I'll keep it short for a lady capital NO, for a guy not bad at all(as long you don't repeat stupid emotional attachment). before some people starts to judge me, I have rich experience in this
I was expecting stories I could relate to but non came up so let me share my story.
I started being wooed by females right from less than 7. I am 29 and I still experience it, it reduced drastically after my NYSC service year, may be because I focused more on building my career, now I only get green lights from business associates and most of my female students (I do per time instructor). I can't go into details they are too numerous. I respect women a lot I felt am just approachable that is why they do that, I remember one telling me am lovable
this formula worked for me, get skill(s), any skill(s) you have pation for, be a baddass(excellent at it), convert your skill into an enterprise (business) if you don't have the needed capital locate people who need your skill, always target the boss don't waste time on employees, you will not only get a job you will determine your own pay and more opportunities will come. employers are not interested in paying you unless you helping them solve an existing problem
Gidilagoon: Pls house, I don’t know if am being stupid or not man enough but I just have to share this with you guys just for an advice.. it might be long as I really want to express myself pls. I have been dating this girl going to 2years now and we are planning to settle down probably next year. I have known this girl for a very long time because we have dated before when I just got admitted to university but we ended after short period,so After few years that we’av graduated, we met again and fortunately we were both still single ,so we decided to start dating again and this time we are more serious and planning for future, I realized she must have dated many guys when I left her because it was a long time ago, so I decided to change her phone number just to avoid any connection with any guy from her past since am planning my future with her now, but after awhile I noticed some of these guys still chat her on FB and Instagram and she replies, and one even sent her money and I was totally mad at her but later we resolved it.. so back to the main issue that just came up recently . I don’t know what took me to her Facebook profile and I decided to go through her messages, I noticed one of the guy she claimed to be her uncle was a man friend she has known from the past, this guy Is married with 2kids living in US.I noticed my girl sent her nude to him and they were having sex chat, so I acted like I didn’t see anything and I invited her to my house the next day and tell her what I saw, then she started crying, immediately I gave her 3 hot slap and asked her to leave my apartment but she wouldn’t leave but kept crying on the floor and said she’s ready to swear with death if such ever happened again, that she was just stupid. Well I dragged her out of my house, and since then all her family from different places have been calling me pleading on her behalf except her Mom and Dad which she can’t tell about it.I noticed she has changed her phone number and delete her Facebook account after what happened , but I told her it’s already late when her aunty called me... honestly I still love her, because she’s the only girl I ever fell for but won’t I look stupid if I accept all the pleading and continue with her? And can such girl make a good wife? She’s too vulnerable,too emotional and she has dated a lot of guys in the past, so it scares the hell out of me to settle down with her, so that man no go die untimely death.. Her aunty said she wants to come and meet me this weekend but I told her I will get back to her. Do you think I should let her come? Pls mature men in the house don’t abuse me, just advice your guy abeg.
don't just forgive her, apologize for slapping, she is the best for now, love her more act like this never happened, any other advice here can't be superior to this
donstan18: One thing we should know is that until a lady is married, she's still single and a packaged prostitute.
She might be seen as a retired one once she's married. The earlier we get this the better for us.
Even a wise Nigerian lady will agree with me that they are packaged prostitute parading as girlfriend.
OP, you shouldn't have slapped her, she's not your wife, you don't owe her, you assumed she must have dated so many men, but you didn't tell us how many ladies you've dated.
Once your girlfriend cheat or misbehave. Kindly break up or forgive.
Don't hit a woman who is not your wife because she cheated. Don't even hit a woman atall, even if she's your wife.
Your action didn't make you a man, learn to act less and think smart when provoked by a woman.
I still can't understand why people don't understand that a woman is only yours when you marry her.
mgtow: I get you, but you don't reward a cheat by proposing... I mean, what the hell? Never reward bad behaviour. And I assure you that proposing to her or marrying her is not a guarantee that she will stop her philandering ways. Marriage/Proposal isn't a magic wand that changes a person all of a sudden.
proposal is not a reward, I want to marry can later be 'I can't marry a LovePeddler' you are not trying to change her (of course you can't) you only setting a standard, or call it a bait, her action determines the result
mgtow: You're advising him to propose to a proven cheat? To give her time to drop other guys? Where is your pride as a man? How do you even condone the fact that she's seeing other guys? Is her pússy gold? Emancipate yourself from this defeatist mentality bros. You are part of the problem.
cheat? that is hilarious, she is not yours until she agrees to marry you legally until then you have no right over how many dick she wants to test, just as the guy too is probably still searching and testing (if he is a real G), this reply now shows that am not speaking as defeatist or what do you call it. Know what you want, be principled!
propose to her, then you will have right to check her phones and personal stuff, give her about a week to drop other guys, treat her with equal rights, after that if she f up, drop her and move, that is LOVE, RESPECT & PRINCIPLE
instead of Yahoo why not try something creative, if you don't have the needed skills hire a software developer to help, the dating apps these boys use for crime are owned by somebody, the person is far richer than all the yahoo boys combined, the yahoo boys even pay them so as to use the premium features of these apps because that is where the big fishes are, to crown it up you do not necessary need programming skills to own an app, all you need is the needed capital, funny enough nobody can ever arrest the owners of the platform they use in scamming their victims. Think! somebody owns facebook, instagram, uber, taxify, paypal etc. if you are interested in any worthwhile project watch this video