Romance › Re: A Married Woman I'm Currently Staying With Wants To Sleep With Me by Next2Bezee(m): 11:28am On May 25, 2017 |
id911: I'm very confused. I don't know what to do but I need advice from nairalanders, serious one on how to navigate safely through this stormy waters.
I'm in my early thirties, unfortunately not working at the moment but still searching and believing I'll get one soon. I had an accommodation problem and someone who is like an aunt offered I stay in her house until I can sort myself out. I didn't have any other alternative still don't have at the moment so agreed and moved in due to my situation. She's a close family friend. Her mom was my late mom's best friend.
She's married with two kids and her husband is a state agent; he works with one of the Federal Security Agencies. Please I don't want to be specific. The husband is far way from us here in Lagos and comes home once in a while so it's always two of us especially when the kids have gone to school.
She wants me to sleep with her and has been disturbing a hell out of me. I've tried to let her know why this isn't possible since she's married but it's like I'm talking to a stone. She practically naked herself recently and held unto me but I used an extremely diplomatic tone and much pleading before she could let go of me. But she told me I must look for her soon; don't know what that means.
I never have a thought of sleeping with any married woman because I don't just think It's a right thing to do. Me self wey no gukuma get time for single ladies na married woman come dey disturb person. Me don tire for this kind thing o Keep holding out and exploring every avenue that can get you your own accommodation as soon as possible. Nobody likes rejection, She could also end up framing you or claiming you slept with her even if you didn't. Some will tell you to just give in and start sleeping with her, you can do that too but soon enough, Karma for those escapades will catch up with you. Good luck. |
Crime › Re: Ogun Police Arrest 20-year-old For Defiling Girl,9 by Next2Bezee(m): 10:18am On May 25, 2017 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Photo Of Obama And Pope Francis Vs Trump And Pope Francis by Next2Bezee(m): 10:27pm On May 24, 2017 |
All this people won't let Trump rest ehn!  Our western muslim brothers have been against this man because he doesn't want them to come and bomb his country  |
Crime › Re: Missing Girl In Ikorodu. by Next2Bezee(m): 10:24pm On May 24, 2017 |
Why this again? Why try to destroy this little girl's life?? Some people are just too wicked and will do anything for money.
She will be found in Jesus's name. Please mods let this hit fp. |
Crime › Re: Man Caught Raping A Little Girl, Paraded In Public (Photos) by Next2Bezee(m): 3:08pm On May 24, 2017 |
Too bad. Say no to rape |
Crime › Re: Nigerian Man Caught At Pakistan Airport With 1.5kg Heroin In Shampoo Bottles by Next2Bezee(m): 2:55pm On May 24, 2017 |
Funlord2: NCAN former POTUS roving reporter with the mid afternoon report!
Hian! Pakistan.....region asia?
Culprit...nigerian?
Most definitely a developer from ndi quarter jewish region!  Oliver OgegioThat name is not recognized in the east oh  |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How To Apply For Nigeria Immigration Service (NIS) Recruitment 2017 by Next2Bezee(m): 5:33pm On May 23, 2017 |
mancheeutd: IF YOU CANT UPLOAD YOUR PASSPORT JUST LOGOUT AND LOG IN AGAIN THRU THE LINK SENT TO YOUR MAIL THEN UPLOAD PASSPORT IT WILL WORK I have tried logging out multiple times and logging back in through the verification link sent to my gmail, but the upload passport photograph button is responding aka it still isn't letting me upload. Update: For those having issues with uploading passport, refresh the biodata page multiple times after logging in. That was what fixed this issue for me and allowed me to upload my passport. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How To Apply For Nigeria Immigration Service (NIS) Recruitment 2017 by Next2Bezee(m): 5:20pm On May 23, 2017 |
twosquare: check your spam folder. It was right there, na wa 4 me ooo. Thanks a lot!!  |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How To Apply For Nigeria Immigration Service (NIS) Recruitment 2017 by Next2Bezee(m): 4:19pm On May 23, 2017 |
CaptainKool15: Use gmail, and make sure you click on resend verification link. I already did last night and still nothing as at the time of replying you. |
Crime › Re: Robbery Suspects, Cultists, Child Traffickers Arrested By Abia Police by Next2Bezee(m): 7:04am On May 23, 2017 |
Afritop: Eeyah no vex hen Una tire me  |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How To Apply For Nigeria Immigration Service (NIS) Recruitment 2017 by Next2Bezee(m): 10:57pm On May 22, 2017 |
I already registered hours ago, but still haven't gotten the verification mail yet.
Do i just register again with another mail? |
Crime › Re: Robbery Suspects, Cultists, Child Traffickers Arrested By Abia Police by Next2Bezee(m): 9:40pm On May 22, 2017 |
Akalia: Ugly biafrans Afonja na so the thing pain u reach? Ewedu demon  |
NYSC › Re: NYSC Batch A Stream II Lets Meet Here. by Next2Bezee(m): 10:27am On May 22, 2017 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: 5 Reasons Some People Don't Give In The Church by Next2Bezee(m): 7:27am On May 21, 2017 |
Have you considered that some people just don't have anything to give at that period?
