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Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by pocohantas(f): 8:17am On Aug 04, 2018 |
Acidosis: Yes, as in sleep over. You must knack am? |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by ozallamike(m): 8:18am On Aug 04, 2018 |
Auladimeji:what are the chances of not sleeping wit him even when the pass night together |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by CSTR1005: 8:18am On Aug 04, 2018 |
There is a scarcity of men nowadays Fiancee is not a girlfriend. She is almost a wife. The fact that she had the effrontery to sleep in her ex boyfriend house without telling you shows there is something seriously wrong. If you are truly in control of your relationship, your woman cannot dare do that to you as her fiance. The foundation of your relationship is wrong. 6 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by reservd(m): 8:19am On Aug 04, 2018 |
Sadiyaene:So it's cool to sleep over at your former lover's house cos he wanna or helped wit a job? |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by paddyofboss(m): 8:20am On Aug 04, 2018 |
Op is it that you don't have money to lodge her in a hotel or you didn't know that the friend in question is a male figure?. She knows her options and decided to go and stay with man...well use ur head and don't allow boxers wear u. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Nobody: 8:22am On Aug 04, 2018 |
Colourich:This piece you wrote might come back to you the other way round. Thanks 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by BLING4BLING: 8:26am On Aug 04, 2018 |
For me ooo, I don't think she is cheating on you. Reasons being that she wouldn't had told you about who got her the Job in the first place. I believe she told u simply because of the guilt of concealing it and the pressure resulting of the many advances from her ex. Talk heart to heart with her and seal the relationship by taking it to the next level. She is a lady with conscience 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by OgogoroFreak(m): 8:33am On Aug 04, 2018 |
They are still fuckiing |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by ashala(m): 8:44am On Aug 04, 2018 |
yeyerolling: Okafor's law 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by CASTOSVILLA(m): 8:52am On Aug 04, 2018 |
oluwakekz:You're the problem boy, you're worrying like a small girl. |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by bigocean(m): 8:54am On Aug 04, 2018 |
Oluwakekz, now hear me brother. Your crime was being too soft and loyal. I know you thought you were being the best to a supposed "LOVE OF YOUR LIFE" but hear this, Them girls aint loyal. She probably took advantage of these facts to do what she did. Trust me the reason why she even opened up lately is because you asked her and her conscience told her you might have discovered one or two things. So in my candid opinion, i would say you give her space. You deserve peace of mind(we all do). 6 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Nobody: 9:11am On Aug 04, 2018 |
CSTR1005: wish I could like your post a thousand and one times. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by CyberWolf: 9:16am On Aug 04, 2018 |
The fact that she is boldly telling you that she passed the night in ex’s house without your knowledge is a way of telling you that you can “go and die if you’re angry”. Don’t be surprised that the ex already told her to tell you the truth if you ask and if you kicks her out, she should come back to him. She is working already and the ex is working too, but I don’t think your already got a job. So you see, all odds is against you and if you get along with the relationship, just know that the emotional/psychological trauma you’re passing through is a child’s play compare to what you will pass through in future. Man up and end the relationship now. 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by mrbillz(m): 9:16am On Aug 04, 2018 |
It’s quite obvious she’s cheating. 98% of girls who runs back to their Ex for help get bleeped. I have an Ex who’s getting married this month. Sent me an invititation letter. After I congratulated her. She asked when are we gonna see again for the last time. She said we needed to f**k for the last time before she finally get married. I and this girl haven’t seen for over a year now. I’m sure I’m not her only Ex she would have told such... Now I’m scared of getting married 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Sadiyaene(f): 9:17am On Aug 04, 2018 |
reservd: This I'd damn serious |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Valentinejr(m): 9:25am On Aug 04, 2018 |
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Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by damite94(m): 9:38am On Aug 04, 2018 |
Most pple don't want to hear this, but real relationships that last involve a lot of forgiveness. You've to accept the fact that your partner isn't perfect and will hurt you, disappoint you and upset you.. You've to figure out if you're willing to go thru ups and downs with them 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by barristerzinny(f): 9:45am On Aug 04, 2018 |
She was honest to tell you, it was her ex that got the job for her. It's not bad if her ex got the job for her, she was afraid to tell you cos you may stop her, from getting the job. That is why she kept it away from you. But if you still feel insecure, and can't cope with her again. You can excuse yourself, from the relationship. |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Acidosis(m): 9:57am On Aug 04, 2018 |
pocohantas:wetin be knack am? you too spoil To answer you though: I nor get ex. That we dated and ended the relationship does not make her my ex. I nor dey get ex, once you're gone you're gone. |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by newinsta: 10:09am On Aug 04, 2018 |
I'll keep it short for a lady capital NO, for a guy not bad at all(as long you don't repeat stupid emotional attachment). before some people starts to judge me, I have rich experience in this |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by reservd(m): 10:21am On Aug 04, 2018 |
barristerzinny:Did u intentionally skip d part dt says she slept over at d ex's place or u kinda didn't understand d gist? Dts d bone of contention not d ex hlpin in getting a job 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by benjanny(m): 10:23am On Aug 04, 2018 |
In this world,you are dating somebody,s ex,somebody else is dating ur ex,your ex is dating somebody ex,so we are all xmen 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Nobody: 10:27am On Aug 04, 2018 |
oluwakekz:She's wrong to not tell you about it. if you didn't ask, I'm sure she wouldn't have told you. She even went as far as spending the night with him..imagine that. That's total bullshit! Do you know what happened overnight with them? She might wanna defend herself saying if she told you, you might feel insecure and all but all that matters not, she was supposed to tell you regardless. If she says she's not cheating you, its up to you to believe her or not, but I know what I will do if it was me. |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by pocohantas(f): 10:38am On Aug 04, 2018 |
Acidosis: I am spoilt, very spoilt So, all your stories on how babes knack their EXes, even after they marry some other man- you don't have first hand experience? |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by CSTR1005: 10:44am On Aug 04, 2018 |
ndy87:You can do something much better. Let me see the face behind that beautiful leg. |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by injurybaba(m): 10:53am On Aug 04, 2018 |
I understand your pain bro But don't let jealousy crowd your judgement which was why she was scared telling you at the first place and sometimes we should stop asking Questions we can't handle the answer |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Acidosis(m): 10:53am On Aug 04, 2018 |
pocohantas: Do you need a first hand experience to know that AIDS is a deadly disease? |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Kassidy90(m): 10:53am On Aug 04, 2018 |
This is a sensitive issue, am married so some of my exes and some of them still keep in contact with me whenever they need me especially when it comes to der health due to my line of work though my wife is not always happy with it ... Personally I won't mind my babe's ex to help her get a job but what I won't accept is her keeping it a secret from me, but since she has opened up to u I think u should keep calm watch out..... 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by oluwakekz(m): 11:14am On Aug 04, 2018 |
iwomen:my dear no need jare,have got my peace of mind to keep #lobatan 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by ic3tipz(m): 11:18am On Aug 04, 2018 |
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Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by barristerzinny(f): 11:24am On Aug 04, 2018 |
reservd:if she slept at her ex place, he should leave her or stay. The ball is in his court, his the one that will determine the beginning and end of the tunnel and not us. |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by oruma19: 11:42am On Aug 04, 2018 |
blame nairaland for ur predicament. y did u practice what u read on nairaland? let me tell u the truth, the ex bleeped ur girl very well. Marry her if u like her, if not free her if u cant deal with it. theyfucked over night...long beta Bleep..sorry ehn, no vex, na so life be..lolz |
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