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This is not just any writeup, but for those who want to add more to themselves and improve their confidence.. If you are reading this.... Sit down and build yourself, because you deserve to be better than you are right now... and remember practice makes perfect..

Self - Esteem is confidence, confidence is how great you feel about yourself, how great you think about yourself, and no how great you think people say you are or feel you are...

Low self esteem is a situation where you compare yourself with society or people, asking questions such as am I up to his/her standards? Will he/she accept me? Will they like me if they see me? or saying I am not good enough? I am not up to her level look at her phone/clothes/accessories... I am not up to his level look at his car/women/houses/clothes..

Low self esteem is a situation in which you care about what people think, feel, say and use what people think, feel and say about you to live your life, you use it to measure yourself and describe who you are, to measure how valuable you are.. remember for you to be valuable to others you have to be valuable to yourself and believe that you are valuable in yourself...

Gaining confidence starts by creating your own rules, values, standards for yourself and being in control of your thought and what others think about you..

Most people with low self esteem don't have a direction in life, they don't have plans for their future, they don't even know where they are going.. they are just living life and by God's grace they say....... they live life according to the what they see and not according to who they are and that is why society easily influences them and makes them lose vision of who they truly are and they start comparing themselves with others in the society.

Self esteem is confidence, confidence is how great you fell about yourself. How valuable you say you are in respect to yourself and not to others... not saying that I am more valuable than a begger or people living on the streets... No!.. you can only feel great and valuable of yourself in respect to yourself when you know who you are, your ambitions, plans, potentials and knowledge.. saying you wish to go to school, get a job, get married and have a family... those are not plans or ambitions... That is the way society makes it to be and that is why you are easily influenced and compare yourself with others.. because you are living according to society and not according to who you are..

Saying that you wish to go to school, get a job, maybe own a business, get married and have a family... those are not ambitions or plans .. that is another version of what the society creates for people to live by... If I love art and fashion and I live by it.... and I say when I go to art school, I will come out... and join an art organization.. make myself known in the art world... create a platform for young Nigerian artists to gain exposure.. build art gallaries and then maybe get married and have a family... Now those are ambitions and then I plan for them...

With this you are living according to who you are with your ambitions and plans leading you through life.... This way you wouldn't even think about comparing yourself to others but you be more interested with where you are headed because you know who you are, and you know why you are on this planet earth...

Low self esteem is when you wear a cloth, which you think is fine, but wait till your friends confirm it before you go anywhere because you are afraid of looking bad and they are your judge... without them you can't go anywhere..

High self esteem is when you tell your friends to dress you that you want to trust them that day... You are not relying on them, but just giving them an opportunity to show themselves with all those advises they have been making noise with ever since.. No matter what they dress you with, it is when you say it is great that it is great...

I will stop here... hope you remembered to take down key points... But one thing is that if you think you are not strong enough to take control of your life right now ... you should said you are not strong enough to urinate... Which is an utter lie..

So I am telling you... with knowledge of who you are.. take control of your life.. plan it step by step, ambitions, goals, and plans with knowledge and understanding and with a well defined life... you wouldn't have space for low self esteem..

cc: Deejay1000 Divay22

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Magnoliaa:
starting and keeping a conversation going...it's soo tiring nd draining..

Do you mean with ladies or with guys??

QueenSuccubus:
Yes..

Its been a wk now that I have no phone and it's making me crazy..life is very difficult especially that were living in a new technology

Except you are about to rely on God, a man or any outside source but yourself to get you a phone... then what I wrote above should narrow your choices...

ddeston:
Making quality business decisions.
I make silly mistakes that usually costs me millions in Naira. And I have tried to work on my not been able to make decisions buts it not working

How well grounded are you in knowledge of financial spending... How many financial management and business management books have you read..

These books not only teach us to manage our finances... But help us use our finances to create bigger opportunities for ourselves...

