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Re: Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? by annyplenty(m): 12:20pm On Nov 30, 2009
Igbo girls dont marry late. It is Igbo men that marry late relative to other tribes in nigeria.
Re: Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? by DOAweb(m): 12:23pm On Nov 30, 2009
mccloud224:

See this "Britico wanna-be called". Africans/naijas are aggressive but they don't go about stabbing each other senselessly like those in the UK.Ten year gang bangers are totally unheard of.

Na rubbish yeye people like una dey run down your fellow man for there just to look good.Mumu.

All these dense people sef.

Rubbish/.


Mate in common parlance signifies me taking you as a friend and being friendly. Truth be told, you are still exhibiting your aggressive nature and committing 'Fallacy of Hasty Generalization. Need to check your BP and CHILL OUT.

All good mate, I should buy you launch!!
Re: Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? by mccloud224(m): 12:23pm On Nov 30, 2009
gidson12:

@ Mr mccloud224
maybe we all here eat shit Mr Grammarian, wetin be your own sef u smoke
Igboo B4 u come here, Abeg

This is that stupid dumb shit i keep talking about.Wetin bring about all your nonsense questions?You dey talk about igbo?See your picture.Anybody wey look you one time don know say you be weed head.Amugbo oshi.Igbolabi.Ezeigbo.Ezeofia.Ezeawulu.

Rubbish angry
Re: Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? by mccloud224(m): 12:26pm On Nov 30, 2009
DOAweb:


Mate in common parlance signifies me taking you as a friend and being friendly. Truth be told, you are still exhibiting your aggressive nature and committing 'Fallacy of Hasty Generalization. Need to check your BP and CHILL OUT.

All good mate, I should buy you launch!!

Oh! Thank you so much for the reminder.I totally forgot what a big deal "mate" was when i visited the UK 18 months ago on hols.Sweet Jesus man! Get a grib.You can buy me "launch" anytime (either rocket launch or missle launch).
Re: Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? by Shooga27: 12:28pm On Nov 30, 2009
IGBO'S NEED TO CHANGE THEIR ATTITUDE TOWARDS HUGE DEMAND ON BRIDAL PRICE,MY CLOSE FRIEND IN INVOLVE HIMSELF WITH AN IGBOLADY BASED IN US,HE HAD TO RELOCATE TO 9JA TO GET MARRIED WITH D LADY,HE SPENT ALL HIS LIFE SAVINGS ON D WEDDING AT A POINT HE WAS ONNA BACK OUT,HE HAD SLEEPLESS NITE.THANK GOD HIS A FINK OF THE PAST NOW.
 I FOR A PERSON WOULD NEVER, BLOODY WAIST OF TIME.
Re: Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? by DOAweb(m): 12:33pm On Nov 30, 2009
mccloud224:

Oh! Thank you so much for the reminder.I totally forgot what a big deal "mate" was when i visited the UK 18 months ago on hols.Sweet Jesus man! Get  a grib.You can buy me "launch" anytime (either rocket launch or missle launch).



Now I know for a fact, you are a Muppet.
Re: Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? by mccloud224(m): 12:35pm On Nov 30, 2009
Muppet,Skint and all the other dry "curses" for Jand end for Heathrow. . .Okponu
Re: Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? by DOAweb(m): 12:42pm On Nov 30, 2009
mccloud224:

Muppet,Skint and all the other dry "curses" for Jand end for Heathrow. . .Okponu


Okponu, Mumu and all your filthy words. Sort yourself out - you have 'A Chip On Your Shoulder'.
Re: Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? by mrperfect(m): 12:46pm On Nov 30, 2009
Why this type of thread? how can you ask a sensitive question like this without a statistics to validate your point?
Re: Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? by gidson12(m): 12:48pm On Nov 30, 2009
hey boy(mccloud224 DOAweb) and i gat already prepared place 4 both u
just visit here https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-337066.0.html, very beautiful place
u can go there and settle ur diffrences or continue ur war there
this is not the place 4 it
Re: Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? by mccloud224(m): 12:49pm On Nov 30, 2009
Okponu, Mumu and all your filthy words. Sort yourself out - you have 'A Chip On Your Shoulder'.

