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There are three things I came to study and understand throughout my life, and that is self discovery, self development and self improvement...

Self Discovery

We all know that self discovery is the beginning stage things, when you finally discover yourself that you mean something, have something or worth something...

it is when you come to understand that you were not just born to just go to school come out , get a job and get married... No... you come to understand who you are and what you mean to your friends, and what they see in you.... or this is when you start wondering who you really are.. what you really are.. I mean not what people say about you... but when you understand who nancy or esther, or james or chris really is..

Self Discovery is when you come alive, start to breathe for the first time...

Self Development

This is the development of this person you just discovered, believe me if you just discovered yourself, don;t continue to live with that self, develop it, because life develops and the greatest people in the world develop with them...

I live my life according to rules and some people will think that is boring, rules and regulations and principles are not fun.. Well I have lots of friends and they love being around me, some call me funny, matured and principled, regarding me with respect and still they joke with me... and yet I live with rules and regulations and principles..

Develop yourself to live according to a point of understanding, you can't just be living by how you feel...

For Example

You feel a hot subject and you scream with all your might and fling the object away (that is just natural and how your body is supposed to respond it is called reflex action).. but it is immature, unreasonable, you might fling that object and cause more damage to something, your screaming although exaggerated will cause noise and irritation to others.. But now there is something called conditioned reflex, in which you touch a hot object, hiss instead of scream while bearing the pain, and quickly but carefully drop the hot object in a suitable place...

This example is the difference between someone who has gone through self development and someone who hasn't, who just lives normally or lives after self discovering and some who has come to understand what he/she is made up of (the natural reaction) and then develops it (which is the conditioned reflex i talked about.

What do you think? are you one of those people in that example who are just natural...


Self Improvement...

No matter how old you are, how intelligent you are, you can still improve on what you have developed.. the world changes everyday, and even if you keep developing different actions and reflexes that you posses you have to improve on the ones you have developed...

computers are an example here... when scientists discovered the world and the way it works (self discovery) they developed means to make the world more comfortable for themselves (self development) and today you can't compare the computers of the 1900s to the computers of 2016 (self improvement)...

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This is just a breakdown of what it all stands for... If you are interested in going through this processes, I mean if you are interested in follow this things to be more than you are today... I mean if you are interested in adding more to you life than you already have... I mean if you are looking for a direction in life.. I mean if you are looking for a better life and (of course more money) just follow me...

Because

I will talk about self improvement on my next article, and you will see why the world's greatest men take it seriously...

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I have been accredited here with so many wonderful comments and advice mostly gearing me towards opening my own blog... firstking01, HenryDion ..... So finally I have decided to open my own blog... although I already have a blog before.. a health blog at that which is doing well (even though I haven't posted for up to a month)...


I would love to introduce you all to my personal development, inspiration and motivational blog..

Please what do you think..

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HenryDion:
Is hard to find Nigerian Blogs that specialize only on personal development, inspiration and motivation. Anyway, if you have any blog or have come across a cool one. Plz, drop the URL below. I wish to follow and comment in such blogs.

I am launching my blog soon and it centers on just what you are asking for.... Just follow me on nairaland to stay updated and remember to check out some of my articles

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jasmineee:
i just can not comprehend why men can be so deceitful and liars. i am seriously tired of being lied to. it's disappointing. i feel like a fool. i pray that 2016 is my last yr of lies and deceit in my life. how many other ladies can relate with me pls?

You don't gave priorities that is why you keep falling for men of so little worth.. Just go through my profile I believe you will see something to keep you occupied or just follow me and I will follow you back

Very interesting I understand what you are going through, but am not with my laptop or I would have typed the way to go about this for you.. it is very easy to go about but it will be so long for me to type with a phone..

Firstking01 I love your advise..

but..

Psychologically understanding a problem helps a lot, and your advise lacks the psychological aspect to impact in him..

cc Eglobalma

Brigham:
If they were meant to fail, what makes you think you're meant to succeed.

Because I posses all their inadequacies

Brigham:
Across every vales and plains, there are many a man who have dreamed mightier dreams and seen grandier visions, they end up as rich as a fat church rat.

