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That's a good move, run to fight another day

I also don't believe in money ritual, I am glad to see that many people herw share my opinion too,
Its sleep deprivation and use of drugs, these guys are known for there heavy use of all.sort of drugs coupled with sleep deprivation wish causes temporary insanity

This story is closer to the truth, my friend in jos who has relatives in that local government told be the same thing.
I blame the youth for not recoding the guns and weapons said to be In the possessions of the Fulani,
The government doesn't expect people to fold their hands when there life's is been threaten
The last time the Fulani attack the state government told the aggrieved villages that he was sleeping...fg has to put and end to this issue, no body has monopoly of violence

our government should learn to fulfill more of their promised... congratulations to her and her family

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I am not surprised with the way we misuse power in this part of the world . these guys aren't trained ... Most of them are lunatics

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I think the fasting season informed his decision.... Nigeria isn't a circular nation as she claims to be

You need to take the redpill , ubanja miseducation and thank me later

[quote author=ATTemi post=88618007]Among ur friends, none of them fit beat sense into ur skull?[

I haven't told anyone yet, I feel so ashamed, I used to brag with her being so decent and faithful

XhosaNostra:
What alter? Look, she's backed in a corner at the moment, so of course she'll come up with all sort of ludicrous ideas, to get you to forgive her. Never play gullible twice. On the other hand, I understand where you're coming from. You're coming from a place of emotions & since I'm not the one that's emotionally invested in this, I just can't tell you to write her off, completely (even though that's exactly what I would have done in this situation, regardless of how I feel because I don't appreciate disrespect). However, whatever you choose to do, don't make it easy on her. Punish her Make her earn your trust back...I don't care what you do to send your message across, but she can't get off lightly just by shedding a few fake tears after she got caught. Play hardball with people like that, to teach them a lesson.

The alter idea was suggested by her as an alternative to telling her folks

lefulefu:
After she now infects u with HIV u will now come back creating a thread saying HIV is not death sentence

Lol, you guys are the best , I haven't laughed for days now.... I know what to do, I'm still in a state of disbelief I guess.

XhosaNostra:
Yes, they must learn

Noone is irreplaceable, except one's own parents & kids. The rest can chop middle finger if they can't play nicely

You have a point, I think it's just the fear of starting all over again, she has her good part , I never new she was this loose... I think it's the courage to do the needful I'm lacking right now, deep now I know what needs to be done... Thought she's prepared to go to the alter to swear she's never cheat again

botrix:
Why did you check her fone,?,you got what you searched for,congrats.I stand against spouses checking each other's phones.

All the while we have been together that was the second time, I hadn't do, she was getting late calls , it was either her bank customers or friends now I know a lady can't be just friends with a guy

Bola146:
Wait for them, they will soon come to tell you to go and beat those married men. Nonsense!

A cheat is always a cheat! Thank God you know now, let her go!

That's my fear, she might return to it, and what do I do then.

She has been begging I shouldn't tell her mom cos of her dad heart condition, that they will be so disappointed in her , it can lead to other things

ojun50:
Give her another chance if you don't knw what to.....

I have always told her cheating was a deal breaker, my real worry is she might do it again in the future

Everything was fine BTW us till late last year when she started changing. Our sex life was great till late last year, whenever I make a move to touch her she always say she was tired or not in the mood. It was strange cos she has a large appetite for sex. Then every weekend she hardly spend time with me, it either she had to go for a weekend training, last minute or she had to go home to see her parents which was odd. Cos we were already planning our wedding. Even when I told her to stay she refused, it was always one excuse or the other.Then we began having fights even over the silliest things.

I was away for a month and I came back early because of the lowdown. I decided to check her message, that's how I learnt that she had been having sex with other men(3) Including married man she introduced to me as a friend. Same girl that hated ladies that sleep with married men was doing same.

I feel so broken cos I never expected such a thing From her . We are supposed to get married by 3rd quarter this year... I still have feelings for her cos she has been begging and saying she regrets her action begging me not to tell her mom. Her mom is the only person I can trust to knock some sense into her. I'm scared that if I forgive her she might do it again.

Nairalanders I need your advice. I had built my world around her