Sagamite:

For you defying me, you will be the one carrying the Calabash on your head on the way to the bush tonight.

So you don't like Lil Wayne?

Lol had to google that, resembles an hour glass pear

Lil Wayne? Nothing against the gentleman

1) Intelligence
2) Confidence
3) Fashion/Dress sense
4) Good Looks
5) Height
6) Power/influence
7) Wealth/affluence - Not fussy abt this as long as he has a decent job

TOPE2000!:

1) Intelligence
2) Confidence
3) Fashion/Dress sense
4) Good Looks
5) Height
6) Power/influence
7) Wealth/affluence - Not fussy abt this as long as he has a decent job

Sister? Fashion sense? over good looks
And why is Power ranked so low?
Does anybody understand the power of connections?

platinumnk:

Sister? Fashion sense? over good looks 
And why is Power ranked so low?
Does anybody understand the power of connections?

Honey. . . .Diddy aint all that but dude can dress. . . . .no? because of that only the dude looks good to me
I am a sucka for a guy that talks PRADA

Men with power are usually controlling and arrogant darl. its gud but errrmmm i have always preferred a quiet life

TOPE2000!:

Men with power are usually controlling and arrogant darl. its gud but errrmmm i have always preferred a quiet life

Obama
Mandela
Owens Wiwa
Prince William
Prince Harry
Kanu
Desmond Tutu
Tony Blair
Wole Soyinka

Sagamite:

Obama
Mandela
Owens Wiwa
Prince William
Prince Harry
Kanu
Desmond Tutu
Tony Blair
Wole Soyinka

Now why u gotta mention the gud ones. . . . . altho we really dont knw their true character. they might be nice just for the cameras, ya knw


Nah, like i said i actually kinda prefer a quiet life.
maybe i can marry a guy with power but with our lives not in the media BS.

TOPE2000!:

Honey. . . .Diddy aint all that but dude can dress. . . . .no? because of that only the dude looks good to me
I am a sucka for a guy that talks PRADA

Men with power are usually controlling and arrogant darl. its gud but errrmmm i have always preferred a quiet life

To me Diddy looks and is a gay. The Clothes come off at night, are you banging his shirts?  
I admit a well dress amps his looks , but I can always dress up a man, he  must look good first

Men with power arent just people like Obama, they can run in leagues with Govermental positions, and basically is connected to a well know number of people.
Nigerians are usually controlling and arrogant, lol , but not every dude in that has influence does.
And not alll men well connected are in the spotlight.
Ive seen a normal school teacher move up to Vice president of the school system by the power of her connections.
How do you think Nigeria is run? By actual SMART people? TA!
Its about who you know

TOPE2000!:

Now why u gotta mention the gud ones. . . . . altho we really dont knw their true character. they might be nice just for the cameras, ya knw


Nah, like i said i actually kinda prefer a quiet life.
maybe i can marry a guy with power but with our lives not in the media BS.

Actually, those are the extreme cases of power.

When I included it, it was meant more in the line of "Leaders of Men" - basically guys that other guys, in their group of friends or at work, respect their position and opinions. So it does not have to go that far as in world wide known except you are attracted to it that much.

It can be just localised, whereby the guy has so much influence based on his utterances, demeanor, background and political play in social settings that he quickly always achieve an implicit leadership position within groups and amiably/assertively gets everyone else to do what he wants them to do, that everyone else feel they must please, that everyone looks to for guidance and/or seek his approval to validate their own opinions.

I think girls find that attractive.

It is different from confidence as that is an internal thing (how you feel about yourself). This is external (what effect you have on others especially without money being involved).

Sagamite:

Actually, those are the extreme cases of power.

When I included it, it was meant more in the line of "Leaders of Men" - basically guys that other guys, in their group of friends or at work, respect their position and opinions. So it does not have to go that far as in world wide known except you are attracted to it that much.

It can be just localised, whereby the guy has so much influence based on his utterances, demeanor, background and political play in any social environment that he quickly always achieve an implicit leadership position within groups that everyone else feel they must please.

