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declaro:
YOU ARE WRONG...

TAKING CARE OF ONE'S PARENT IS NOT A BAD IDEA, MEN DO IT FOR THEIR INLAWS AND IF THEY DO THE SAME TO THEIR PARENTS THAT SHOULD BE ENCOURAGED, HIS WIFE WAS ANGRY ABOUT HER IN LAW'S FINANCIAL DEMANDS, THAT IS SELFISHNESS. THAT OLD MAN THAT WAS SICK HAD IN A TIME SPENT HIS LAST KOBO TO BRING THAT HUSBAND UP AND HELPED TO BUILD UP TO A MAN SHE MARRIED. IT IS VERY BAD FOR A WIFE TO TURN HER HUSBAND AWAY FROM HIS PARENTS.

HERE YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT PUTING UP ROOF ON THE CHILDREN'S HEAD AND TAKING CARE OF THEM. WHEN THEY GROW UP AND MARRY AND O.P. WIFE GET THE SAME ILLNESS WOULDN'T SHE EXPECT HER SON TO FLY HER OVERSEAS TO GIVE HER THE BEST MEDICAL TREATMENT. REMEMBER THIS MAN CONTRIBUTED HEAVILY IN BUILDING THE HOUSE AND USED THE LEFT OVER TO BUILD FOR HIS PARENTS.

NOTE THAT HIS WIFE PARENTS ARE FINANCIALLY SUFFICIENT.

you clearly don't have kids.

eod.

Kayyy:
I just read your last reply, believing all the plan the man made was well calculated towards an aim here is reaching to far, to even assume all you said was the man's intention did you read where they sat down, discussed this and agreed on the way to go, them man paid for his dad ailment and flew out with him, and he knew the wife was buying and developing their house not his/hers, he probably completed his parents house because he wanted a better living condition for him after his treatment and the budget could afford it and still contribute to their own building, will you actually declare a man that had all these discussion with his wife had sinister motives, make we fear GOD ooh

A man can fly abroad with his father, but walk away from his kids at the drop of a hat.

He can build a home for his parents with his money, but contribute only a little towards housing his own family.

That sounds like someone who's preoccupied with being a child...Instead of being a father.

That's even beside the point. What is clear to me is that the woman saw this coming and wisely protected her investment.

when you consider that:
1. he tried to kick her out of the house and
2. he's now demanding full ownership of a house he admits to contributing very little to.

it's obvious that her move was justified.

Sensible people will be asking how she was capable of such foresight... I'm sure in her heart of hearts, she knew since day 1 that she was married to a monster.

declaro:
PLEASE READ THIS COMMENT.

If you think abuse is the reason for this mess, you're clearly in denial or deluded.

The alleged abuse is a symptom of the a much deeper malaise in the marriage - the wife had clearly recognised her husband's capability for greed and cruelty.

If you're able to analyse properly, you can see that at every stage, this woman took steps to protect her investment because she knows who she married.

They made money together, but hubby decides he wants to use joint profits to fly his dad out of the country for medical treatment, as well as build a house for his parents. The woman realises that this man is ready to take full control of, and squander their joint funds, so she demands a split.

A sensible man with kids would know that his first priority is to his kids and would have first focused on putting a roof over his children's head. Instead he left his kids under rain and went to build a house for his parents. No surprise he walked away from those kids in the end.

Next, the woman builds the house in her name, again because she knows who she married. If you genuinely think that it's a mere coincidence that the man tried to order her out of the house, then I have a bridge to sell you.

Think about it, the man is claiming to be annoyed that the deeds weren't in both their names, yet he stold her to get out of a house, where as far as he knew at the time, she was listed as a co-owner anyway.

This is a guy who wasn't concerned about her rights in the first place, and the woman clearly recognised these tendencies and took steps to protect her neck.

Steps that have been justified in the end.

I believe there's a lot that hasn't been said yet, but if you think that her insulting his parents is what triggered this wahala, then mehn...you're inexperienced in life.

MizMyColi:




You should have told those criticizing you about your status too.

Only unenlightened folks will condone what the man has done and tag him a real man.

there's no point.

I don't feel that I'm particularly drawing from my experience as a married man to recognise what is actually going on here...

I suspect the woman may not be particularly good looking, or may have some sort of inferiority complex because she's clearly conflicted about whether she can do better...

divorce is not the taboo word it once was, and she shouldn't immediately assume the responsibility of holding the family together for the kids, when it was the man who made the decision to walk away from those very kids.


