Guy man, Which levels? I feel your pain. Its obvious u realy liked her back then and you didnt expect her to did what she did. My advice is you should stay away from her.

Tell her she had her chances and she blew it. If she persists on being your friend, tell her know you wont be giving her your full attention(as a guyman, you fit dey collect her on side if you undastand wetin i mean )

Women, Girls , Ladies dont deserve second chance.

I was wondering why a man would slap his wife simply because she ask him to go and have his bath. But thanks for your second post cos that's where lies the issue behind this story. It reads:

"I have just been trying to support him cos i believe marriage is for better, for worse, can u imagine we quarrel even on bed during love making cos he thinks only of his own satisfaction, when i say honey i would like but this style he will tell me ah don't disturb me im tired",

This is sexual problem not marital. You actually must have said something that triggered the man and he ended up slapping you. You must apologise fast and promise not to hurt his feelings anymore cos I see a man's ego at work and he will never come to you and he's already punishing you by not giving you feeding allowance.

As some of us said, there's nothing God cannot do. You have married him and you have to live with him. If you think he doesn't dance to your tune sexually, talk to him politely and i know he'll realise himself. Talk to him, ask him why he stopped calling you those luvly pet names, make him realise those things make you happy.

Don't treat him with disdain anymore, show him love and everything shall be well again.

This is an abomination. You are even saying you are confused, dat means you rily want to run away with him. Enen if you want to retaliate your husband's infidelity,  must it be wit his blood brother? I wonder the kind of wife we marry this days. As for your husband's brother, he's doomed for life.

So enjoy your miserable years.

Guy! You better know yourself fast and move forward. The first girl is playing with you and the second one wants to make you her pet.

Do you know one thing women/Girls/ Ladies can't handle? It is called succes. Be successful and you'll see Queen Elizabeth following you instead of those riff raff girls. Invest your time in something that will make you successful and they (girls) would definitely come looking for you then you will give them rules.

Congrats to you Iniedo. For those of you saying negative things about her, go and get married too and put the pictures on nairaland and lets see what people will say abt you.

Am sure most of you are ladies like her.

People Take Oath out of ignorance, they really don't know the implication of the action.
Secondly, It's done out of their stupidity.

That is the problem with you girls. Now you dont want anything to do with any other man. If you had contacted HIV, what would you have said? Its obvious you ar e a slave to this guy and you are lucky you realised your self quicker b4 getting something you wont be able to cure.
I dont know how old you are but pick yourself together, change your way, go bact to school and be the best any man would desire.

Hope you've learnt from your mistakes cos dats anoda angle you girls dont remember.
Goodlucks

My Broda, there's nothing God cannot do. And you are the man in this case so make up your mind and stand by it. The lady is only saying you shouldn't marry her because she feels you might not stand by her till the end.

Tell her you love her, show her you love her. Tell her she would not die but live and declare the good works of the the Lord. Sicknesses and diseases are not of God so go to God together in prayers and watch God perform wonders.

If truly you are convinced within yourself that she is the one for you, then tell those of your people rejecting her that they they are only fortunate not to have been born that way so they should put themselves in that condition.

Go ahead and marry her, dedicate and commit your new family unto God and you wont regret.

Na mumu dey worry Mikel. Make im go now if im go fit bench 'English golden boys' Lampard and Gerrard.