Exactly what I meant.
Im not looking to marry Fidel Castro, but a well connected man, shoot, despite being pulled over and issued citations; I have never paid a Speeding ticket and its more than that, just an example.

platinumnk:

To me Diddy looks and is a gay. The Clothes come off at night, are you banging his shirts?  

Gay or no gay, dude can DRESS
Honey i have past the age where i only date dude cuz he is handsome darl . . . . . as long as he is presentable / good  looking with a good body, no pot belly n all that rubbish. . . . .  I AM FINE
I want more in a man than just good looks now babe, i aint 20 no more

Men with power arent just people like Obama, they can run in leagues with Govermental positions, and basically is connected to a well know number of people.
Nigerians are usually controlling and arrogant, lol , but not every dude in that has influence does.
And not alll men well connected are in the spotlight.
Ive seen a normal school teacher move up to Vice president of the school system by the power of her connections.
How do you think Nigeria is run? By actual SMART people? TA!
Its about who you know

Well like i said, i prefer a quiet life, i dont mind marry a guy with power but i dont want my life to be monitored by media . . .which was why power isnt in my top 5.

Sagamite:

Actually, those are the extreme cases of power.

When I included it, it was meant more in the line of "Leaders of Men" - basically guys that other guys, in their group of friends or at work, respect their position and opinions. So it does not have to go that far as in world wide known except you are attracted to it that much.

It can be just localised, whereby the guy has so much influence based on his utterances, demeanor, background and political play in any social environment that he quickly always achieve an implicit leadership position within groups and gets everyone else to do what he wants them to do and that everyone else feel they must please.

I think girls find that attractive.

It is different from confidence as that is an internal thing (how you feel about yourself). This is external (what effect you have on others especially without money being involved).

Ohhhhhhhhhh . . . well now i get it.
well atleast i still choose power, some didnt

TOPE2000!:

Gay or no gay, dude can DRESS
Honey i have past the age where i only date dude cuz he is handsome darl . . . . . as long as his presentable / good looking with a good body. . . . . I AM FINE
I want more in a man than just good looks now babe, i aint 20 no more


Well like i said, i prefer a quiet life, i dont mind marry a guy with power but i dont want my life to be monitored by media . . .which was why power isnt in my top 5.

Diddy is a flaming homo
Good looks is fourth down on my list.
Its not a priority, but damm it I want my kids to look cute!
If you married a TOP ranking CIA agent, your life wont be monitored by the media

CIA agent?? That is even worse

TOPE2000!:

CIA agent?? That is even worse

but u wont be tracked by the media

Yea , but we can be targets

TOPE2000!:

Gay or no gay, dude can DRESS
Honey i have past the age where i only date dude cuz he is handsome darl . . . . . as long as he is presentable / good  looking with a good body, no pot belly n all that rubbish. . . . .  I AM FINE
I want more in a man than just good looks now babe, i aint 20 no more

Hehehehe.

When I started it, I expected different sets of answers based on how I had mentally grouped the girls (based on life stages).

I was expecting Height, Good Looks and Confidence to be more prominent amongst the very young ladies like Ibkaye, chiogo, Thoniaslim etc. And Intelligence, Confidence and Wealth for girls of your group.

Sagamite:

Hehehehe.

When I started it, I expected different sets of answers based on how I had mentally grouped the girls (based on life stages).

I was expecting Height, Good Looks and Confidence to be more prominent amongst the very young ladies like Ibkaye, chiogo, Thoniaslim etc. And Intelligence, Confident and Wealth for girls of your group.

Whaddaya mean? are u callin me OLD?
lOL. goodlooks dont even trip me that much anymre . . . . i still like a good body tho
now wealth . . . . . are we abt talking new money or old money. i prefer new money
guys with old money are usually pressured by their parents to marry a girl whose parent are rich too. i dont need that drama

I'm sorry but, 25 isn't really what I'd classify as young, I'm just saying  

ibkaye:

I'm sorry but, 25 isn't really what I'd classify as young, I'm just saying

so are u saying someone like me who is 30 is really OLD? lol

TOPE2000!:


Whaddaya mean? are u callin me OLD?
lOL. goodlooks dont even trip me that much anymre . . . . i still like a good body tho
now wealth . . . . . are we talking talking new money or old money. i prefer new money

I am calling you vintage wine. ^{Covers face in anticipation of a slap}  

Yep, new money shows you are a real man and gives you entitlement to have mouth.

ibkaye:

I'm sorry but, 25 isn't really what I'd classify as young, I'm just saying  

Shut up!   You buy 25 years for market?  