This man is a leech who has gotten the woman so emotionally dependent on him, that he feels he can demand anything of her and reasonably expect to get it.

That's exactly the same concept of Yahoo Yahoo.

MizMyColi:
So you are my Guapo..or....

I'm nihilist

PrecisionFx:
And who are u to advocate that a marriage having a small issue should not be saved?

and who are you to question my opinion? if you don't have anything relevant to say, just keep it moving.

The man himself, apart from being a thief, has already moved out of the house, and is in the process of moving to a different state....and is literally demanding a house as the price of continued marriage.

I hope for her sake, that the woman is more sensible than you...

MizMyColi:
I know nau. I also know he's a huge fan or nihilist.
Didn't know there were two of you, or more, I suppose.

my main account got locked for good because Seun decided to block all accounts opened with temporary emails.

I've been using this one ever since

PrecisionFx:
so why are u easily urging for an end to someone's marriage as if it's just a bf n gf relationship between primary 4 pupils?

not all marriages are worth saving. This one is a clear example.

MizMyColi:

Is this Airborne....

You are saying the things I didn't have the liver to say initially.

I really wish to ask the OP this question...

Oga, are you a thief?

at all.

that's Griffon

PrecisionFx:
Are u a divorcee?

nope.

mark2sunny:
He trusted her completely. Again, a man owning a house isn't the reason for 'leave my house'. It's not always what is meant. It's used by men who don't hit their woman in the heat of an argument.

sharrap.

He asked her to leave the house, and only moved out when he realised that he wasn't legally entitled to kick her out of the house.

Why do you think he's now asking for the deeds of the house to be transferred to his name only?

Fwesh101:
put yourself in the husband shoes
�

The husband is a thief.

He tried to kick her out of the house she built. When he realised that the woman had wisely protected her investment, he moved out and is now demanding full ownership of the woman's house as his condition for moving back.

You don't have see a man carrying gun before you know he is a robber

God has given this woman a very clear route out of a clearly one-sided relationship.

She would be very stupïd to even consider reconciling with this thief, not to speak of actually adding his name to the documentation.

Lana1:
Oya Nihlstjnr Vanquay time to dash EA more money...

I'm not preordering. I might be in Naija around that time, and my old man no get better internet for house.

plus I've been too burnt to go back

Cardi brought the heat abeg...

This husband and wife team jumping on omolomo's song and outshining the owner ffs

gassed in gym mehn...

tune

Skimpledawg:
School them buddy, school them...

We are here

God wills it!

kashmo:
Mukina, please send Main league and Fa cup codes. Team name last season was 27th Eng Battalion. My standings were 31st and 11th respectively.

Alright loser?

I'm ready for you again this year bro

...and this guy...

I love this guy no homo

Interesting story aimed at AWS admins and devops guys, but the fraud part just off me. Criminals are so scheme-clever, though, they were slightly admin-stupid at the same time.

Researchers uncovered an exposed mongoDB instance that contained both credit card numbers and payment details. A bit more digging lead the researchers to a dump of Facebook and stolen email account data and info from freemium games that offer in-app purchases through virtual currency.

Eventually, the researchers were able to piece together what was going on. The stolen credit cards were being combined with the lifted data to set up Apple IDs on hundreds of jailbroken iPhones that could then be automated to create user accounts on installations of the free-to-play games. The fake game accounts then purchased in-app currency for the games and were re-sold to other players for cryptocoins or real-world currency.

In other words, the scammers were using fake game accounts on jailbroken phones to launder money from the stolen payment cards via the freemium games, and the criminals operating the scam had left the entire operation wide open to the public by not securing the database.

https://www.theregister.co.uk/2018/07/18/kromtech_open_buckets/

mehn that oxlade injury....

afrodoc2:
Angel Gomes highlights


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Iv784LNWefE

This one has more potential to me.

Good close control, and can thread accurate passes through narrow spaces.

Extra points for not having ridiculous haircut

afrodoc2:
Tahith Chong highlights from last season.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sHsXSjr1ZpM

This guy plays like a crappier Pogba with almost zero output in front of goal.

His shots are mostly wide or straight at the keeper, his passes lack weighting, even the skills that he does gaan tend to push him further wide than he should be after he beats his man.

raumdeuter:
whats the profile

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