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Doolove:
I've been dating a staunch Nairalander for two years, and he also introduced me to the site. While I visit once in a while, he can't go a day without scrolling through the site and at times he draws my attention to some interesting topics and we would go through the comments together. I told him that I don't like the site due to the constant bashing of women that goes on here. To my uttermost dismay he has been so influenced by the red pill movement and it has left our relationship in tatters.

I can't remember the last time I felt pampered or got treated like a woman because he doesn't want to look like a simp. There is no love in the relationship anymore because he is always too hard on me and treats me like a man. My guy hardly ever apologizes to me, if he annoys me and I try to give him the cold shoulder he ignores me completely and moves about his business like I don't even exist. He calls my two exs simps because I gisted him about how they adored me and was always scared of losing me. It hurts me that the guy I am dating doesn't value me and is ready to move on immediately as I walk out the door.

He convinced me to come stay over at his place for a while because he wanted to train me for a remote job that he got for me which I am supposed to start next month. I objected because I know how he treats me each time that I am around but he insisted so I caved in. It's been one problem to the other since I came over. He faults every single thing that I do, I wore a cloth that a guy gifted me on our anniversary and I got the scolding of my life. I got moody and told him to avoid me when he tried talking to me later that day, he simply said okay and disappeared from the house till late in the night.

He sees everything as an insult to his person, he said it's disrespectful to pick calls from guys in his presence, he would still accuse me of cheating if I go outside to pick those calls. Just two days back I was angry at him because of something he did that I didn't like so I flung his hands away when he tried to touch my cheeks and play with me, Oga stood up and started ignoring me. I was just expecting him to apologize and pamper me but he just locked up and left the house to God knows where. When he returned, I dressed up to go out with a friend and he told me not to return to his house if I leave. He treats me like a piece of furniture and won't still let me go out with people that are ready to give me attention.

This issue is making me lose my feelings for him and he doesn't even care. We hardly have sex because his touch irritates me due to his attitude towards me. If I turn down his advance once he doesn't bother to try again for days. In my previous relationships the guys always comes crawling and begging at night to have sex but this one doesn't even send, he can lock up for two weeks which makes me wonder if he is gay sometimes. He came back home very late on Friday night because he was avoiding me, I hid the food in the house because I was angry at him and he went to bed hungry. He woke up late at night to boil potatoes and woke me up in the process, I told him where I kept the food and he told me to eat it alone.

He left home by 7am yesterday for his football training only to come back by 10pm leaving me all alone in the house. I had to go out with a friend only to come back and didn't still meet him at home. He came back, took his bath and left the house again. He came back one hour later and slept on the floor. I woke him up to eat because I cooked with the money he left at home and he rejected the food citing the previous incident of me hiding food from him so I should continue cooking and eating alone. I told him that the food would waste because I already enjoyed where I went to. He just said I was disturbing him and should have gone home with the guy instead. He keeps making me feel like I am not wanted, he would tell me that he has the right to do whatever he wants because it his house but I must abide by his rules because I am a woman. He can go out and come back anytime he likes but I can't do the same, if I try it he would ask me to leave as if I am an IDP. All my complaints about how bad he was treating me fell on deaf ears, he just ignored me and slept off. He woke up this morning and is keeping to himself.

Please is this what the red pill is all about? I keep craving attention and love from my man and it's not forthcoming, I would have broken up but I really need the job he promised me while I wait for service. Is there something that I can do to salvage this relationship?
Please I am sorry for the epistle and errors, I just needed to pour out my heart somewhere.

Kionrae:
D wife no fine

Jeon:
No no no no, they can't.
It will inflict serious injuries to their egos. They can make the lady to go astray from hero to zero, grace to grasses and a mere shadow walking on the Earth, if care is not taken.

FRANCISTOWN:
This is going to be long.
Have you noticed that , since time immemorial. Women have been calling men all kinds of names, with all kinds of insults, yet men have never complained. But the moment you say one or two against women. You are automatically tagged a misogynist.

I don't use X . Lots of senseless people are on that platform, but recently I heard about a woman who is getting blessed because she wakes up at 4:50AM to cook for her husband. I mean, what's the big deal?

I wonder why many men are worshipping the lady like she had done something special in the grand scheme of things.

Is a woman not supposed to make food for her husband? So what's the fuss about?
To worsen the matter. Men are the ones making such great fuss on this issue. Yew!

Men are men's enemies. A man's enemy is his fellow man.

On the scale of 100, 97% women get helped, 3% men get helped, of which 2% are celebrities. This is one of the cruest period to be born as a man.

Many people want to please women. That's the power we have given to women.
How many women do you think we have on Nairaland? You think women will really flock a forum where they can't post their pictures and receive sweet comments?

I can tell you pedagogically that there are about 80% men on NL and about 20% women.
Yet the 20% female is generating more heat than the 80% male. What does that tell you?
It simply means 80% of men in real life are p*ssies. Women wrappers.