TOPE2000!:


so are u saying someone like me who is 30 is really OLD? lol

Of course not  

Sagamite:

Shut up!   You buy 25 years for market?  

Alright, 28

Sagamite:

I am calling you vintage wine. ^{Covers face in anticipation of a slap}  

Yep, new money shows you are a real man and gives you entitlement to have mouth.

_{slapping sagamite left,right n centre}

dont dig guys with old money

ibkaye:

Of course not

Better . I dont think anybody below the age of 35 shud be considered old at all.

ibkaye:

Of course not  
Alright, 28  

You be thief? Which kin 28?  

And you don't know what a Calabash is?

If you are over 22, you for don carry concursion in Calabash into the thick forest at least once to appease you ancestors. Wa ti je ebo (You would have eaten voodoo portion).  

Sagamite:

You be thief? Which kin 28?  

And you don't know what a Calabash is?

If you are over 22, you for don carry concursion in Calabash into the thick forest at least once to appease you ancestors. Wa ti je ebo (You would have eaten voodoo portion).  

Huh? are u guys saying a 28yrs old person is OLD?
nna i dont think i want another birthday anymre. i want to stay at dis age forever.

TOPE2000!:

Huh? are u guys saying a 28yrs old person is OLD?
nna i dont think i want another birthday anymre.

Na, you are not old to me, until you pass 38 years. Below that, you are still kind of fresh.

TOPE2000!:

Better . I dont think anybody below the age of 35 shud be considered old at all.

Lol you're right

Sagamite:

You be thief? Which kin 28?  

And you don't know what a Calabash is?

If you are over 22, you for don carry concursion in Calabash into the thick forest at least once to appease you ancestors. Wa ti je ebo (You would have eaten voodoo portion).  

Lol

Sagamite:

Na, you are not old to me, until you pass 38 years. Below that, you are still kind of fresh.

38 is pushing it . 35 is just right
to be honest it all dependz on how well u take care of urself n statue

Intelligence
Confidence
Good looks
height
wealth
fashion
power

Sagamite:



Ladies Arrange Order Of Preferred Attributes In Men!
« on: February 27, 2010, 10:57 PM »

Women, arrange the order of importance of the following attributes to you when being attracted to a guy:

- Good Looks (Basically how fine the guy is in regards to face and physique (six packs etc))
- Power/Influence (This is how connected the guy is and how much respect he commands [due to his talent and values]. Don't confuse with wealth, e.g. Obama/Mandela/Ribadu are powerful, not tycoons)
- Height  (How tall is the guy)
- Intelligence (His wit and educational prowess. How he deals with issues. Stimulating conversationalist, mentor and coach.)
- Fashion/Dress sense (How well dressed he always is and his understanding of what is hot or in trend)
- Wealth/Affluence (How rich and successful he is in his career or business)
- Confidence/Swagga (The way he carries himself and approaches you, the air around him of himself but still very respectful)

NB: Assuming all the guys being assessed have (at a minimum) a great personality (they will treat you with respect), are not ugly (even if not fine), are at least 5ft 6inches tall or 1 inch taller than you (whichever is the higher height), degree educated, polished and well-spoken English, clean & neat in their dressing, and make at least £30K/$60K/N5m a year (not broke).

So in what order will you prioritise the individual importance of the 7 attributes above in what would make you attracted to a man?

if i were a boy girl it would be:

1) Wealth/affluence (no be love we go chop)
2) Intelligence
3) Confidence/Swagga
4) Power/influence
5) Good Looks
6) Height
7) Fashion/Dress sense

Anyhow he comes.

But God Fearing first.

Swaga and confidence are not the same
Swaga is shallow, confidence is deep

Guys, i've read all ur posts. Can i add that sexual compatibility is just as important as all the other factors listed.