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RomanceRe: I'm Scared Of Marriage Because Of The Married Women I Dated. by nextdoorpal:
Eyinju112:
This is so deep...
Let me correct an impression, this women don’t love you, they might feel you serve them better than their husband... Truly they love their husband and will never replace them for you... I believe sex is the only reason they’re with you..

Most times, men feel women don’t need sex cause we don’t ask for it, remember we’re living in a society where ladies who always initiate sex are seen as sex animals, whereas we always want our men to cuddle us from behind and give us from the back...we always want them to spank our asses during sex and make us scream, we want to be ate.... some women loves toxic sex like bdsm, and their husband are always taking it cool on them.... they gonna look for guys or boys like you to make their legs shiver...

Men should try different sex not only missionary... All women loves sex, if she’s not enjoying it with her man, then she’s enjoying it with another man

Shalom
This here is the sad truth, been with a few ladies who'll rather leave em dudes n come tell me they wanna get laid till em leg quiver. You just opened up a secret most ladies ain't willing to let guys know cos they think they'll be viewed as hoes. But hey truth be told, some women want to be spanked n made love to real good n crazy in ways em cool dude boyfriend or husbands can't cos they put up that decent guy disposition.
BusinessRe: Woman In Tears After Her First Bank Account Was Wiped By Fraudsters (Video) by nextdoorpal: 4:41pm On Jan 31, 2022
smallsmall:
Write to CBN help Desk.
They will treat the case, since it is more than 3weeks and the Bank has refused to act on it.
Thank you Sir/Ma'am. I'm on it presently
BusinessRe: Woman In Tears After Her First Bank Account Was Wiped By Fraudsters (Video) by nextdoorpal: 4:34pm On Jan 31, 2022
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
I saw this news yesterday

I think her ATM was swapped

Maybe she needed the assistance of someone at that ATM machine...then the person swapped the ATM card...inserted the swapped one and entered the pin....so the machine swallowed the card

Whereas the real ATM card is still with the person....after that the person walked to the nearest pos and withdrew all the money

Because you can't use ATM machine to withdrew more than 150,000
False Sir, this happened to my mum last year at about this time and nobody swapped her card, first Bank denied this happening on their ATM n GTB never replied my lawyer. Seeing this just infuriated me n I'm rekindindling that case, I must retrieve that #160,500 I promise my mother this today
HealthRe: Swollen and Smelling Corpse Along University Of Uyo by nextdoorpal: 9:11pm On Jan 30, 2022
The body has been removed, I think it was a mentally deranged woman. When I passed through this evening, it's been taken care off.
TravelRe: Beautiful Pictures Of Akwa Ibom At Night by nextdoorpal: 2:22pm On Dec 22, 2021
Ilaumoh:
If am earning anything from anyone in return for projecting my state May God bless you but if am not then May God punish you and family … amen
I now know how sense.less n childish you are Mr./Mrs./Ms. Ilaumoh. What has one's family got to do in buttress in your positions? Like I said earlier, grow up. I won't come down to d level of trading words with you. Never ever bring a person's family into your arguments, whether good or bad. It goes a long way to show how well raised you were. angry
TravelRe: Beautiful Pictures Of Akwa Ibom At Night by nextdoorpal: 10:26am On Dec 17, 2021
Ilaumoh:
Na you matured ebot
Grow up boy/girl. Throwing jabs on forums does not make your 50k more, it's still 50k. Errand boy/girl keep doing your masters bidding, it's only for a short time. I repeat power is transient, your eyes 'll clear off soon. Meanwhile be good!
TravelRe: Beautiful Pictures Of Akwa Ibom At Night by nextdoorpal: 10:33pm On Dec 16, 2021
Ilaumoh:
Well the both of you are entitled to your foolishness
Thank you Mr./ Ms./Mrs. Ilaumoh!

