I've always heard from and about guys who ended their relationships cos of their partners being too possessive. I never really understood that until resently. I got close to this girl and within two weeks of seeing each other often, i was getting calls about where i was at different times, who was that sha saw in my car, why hadn't i called today,

Quite unlike me, i freaked out. So here's my word; Ladies, even if you're possessive (or protective as my friend called it) pls slow it down, it could make your man run!!

I've been there, not a good place. Almost wrecked my life.

Google "Gemma Hearn", and you'll find out why.

Mild jealousy is probably acceptable, when it becomes an uncontrollable obsession, it can become dangerous.

A possessive woman is like leach that feeds off your blood and make like miserable for you.

so also is a possessive man

take my word a possesive man is worse than a possesive woman.

ThoniaSlim:

take my word a possesive man is worse than a possesive woman.

True

iice:

Hmmmm men too can be possessive!

yeah very

possessive men are worst than possessive women

ThoniaSlim:

take my word a possesive man is worse than a possesive woman.

a posessive man is ridiculous.

a lightly posessive woman is a turn-on, males love to be desired. An aggressively posessive woman is like 'the queen'. Men hate to be ruled the ego doesn't allow that.

It's really irritating and almost fustrating when you have a possessive partner. It just gets into your nerves. Men as well as women could be possessive. I think it's just a question of confidence and distrust. When you feel you're not good enough for your partner, you're always afraid she's with someone better than you.
I hate an overly possessive man. Gurls, pray it never happens to you. It's not interesting at all!

@macalurs

what part is ridiculous? the man or the possessiveness?



I think both sexes can be as bad as each other. I have witnessed both happen and i cant seem to tell the difference.

I had a stalker once. It was the most terrifying thing to go thru. I still shudder when I think about the experience. I will never wish it on my enemy.

@NaJa HaJe think i agree with u on dat.D experience i had was d female part though

yes i agree that the female can realy be nosy about thier guys, but i think it is birth out of the fact that men try to hide what they need not hide and they are not plain on issues despite the fact that theres no big deal on the issue.
men come down to the level of the woman and just be as open as u can i can assure u there will be no need for her to play the role of "its my PPTY" but men to should learn to let the women be

this is just like the "jealousy" thread
well a possessive man is like a mad dog, gosh!! it's hell

NaJa HaJe:

@macalurs

what part is ridiculous? the man or the possessiveness?

The man. A posessive man is an insecure puppy, quite laughable. All posessive men should be brought out in the open and laughed at by "secure" men.