But today we have so many churches that make "giving" compulsory and shame those that don't. I don't recall anywhere in the bible where it states that without tithes, people can't serve God.
Something else that deters people from giving tithes and offerings is the way self acclaimed men of god use the money that is meant to be for the church and lead luxurious lifestyles as opposed to helping people like Jesus did. |
Car Talk › Re: Women Driving; How Cool Are You With It? by Next2Bezee(m): 7:06am On May 21, 2017 |
Some women can want to kill person on the road. They are really aggressive drivers. I always try to make sure that it isn't a woman driving incoming cars before i cross the road.  |
NYSC › Re: NYSC 2017 Batch A Corps Members House by Next2Bezee(m): 6:20am On May 18, 2017 |
Ken24: Mine Blur your name & pic |
NYSC › Re: Who Else Is Surprised That He/she Didn't Make Batch A Stream 1 by Next2Bezee(m): 6:12am On May 18, 2017 |
Registered on day 3 & still stream 2. E is not funny at all  |
NYSC › Re: NYSC 2017 Batch A Corps Members House by Next2Bezee(m): 6:07am On May 18, 2017 |
Rinsola32: Even me sef still dey see am.
The prayer of my Managing Director is beginning to come to pass o. I really need this stream 1, it's like going on 3 weeks leave for me. Office work don tire me.
God where is your face?
Prayer mode activated. As in ehn, me sef i don tire 4 my current work o |
NYSC › Re: NYSC 2017 Batch A Corps Members House by Next2Bezee(m): 6:04am On May 18, 2017 |
Still stream 2  |
NYSC › Re: NYSC 2017 Batch A Corps Members House by Next2Bezee(m): 1:31am On May 18, 2017 |
MissLadyJay: Thanks for the info! That means I will enjoy nysc while it lasts. Lol when first semester resumes(when I'm admitted), I will abandon it. And start all over again when I'm done with the mbbs!  Brilliant! Sounds like a plan  . I wish you the best with your mbbs  |
NYSC › Re: NYSC 2017 Batch A Corps Members House by Next2Bezee(m): 1:18am On May 18, 2017 |
MissLadyJay: Hi everyone, is it possible for me to abandon nysc when I get admission to medical school (2nd degree through jamb)?? Can I abandon nysc, face my mbbs, finish and probably go back and start afresh and serve as a medical doctor? Or defer the admission?? I'm confused! Its up to you which is more important. The only penalty for abandoning your nysc service is getting to start all over again in another batch. |
NYSC › Re: NYSC Batch A 2017 Callup Letter Updates by Next2Bezee(m): 1:10am On May 18, 2017 |
You will be notified when to print your call-up letter because you are not in stream I  |
NYSC › Re: NYSC 2017 Call-Up Letter Updates by Next2Bezee(m): 1:09am On May 18, 2017 |
You will be notified when to print your call-up letter because you are not in stream I |
NYSC › Re: NYSC 2017 Call-Up Letter Updates by Next2Bezee(m): 12:08am On May 18, 2017 |
babyBB: Today is 18th may already, will d call up letter display by now? Probably later tomorrow because i also can't see it at the moment. |
NYSC › Re: wat went wrong? 2017pcms by Next2Bezee(m): 12:07am On May 18, 2017 |
Letter isn't out yet..at least as of 12.08am |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Mactay Group Interview Invitation by Next2Bezee(op): 11:40am On May 15, 2017 |
elmisti: u owe the other guy tryn to tell youu the truth ann apology  As in ehn They just looked really professional at first. Pity i didn't take his advice. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Mactay Group Interview Invitation by Next2Bezee(op): 10:55am On May 15, 2017 |
Mystic20: How did it go? Was it test and interview? They are just useless. I went for the test and scored 19/20. See me beaming and wondering when i'll be invited for the interview. Just for them to tell me that their pass mark is 20/20.  I know for certain that no1 scored perfect marks yet some people were not asked to leave the halls. So the test is just a formality, they already had people for the position. |
Crime › Re: 20-year-old Robber Kills Roommate In Ogun While Asleep (Photo) by Next2Bezee(m): 10:13am On May 15, 2017*. Modified: 11:00am On May 15, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: 9ja Boy Posts Bedroom Pics With His Girl On Facebook by Next2Bezee(op): 8:31pm On May 11, 2017 |
Erums: Guys its ckear ure broke, but shes still wit u... Wife her No be my facebook o  But ur on point sha |
Politics › Re: The N125bn 2017 Budget Of The National Assembly (Pictured) by Next2Bezee(m): 5:26pm On May 11, 2017 |
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Family › Re: Zimbabwean Catholic Sister Has Sex With Married Man by Next2Bezee(m): 5:07pm On May 11, 2017 |
Is this one a human being or a whale?  That's why she's sticking to the only person that will give her & that dirty pvssy attention  The man sef is a big he-goat. |