A lil advice, learn to pass your message without insults. That goes a long way to ascertain your maturity. Good night!
TravelRe: Beautiful Pictures Of Akwa Ibom At Night by nextdoorpal: 9:45am On Dec 16, 2021
Alwayshungry:
Osondu aherika and aniekeme finbar..
Ilaumoh and co.
Are just working for their daily bread so there is no need bandying words with them.
Am from Uyo.
Lived all my growing days in akwa ibom.
Infact I watched akwa ibom in 1998 grow from a state where motorcycles,bycycles and old cars were the means of transportation.
Until democracy came and things started to brighten up when victor attach started a policy of indigenous contractors.
People started building houses,buying pleasure cars etc.
The major source of income of most akwa ibom guys comes from politics.
Either they become a councilor or supervisor or a house member etc.
No business except a few.
I have been around almost all the guys that are the supposed big guys now in d state.
Bassey Albert, onofiok Luke,akan udofia,
Scot tommey etc.
Infact we were even in school together.
Micheal bush was a senior guy then with his fifty question game show.
The pace of development in akwa ibom is just frustrating and damn annoying.
But I pray we change our mentality of subservient and aim higher.
Christmas light or tree or wherever is never an achievement.
I could remember when victor antai was made a commissioner of culture and he introduced Christmas made in akwa Ibom.
All those were just a seasonal illusion to ease off stress and cast a feeling of false utopia on d common man.
Ilaumoh, be open to criticism and learn.
I don't know you from ur moniker but I believe that if I see u I might know u and u might know me.
Stop profiling us akwa ibomite as fools on social media.
This is the best response I've read to Ilaumoh, we'll he''s doing his job which is to hoodwink the gullible n make everybody clap n say all is well in AKS. There is so much hunger in the state, poverty is personalized n walking on both feet cos of how the government has emasculated the citizenry.
TravelRe: Beautiful Pictures Of Akwa Ibom At Night by nextdoorpal: 9:37am On Dec 16, 2021
Ilaumoh:
There are more to policies for state or nation growth than money's ok
Like the famed dakkada policy or philosophy that is yet to allow the youths of AKS to stand but for a select few? Please what policies are we talking, prior to chastising the centre, implement laudable policies within the state first. Or is it the secret recruitment in the state civil service based on a man know man policy. A governor we all thought will make merit his watch word n not let the conventional misnomer of the past continue. Howbeit, it is well, it's only for a short time Sir. Power is transient!
TravelRe: Beautiful Pictures Of Akwa Ibom At Night by nextdoorpal: 1:29am On Dec 16, 2021
Cognitivereason:
Well my comment is for those who can reason...

Akwa ibom is the second highest revenue generator after Lagos...but it doesn't reflect on the people or state...it only reflect on their airline, towers and 5 star hotel...

Akwa ibom is not an economically vibrant state that why there is so much poverty there...it not by Christmas light on roads or airline..give people work
Bless you Sir/Ma'am
TravelRe: Beautiful Pictures Of Akwa Ibom At Night by nextdoorpal: 1:26am On Dec 16, 2021
Ilaumoh:
May God bless you .. I think he is forgetting that this central government we are practicing is killing some visionary states from reaching their height
A central government that has given over #171billion to the state in the course of a year that the same state has refuse to account for to its citizenry? Lest we forget to remove the speck from our own eyes n play the blame game, there's so much hunger n unemployment in the land. All this shenanigans may work for a few but most of us have outgrown it n we won't saying it as it is. Sign the AKYDF Bill n let's see the impact or make the science park a reality n let this sort of poverty in d midst of plenty slowly ebb away
PoliticsRe: Chinese Investors Acquire 120 Hectares Of Land In Akwa Ibom For Hendai City by nextdoorpal: 7:43pm On Nov 15, 2021
Ilaumoh:
Even after my humble advice you are still sounding like eboti
Thank you n bless you Sir!
PoliticsRe: Chinese Investors Acquire 120 Hectares Of Land In Akwa Ibom For Hendai City by nextdoorpal: 7:07am On Nov 15, 2021
Ilaumoh:
They try read to comprehension ok. So you won't sound daft next time ok
Could you learn to pass your point without insults Mr. Ilaumoh, well I know it's what you're paid to do, white wash the public with loads of make good or feel good vibes. Please keep doing your job Sir. Top of the day to you Sir then
PoliticsRe: Chinese Investors Acquire 120 Hectares Of Land In Akwa Ibom For Hendai City by nextdoorpal: 11:11pm On Nov 14, 2021
Another white elephant project in the offing
EducationRe: Please Share With Us The Year You Wrote Your Ssce Examination by nextdoorpal: 10:14pm On Nov 08, 2021
Michelle55:
Shebi na trouble wey big pass you.. You wan dey find bah
You and that ya friend should leave me and my weac alone biko.