I hope your English coach took the time to inform you that having "a chip on your shoulder" is actually a good thing. . .lol

Sweet Jesus man. . .take a weed break with Gibson12 and smoke something big enough to go into the Guiness book of Records.

lol

Might do you both some good.
Re: Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? by mccloud224(m): 12:51pm On Nov 30, 2009
gidson12:

hey boy(mccloud224 DOAweb) and i gat already prepared place 4 both u
just visit here https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-337066.0.html, very beautiful place
u can go there and settle your diffrences or continue your war there
this is not the place 4 it

See this Igbolabi.Na who be "hey boy"?I be your bros (untrained weed smoking pikin).
Re: Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? by mccloud224(m): 12:53pm On Nov 30, 2009
Stay on that thread and don't bring your insults here.You can insult your type there. . .rubbish untrained mannerless small boy wey you be


Rubbish. angry
Re: Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? by DOAweb(m): 12:59pm On Nov 30, 2009
mccloud224:

I hope your English coach took the time to inform you that having "a chip on your shoulder" is actually a good thing. . .lol

Sweet Jesus man. . .take a weed break with Gibson12 and smoke something big enough to go into the Guiness book of Records.

lol

Might do you both some good.


What more can I say, you need to read up  - http://www.goenglish.com/AChipOnYourShoulder.asp
                                                                       http://dictionary.cambridge.org/define.asp?key=13185&dict=CALD
                                                                       http://www.usingenglish.com/reference/idioms/chip+on+your+shoulder.html
Re: Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? by princekevo(m): 1:01pm On Nov 30, 2009
It seem NL is lacking front page topics, that is why such a useless, sensless and non-educative threads makes it to front page.
@ Seun,
Incase you forget, many people dont have the time to search through all sections on this forum as such depends on the topics there in the front page.
To a visitor on NL will rate the site based on the topics on the front page.
Initially i thought only hot , educative and sensible topics make it to the front pages, but these days even useless threads as this can be on the front page.
Why fowls don't grow teeth? wont be surprised  someday to see such thread on front page.
Re: Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? by Ekhare: 1:03pm On Nov 30, 2009
my people, the dowry for there no be small thing ooo. We got to the village of this so called igbo girl and we were made to pay for everything - okada fare for the elderly person, call to some people, honey, etc. At the end of the day, we end up borrowing money because there was no bank in that particular village. Then i asked myself, are they selling the woman?

They marry late even if they have children that are kept with their parents.
Re: Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? by supereagle(m): 1:08pm On Nov 30, 2009
posted by
And what age is considered late?
30years is considered late for women and 40yrs for men.
A lot of factors are responsible for this:
1. Ibo men marry late and when they about to do that they go for younger ladies ignoring the older ones
2. Bride price is gagantuan in Ibo land especially in Imbaise  in Imo State. The people that did not contribute a kobo to the upbringing of the lady that is about to marry will bring their lists, everybody will be bringing his or her own list.
3. Ndi Igbo ladies factors too: some of the so called Ibo ladies are looking for men that have arrived too, if God leads them to a man they measure in their own thinking that is not up to the standard they av set for themselves. they are ready to ignore the counsel of God for their own ways. I am a living witness to this.
4.Others, some ladies are unfortunate to be called by suitors.
I am a Yoruba man , all my adult life av been spent in Ibo land . I know them in and out.
Re: Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? by gidson12(m): 1:10pm On Nov 30, 2009
@ mccloud224
b4 u do face like fowl yansh u come here come  notice urself, wat the fu ck do u think u are
a Profound mental  retard  who manged to get half dose medication from a psych hospital in one of the low urban
cities of Uk come here come dey show urself, i no  blame u, na d the person way 4get to use condom i blame
Re: Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? by axeman85(m): 1:12pm On Nov 30, 2009
@poster

well am sure the question has been answered on other threads. my own personal opinion,

1:some igbo girls marry late due to the greediness in their family meaning, they want to sell their daughter
2: the family/parents wants their daughter to marry from their town or own tribe which limits their choices.
3: most igbo men want to build houses, buy cars before getting married.
4: the parents are tribalistic and will only allow their daughters to marry an igbo guy, without considering other tribes as well. due to the negative views they have about other tribes.

these factors are personally reasons i believe igbo women marry late and some of them are already clocking late 20s and early 30s and then start looking for spiritual assistance and settle with anyone eventually as long as they are married.

overall some igbo girls marry late because of their families, greediness, selfishness, self centerdness,wickdness all in the name of tribe and culture.
Re: Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? by farochron(m): 1:13pm On Nov 30, 2009
SuperEagle,

