james-t:

Of course, that's all you can get

ohhh you f off you disgusting arab dude, right now i am being harassed by a paki.

i just feel safer being with my own kind.

I'm so black and don't care if some Taliban or boko is harassing you, just don't make it look like you all that.

james-t:

I'm so black and don't care if some Taliban or boko is harassing you, just don't make it look like you all that.

so liking my own kind only makes me think i am all tht,and u wouldn't who is being harassed by an arab

9jafetish:

so liking my own kind only makes me think i am all tht,and u wouldn't who is being harassed by an arab

you wouldn't help a black women who is being harassed by a arab.

Hi everyone,
Just thought I should get your view on this topic. Am a marketing executive in an energy company and meet a lot of peole including foreigners due to the nature
Of my job. am in a relationship with an arab presently, a lebanese.  
I truly luv him. This man is like the most kind-hearted man on the planet.he's an
Engineer and was born in nigeria. He speak yoruba fluently (though am igbo and teaching him the language
Too. Am learning arabic myself).
Now the issue is that it is popular knowledge that arabs don't
Marry black women. They can be very racist too and some of them see
Black women only as sex objects. My man's friends think this way but my man
Has never given me a reason to to believe that he's a racist. He respects me completely.
But still am worried becos my other arab friends who I have spoken too tell me that an arab marrying
A black woman is almost like a taboo. Is this true?

you are on a very tough road. prepare to face the great challenges ahead even if your bf married you (there chances are he may not). think wise, see beyond this moment,

@9jafetish I'd look out for sistas only if they are being hypnotized but the fact remains that the poster walked in to it with her eyes wide open shut, she should've known better. I enjoy dating other races but at the back of my mind I know there's no future commitment,  of course I never get hurt.

op
d ball is in ur court.

Yes, in arab lands marrying blacks is frowned on, especially when the couple is arab male vs black female. To a lesser extent, i dont think black males marrying arab females is encouraged either but it could still happen though with some disapproval which could be minimized if the man is rich.

In arab lands, black women often can only function as concubines, nothing more. At most, probably a wife of extremely low rank in a polygamous household- if at all.

Arabs overseas however, (especially lebanese) have been known to marry local women in their places of residence but i have no idea how long the marriages last or if the wife and offspring of the union would be accepted should they visit the man's original country.

Just my opinion.

If you are muslim it could probably work out.

We must remember not to generalize on things like this, so you have got to find out from your boyfriend himself. You wont learn anything from Nairaland because every situation is different and it would be a terrible thing to throw away your relationship just because of what someone said on the internet.

unfortunate world we live in best of luck.

Hi everyone,
Just thought I should get your view on this topic. Am a marketing executive in an energy company and meet a lot of peole including foreigners due to the nature
Of my job. am in a relationship with an arab presently, a lebanese.
I truly luv him. This man is like the most kind-hearted man on the planet.he's an
Engineer and was born in nigeria. He speak yoruba fluently (though am igbo and teaching him the language
Too. Am learning arabic myself).
Now the issue is that it is popular knowledge that arabs don't
Marry black women. They can be very racist too and some of them see
Black women only as sex objects. My man's friends think this way but my man
Has never given me a reason to to believe that he's a racist. He respects me completely.
But still am worried becos my other arab friends who I have spoken too tell me that an arab marrying
A black woman is almost like a taboo. Is this true?

Jenny, why would u care of what other people has to say? Why would u let other people decide for u when its your life and not theirs? If you love him and he loves you, you should just stay strong about your relationship.

I know I myself have learn alot of this kinda situation. Im an Asian Chinese, Mongolian malaysian and Im dating a Nigerian. Alot of people have criticized us, mocked us, sabotage us, backstab us and spit on us because of our relationship and even my own family do it but I dont give a sh1t on what they are thinking because this is my life, my decision and my choice and no one can take that freedom away from me. If they die, who will suffer? You will suffer for not making choices of your own and just when you wanted to make decisions and change your life, it might be too late for you.

I would advice you to put your feet down, make it very clear that you are here to stay for the relationship and if you get married and have babies with him, the perception of the other people towards Arabs and African falling in love together will change. Stay strong my dear.