Amarabae:
you are becoming a pessimist,and thats a little bit bad.
when you find it hard to trust,you are releasing negative energy,it can make you to miss grabbing a big opportuinity that comes your way.
Free out and start giving many things A BENEFIT OF DOUBT.

If you look at it very another angle ... you will say wow... because a relationship of four years.... a relationship of 48 months.... a relationship of 208 weeks.... a relationship of 1,460 days just gone like that...

Being pessimist to me is what a person in the right state of mind will do.... As the human brain lets it whole self out to trust people it does so without backup and that is why it is so careful with the people it trusts.. but when it gets hurt... you see the brain reacting by being more careful... and learning from that mistake... because it does not want to feel the pain again...

Do you think she should be advised to take a pen and a note and write down the lessons her past relationship taught her.. her flaws, his flaws... what went wrong... what they could not manage.... and then she applys them to her daily living... and also take a book like Steve Harvey Think like a man, Act like a lady... which puts her one step forward in relationships..

What do you think??

I see that TuneChi369 has sent me a pm... This mail has been banned by google (was being used by so many people in the office)... So if you are not too busy send you private messages to this mail instead

hearts6055@gmail.com

Seems like everyone is getting their questions answered.... If you are not satisfied with your answer or you have not been answered please quote me..

QueenSuccubus:


Struggling to get a new phone...too many too choose from..

hmm.. most phone choices are based on what you like about a phone maybe camera, security, battery life, audio sound, how long it is expected to last, how strong the phone is and looks, the design...

Choosing a phone based on what you like reduces the number of choices you have... and then there is how much you have in your pocket right now and that reduces your choice a lot further...

But I have to ask.. is getting a phone the most important thing in your life right now?

I saw this thread on nairaland in which a health blogger (Paul Samuel) known as Fitness Doctor on nairaland made asking people about the health struggles they are going through and giving them valuable points..

I was even mention in one of the solutions he gave...

Well so I decided to ask... What are your struggles right now.... I mean in life... Whatever it is... even though it is a psychological problem or struggle, simply share it and a lot can be done to put you on the right track..

I will be expecting something from you Deejay1000

sEGXY2:
the word is extremely!

Thank you for your pointers... But let me break it down for you...

Now what I mean is that most Africans aren't interested in making big steps... I mean in taking control of what they see around them, but instead want to live according to the society..

A millionaire for example must be able to co-ordinate something and be entirely responsible for something... he must have been able to understand and plan and control economics and market... Thereby a millionaire is someone who works for himself and not for society.. He may make products for people who live according to society but he lives according to his own rules and his money...

This article is not about riches or success.. it is about sitting down and asking yourself who am I?....

As for this that you said

you said we need not impress people but still went ahead to say we are not doing well with our lives.

If you are living someone else's life, if you are doing according to what others think and not what you think... then do you think you are doing well with your life in the first place... the real question... is it your life anymore? or the life of others?.....

Like I said I am talking about who you are? and not how well your life is right now?

Is everything going according to who you said you are? or are you being influenced by society to make changes to your inner self and live your life based on what's trending??

Read my signature to understand this point better

Tadeknkeepcalm:
Sorry to burst your bubble OP but what you've just said might contain few valid points but most of it are claptrap, and thank God I didn't fall in this trap and gave undue applaud (pun intended). I'm sure you must have listened to one of those 'inspirational' videos; nodding your head all through, and sure without a doubt that that must be the truth. For example, "Are you really existing or you are just a one among the 160m people present in the society.... have you been living based on the language you learnt from the society... based on the fact that you want to impress your friends... based on the fact that you don't want people to look down on you outside... have you been living the live the society wants you to live ..... or have you been living your life... " you said all these, all these are your words and you still went ahead to say "Today... Africans are not interested in going one step further to give more to get to that millionaire status... or to improve their minds.... as long as they get to feed, live healthy... that is all... they don't care about improving the lives of others... that is how most of the great and rich people made it today..." further listing women who are making the dough, can you not see that the above quotations are contradictory, telling people to live their lives but also telling them that they have to be millionaires, not very different from society don't you think , you said we need not impress people but still went ahead to say we are not doing well with our lives. The benchmark of measuring success by the society is riches, and yours is? Oh of course RICHES! An ideology society has imbibed in you, going against all what you stand for OP, just one thing need be sai, PRACTICE WHAT YOU PREACH, just in case you don't know the difference between success and wealth, here's a list of people that were successful yet not wealthy: Jesus, Muhammad (peace be upon him), Mohammed Ali, Malcolm x, Nelson Mandela just to mention a few. Oh, and also just as much men as women are unestablished.
Aside all these I'm really vexed that this is just a bait thread

