proudafrogal:


Mr man keep telling yourself women don't want to be doctors and engineers.

My sister is a lover of football men are not the only ones who like sports.

have 3 female cousins who are engineers and they choose for themselves.

female doctors are like sand

men and women can do the same work as long as they have strength for it.

when I say equal I mean no gender should the marginalized or deprived based on gender.
remove cultural and social barriers women want and desire those things you think they are not interested in.

p.s. why do you keep inserting ur responses in my post. is it so that I can't quote you?

proudafrogal:

I don't get your point. humans share in equal humanity that's humanitarian ideology. we are one human race whether male or female, white or black that's my point. true

Of course among [i]each individual [/i]some have strengths and weakness and some ass holes prey on the others weaknesses except you show them you cant be bullied
Point of correction. Each gender


As a female. Itll be much easier to gain muscle if you were male
There re many examples like this and some the other way around

It doesnt mean a gender is superior. The beauty is in the diversity

Assholes prey on others weaknesses because they re assholes. Irrespective of gender. Like i said before in a post on this thread. If we were all the same gender. Another discriminative factor will qualify people to be bullied e.g height ,colour etc




that's why today there is no slavery on a large scale as b4.

women now vote and hold positions in government's.

they can be doctors and engineers some centuries past they were prevented from all these.

Be honest with yourself. How many women actually want to become engineers/watch football and do other masculine stuff. And vice versa

The beauty of gender is that we are different

Men and women are different biologically

but we are both human non is superior to another this is what i have been trying to tell you.

proudafrogal:


I'm not the Op. all men do not think the same.I'm speaking for my self now I choose my battles and I know I will not win all all them. but I will not let him get off easily just because he owns a dick.
Maybe the op was beimg paranoid and the man tried to bully her because of another discriminant factor. Maybe she had a small stature or a calms face

I may not be physically stronger but I can fight my battles. changing the mindset of one man is enough he will go and preach the gospel. yes you can do that, but at what cost

I don't believe in karma. I'm a master at revenge and manipulation. I have my strengths and weaknesses and I'm fine with it and use it to my advantage. karma?? You can call it what you want. But nobody is perfect. Every one bleeps up sometimes. If everyone revenged against one another it would just bounce back and forth until death

Illustration :
My perspective- a miscommunication causes you to get angry
Your perspective - how dare you talk to me like that, "gentle push"
Mine - you pushed me. How dare you... i must do my own back
Yours- i must escalate this to put him in his place *slaps



I think you get my point.


Revenge is bad. Its better to just talk things out

Vokog:


I am an atheist in respect to the existence of an anthropomorphic God who intervenes in the life of his creatures and demands a relationship with them. Eg. The kind of God all monotheistic and polytheistic religions espouse. Clearly such kind of God is a fabrication of the human mind.
My thought- i think what should be where i put in italics should be. the view such kind of God is a fabrication of the human mind.
I am a bit agnostic about the existence of a creator being and the nature of such being. Maybe the big bang that led to the creation of our universe, and eventually us, was orchestrated by a being or a force or maybe it just happened without any thing controlling it. This I don't know. But if it was set into motion by some kind of being, that being is obviously sadistic or at best apathetic, and doesn't care about humans or animals or any creature on our planet.

I personally dont believe that we were all created by a "random" event. I mean, look at yourself, look at your body,look at your brain.... see what we humans are capable of. See the world. See nature and the way ecosystems work. You cant say that it happened all because of a random event which happened to provide all the things we need to survive

And btw, most atheists say that God cant exist because people are dyung of cancer hiv and other diseases. I believe you used the words 'sadistic' and 'apathethic'
Mind you, i still have mixed feelings about this issue. But i am trying to approach it with an open mind. And when o read the bible. I found out that you have to read it with an open mind. So youll understand the message

The story of adam and eve in the book of genesis provides an explanation for God being "sadistic". If you truly understand the story. Youll know that God never created humans to die and we were once in a perfect state wheere we couldnt die or fall sick until we ate the forbidden fruit. Read that story well and understand

To bring it home, I am sure, with a strong degree of certainty that most of the popular religions today, that is Christianity, Islam and Judaism, are fundamentally flawed. Their God doesn't exist and their belief system is riddled with lots of loopholes that illegitimates it. One doesn't have to be a genius to figure this out.