FYI, Ayam over 40+ smiley so the date matched tongue
Over 40''s will entail writing WAEC in d 90's not late 80's. Late 80's should infer 50's or you wrote when you were 10 thereabout huh
PoliticsRe: The Military Ranks Of Past Heads Of State In Nigeria Before They Assumed Power by nextdoorpal: 1:18pm On Nov 05, 2021
@OP I can't seem to find Colonel listed amongst the ranks you highlighted thus far huh
InvestmentRe: Giveaway N200k, N300k And N500k by nextdoorpal: 2:26pm On Oct 30, 2021
Philantropists:
I am looking for persons who are in need to grow their business and need cash.

I have allocated the sum of N200k, N300k and N500k. The sum can be increased depending on the scale of the business and growth potential. This is a real business opportunity for you.

Mention me with your plan towards the money. State clearly how you will run and grow the business, mentioning how much the business could be worth in 3 months from now.
I must first commend the kind gesture Sir/Ma'am, it's worthy of the name philanthropist.
Well thus far I've done some feasibility study within my neighbourhood and realised most persons have to go a distance of say about a kilometer or two away to grind em stuffs. With a kiosk well setup and neatly catered to with sanitary hygiene conditions I believe prior to the three months mark, the business will break even as from my feasibility studies with machineries in place a daily working capital of at most a thousand naira to buy fuel for use during the whole day to grind things, it'll yield it's expected returns. Moreover with the yuletide approaching I intend dehusking our local paddy rice to aid meet the demand then by buying bags of it and with a special fabricated machine that can aid with the process, I intend using the craze and rave for rice within the period to yield profits though not in an extortionist way but in little trickles(consistency is key with a huge demand and turnover). I believe with the above and envisaged Return On investment in 3months, the grant or should I say loan would yield appreciable returns to aid it's servicing. Thank you and top of the day to you Sir/Ma'am!
RomanceRe: Facebook: Why Do Guys Send A Girl A Friend Request And Then Cancel It? by nextdoorpal: 9:48am On Oct 29, 2021
When I send a request n it's kept pending for more than a month or two, I deem myself a nuisance and cancel same if I take cognizance it's not been approved. I barely even chat or message on the platform thus prior to sending you a request, you've got to be an acquaintance.
RomanceRe: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by nextdoorpal: 7:41am On Oct 22, 2021
UyaiIncomparabl:
When people say their partner cheated on them, I usually cannot relate. I have been with very upright men.
Lucky you, well I can infer you may have a nice disposition to living coupled with a good inherent character...
Most men oft look out for this the most in em partner, more so coupled with your beauty, why won't they do right by you. wink
HealthRe: Udom Revives 117-Year-Old Akwa Ibom Hospital by nextdoorpal: 5:01pm On Oct 14, 2021
[quote author= post=106726864]Very very good development.

A better Nigeria all around is all we want.

God bless the Guv'.

God bless Akwa-Ibom.

God bless Nigeria.

We Rise.

A Picture speaks more than a thousand words.

