₦airaland Forum

dasparrow: I know of a Nigerian lady who married at 40 years old. She just had a bouncing baby boy 6 months ago at 44 years old. Luckily for her, she lives in the United States, she did not have to face the obnoxious societal pressure like ladies who sadly are stuck in Nigeria; and the lady in question is HAPPILY married to a JAMAICAN brother who worships the ground she walks on.

My first cousin was married for over 14 years. She and her husband have been believeing God for children. This cousin of mine is 48 years old now. Everyone wrote her off that she would never have children. Living in a wicked and sadist country like Nigeria, people made fun of her. But God silenced her critics. Five months ago, she gave birth to QUADRUPLETS. 3 HEALTHY bouncing baby boys and a bouncing baby girl in Abuja. They had the naming ceremony not too long ago. Who would have thought that a 48 year old women will bring 4 healthy babies into this world at once?

GOD has a way of silencing Nigerian naysayers like you. Shalom!

there is time for everytin, if you buy your first car at 50, it cant be the same as buyin at 27

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i will pay 2500, cash

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Sweetlemon: I'm 28 yrs too, my two sisters and MOST of my friends are married with kids. I keep fantasising about my dream wedding dress (cos I'm a very fashionable gal) I also wonder whether my kids will be as cute as my sisters' BUT I'm NOT desperate! In fact, I still kick any guy who doesn't give me my due respect right in the a.s.s and outta my life! I have promised myself that the day I'm gonna walk down the asile, it will be with a guy who has good prospects, a good heart, and the fear of God. NOTHING LESS! chikena!

when you reach 35, sermon go change

StateOfMind: You guys should quit this immature whining! Give your advise and let the Op select and chose whatever advice suits her.

You keep screaming these people are pro-divorce ,but I hardly see them advocate divorce. Or is divorce the only thing you can infer from standing up for yourself, don't let anyone shatter your self -esteem?? Y'all can't share the same opinion, so please stop all these 'take my advice' don't listen to the others. Its not some sort of competition, is it?. At the end of the day the poster \ observers pick the ones that suit them.

Ps- I'm not new here. Been a guest for years.

i will pass cos you obviously havent been reading their comments

davidylan: Your posts are generally dumb to be honest. Nigerian marriages are not the only ones with weak women who put up with abusive husbands.

bros, i tire for the babe, sometimes i feel she does it on purpose

queensmith: There can be happiness and love in a marriage where the husband is rude and abusive? Nigerian style happiness she? The one that involves suffering and smiling. Well done.

She doesnt need to analyse anything ,it went wrong when her husband started to moan. If something was wrong he should simply say and they will resolve it. He's a grown man and not a child, he has lost respect for his wife and thats what needs to be regained. It wont get any better if she's adamant to staying in a situation where she is being treated badly. She recognises her options and is willing to take them. Thats a woman that will truly be happy and not maintain false confidence from the delusion of being in a happy marriage!

shutup and stop talkin like a 15yr old, the man didnt just change over nite(nobody does), she just needs to figure out the problem and make adjustment, a real woman works on her mariage to make it work not jumpin from one husband to anoda in d name of happiness.

agiboma: I agree with you nothing is more important than communication, dedication to one's marriage and family. OP you are the one that will tear this family apart and leave your kids wondering where there daddy is. Dont do it, divorce is not a good thing for young children, I grew up fatherless and can really appreciate the values/benefits of growing up in a 2 parent home. Dont deny your children this!
@neyostica if you become a regular in the family section you'll begin to know the viewpoints of the regular posters, aka the divorce club, and yes they generally dont like anyone that disagrees with them

i already know them, debrief, jennykadry, queensmith n co, i just pity any lady that listens to their fuckkdup advice. homewreckers

Tgirl4real: David,

I read the part of my post u highlighted again. Are you suggesting in any way that one's spouse should be placed above God?

and how would you please God if you dont please your husband?? smh for girls of this age

@jennykadry, you are a bloody hypocrite, are you tellin us ur husband is perfect?? no flaws why havent you divorced him?

queensmith: i am obviously a slowpoke.

a deluded one at that, if a marriage is making one unhappy what does common sense suggest to you? How is staying in a bad marriage going to improve anybodies life? Dont make me laugh please.

The home breaking bs- if anybody is breaking their home it's the husband, i will be encouraging the husbands folly if I insist the op should remain where she is by all means. You may be an advocator of remaining in a miserable home but it's important to some to have dignity! kmt

like i said, its either you are a teen or she-devil or stupeed. what makes you think the problem op is having cant be fixed? there was happiness and love before in their relatnshp which can be reignited, she knows her husband better, all she has to do is analize the relatnshp and see where it all went wrong.

Well i prefer a virgin

Op, i can help you with somethings that will attract men to you

Smith, will you just shu.t up, what kind of stupeed hapiness will she get if she leaves ha man? do u profit from breakin homes or r u just a she-devil?? I wanna believe u r a teen, odawise u nid to av ur head checked

this arsenal just dey vex person, make i go watch jerry springer jor

what is ramsey doin on the pitch for Godsake

@ronke pls what will you do o

^^^^Well she will have to put up with it or leave cos i probably av a record low libido

Op, divorce him, dont die in d name of mariage, life is too short, find sometin that will make u happy or find anoda man

peaceheartt: [/b]

knowledge4 i beg, u are very wrong here, a matured and responsible man will never raise his hand on his partner, NO MATTER WHAT

A responsible woman will not raise her voice against her man

@safo will you give her the hapiness? After 3kids, u r a wickd man.
@op if u divorce him, then u have failed, find a way to fix it

kemmeye: you need help asap i mean who writes like that. weirdo

kemmeye: ok so you're a creep why are you suddenly picking a fight did you go off your meds or did someone stab you in the balls? stop acting like a freaking stalker afterall you did ask me a question i didnt know you were insane i would have left you alone. I know a shrink i can refer you to cuz you sure as hell need one i mean whats wrong with you?

p.s while you are at it go back to middle school or something and learn ENGLISH

you give foul tongue, absent thought, with no course

kemmeye: *sigh* you're acting like a kid and i have no time for that crap.

still tongue or see it parted from fuckin mouth

kemmeye: and you think yours has meaning?

jupiter c0ck

kemmeye: *shrugs* idk am i?

your words absent meaning

kemmeye: i can be whatever you want me to be

i believe you are female hence your comments

kemeye, are you male or female?