Oh, it's the north that's objectifying women now, are you sure? Really really sure? And not here where every song and music video is about girls as an object to quench sexual urge.

Thank you for your pointers... But let me break it down for you...

Now what I mean is that most Africans aren't interested in making big steps... I mean in taking control of what they see around them, but instead want to live according to the society..

A millionaire for example must be able to co-ordinate something and be entirely responsible for something... he must have been able to understand and plan and control economics and market... Thereby a millionaire is someone who works for himself and not for society.. He may make products for people who live according to society but he lives according to his own rules and his money...

This article is not about riches or success.. it is about sitting down and asking yourself who am I?....

As for this that you said

you said we need not impress people but still went ahead to say we are not doing well with our lives.

If you are living someone else's life, if you are doing according to what others think and not what you think... then do you think you are doing well with your life in the first place... the real question... is it your life anymore? or the life of others?.....

Like I said I am talking about who you are? and not how well your life is right now?

Is everything going according to who you said you are? or are you being influenced by society to make changes to your inner self and live your life based on what's trending??

Read my signature to understand this point better

babyfaceafrica:
You are talking about women.. Don't be coy......you didn't give examples of men who defy society?..so leave Martha for Mathias..that said ,Africans are evolving albeit gradually.

I am not talking about women but everyone in general.... and I am not talking about defy society.... I am talking about your inner being ..... who is your consciousness... is it really you there or someone who is fighting to survive in society and is living according to society rules... or is it someone who has planned his life up to his 50th year on earth is living everyday just as he planned he would?

Ask yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

McBrooklyn:

Interesting emoticon...

I am sure you got something from there.. remember to follow for the upcoming article (I will gladly follow back)

sEGXY2:
The Nigerian society is evolving liberally so all those shackles of expectations are gradually diminishing as compared to some years ago, what any lady decides to do with her life is her furcking business, nobody gives a shit except in rural and northern areas where women are still extremely objectified

I am not talking about women here... I am talking about who you personally see yourself as and what you choose to achieve are they being controlled by you or the society .... I could have made an example with only men.. But I expect someone who chooses to gain more knowledge to be more open to this...

Everyday we think we meet different people of different nature, but in actual sense we meet the same kind of people everyday... well only in Nigeria I can confirm this...

Nowadays people don't grow up setting plans for themselves, or actually knowing who they really are.. how they will bring out themselves and make the world bend to their rules and be the master of their life... but instead they are being controlled by the society...

For example...

Ask someone (a lady for example) what she hopes to achieve herself... and her priorities are listed as a husband, children and a job.... Simple... just what the society wants her to go for.... the society does not see women as strong and independent enough to lead businesses, own industries and even be intelligent enough to make anything.. and that is what you see today.,. these girls grow into teenagers and are after boys or men, money, fashion, accessories and fun (mostly neglecting education and empowerment).. girls grow into ladies and there is more of the hocus pocus... this time they look for jobs because they don't want to rely on a man... But still they are not looking for too much... just to get a job to feed themselves and that is all...

No big idea there...

Simply because the society does not see them as the intelligent gender, as the leading gender, because the society does not see them as a gender which can make a reasonable change, that is why very few women are making changes today....