#WeDidOurPart@MANNA
[/quote]Mannabbqgrils afo ado enyin AKS? Wow!
Resident or indigent?
Nairaland GeneralRe: Corruption At Nirsal by nextdoorpal: 2:30pm On Aug 23, 2021
Chai, our money ooooh. Jixox, see thiefery shocked
GamingRe: A Nigeria Company Demenson Just Launch Nigeria Football Leagues On Game Console. by nextdoorpal: 9:06am On Jul 21, 2021
Way to go! This is nice, supporting, building n propagating our own. I'm really proud of this feat, thumbs up guys. The sky is only a pedestal towards greater feats.
RomanceRe: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by nextdoorpal: 9:10am On Jul 19, 2021
OP, one word for you Sir - RUN! I've been here n believe me, this lady has got a lot underneath her sleeves. Now it's still in its early stage n it's not gotten bad, call it quits. In my case one of her lovers called me n the things he told me could make one feel like committing murder. The shenanigans she's got going could eventually take you out of this world oooh. Take caution n let her go, I know it's difficult especially towards a lady you love with all of your being but take it from me, she's got real nasty things going on underneath n the earlier you move on the better!
PoliticsRe: Makinde Sacks SSG, Commissioners, Others by nextdoorpal: 2:05pm On Jun 30, 2021
Your topic is misleading, he sacked the SSG and the entire Exco, yet you still said he spared the secretary to the oyo state government, HOS and DG, due process. Which should we take? huh undecided
PoliticsRe: Udom: Fake Soldiers Arrested In Akwa Ibom Released On Orders From Above by nextdoorpal: 4:22pm On May 13, 2021
Why the propaganda? This news is stale now, this happened last year during the height of the elections and not recently. This is not a recent occurrence, the question should be what measures is the AKSG putting in place to save we it's citizenry from wanton attacks?
CrimeRe: Please Help As Two Nigerian Financial Institution Defrauds An Old Woman's Money by nextdoorpal(op): 7:42am On Apr 29, 2021
Here's First Bank of Nigeria response denying such ever happened.

CrimeRe: Please Help As Two Nigerian Financial Institution Defrauds An Old Woman's Money by nextdoorpal(op): 7:40am On Apr 29, 2021
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CrimeRe: Please Help As Two Nigerian Financial Institution Defrauds An Old Woman's Money by nextdoorpal(op): 7:30am On Apr 29, 2021
Good morning good people of nairaland. Please i've taken cognizance of your response and inputs but wanted to upload virtually everything to buttress my ascertion but sadly I'm having trouble posting others photos detailing my correspondence with the banks, I can't say if i'm just limited to just the above amount of photos, cos as much as I've tried, it's still the same thing.

Please can the moderators aid me out and moreso put this topic in limelight to get the much needed inputs. I appeal to moderators like Lalasticlala, please!
CrimeRe: Please Help As Two Nigerian Financial Institution Defrauds An Old Woman's Money by nextdoorpal(op): 11:43pm On Apr 28, 2021
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CrimeRe: Please Help As Two Nigerian Financial Institution Defrauds An Old Woman's Money by nextdoorpal(op): 11:37pm On Apr 28, 2021
We came home and mum was very restless as this sort of occurrence had never happened to her and she's only heard and read of it. Her blood pressure spiked and it took constant reassurance from me that all will be resolved by the next day to keep her calm. In the morning, around 3am the worst news she wasn't expecting hit her phone and an alert detailing first #500 withdrawn and another detailing #160000 was withdrawn.

She came over to my room, woke me up and we sat up together with me trying to keep her calm till daybreak when we'll go to the bank and ask for explanations. We got to the bank that morning by 8am requesting to see the operations Manager (OPM), I was directed to him and I explained things to him calmly and he sort of acted rudely by briefly explaining that it was an Internet transaction and that my mum may have been careless to have compromised her card details to which I vouched that it can't happen. You'll ask why I said so, I've lived with my mum for a better part of my life and if there's one thing I know about her, it's that she's very meticulous and prudent with regards financial issues. She keeps her dispensing cards in her bag containing all her documents n seldomly goes to it except necessary thereby taking it out to go withdraw her money or sends me to aid her withdraw and immediately returns it there. Despite my trying to explain things to him, he rudely walked away from me as though it's not his business, I kept cool and returned to my mum who was sitted upstairs and made her feel calm. My eldest sister who was once a banker came through to the bank and asked to see the same OPM and he acted non-chalantly saying he had already told me what he thought had happened. My sister went out to the customer care and inquired about the transaction but was only given one leg of the transaction being that sent to my mum and the other part was ignored as though it does not exist. She asked and they declined giving it, we left and she adviced I write their headquaters to which I did, I sent a mail detailing the whole ordeal. I forwarded same letter to consumer protection department of the CBN, Federal consumer protection agency and First Bank Nigeria. Guaranty replied saying the complaint had been noted (i'll do well to attach the mails subsequently at the end).