I think we are from the same planet
Re: Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? by mccloud224(m): 1:13pm On Nov 30, 2009
@ mccloud224
b4 u do face like fowl yansh u come here come  notice urself, wat the fu ck do u think u are
a Profound mental  retard  who manged to get half dose medication from a psych hospital in one of the low urban
cities of Uk come here come dey show urself, i no  blame u, na d the person way 4get to use condom i blame

For somebody wey dey do "public relations officer" for yabbis thread, you no try at all.You can do better than this now. . .after all, dat cheap igbo wey u smoke suppose give you "inspiration.Keep it coming. . .keep it strong

Useless small untrained igbo smoking pikin wey u be

Rubbish!
Re: Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? by asoderock(m): 1:19pm On Nov 30, 2009
I think it is better to mary late "well informed" than to marry as a juvenille who scarcely had full knowledge of what marriage is all about
Re: Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? by farochron(m): 1:21pm On Nov 30, 2009
axeman85,

You are right to a great extent but there are few others who don't fall into this category.
Re: Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? by gidson12(m): 1:24pm On Nov 30, 2009
@ mccloud224
i was only directing u to where u can yab urself better
if u no be fool why u come come where dem dey discuss something sensible dey insult DOAweb
and the guy tried setting it straight with u but di ck head like u still carry ur mental illness
dey cause nuisance, as i said B4 dem 4 throw way u along with the cheapest condom,
Idiot, this is the last i'll  even want to talk to a mouth gushing  slowpoke like u
Re: Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? by Nobody: 1:25pm On Nov 30, 2009
Yeah i noticed a lot of them marry 'late' of whatever some of u guys see as late. Better marry 'late' than have four kids from four different men at 23 like some girls from some other tribes (aint gonna mention them, its anyone's guess). LMAO!!
Re: Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? by axeman85(m): 1:25pm On Nov 30, 2009
farochron:

axeman85,

You are right to a great extent but there are few others who don't fall into this category.

well thats why i said personally as also i am involved in one at the minute so i know what i am talking about. i am yourba she is igbo from anambra, reasons are parents are saying is that different tribes and from a broken home which isnt a valid reason, as there are just being self centred and thinking about themselves.
this is a girl willing to settle down with me and am prepared she is 23+ going 24 next year so only God knows for how long the parents will keep dragging the issue before backing down. meaning if they back dwon eventually she will be about 25 or 26 although am in no rush either.
Re: Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? by farochron(m): 1:27pm On Nov 30, 2009
Asoderock,

I know you may defer on this. I agree with you but with some reservations. What of the age thing. Won't the guy have been too old by the child the child finishes school. Some may no longer be around making the woman now a widow. Then the fertility thing and so many other factors that go with age. This is what is affecting our football teams. You may prove me wrong if you defer on this.

This is becoming interesting. Please I want ladies to contribute too.
Re: Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? by yme1(f): 1:28pm On Nov 30, 2009
marraige is not what you can jump in and out of, so you do some deep thinking before saying i do
Re: Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? by lysaa(f): 1:29pm On Nov 30, 2009
na wah o. IBK u still dey this world? wink
Re: Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? by mccloud224(m): 1:30pm On Nov 30, 2009
@mumugibson

@ mccloud224
i was only directing u to where u can yab urself better
if u no be fool why u come come where dem dey discuss something sensible dey insult DOAweb
and the guy tried setting it straight with u but di ck head like u still carry your mental illness
dey cause nuisance, as i said B4 dem 4 throw way u along with the cheapest condom,
Idiot, this is the last i'll  even want to talk to a mouth gushing  slowpoke like u

Mumu, try read the previous posts.Any sensible person go see the humor wey dey there.Na only skunk igbo smoking small boy like you go open your dustbin mouth begin talk rubbish

Idiot!
Re: Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? by farochron(m): 1:30pm On Nov 30, 2009
y me,

Till when do you do that thinking is the question that we are all trying to answer. from your own point of view when exactly do you think a guy or lady should quit the thinking?
Re: Most Igbo Girls Marry Late Why? by mccloud224(m): 1:32pm On Nov 30, 2009
@Gibmumuson

Amugbo oshi.Igbolabi.Ezeigbo.Ezeofia.Abokigbo.

Useless pikin wey u be.

Rubbish!

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