Because they are influenced by society and they don't really know who they are!.... They just think they do! Simply remove everything you believe about the society and kind of language you have learnt about this society and everything this society says you must be to acquire any necessity and ask yourself who am I?? What is my cause??....

Are you really existing or you are just a one among the 160m people present in the society.... have you been living based on the language you learnt from the society... based on the fact that you want to impress your friends... based on the fact that you don't want people to look down on you outside... have you been living the live the society wants you to live ..... or have you been living your life...

Have you been allowing society to decide what you are supposed to have at a certain age and what not to have... that at age 30 I am supposed to be married...?? or have you been living according to your own plans.... have you been living according to the things you hope to achieve to make your presence known in this world...

How many of you can sing this song by Beyonce titled "I was here" confidently

Who Am I??

This is just a heat up for a post I am going to render.. it is all about changing the African system of things.... this will help make people wiser, healthier and richer..

Do you know that Africans are still living the way they were living in the 1800s... in the 1800s Africans were not interested in exploring and knowing more and doing more about the world they see around them... but only interested in what they can use and as long as they get to feed and live... (through natural means such as farming, fishing, hunting).... Today... Africans are not interested in going one step further to give more to get to that millionaire status... or to improve their minds.... as long as they get to feed, live healthy... that is all... they don't care about improving the lives of others... that is how most of the great and rich people made it today...

Here are examples from African Women

Toke Mokinwa wrote a book "The Becoming" to improve the lives of others and today she enjoys the riches and popularity from that book and she may write another and get more...

Linda Ikeji provides an easy medium for people to get gossip and have fun on the internet... and how is she faring today??

Judith Meyer—Who wants to spend time waiting in line at the grocery store?! Judith definitely felt that way, so she started StoreDash. This online grocery delivery service saves valuable time for shoppers, while also providing unemployed women with a job delivering groceries.

Ramona Kasavan—Knowing there are South African girls who miss school due to lack of sanitary pads, Ramona Kasavan started Happy Days to provide quality, cost-effective sanitary pads to meet their needs. The company also has a direct selling model in order to create jobs for unemployed girls!

Anthea Petersen—To promote recycling and help women find employment, Anthea started Community Philanthropy Recycling. This organization allows women to establish women-owned recycling centers in their own communities. How great is that?!

Mogau Seshoene—A big fan of South African cuisine—yum!—Mogau founded The Lazy Makoti. The company empowers women in South African townships with cooking skills (which they can then use to host classes of their own), as well as the ability to sell kitchen accessories also made by local female entrepreneurs.

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

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OKay, this is totally something different... so be ready to read an empowerment post to start your morning perfectly

The Big Question: Who Am I

Everyday we think we meet different people of different nature, but in actual sense we meet the same kind of people everyday... well only in Nigeria I can confirm this...

Nowadays people don't grow up setting plans for themselves, or actually knowing who they really are.. how they will bring out themselves and make the world bend to their rules and be the master of their life... but instead they are being controlled by the society...

For example...

Ask someone (a lady for example) what she hopes to achieve herself... and her priorities are listed as a husband, children and a job.... Simple... just what the society wants her to go for.... the society does not see women as strong and independent enough to lead businesses, own industries and even be intelligent enough to make anything.. and that is what you see today.,. these girls grow into teenagers and are after boys or men, money, fashion, accessories and fun (mostly neglecting education and empowerment).. girls grow into ladies and there is more of the hocus pocus... this time they look for jobs because they don't want to rely on a man... But still they are not looking for too much... just to get a job to feed themselves and that is all...

No big idea there...

Simply because the society does not see them as the intelligent gender, as the leading gender, because the society does not see them as a gender which can make a reasonable change, that is why very few women are making changes today....

Because they are influenced by society and they don't really know who they are!.... They just think they do! Simply remove everything you believe about the society and kind of language you have learnt about this society and everything this society says you must be to acquire any necessity and ask yourself who am I?? What is my cause??....