Please note at no point did my mum ask someone to aid her operate the machine, she's conversant with the dynamics therein and does so with ease cos that's the next excuse the bank made.

We consulted a lawyer who said we should sue, he wrote them demanding explanations and till date her parent bank has not replied, rather First Bank replied a week afterwards 15th of February to be precise denying this event ever occurred at their premises nor dI'd they trap any card. To say we were shocked is an understatement, I was bewildered and amazed at such blatant denial. My mums blood pressure spiked, she couldn't eat no more and lost lots love weight, it took lots of reassurance from we her kids to convince her to aid us remedy her health status. I had promised her, I'll get to the root of this matter and retrieve her money which made her calm after some days.
The lawyer asked us to await GTBanks response to which till date, they've acted nonchalantly as though I never mailed nor did my lawyer serve them. I'm still at a loss on what to do thus my coming to this prestigious platform to seek opinion and knowledge on what to do since nobody is a monopoly of knowledge.

Attached beneath will be screen shots of the fraud perpetrated by this two on my mother.
Thank you all for your envisaged help and guidance through this while I hopefully intend to use your advice to remedy the situation and sustain a fragile old woman who has been unfairly treated by institutions she placed her trust in.

CrimePlease Help As Two Nigerian Financial Institution Defrauds An Old Woman's Money by nextdoorpal(op): 4:04pm On Apr 28, 2021
Compliments of the day everybody reading this. Please I need help thus my having to create this post, it has to do with a wrong accorded my mum by two financial institutions in Nigeria named First Bank of Nigeria and Guaranty Trust Bank. Please forgive me as its quite a long read and i'm hopeful of summising it within a few paragraphs please. This incident occurred on 2nd February 2021. My mum is a retired civil servant who went to withdraw money sent by my elder sister on the 1st of February 2021. My mum went to the bank on the morning of 2nd February 2021 to withdraw money to aid her go purchase some building materials and upon getting to the bank(First Bank Nigeria, Aka Road, Uyo) she inserted her card into the machine slot, tried withdrawing #20000 initially but the machine didn't dispense, she tried a second time, the machine still didn't dispense. She ejected her card and inserted it again, tried again, the machine whirled and stopped but didn't pay, the person behind her asked her to reduce her sum probably it would pay her. She inputted #10000 and the machine whirled, stopped and trapped her card. All this occurring within 8:00 -8:05am, she rushed into the banking hall and was referred to her parent bank (GTBank), that she can't be given the card but for her parent bank writing and requesting same from them.

To this end, she hurriedly left for GTBANK Abak Road, Uyo only to be told they were working out from their other branch located at Udo Udomma Avenue. She still made her way down there and laid her complaint and was told her card has been blocked. Meanwhile in the same stead I was home when I got a mail from GTBank detailing #500 was about to be withdrawn and if I didn't authorize the transaction, I should dial.a certain code, write them or visit any of their branches to block it from occurring, few seconds afterwards another mail came through detailing #160000 was about to be withdrawn from the account and if I didn't authorize it, I should contact them. Please note, my mum is not tech savvy thus upon her opening this account, I had accompanied her to the bank to aid her open it and the bank had requested for a phone number and mail address to attach to the account- we used her mobile number and I gave my mail since she doesn't own one. This informed my knowing the transaction occurring real time on the said day.

My mum came home subsequently around few minutes to noon on that very day and told me what occurred, I then told her a mail was sent to me detailing #160500 was withdrawn. She asked me to accompany her back to the bank, that the bank had told her all transactions on the account had been stopped. I dressed up and accompanied her there, upon getting there she lodged a complaint and explained what I told her to the banking personnel she had met earlier and the person told her that the money had already been taken as at when the ATM was still in the machine. He advised us to come back the next day as they were investigating the transaction, I subsequently asked my mum to go get her account statement to which she did but was only given from the beginning of the year till the 1st of February 2021. They declined giving her details till 2nd of February 2021 with their excuse being that the account was being investigated to know what transpired earlier. We took the statement and left with hopes of coming back the next day.

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