Ms. Potato:

Jenny, why would u care of what other people has to say? Why would u let other people decide for u when its your life and not theirs? If you love him and he loves you, you should just stay strong about your relationship.

I know I myself have learn alot of this kinda situation. Im an Asian Chinese, Mongolian malaysian and Im dating a Nigerian. Alot of people have criticized us, mocked us, sabotage us, backstab us and spit on us because of our relationship and even my own family do it but I dont give a sh1t on what they are thinking because this is my life, my decision and my choice and no one can take that freedom away from me. If they die, who will suffer? You will suffer for not making choices of your own and just when you wanted to make decisions and change your life, it might be too late for you.

I would advice you to put your feet down, make it very clear that you are here to stay for the relationship and if you get married and have babies with him, the perception of the other people towards Arabs and African falling in love together will change. Stay strong my dear.

Good advice. I really hope that things work out for you Jenny. If you have a good solid relationship with this guy, you should sit down & talk to him about all of these things instead of asking a bunch of people that don't know you or the guy. What may work out for one couple may not work out for another & vice versa. Good luck Bleep

U be Igbo girl so better shine ya eye. About Arabs marrying black women I don´t know but I know they are racists cos I work with some of them and I had to make them respect me b4 they actually started talking to me (it took most of 2 bleeping years). They really hate blacks so I don´t see how they will marry from there but ur guy may be the exception. Its actually rare though I have heard it happens, which I haven´t seen. Best you don´t wait 2 find out or else you may cry. If you are happy the way you are then goodluck.

Enjoy the sx. Just make sure he wears coat all the time.`As for your other questions, you'll find out later

Arab men are vile disgusting racist p*ssies! The fact that women fall for their supposed charms only means that these women have low self esteem.
The amount of times I have to avoid middle eastern men is not funny. I had to beat the crap out of a middle eastern man. He was getting mouthy with me and then he throw a punch. So I blocked and countered with a right hook, palm strike and headbutted the a**ehole.
Most women whatever race have no business with middle eastern men!

olas2u: Those people see black people as slaves,you will likely end up a single parent in future,most likely,goodluck

go to hell silly, im a lebanese and let me say somting , lebanese ppl are in general clever and sharp mind, we are simply a mirror !!! we reflect u

if u are good we are good
if a girl is a club girl i deal wt her as club girl
if shes nice hes nice
if shes asha wo he will do her like this


we are simply hard to be fooled and deceived

we do every person as he is in real

jenny2007: Hi everyone,
Just thought I should get your view on this topic. Am a marketing executive in an energy company and meet a lot of peole including foreigners due to the nature
Of my job. am in a relationship with an arab presently, a lebanese.
I truly luv him. This man is like the most kind-hearted man on the planet.he's an
Engineer and was born in nigeria. He speak yoruba fluently (though am igbo and teaching him the language
Too. Am learning arabic myself).
Now the issue is that it is popular knowledge that arabs don't
Marry black women. They can be very racist too and some of them see
Black women only as sex objects. My man's friends think this way but my man
Has never given me a reason to to believe that he's a racist. He respects me completely.
But still am worried becos my other arab friends who I have spoken too tell me that an arab marrying
A black woman is almost like a taboo. Is this true?

my dear stop being negative, as ur saying he never show any bad signal

so be good wt him, be loyal n faithful n dont wait long , open the subject wt him, are u gonna marry me or not ? shikena

and trust me if we have a child from a black woman we are very loyal to our families and we will never deny our children neither our wife

been black is not a big deal, if u r good looking and good shape n educated n good girl and showing him love n care n u make him feel like u r his home u can get him

stick wt him whether hes rich or poor , show him that u can stand shoulder to shoulder wt him and ur not just greedy girl following him bcs of benefit

in my place Lebanon, as u know Lebanese ppl are in africa since 1890 so we have lot n lot of half half skin ppl from all the french countries n Ghana n Nigeria n every where, we never look at a dark skin as minor or slave or less than others,

we just don like liars n cheaters n palyers , so try ur best n be good n go to the subject n ask him where are u going ??

look around u and try to meet some nigerian women married to lebanese or other expatrites n judge

thanks my inlaw

Funny enuff I worked in an organisation with arabs and I knw for one they are racist, they look down on blacks as lower humans and they prefer to use black woman for sexual pleasures rather than to marry them. 2. My ex gf left me to date and marry a rich arab guy. Very greedy girl. Now he has convinced her to stop working. She is now completely dependent on him and has turned to his sex slave, his house maid and the person that takes care of his arab kids cause he is divorced. Plus she is yet to have kids of hers. Such a shame that a woman will go so low. I'm surprised she's still staying with him. I'm suspecting that he is using diabolical means too becos which woman would put up with that. A lagosian for that matter.