Are you really existing or you are just a one among the 160m people present in the society.... have you been living based on the language you learnt from the society... based on the fact that you want to impress your friends... based on the fact that you don't want people to look down on you outside... have you been living the live the society wants you to live ..... or have you been living your life...

Have you been allowing society to decide what you are supposed to have at a certain age and what not to have... that at age 30 I am supposed to be married...?? or have you been living according to your own plans.... have you been living according to the things you hope to achieve to make your presence known in this world...

How many of you can sing this song by Beyonce titled "I was here" confidently

Who Am I??

This is just a heat up for a post I am going to render.. it is all about changing the African system of things.... this will help make people wiser, healthier and richer..

Do you know that Africans are still living the way they were living in the 1800s... in the 1800s Africans were not interested in exploring and knowing more and doing more about the world they see around them... but only interested in what they can use and as long as they get to feed and live... (through natural means such as farming, fishing, hunting).... Today... Africans are not interested in going one step further to give more to get to that millionaire status... or to improve their minds.... as long as they get to feed, live healthy... that is all... they don't care about improving the lives of others... that is how most of the great and rich people made it today...

Here are examples from African Women

Toke Mokinwa wrote a book "The Becoming" to improve the lives of others and today she enjoys the riches and popularity from that book and she may write another and get more...

Linda Ikeji provides an easy medium for people to get gossip and have fun on the internet... and how is she faring today??

Judith Meyer—Who wants to spend time waiting in line at the grocery store?! Judith definitely felt that way, so she started StoreDash. This online grocery delivery service saves valuable time for shoppers, while also providing unemployed women with a job delivering groceries.

Ramona Kasavan—Knowing there are South African girls who miss school due to lack of sanitary pads, Ramona Kasavan started Happy Days to provide quality, cost-effective sanitary pads to meet their needs. The company also has a direct selling model in order to create jobs for unemployed girls!

Anthea Petersen—To promote recycling and help women find employment, Anthea started Community Philanthropy Recycling. This organization allows women to establish women-owned recycling centers in their own communities. How great is that?!

Mogau Seshoene—A big fan of South African cuisine—yum!—Mogau founded The Lazy Makoti. The company empowers women in South African townships with cooking skills (which they can then use to host classes of their own), as well as the ability to sell kitchen accessories also made by local female entrepreneurs.

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

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Deejay1000:
good afternoon newbeginnings your words motivates me I always look forward to a new post by you...

NB: I always want to change for better but i am not motivated enough to do so.. I look forward to your reply sir/madam

The weakest and strongest link all humans have in this world is their mind.... I believe you need to empower your mind.... the stronger your mind is and the more control you exercise over your mind the easier for you to become motivated even by negative things.... I am speaking from experience here...

I will be dropping a post today... remember to follow.....

A message for the night
Don't give up; I won't give up Don't give up, no no no Don't give up; I won't give up Don't give up, no no no
I'm free to be the greatest, I'm alive I'm free to be the greatest here tonight,
the greatest
The greatest, the greatest alive The greatest, the greatest alive
Just don't give up

This story was constructed, organized, built, compiled, composed, arranged and put together to change your life

As a man was passing the elephants, he suddenly stopped, confused by the fact that these huge creatures were being held by only a small rope tied to their front leg. No chains no cages..

It was obvious that the elephant could, at anytime, break away from their bonds but for some reason, they did not..

He was a trainer nearby and asked why these animals just stood there and made no attempt to get away.

"Well," trainer said, "when they are very young and much smaller we use the same size rope to tie them and, at that age, it's enough to hold them. As they grow up, they are conditioned to believe they cannot break away.. They believe the rope can still hold them, so they never try to break free."

The man was amazed. These animals could at any time break free from their bonds but because they believed they couldn't, they were stuck right where they were..

Like the elephants, how many of us go through life hanging onto a belief that we cannot something, simply because we failed at it once before?

Failure is part of learning; we should never give up the struggle in life..

Remember it is the year of New Beginnings.. and I will be sharing an explanation on the times in life..