That is why it is called life because many are called and few are chosen... so many a man where meant to fail because of their inadequacies so that a few will rise..

The road to riches has never been clearer, if you choose nay then simply stay healthy stay wise

Teniolasmart:
for ur plastic mind................u be baller..........................................just gerraoutofhere man

Oh how are you?
a perfect day today isnt it..

If you loved the post remember to follow me for more touching posts..

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I have big dreams, big plans backed by great ideas, I have started putting my imaginations into action. I have started changing the course of time, started creating my mark in history..

These dreams are so big so great, I don't even think small like most people do, I don't just think of waiting and complaining till a Messiah comes and save me from economic distress..

No I am an achiever, a box of knowledge, of timber and calibre like no other, I am the pin point of excellence and this is not what I look into the mirror and say to myself everyday, NO this is what my heart says to me every minute, because one thing about great people is that it is not your physical appearance that matter or what you reflect, instead it is your mental ability that matters, what your minds thinks and what you effect and represent..

With all this knowledge I don't think, I am normal. I need someone to share it with so that finally when I am sitting on the throne I won't sit alone, If you wanna be that person just follow me here on nairaland and I will follow you back..


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firstking01:
Thought the mods sidelined you

Why would they want to push away the good work I am doing..

Hello my name is Newbeginning (if you are looking for a writer for an article just comment below, according to my followers it is one of my talents)

READ ON

WARNING - MOTIVATIONAL POST

its so deep on our veins, it runs in our blood most of us don't even wonder if there is something more than that we just think and believe that is how we were created and nothing more..

Just like that we live and exist, nothing more and we go about saying we are unique, special or different.. because you like the colour blue and I love black .....

Hahahhahahahahahha

I am talking about our apathy towards being billionaires, towards creating impacts or changing tides.. I mean some people just.want to live to survive (if you have been reading my old posts you will understand this) they just want things to be as good for them as it can be..

No zeal to bring out something big to change the world and impact millions of lives, no zeal to own large businesses and control the market better than dangote..

No dreams to be a mogul, to be an epitome of impact, greatness in the young minds and for generations to come..

No dream to take your poverty and that of you family and other people and bring it to dust so that we will forever hail and worship you..

Do you want to be like your neighbors whose dream is to live according to nature.. (I.e live, survive, reproduce and die) or do you want to live according to the reason why you are human, why you are special, unique and different above them all (I.e live, exist, impact, reproduce and be immortalised)...

Do you want to be better, stronger and greater..

Just follow me as I share the steps and I will follow you back immediately..

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cc firstking01

firstking01:
Your success in life also depends on the kind of mindset you carry about....


@Newbeginnings, how are you?

i have been more graceful lately..

I have been gone a while..

lilmax:
you are a billionaire? well done

Thank you.. I would love for you to eat from my wealth if you are ready to work for it

AnodaIT:
Sounds interesting. I'm in

You have just made the first and vital step..

Softorgasm:
lol nice thread by the way...
one of the songs i love so much with strong lyrics is Michael Jackson's stranger in Moscow..

Oh but this song by Beyonce is so great it tells you of your future..

Listen to it and give me feedback please..

Softorgasm:
Karewawa by zule zoo change my life.

Thank you

Softorgasm:
Nice

Thank you so much


If you really loved that please just follow me.. I will follow you back immediately

We listen to music for the beats which are emotional or make us shake and dance.. or for the lyrics which inspires or teaches us something new or improved..

Or to just the style of the Music (those above average music listeners will understand this better)..

But here is a song which I listen to, because it not only define my purpose but also perfected my existence..

It is a music unlike any other, it asks you to define yourself, your end point, your reason for living, breathing and even fuccking..

Singer: Beyonce
Title: I was here

Listen to it please before replying

Poverty lies deep in most Nigerian hearts, you may think it's riches that define your level, status or class but no it is your level of imagination. how big you see yourself or small you place yourself..

How big you dream and how you react..