Arabs are not generally racist towards blacks. They just seem to have a problem with Indians/ Sri Lankans/ Pakistanis etc. That is why they never marry from there. They have no problems with Africans... the vast majority that is. What is interpreted as racism is the general superior attitude that they show towards people working under them... and that is because workers here are too servile. Go to Ghana, Cote d'Ivoire, Senegal etc. They don't behave like that, over there.
The problem that OP may face, is that Arabs are strongly traditional. While it is not exactly a taboo to marry a black lady, most arab mothers wish for their sons to marry a neighbour's daughter, or cousin, hence the resistance against foreigners of any race. And mothers rule supreme in Arab culture. Dads don't like finding their trouble.
Another problem is that Africans and Westerners are percieved as being too promiscuous. Believe it or not, virtue is still ranked extremely high in the Arab world, especially by mothers in law. The onus is on you to make sure that you NEVER confirm her suspicions, eg don't ever hold a conversation with other men in his parents' presence... no matter how innocently. Also mirror her way of dressing... no spaghetti and macaroni.
Once you cross his mother's minefield, there is no problem.
Underneath, his timid dad and his brothers and friends will all envy him for marrying a foreigner... but they will never say so; at least not in front of the mum.
Take that as expert advice.

@ op, you are in luv with an Arab Man huh? Handsome and wealthy Naija guys don finish abi?

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jenny2007:
Hi everyone,
Just thought I should get your view on this topic. Am a marketing executive in an energy company and meet a lot of peole including foreigners due to the nature
Of my job. am in a relationship with an arab presently, a lebanese.
I truly luv him. This man is like the most kind-hearted man on the planet.he's an
Engineer and was born in nigeria. He speak yoruba fluently (though am igbo and teaching him the language
Too. Am learning arabic myself).
Now the issue is that it is popular knowledge that arabs don't
Marry black women. They can be very racist too and some of them see
Black women only as sex objects. My man's friends think this way but my man
Has never given me a reason to to believe that he's a racist. He respects me completely.
But still am worried becos my other arab friends who I have spoken too tell me that an arab marrying
A black woman is almost like a taboo. Is this true?

Are you guys married now ? This post has been since 2011.
I shall know that relationship btw Arab and African is not easy.. Arabs are known to be racist towards Africans . Why should I subject myself to company of such vile people, whose ways are totally different from ours. It's like trying to mix water and oil together and expect it to blend.
I hope you have found a nice Nigerians husband with a kind heart that will cherish you as a wife and accept all of you over an Arab man that will only want to date you becos he has a fetish desire to lay with a black woman .Pls stay away from Arab me,even if they were born here, it does not change who they are. They are terrible husbands , especially the Muslims ones.
It's better they marry among themselves while we stick to our own .

jenny2007:
Hi everyone,
Just thought I should get your view on this topic. Am a marketing executive in an energy company and meet a lot of peole including foreigners due to the nature
Of my job. am in a relationship with an arab presently, a lebanese.
I truly luv him. This man is like the most kind-hearted man on the planet.he's an
Engineer and was born in nigeria. He speak yoruba fluently (though am igbo and teaching him the language
Too. Am learning arabic myself).
Now the issue is that it is popular knowledge that arabs don't
Marry black women. They can be very racist too and some of them see
Black women only as sex objects. My man's friends think this way but my man
Has never given me a reason to to believe that he's a racist. He respects me completely.
But still am worried becos my other arab friends who I have spoken too tell me that an arab marrying
A black woman is almost like a taboo. Is this true?

All of them are the same, he is just pretending in your face wait until he makes you a baby mama it will clear for your eye

jenny2007:
Guys I need ur opinion,like seriously pls.

He will never marry you bet me on that, you will never know when that guy travel back and come back with a wife