I believe religion is a man-made interpretation of God and. Since it was made by man. It cannot be perfect. The bible was written by humans btw. You can always notice a little bit of similarity between all religions which cant be a coincidence






I was born and raised a Christian. Then I began to think. And then I began to question. Then I began to inform myself about my world, about it's history and about the history of most religions, and then I re-read the bible, and as I did, all the contradictions, inaccuracies and plain nonsense became even more obvious, and then I began to appraise my belief system and appended my growing understanding of science to the tools of historical analysis, critical thinking and objective evaluation of the doctrines of Christianity, which I used in conducting this appraisal, and I came to the conclusion that it was all bullshit. And then I renounced by faith.
I believe we humans cant understand everything. Even with the help of science. Some questions should be better left unanswered. We dont even know all the animals om earth talkless of knowing how we came about or an higher being

ilynem:

I think you are missing the point. The OP is directed at men who feel they are superior to women. If these men didn't think they were superior in the first place there won't be violence. Most men need to be taught that they aren't superior to women. As long as we are all human beings, we are equal. Male or female.

proudafrogal:


"some" means unspecified number
I didn't say I'm a super hero. bullies target people they perceive to be weaker than they are and if you don't stand up to them you will suffer because they will never go away.

proudafrogal:


lol some women are superior to men in strength, intelligence while some men are superior to women also.

but men are generally stronger physically.

but we are all equally human. and both gender deserve to be treated with dignity and respect.

as for your last point gender has everything thing to do with her experience I can tell you this. personally I always stand up to bullies whether male or female whenever I have the upper hand or support so it is natural even you will do the same.

proudafrogal:


lol some women are superior to men in strength, intelligence while some men are superior to women also.

but men are generally stronger physically.

but we are all equally human. and both gender deserve to be treated with dignity and respect.

as for your last point gender has everything thing to do with her experience I can tell you this. personally I always stand up to bullies whether male or female whenever I have the upper hand or support so it is natural even you will do the same.

Vokog:


What do you want us to discuss about my atheism?

Vokog:
I would like to preface the body of my post with this caveat: I am not a Muslim. In fact, I am an atheist, and I was formally christian and I have no affiliation with Islam whatsoever. The only affiliation I have with Islam, is that the people who subscribe to it are humans like myself, and as such, they don't deserve to be smeared, stereotyped, and painted in a negative light, to further an agenda. That's essentially why I decided to create this thread - To disillusion people from the lies that they have been made to believe about Islam and about terrorism.

I am not going to bore anyone with a long op. What I'd do however, is that I will allow anyone who wants contribute to air their own arguments about why they think the premise of my post is wrong, or why they think Islamic terrorism is an inherently Islamic phenomenon and I'll refute EVERY argument.

Mods, please don't move this to the Muslim section. It would defeat its purpose.

iphanyi10:
yemi alade always slaying, even doh u aint much of a good singer(personal opinion doh)....

ominirajj:
Hi matured minds
I need an honest advice here. My husband has become a stumbling block for me, whenever i bring any opnion to him he sees the negative aspect only . i told him i want to learn hair dressing he goes against it, there was a time i got a job in airport hotel went against it.
Now why am so depressed and sad is that i have went to field to train because i cannot afford money to attend GYM house what he have to say is that that place is not secure becos of thugs.
This is a kind of man who doesnt contribute to my getting a befiting work, all he does condemn anything i do
Am a Gospel artist , he wont allow me go for outings especially night vigils. Am i not in trouble already or what can i do?
He is also violent and a bully
U can e-mail me . jummyjj1983@gmail. Com

Toks2008:
*This write up does not encourage adultery in any form but it is about pointing out the erroneous belief as regards the act of adultery and divorce in relation to the scriptures.Every man must love and be faithful to his wife.

I have seen many situations where a wife leaves her husband against all odds because he committed adultery and she will quickly use the scripture to back up her action.

