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Adebisi0070:
I stay in KUBWA in ABJ, i'm into selling of charcoal which i'm using to feed well with my family.. I'm also into transportation business..
Charcoal is a very lucrative business sir, i buy from kaduna at 2800 and sell at 4200 making about 1200 per bag
in a week i supply upto 40bags...
1200×40=48000 profit
If you're serious about coming to abj, we can partner sir, my plan is to grow the business and there is something we will do together, i'm also married with a child... I wish you all the best, Abj will favour you

Mikeeytools:
OP what's your particular state?

Portlouis:
Be careful of scammers here disguising as advisers o .

Naija hot now and nobody send each other especially when it comes to money matters.

Wodu89:
Discuss with me on WhatsApp

tomi4life:
I am 35 and my wife is 29, we have been married for 6 years now, we have 2 children a boy and a girl. We didnt court much during our courtship because of long distance.

I really have a problem with my wife and not sure what can be done to address, now I must be very honest am not sure there is anything I can do I just want to use the platform to vent my frustration.

My marriage has not been very good, lately myself and my wife leave like room mates and not lovers, despite the age difference between me and my wife she doesnt really respect me. For the 6 years we have been in marriage 3 things have caused all our fights: cooking, Sex and finance

My wife rarely cooks in the house, things around welfare are not taken seriously, actually in a week, my wife can cook for me just 1 time. She cooks for the children and baths for them daily, we also have a help who does alot of cooking. She rarely askes me what I will eat, honestly I always have to go to the kitchen to sort myself, sometimes I buy food outside from eateries and bucker. Sometimes when she cooks it usually very late 10pm. I have complained severally and what happen is she tries to change, after a week, we are back to the same state. My wife can do without cooking for me for weeks. It really really pains me cos am a foody and I knw hw my mum treats matters of food. she is this person that forms busy, either she is busy with work or some church activities, she always has an excuse. She goes to work only ones a weeks the remaining 4days are remote. To address this issue I now order soups from major restaurant outlets, An example is today easter sunday, I had to tell our maid to prepare rice for myself and the kids, cos my wife was in church, we all went to church but she decided to stay back, knowing fully well no food was prepared.

Sex: [/b]our sex life is very boring, when we got married we always fight about sex, cos anytime I ask for it she always complain she is tired, so what I now do is ask for it only sat morning, brethen this is only day I get sex. If I miss that day, it is still next week. We sleep in different rooms, she sleeps with the children in the master bedroom while I sleep alone in another room. I can tell most time she doesnt enjoy it and never ever askes for it, I always ask and initiate it. She just lays like a log, even kisses is a no no, except she is really on, which rarely happens.
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Finance: I have always earned more than my wife, when we got married, I was earning 3 times what she was earning, but she changed jobs and got promoted severally and we were earning the same amount. she also does alot of side runs where she gets 200-300k monthly as side hustle, there was even a time she was earning more than I did. I dint let it bother me I continue to foot the entire house bills. 95% of the enitre house of comes from me, she only pays the maid , buys cooking gas and my sons diaper. Every other thing in the house is covered by me, house rent, school fees, project, all the bills. I give her 75k as food money monthly. I have continue to question her why I should give her food moeny if I still have to end up going out to eat. I think the only reason she sometime listens to me is cause i still provide the finances for the house. The time she was earning more I could see how she belittle some of my decisions. I just prayed to God, cos I noticed the respect was gone, when I talk to her about her role as a mum and mother to the home, she says she is working, she is busy, I mentioned to her that the money she works is for her, she doesnt share with the house, I have never asked her for it and am not against her working, she however should not neglect her responsibility as a mum. That my role as a father, God helping me is to provide, and this is why I work. I also noticed when I got a new job and my salary increased she kinda off felt jealous she didnt tell me but i noticed it, she began to aggressively look for jobs.


I really dont think we have that initmacy, we are just there, my wife cant come to tell me anything bothering her, she keeps to herself. Funny part is she is a very religious person, my wife will sleep with bible on her hand, wake up with bible pray and serve in various church unit, I however dont think she really understands what she reads. She also has a very bad temper sometimes when I raise certian issues, the ways she talks sometimes I have to hold back a response if not the whole thing will escalate. There are days I will raise certain issue up, the next things she mentions is " let just dissolve this marriage as it is not working" sometimes , I just refer her to her bible cos the utterances that come out of her mouth makes me doubt her understanding of Christianity.


I have never assaulted her, we have nt had any physically fight, what happens is most times when we have issues, I dont speak to her for days, then she come back apologizing. Sometimes when am wrong I also apologies.

Am not saying am perfect, I know there are areas I can do better, like in the buying off gift, I rarely buy her gift, not cause I cant but Cos she earns well and I believe she should buy whatever she needs with her money my wife earns approximately 800k monthy.


I expect my wife will support me but it like she is stressing me. when we go see my parent or our parent, it is all smiles, they dont knw hw stressful their daughter is, she even forms trying to serve me food and all.

Dont get me wrong she has some good side, but this thing is really getting into me. I dont drink, smoke or womanise, divorce is also not on the table for me.

Wodu89:
Abuja is generally good for supplies. Anything that involves buying and selling is excellent for Abuja. If you're interested in getting one to do riding and repay, I have a business proposition if you can finance and get monthly repayments. Large scale Maize and Cassava Cultivation .. People must chop food

Wodu89:
Abuja is now hot for sales. Let her get a shop and sell. Go into transportation business. When you get there and see with your own eyes, you will understand better

Nice2023:
What do u do for a living,how much do u have and what are ur plans?

I think I can advice u better,if u can answer the above.

The reason for those questions is to guide u better.

Wodu89:
Transport for man

Shop for woman

Zandena:
Yet the foolish Ibos supporting the evil policy thinking is going to help their drunkard candidate win election!
It's now dawn on them that presidency isn't that cheap for a charlatan like Obi .

baralatie:
I thought it was meant to affect tinubu

spearman:
A man who came 3rd in an election is inciting followers to stand behind his “mandate”. What should the man who came 2nd then do? It never takes long for a fake leader to unravel.

Buhari did it in Abia state for Hope Uzodimma, so take a chill pills and chalass ok.



Photos of Nigerians Ibos Listening to Peter Obi's International Press Conference

CodeTemplar:
I accepted transfer out of pressure to do and lose my money but havent seen alert hours later. I have been trying to check my balance but no show until this hour.

I wonder what those blockhead bank IT staffs are doing or maybe it is down to weak infrastructure.

No cash and no network. This policy wasn't done well.