I once asked a girl complaining about recession if she wants to be billionaire rich and she said yes..

are you ready to work yo be billionaire rich, to own the world or part of the world, to be the reason for the happiness of millions of people.. I asked.

She couldn't reply..

Because we are just looking for a simple life, to enjoy flex and get married and viam we are out of this world, we did not change history or create a mark in time..

That is how poor people want to live their life.. they rush into get rich quick schemes e.g mmm and do it just to feed themselves and that is all they want from life..

This is the poverty in most Nigerians we are ready to wait and complain when we can do more than just that..

Poverty is a perception, a way of thought, that shows in your clothes, in your smell, in your walk, in your laugh..

I am creating a billionaire rich club for those who want to be billionaire rich...

If you are ready to work just follow me and I will follow you back..

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elkon:
guy could you please share us how dis really make impact on your life or let say how you apply it

It simply says my inability to bring about a change in my environment and in those around is causing a lot of suffering for the world PR a particular part of the world..

It says my inability to share my knowledge or wisdom or use it to improve people is causing a lot of problems in the world..

So why should I sit and fold my arms when with proper learning and effecting I can change the world..

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YemziAdez:
I concur!
Nice one OP

Thank you
Remember to follow me for more post I will follow you back right away

If have read my other posts you will understand what am about to do here.. if you haven't theb just follow me so that you can keep up with upcoming posts don't worry I will follow you back..

This is a quote from Napoleon

The world suffers a lot, not because of the violence of bad people, but because of the silence of good people!

This goes to all of you who have a good idea and how to change things whether political or economically in Nigeria or just impact people and yet you refuse to..

This goes to those who understand the Nigerian problems and how to solve them but just keep arguing about it with your friends in bars or hangouts..

This goes to women who think about just working for their stomach alone and getting married to end it all, when you could give more to the world..

This goes to guys who just wanna fucck as many girls as they can next week and they restrict the meaning thing they can impact in this world..

This goes to people who blame their current situation, predicament... be it poverty or limb loss as the reason for their inability to be productive..

This goes to those who choose to live small first by eating what they have now and say na small small life dey go..

This goes to those who feel helpless, hoplessless and without form..

This goes to many more people but I will stop here for the night..

Stay Healthy Stay Wise.


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Khd95:
Iam d type that jumps d fence if either of the gate is closed,so what type of person do u think iam

The type that always ends up in prison

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We all need to plan, to make strategies and reduce the possibility of the unexpected, but how can we do that if our mentality is not strong
I came to understand that there are two types of people in this world when I followed an experiment..

It was at a school which had two gates the big gate and the small gate (which was closest to the school hostel and students normally loved to use this one), both were normally opened every academic day, but on one of those days, the small gate was closed..

So as the students made their way to the school, they all noticed that the small gate was closed, now their next action caused a divide,
They were all walking towards the gate and when they saw that it was closed some walked straight to the big gate without getting to the small gate to inquire, while others got to the small gate and asked first why it was closed and if it can be opened for them, but were told to go to the big gate.

These tell us that there are two kinds of people:
1. People who see a change and leave it be, they then seek for another alternative (something similar)

2. People who see a change, respond to the change, inquire why the change happened, and try to know if they can change the change.

I believe the intelligent population, consists of the number two, while the spectators in this world, those who argue about the economy behind the scenes, and make not fruitful effort towards improving themselves or their environment are in number one, they accept situations the way they are, argue about it with friends and in the end do nothing about it..

although there is a third category.

3. Those who see a change, respond to the change, wait for the Number 2 to inquire about the change, wait for the Number 2 to try to know if they can change the change.

If the number two can't, these people go to the big gate, they don't take risks,

They have a good chance of survival, a good chance to make it big, allowing others do the work for them... But still, they are boys to the number 2..

The Question is Which Number are You?

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Talk about selling and advertising to the right market, I mean people who cares about their mental and physical wellbeing will surely care more about your product if it just meets with their needs..


Newsphases.com provides you with the best market, audience for the most affordable price..

We even have another great price list for you this December Just to make sure your product gets maximum exposure..

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also as I said before

We have a special offer for you coming December.. You wish to get your
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Simple....

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