But does God really permit a wife to divorce an adulterous husband?

According to Islam

The fact that polygamy is an acceptable norm in Islam does not give room for much debate over this matter but nevertheless,there are laid down guidelines to follow if a wife has good evidence that her husbands committed adultery(Please refer to Fataawa 89039 and 85031).

From the bible

God never intended to give any instruction as regards divorce because GOD hates it as it is written in Malachi 2:16 : "For I hate divorce !" says the LORD , the God of Israel.

However, the hardness of MAN's heart(Not the woman) made Moses give men the opportunity to divorce their wives.

While many bible scholars have postulated that whenever a "he" is used in the Bible,it usually applies to man and woman and i perfectly agree but when it comes to matrimonial matters, the bible is very gender specific and has meticulously used the words man,woman,husband and wife with specific instructions relating to each one.


1 corrithians 7:10-11
"But for those who are married, I have a command that comes not from me, but from the Lord. A wife must not leave her husband.But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife.

Matthew 19:5-9
" Why then," they asked Him, "did Moses command us to give divorce papers and TO SEND HER AWAY?"He told them, "Moses permitted you to divorce your WIVES because of the hardness of your hearts. But it was not like that from the beginning.And I tell you, whoever divorces his WIFE, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery."

So the big question is; When is it right for a woman to divorce her husband?

The only Biblical ground for divorce for the woman is desertion by the man which is never the same as an act of adultery because strangely enough, a man may commit adultery but may not have any intention of deserting his wife.

Desertion is defined as the abandonment of a duty or post without permission and is done with the intention of not returning after all options of true reconciliation fails.

1 Corinthians 7:15. "But if the unbelieving partners leave, let them go. Under these circumstances a Christian man or Christian woman is not bound [by a marriage vow]. God has called you to live in peace".

Desertion by the man can come in many forms.
-If he denies her sex.
-Outrightly abandons her.
-Makes her a punching bag
-Refuses to take care of her and the children even when he is capable


I don't know if this makes sense.

Lennycool:
churches in the USA even practice the snake trampling part as a custom, so sad. Religion makes people delirious. The worst kind of madness is the kind that can make sane people believe in insane delusions.

fuckerstard:
Ohh hackers , they didn't use VPN i guess lol.

OLAADEGBU:
What does it mean that the house of prayer had been turned into a den of thieves? How had the temple been defiled by the money changers?

OLAADEGBU:
What does it mean that the house of prayer had been turned into a den of thieves? How had the temple been defiled by the money changers?

doyinbaby:
I have noticed that I have been passing through a lot of difficulties for a long time..despite being a Christian.....Christian life very very difficult

ilynem:

That is exactly what I am against people seeing homosexuality as normal. The media potrays it as normal and we need to protect our kids.

ilynem:

But do you agree with me that if we all decide to see stealing as normal, that 9% will increase drastically?

ilynem:

Ha! I am no way poke nosing. I am all for protecting my kids. Train up a child in the way he should grow and when he grows, he will not depart from it.I do not believe I will train my kids properly in the way of God and then they go ahead to commit incest.
Question sir, do you see incest between two consenting adults as normal?

kevoh:

Point 1: Stealing is not on the same level as homosexualism and can not be compared.
Point 2: What would you do if your kids continued committing incest despite your preaching that is abnormal?
Point 3: You and other christians are the ones calling homosexualism abomination. Yet, I see christians giving testimonies when they get Visas to countries where this so-called abomination is allowed.
Point 4: Nigeria passed a law of 14 years to homosexuals. Yet Nigerian homosexuals still come out to identify themselves. Saudi Arabia has a death penalty on homosexuals, yet homosexualism is still flourishing there. These are countries that have refused to see it as normal!

What you fail to understand is you religionist people keep poke nosing into what two consenting adults decide to do in their room.

Pastafarian:


I agree that incest is worse than homosexuality

my question to you has not been answered, why is homosexuality wrong? since you claimed the Bible wasn't the reason, you said its "not normal and unnatural" how do you judge "normalcy or naturalness"?