Masculinity has gone into oblivion that only about 200Million of men out of about 4billion men have it, and I'm sure the Arabian men have taken about 90Million from the figure. The remaining 110 Million is distributed unevenly amongst the rest of the world.

Okay now. We have about 4billion women + about 3.7 billion men under the skirts of women _{(they are technically women. They are even worse),} equalling 7.7 billion women. How do you think 200Million men would conquer about 7.8billion women? Come on!🤣🤣🤣.

Without any doubt, Seun is being pressured. I heard Nairaland was down for some days around last month. I guess a case was filed against him at the server level.

The thing is, the one mounting the pressures against NL and the mods are not even the women. They are the men we are talking about. Men who walk around in women pants.

Women don't fight against women. It's only men who fight against men. And most of the time, women don't even fight for themselves. Men fight men on women's behalves.
It's easier for a woman to control 200 Men( foolish men) than for a man to control 2 foolish women. In fact, the more foolish a woman is, the harder she is to be controlled.

In life, bad always overwhelms good, evil always wins over justice, and wrongs always conquer rights. It makes me remember a phrase from the Ancient Hawaiian wise sayings that "Evil is highly prevalent and very vehement that it takes more evil to drive out evil."
It is impossible for about 200Million good men of masculinity to win against about 3.6 billion evil men who are p*ussies.

I think it was Martinez39 or luminouz at one time like that who said "A time will come that any thread that speaks not in favour of women on Nairaland will be deleted". I can't really remember the exact word but that's how I understood it.

We can't argue that Nairaland has emancipated lots of men from women slavery. Many men are being liberated, the days of the helplessness of men began losing popularity, thanks to men like men on this forum.

Since all my years on NL. I've never seen a misogynistic comment on this forum. The same thing men are saying about women is the same thing women have been saying about men since time immemorial. I bet you lot don't know the meaning of misogynism.

No one has said "Women deserved to be killed"
"Women deserve to be raped"
"Women deserve to be lynched"
"Women deserve to be imprisoned or sold into slavery"

But I understand that women are not the ones screaming this misogynism crap. It's their male advocates. Disgrace to manliness.

Therefore guys, "A new king may be enthroned that will not know Joseph," but before that happens. I beseech thee, to those who have committed themselves to this liberation mandate.
Let's take this good news of emancipation to a platform where there will be thorough and rigorous verification that you are man before you are allowed into the space.

Admins and mods that are very strict with zero joy and tolerance for bullshit. Once any participant shows any sign of weakness(trying to advocate for women). He is immediately reported and sent out of the group. There will be no warnings or second chance.
There will be no babysitting of anybody, no sugar coating or smooth talking.

Enough is enough, men should stop dying of depression and downheartedness stemming from women's manipulations.

In life there is no neutral ground.
You are either a winner or a loser.

Therefore, drop your guard and you are dead.
Trust and you are betrayed.
Harm before you are harmed.
The best form of defense is attack.
Charge before you are charged.
In the end, the strong survives and the weak dies.

Have a good evening.

Prettygirl200:
dey play you hear?

Dtruthspeaker:
See how unreasonable you atheists are?

If we all agreed and had the same beliefs then this blog would not exist. But, we do not have

And argument is the lawful means of determining whose beliefs is right or not.

So you have a right to hold your beliefs but when you come to sell your beliefs as True, you should expect that it would be contested.

And ditto, were you not the who first used offensive and derogatory statements in calling us "delusional folks."because you can't accept nor process anything that contradicts your core belief system?

Just say you choose atheism whether even if it is a bad and evil belief rather than come here t make it sound as if it is a True and good thing

This is religious section a place where Truth must be found even if it can't be found anywhere else but Truth must be found here.

So separate your personal bias from Truth when you speak on these matters

Dtruthspeaker:
Hahahahahahahahaha! See the atheists running because they can't argue.

when a debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the losers”

Quora -Dennis Batson
Once you’ve presented all the facts and there’s no way for them to come back at you, that’s when it begins. Usually when they’ve reached this point, they are no longer able to have a logical argument.

When it comes down to this, you absolutely have won the argument.

The Deluders calliing others deluders.

ReacherSaidNoth:
To be fair most of us were like that, maybe one day they will see the light.

ReacherSaidNoth:
You are just talking nonsense with confidence. Saying the words 'Atheists believe' exposes your ignorance.

Is Atheism a belief system? Can you show us any book on Atheism or written by an Atheist that makes the claim that the universe came from nothing?

In reality it is people like you who believe the universe came from nothing. You believe in a god made by nothing, who then created the universe out of nothing

Dtruthspeaker:
Who does not ignore unrelavant shots? Since you knew me or ehen Gazzuz or those people who post relevant threads here, have you ever cared to ask where we ome from? No.

"The Ignorant are ignorant of their ignorance" -Peter Bakersville.

Just say you did not have antything valid to say after my answer therefore you reorted to.the fallacy of ad hominem.

Seun:
If you help a man, he will appreciate it for a long time. If you forget, he will remind you. It is as if he owes you a debt. The guy that helped me to bring back Nairaland in 2014 could do no wrong in my eyes until last year. And even now, you won't catch me saying anything against him.

