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Saint Valentine's Day, commonly shortened to Valentine's Day,is an annual commemoration held on February 14 celebrating love and affection between intimate companions The day is named after one or more early Christian martyrs, Saint Valentine, and was established by Pope Gelasius I in 496 AD. It was deleted from the Roman calendar of saints in 1969 by Pope Paul VI, but its religious observance is still permitted. It is traditionally a day on which lovers express their love for each other by presenting flowers, offering confectionery, and sending greeting cards (known as "valentines". The day first became associated with romantic love in the circle of Geoffrey Chaucer in the High Middle Ages, when the tradition of courtly love flourished.

Modern Valentine's Day symbols include the heart-shaped outline, doves, and the figure of the winged Cupid. Since the 19th century, handwritten valentines have given way to mass-produced greeting cards.

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same here in PH, so annoying!!!

The person to blame is whoever start relenting on the efforts required to make the marriage last, whoever starts taking the other party for granted should be blamed and women are good at this!!

As my people talk am: Man marry woman hope say she no go change, Woman marry man hope say im go change. At the end, the man no change, the woman come show her thru colour by changing from pretense to reality and na the house go suffer am by breaking down.

Regaining trust is like trying to heal a wounded flesh. It takes Time. Even when the wound is healed, the scar is there and it still requires lots of time for the scar to completely vanish.

when hairs don grow for ya armpit!!!

when hairs do grow for ya armpit!!!

Act stubborn too, If he complains then tell him you are only re-acting to his action and for him to get the best of you, he should be nice and considerate!!

many a times

God given!!!

Really!!!, That's good to hear. But why laying and paying off all his staffs in Port Harcourt leaving only the MD?? Is that part of the deal?

@ chamotex: , You no go kill me o.!! E just dey like say you no wetin dey my mind. The last babe cancel the first babe work!!!

Guyman, I must congratulate you for this impossible mission you accomplished. I've got one advice for you, Register at a gym fast and start pushing weight so that by the time your son is grown enough to slap you ass, you'll have a little strenght to fight back.

Oh I forgot, you just set a generational curse in the family and who know when or how it'll end.

Independence should be every reasonable guy's dream and i strongly diagree with whoever said the yorubas don't like leaving their parent's house.

A guy should be independent as soon as he become an adult in his mind. But it's unfortunate how some people find it difficult to become independent

What!!! Is this some kind of joke The man should be crucify upside down!!!! Mmtchew, Oshi oro.

Guy that of Heineken is too much, Let me break it down for ya

Those four guys are friends so the ladies and they are couples. One of the couples just moved into a new apartment and the wife is trying to show them round the house, and you know women and fashion, if you watch very well, the wardrobe was the last place she took the to atleast to show off and surprise her friend and the screaming was their way of being happy for their friend. The husband on the other side is showing the friend the secret part of the house and you know how it is when it comes to beer and men so the guys had to sream their lungs out overshadowing the women and the women were so surprised wandering what could make the men act that way, with this analysis, go and see the video again and be a part of it.

Things Were Going Fine Until, she got admission into the university.

Are you a virgin yourself? Even if you are that doesn't guarantee you getting a virgin as a spouse and marriages don't succeed on virginity.

Beside we still have them plenty just look around you.

hehehehe, i just love doing it back then, i would have loved to still be doing it now just that am too old for it now. This is it: I'll simply plug our pressing iron to electricity and when the iron if fully hot, i'll spit on the surface and inhale the smell .

It's fun doing it and i succeded in initiating my younger brother and some freinds into it.

Val, ?? Mttchew, I won't prepare for such again, thats due to what happened to me.

We'd already planned to stay the whole day together, I'd even gotten a nice room at a hotel only for her to call that her Aunt ask her to come and stay with her children but I know deep down that she got a better deal for the day that na why she scope me

I was very furious, no where to turn to. When back to the booked room and laid quietly down and since my body had its own plan for the evening,, I couldn't sleep cos my JT stood all thru the night and am not into ogbongidi way else i'd have gotten one.

What a day!!!

Bros,, Sorry say i dey reply late, i no quick see am. Yes I have crased a car b4 and what happened dat night still remain a misery to me,

It happened at about 10:15pm on the 3rd of October 2008, I went to a nearby clinic to take an anti-malaria injection, on my way back i was way normal and on reaching the gate, i was even talking with my friend in the car. I packed close to the gate, honk my horn waiting for the Aboki to open the gate when suddenly, the car ran thru the gate and crashed into the boy's quaters in front. Initially i tot i had killed somebody because we usually sit in front of the BQ but luckily that night, no one was outside.