Like the Time of waiting, Time of lack, Time of planning and Time of harvesting..

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

Sorry its coming late but still I officially welcome all ladies and gents that made it to 2017..

Now look at you neighbour.. if you don't have a neighbour just look at your mirror..

Now say Neighbor....

Say Neighbor

Say Neighbor.. bor

Say Neighbor.. bor..... bor

Say Neighbor ooooooo

This is my year of New Beginnings...

If you said it and believe it then get ready to see more than just change this 2017..

Remember this is not a prayer, it is declaration...

If you are interested in learning something new just check out my last post...

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

Very too idea... why don't you read this article .... https://www.nairaland.com/3554411/how-get-best-out-2017

Happy New Year Everybody...

Well this is the year of startups the year of new beginnings... the year of those who are ready to turn themselves into millionaires... those who are ready to become icons, legends..

So this is what I will give this year.. I will start entrepreneurial and self development classes here on nairaland..

These classes will help you in the following ways..

1. Helps you become master of your own body and emotions
2. Helps you control your environment
3. Build your priorities (which are important as this is what makes you to make choices)
4. Build you relationship
5. Give you the ability to create ideas
6. The ability to convert ideas into marketable and profitable means
7. Help you be a master of resources during recession and hard times
8. Completely change the way you plan by improving the way you think...

Here are the requirements

1. For you to completely grab everything from this classes tiu have to open your mind to learning no .matter how intelligent or knowledgeable you are (I don't know everything, but I have experienced and applied enough)....
2. You have to be ready to accept bitter truth and not compare your situation with any person's own..
3. You have to be ready to be a man, that is to get ready to handle responsibilities and tolerate a great amount of suffering (I will talk on this one)
4. You have to be ready to give up the future plans you have now or be ready to modify them according to what you will learn (I know you think this is crazy but trust me this will help you learn faster and progress more speedily than anyone in the class
5. You have to accept the fact that no knowledge is a waste no matter who is giving the knowledge..
6. You have to be ready to work on yourself and determined to do so
7. You have to be ready to accept the fact that whosoever you say you are is not who you actually are..
8. You have to be very, very, very ambitious.. (ambitions like I want to be the President of America works fine for me)
9. You have to get ready to create your own standards and be the lord over society and not allow the standards of the society to define you....

This is only for those who want to earn more than. just a living, for those who want to be the reason their family relatives and even other people live..

Are you ready??

Simply cram my moniker or follow me but remember to comment first...

falconey:
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Of course.. Jesus cannot never be erased from our lives... as he is the perfecter of our Faith...

but does Jesus only motivate you to live for yourself alone??

ikp120:
The picture below motivates me

Powerful.. although I am thinking that house is too small for you... I mean what is bad with owning a whole state... rather than just one house...

So you need a bigger motivation my friend

dingbang:
The scriptures too

Very powerful resource... Which one is your favorite.. I am thinking Proverbs, Ecclesiastes or The Books written by Moses

falconey:
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Interesting... What does it motivate you do to do?

I just saw this in my mail and decided to share it

Paul,

The interwebs are filled with well-meaning (but delusional) people talking about their business ideas. It doesn’t always turn out pretty. Just look at the picture below


Stories like this used to drive me crazy, but the new Ramit is much more zen.

My advice for those looking to quit their job to start a business: RELAX.

In the real world, successful entrepreneurs like to limit their risk. That could mean staying in your day job until your business is large enough to pay your bills. Or testing an idea on a small scale.

This de-risk thinking is part of the reason why I’ve been able to release 18+ products in 12 years to over 30,000 paying customers. I didn’t just chase any idea that popped into my head. I systematically evaluated each one that came across my desk.

Today, I want to share one framework that has helped me eliminate the vast majority of risk – in just a few minutes. It’s called the Pay Certainty Technique. It has two parts. The first is your audience’s ability to pay. The second is your audience’s willingness to pay.