If you help a woman, she will appreciate it for a short time. 3 days. A week. A month. 3 months. Then it's as if you never helped her. It's history. Your help is like a subscription. Once it expires, you can be ghosted. Unless you renew it. And there are many other subscribers, so stop feeling as if yours was such a big deal. 😭

PS: Please o; I don't do redpill. Women are not ungrateful. They recieve help all the time, which they deserve. I'm just speaking from pain. 😭

pansophic:
The Proof of God's Existence

Dear Atheists and Agnostics, today we gather to explore the undeniable proof of God's existence. Many people question whether God is real or if He truly exists. They ask for evidence and seek confirmation. Let us dive into the evidence that points to the reality of God's existence.

Firstly, let us turn to the Bible. In Psalm 19:1, it says, "The heavens declare the glory of God, the skies proclaim the work of His hands." As we look around us, we see the intricacies of creation, the beauty of nature, and the vastness of the universe. These are all testament to the existence of a loving and creative God.

Moreover, in Romans 1:20, it states, "For since the creation of the world God’s invisible qualities—His eternal power and divine nature—have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that people are without excuse." The very existence of the natural world, with its order, complexity, and design, points towards a divine Creator.

Secondly, let us consider the world circumstances. Despite the challenges and struggles we face, we can witness God's hand at work in our lives and in the world around us. We see instances of healing, redemption, and miracles that defy explanation. These are not mere coincidences but rather signs of a higher power at work.

In addition, the fulfillment of prophecies and the consistency of God's promises throughout history serve as compelling evidence of His existence. The Bible is filled with prophecies that have come to pass, demonstrating God's sovereignty and His active involvement in human affairs.

Consider the following prophecies about our time.

Here's an outline of some key passages related to the end times:

1. Matthew 24-25:

   - Jesus' Olivet Discourse: In these chapters, Jesus speaks about the signs of the end times, including wars, famines, earthquakes, and persecution. He also discusses his second coming and the final judgment.

2. 1 Thessalonians 4:13-18:

   - This passage describes the return of Christ, the resurrection of the dead, and the gathering of believers to meet the Lord in the air.

3. 2 Thessalonians 2:1-12:

   - Here, Paul addresses the coming of the "man of lawlessness" and the great rebellion before the day of the Lord.

4. 1 Timothy 4:1-5:

   - This passage speaks about the apostasy and deceit that will occur in the latter times.

5. 2 Timothy 3:1-9:

   - Paul warns about difficult times in the last days, characterized by people's love for themselves, money, and pleasure, as well as their lack of self-control and love for what is good.

6. The Book Of Revelation

   - The entire book of Revelation is dedicated to visions and prophecies concerning the end times, including the return of Christ, the rise of the Antichrist, the judgments, the defeat of evil, and the establishment of the new heaven and new earth.

These passages provide insights into various aspects of the end times, emphasizing the need for readiness, perseverance, and faithfulness in light of the coming of Christ and the ultimate triumph of God's kingdom.

Furthermore, consider the transformation that occurs in the lives of those who encounter God. Countless testimonies attest to the power of faith and the positive impact of a relationship with the Lord. Lives are changed, hearts are healed, and hope is restored through the presence of God.

Lastly, let us reflect on the moral compass and the innate sense of justice and right and wrong that exists within each person. This points to a universal moral law that originates from a higher source - God Himself. It is this moral law that guides us and encourages us to seek righteousness.

In conclusion, the proof of God's existence is abundant and undeniable. From the pages of Scripture to the wonders of creation, from the testimony of transformed lives to the fulfillment of prophecies, we see the fingerprints of God all around us. Let us open our hearts to His presence and recognize the signs of His love and power in our lives.

Dtruthspeaker:
No we don't!

All we know and care for is that, He is! After that we don't care where He came from and all those irrelevant and useless shit

Wainey:
U use Bible to convince an atheist that God exists.
It's like a Muslim using Qur'an to tell a Christian that Allah exists.

virginchaser:
Baby mamas were once the golden girl.

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Totleowi:
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nelboy:
Some intimate relationships actually started with normal friendship and then Gradually progressed to an intimate relationship.
Most times in this kind of relationships if there is a break-up. It’s usually difficult for both of them to remain friends.
I feel that if the intimate friendship does not work then you Guys can go back to being normal friends, that is if the cause of the breakup was not toxic

DyingFetus:
Very soon she'll end up like ahnie a single mother

KpukpuyekePikin:
Death to all head slamming bastard terrorists!!! If you want to be down with the terrorists, death to you too!

If my comment pain you abeg quickly use Monday hammer take knack your cone head to the shape of trapezium.

CloudTrees:
Op that religious aspect is not a flaw, she is more enlightened than you.
Women aren't actually designed for excessive stress. If you can get her a washing machine that would be fine.
Or better still, join her and assist with the laundry of you can't afford a house help

ahnie:
I don't discuss my personal stuffs .
Stick to the topic,read comments and move.



Thanks