In the BQ was my neighbor with her barely 2weeks old boy sitting on their couch inside, and becos of the inpact the car had on the BQ outer wall, they both were thrown on the floor inside. The airbag in the car by God's grace prevented us from flying out of the windshield. I struggled out of the car and collapsed. I was rushed to a clinic, got examined and i was proclaimed normal. I asked if i had killed anyone and i told no one was injured, The tory plenty o but make una see the motor and complete the rest.

The Real tin is a woman should drop her father's name once she's married. If you think your father's name sounds better than your intended husband's to be, why don't you remain in you father's house and enjoy his name, have children in his house and still give your father's name to them.

And for those of you refering to the Bible, How did God refer to Adam and Eve?? Didn't God know they are two people But the bible said , and He (God) called thier names Adam(refering to Adam and Eve).

Some men allow thier wives to keep their names just because they dont care But as for me, that woman must answer Mrs , Ayoola! Else no marry me.

Na wa for this millitants oooooo!!

What were they thinking before going gaga Then they are not repentant if so. They even rape girls, block ease west road and loot valuable.  They should be treated as criminals.

And for those in charge of this guys, what have you done with their money

Government should end this before it turns to something else.

Na wa for you ooo Mr. Poster !!!

It's because you always thoght bad of this great country, thats why you thought that was a power failure, In case you still feel so let me tell you what happened.

The organisers knew Nigeria will win the match so they plan they will celebrate the victory with fireworks so and  in order for it to be colourful, the lights at the stadium will have to go off. That was excatly what happened.

So think twice b4 you post things like dis next time.

There are a thousand and one reasons for a  man could hit a woman even without her hitting him first. But that doesn't make a man by hitting a woman at slightest provocation. What makes a man is how to deal with them in such occassions because women generally could be a pain in the ass atimes.

But if a woman makes the mistake of hitting you first, my broda, Don't think twice to correct that mistake by giving it to her real hard.

Oro buruku!!!  

Where me i go dey when e go be say na my house remain for ram to sleep

Never will it happen and if it happens behind me, that woman is off to her parents house.

To me Love is the most important thing! It will make you stand when trust fails, it will make you carry on when the bridge of communication collapse, it will make you swallow your pride when you are treated with disdain, it will make your go extra mile to put a smile on the other party's face when you are perfroming below expectations, etc

It's not how people feel about you, it's how you feel about them. Read below message sent to me by a frien and you'll understand better:


A thought to share
It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his 80s arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb. He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00.

I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him. I saw him looking at his watch and decided since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound. On examining it I saw it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors and got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound.

While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry. The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife. I inquired as to her health. He told me that she had been there for a while! As she is a victim of Alzheimer's disease.

As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late. He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now. I was surprised and asked him, 'And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?' He smiled as he patted my hand and said, 'She doesn't know me but I still know who she is.' I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm and thought, 'That is the kind of love I want in my life. True love is neither physical nor romantic.

True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
Peace is seeing a sunset and knowing who to thank. The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.

No real Man should be afraid, afear etc of any Woman, Successful or not!!! What nonsense If she comes with respect alongside her successfulness, respect her with same else, my brother don't fail to correct her mistake and put her in her place.


"God was not daft when he made you help mate, and not the head f d family", and The Bible said refering to Men that if any provide not for his own especially those of his own household, he is worse than an infidel, that is how how serious the issue is. Am not saying a woman can't be more successful that a man but she should be humble with it! Cos it gets intto their head forgeting they she's a woman.

Once a woman start doing the things a man ought to do, she's gradually buying the top post and soonet she would want to be giving orders forgeting the Bible says, a woman should not usurp authority over her man.

Men, please do your best to be Okay so that these women won't make our lives miserable.

Hey guys,

Am loving your responses,, just can't stop laughing

Keep it coming!!!!!

My response is coming,

Hello Nairalanders, How are we all doing

I know we have all heard the saying about a girl being sweet at 16 and I know her life doesn't end there, infact to me that is the begining of her end.

So my question to you all is this: If a girl is sweet at 16, what is she at 17, 18, 19, 20, and lastly 21

Please people, I would like to know your opinion/view on this and i want it in this format/pattern.

Sweet , 16
So So, 17
So So , 18
So So , 19
So So , 20
So So , 21.

Aterwhich i'll let you know my view on this.

Thanks y'all

Why all of una dey hail this guy now The story feel be say the girl show our guy man place for the said weeks and e no fit show working!!!

Una no go kill peron wit laff ooooo!!!! '
i knew it was over when she gain admission into school', i support this!

But I knew it was over when she didn't call me on my birthday.