haynnie:
You must have heard this word, “if u dey earn 10k na 10k problem you go solve, if you dey earn 1mil na 1mil problem you go dey solve.”

Even if you earn higher what guarantee does it give your own personal needs won't double before you marry?

You have a point sha. Wait until like 2 kids drop and he's still earning 50k. I no wan know the love, it'll deteriorate.

First week of January, shawty wasn't available and i needed to get good loving. Called up one of my sweeties from old times, we're friends with benefits and the arrangement is cool with us. We have these escapades twice or thrice every year. Truth be told, she's a wowzer, fair skin, cupid face, quite intelligent. People give dagger stares when I'm with her, both genders.

Back to the story, after a whole afternoon of romping at this suite close to my crib (Can't take no lady i ain't marrying to my father's house), we decide to hit the pool downstairs to let the steam off. Romance gets pretty intense and we decide to take a breath. Her phone has been ringing the whole time and she has some messages too. She shows me, there's this dude that has been on her case for quite some time, he's asking where she's at, she video calls him and he says he's coming, she didn't tell him she's with someone.

Dude stays like 2 communities away. The Hot simp drives down in 30 mins. I see him when he enters. Wicked us decides to take things up a notch. We dive back in and for the next 35 to 40 mins, we do all sorts of 18+ shi with reckless abandon in his presence. The other occupants of the pool think something crazy is about to happen but we cool things down and step out again. I see him where he sits, his hands are shaking as he clutches his car keys awkwardly, he hasn't even touched his drink. I take observation of him, he looks like a geek, prolly in his mid 30s, the type that comes online to brag but can't ace a woman in real life. I don't feel one bit of pity for him. I'm wondering how someone can waste expensive fuel just to come and simp.

We take our leave shortly afterward. We walk up to meet him, i give him a handshake and he's like i should take care of her well. If only he knew. I gave a silent chuckle and we left him there.

Dude looks like a typical nairalander, i hope he see's this.

I always advise men to stop chasing women who aren't interested in them. Let's be realistic, that dude has more to offer her than me. He loves her genuinely, would spend on her, treat her like a queen too. But no, she'll rather bang disrespective and rude me. Women are naturally drawn to things and people detrimental to them. I can't date her because she's somewhat like me, and she can't be in a serious relationship with me either because i'm not a one woman guy and i always say it with confidence. Our arrangement works for the 2 of us. It;'s all active service. No questions or feelings attached, just enjoy the moment.

I could be labeled many things, one thing i'm not and i detest those who are is the simping shi. Things are happening. Simps belong to lowest class of men.

Chai. See superstitious people.
A bat once flew into my uncle's apartment and luckily I was around that fateful day. I caught it with my bare hands and dashed outside to release it back to it's wherever abode. My uncle got mad at me that i had let his village people go just like that. He's a staunch catholic.

Bats are harmless. They are a special breed. So cute.

Haynnie:
Why not?

For your good. Please don't. Except you're earning higher.

Angelfrost:
Super Eagles can beat all of them, as long as that defense remains rock solid.

I stan with you.

Demigod22:
No truer words than this.

Although, my father died when I was a kid. The only memories I have of him were those days he brought me food, fruits and money to buy sweets in school. I felt betrayed by his death.

Surprisingly, I grew up loving him so much, more than I ever loved anyone. He is my hero, my favorite human, my best friend, and my guy.

He inspired me to be a great Dad to my own kids. What ever I was, I am, I am going to be, I dedicated it to my father.

Continue to rest in peace Dad.

Father's love is pure and genuine.

80% of Nigerian men drink one of these brands irrespective of occupation. Na werey we dey use port am for this country.

Haynnie:
With the high cost of living in Nigeria, is it ideal for a man who earns 50k as a monthly stipend can get married?

I need mature answers with reasons.

Can you marry such person. Ask yourself first.

Silentgroper:
You sound like the boyfriend

I no dey ever jam agbako like this one. I date people who I can benefit from.

tochez24:
I will always be here anytime anyday to tell you NIGERIANS the painful truth🏴

Just avoid my comment if you're allergic to the truth which i know 85% of Nigerians are⚠️

Well... OP you see Nigeria is a country full of evil and wicked people in all sectors from the government> judiciary> forces> civil service even down to business people!!! It's always the survival of the fitest.

There's absolutely NO way to make it in Nigeria LEGALLY, especially if you're from a poor home with no connection, money or inheritance. The Nigerian government will always ensure this!!! See... your only chance to good life is through drugs, kidnapping or rituals. If you can't, then you know you must leave Nigeria at all cost, hustle and find your way to abroad.

You will waste your youthful years struggling to feed and pay bills till you die and probably pass the poverty to your children... This is based on my experience!!!

NIGERIA is owned and controlled by EVIL occultic underworld politicians that have sold their souls to the devil, always making sure that the country is in a mess despite all our resources.

And this is not changing any time soon... These evil politicians are somehow manipulating the poor masses with their evil powers, making them to be divided with tribalism and religion.

Ok let's be more practical, assuming you're making a salary of 120k per month( which i know it's only 5% or 10% of Nigerians that are earning above 100k per month)... With the current inflation, dollar increase and subsidy removal, how much do you think you can save monthly from that salary you cannot even have any meaningful savings out of that money i bet you. Then you repeat for months, years and probably decades, how will your success now come.🙄🙄 Note that you cannot even do any business here, because only government policies will frustrate and ruin your capital. Even many Multi million dollar companies are all fleeing the country, then how much do you think you have that can sustain one??🙄

The hash condition of the country will make you remain poor forever except you travel or quit legal earnings and play dirty♂️

There's NO rich person in Nigeria who did not travel abroad that made his money in a legal way, this is the uncommon truth... They're all playing dirty and offcourse they still have a legal business to cover up their dubious, diabolical and evil life 💯

As a poor Nigerian boy, you just have two choices in life.... Either hustle abroad or play dirty, else you will end poor and miserable like you father did💔💔

Harsh reality. Rich keep getting rich and poor keep getting poor.

Another ibo simp lol

Myrepublic:
As in en.. One was engaging his so called babe.. The babe was asking him ,how come he doesn't know the size of her ring,cux the thing was a bit over sized. This mugu was still on his kneels answering her o..

I say some men stupid. And that same girl will have nothing less than 5 others guys o. Then you will go simping for such a public property. God forbids!

Esp Anambra men

Ibo men and simping lol.

Her face alone go off my sex drive. Ain't begging no b***** for sex.

As expected. An Ibo man. I'm sure he's from anambra as well. Biggest simps.

dejavubobo1:
Same as "this government will favour me and family"
Like the person and his family will function alone and not interact with the larger society whom the government doesn't favour. Our problem is greed and we lack sincerity

If na only one family e dey better for, how the whole country wan progress?