Let me walk you through an example. Let’s pretend you shoot and edit videos and want to turn it into a business. You can ask yourself two questions.
Does your market have the ability to pay?

Answering this question upfront can save you months of wasted time and effort. If your potential customers don’t have the ability to pay, you won’t make any money. Period.

Right away, this takes nonprofits off the table. In general, nonprofits are always strapped for cash. They don’t always know how they’ll pay their essential costs. No way they’ll pay someone for help with a “nice to have” like video. (Unless you’re willing to work for chump change.)

So what kind of markets would pay for video help? I can think of a few:

Brides and grooms – they already spent $30,000 on a wedding, they can probably spare a thousand or so more to capture their special day
Corporate law firms – Sure, these companies do millions in billings each year
Bloggers with growing audiences that do over $500,000 in product sales or Ecommerce sites that do over $1 million in revenues

Right away, you can see we’re getting warmer on the path to finding good customers – those that have the ability to pay. And we haven’t even invested any time or cash into this yet.
Do they have the willingness to pay?

The second part of the Pay Certainty Technique is the willingness to pay. It examines if your market wants what you’re providing.

Continuing with the same example, we can ask: Do nonprofits want videos? It would be nice, but it’s not a burning priority.

Let’s look at our markets with the ability to pay to see if they also have the willingness:

Brides and grooms – they’re about to have a once-in-a-lifetime event. Of course they’ll want someone there to capture everything
Corporate law firms – While they can pay for video, it’s not crucial to their business. They have no willingness to pay so we can scrap this
Ecommerce sites and bloggers – if video means a better customer experience and more sales, then heck yes!

See how much this simple exercise can reduce your risk right away?

In my experience, asking these questions will eliminate 50-70% of your bad business ideas. The remaining ones will be strong. From there, you can do additional research to develop your idea even further.

If you’re curious, I’ve put together a video on this and more action steps in my latest guide, The Ultimate Guide to Profitable Business Ideas.

Follow this link http://links.iwillteachyoutoberich.com/a/258/click/2358264/741780864/_2e4b407b4d2ad8c8389555d82abb776dc4e46221/00f9105216d58051081bddac76b54a4b05bfdc87?ana=InV0bV9tZWRpdW09ZW1haWwmdXRtX3NvdXJjZT1pd3Qi

Only Jesus Christ can help you.. But he said in his word that thou shall not fornicate and you just did that ...

So I don't know who can help you now

What are the words that motivate you to continue going through life.. The words that tell you that you can be more than who you are... The words that move you to make a difference..

The words that tell you that you can impact a million people.. affect a million lives and your name will be known for laughter and happiness...

Just asking??

Mine is not actually a word or words.. it is a song which I have shared here time after time... by beyonce titled I was here

One of the persons that motivates me is my girlfriend/wife.... (although I am not dating now).. I promise to go through thin, pain and obstacles just to make sure she gets to eat fat and never complains due to financial hindrances... I am almost there now, so thank God... (although I don't believe in love.. so don't think I am just a teenager saying this)...

So there it is...

What words and Who motivates you??

There are many more hungry children in Somalia who could do better with that gift..

Give her the gift, but make sure you tell her you have a friendly surprise for her.. so that she wouldn't get any second thoughts...

football is a very interesting game. it is more likely a man's game but women are trying to show themselves... i think of myself as a player with a team and the game is life while my opponents are obstacles in life.. if you notice without teamwork, skill and strategy a team cant win the other and so it is in life... for to completely scale throughout life you need a team who believe in what you believe. a team rather to work with you to scale through the obstacles (your opponents) of life.. you also need skill and talent and you need to have a strategy which comes from reading and planning, for you to score a goal and for you to maintain your lead so that life doesnt score one at you and return you to the gutters... but you need something more. you need passion which keeps you standing where others fail which makes you lead you teammates to victory whenever you face your opponent.. you need patience in life so that when life scores you or the game takes too long for you to score (succeed) you can hold on,,,,