Words from an Ass licker.

I shared same thoughts. Illegality doesn’t pay

Good work. How can one get it?

festacman:


You lie. I don't and will NEVER defend Boko Haram or your so-called Fulani Jihadist herdsmen. However, I do stand up and firmly for country with any feeling of shame.

YOUR INDOLENCE IS WORLD CLASS

Idris not to worry Buratai’s men will do a technical maneuver and occupy those places before the deadline. Ndi Ara in NA lol

The Dullard is not releasing them but granting them amnesty and sponsoring them abroad to study. Ndi Ara

HeavenlyCherub:


This is terrible advice. Money is very important. Desari should never settle. I wish I knew this before. I was that girl, giving chances to men who barely had anything and I never will ever again.

Supporting their visions and encouraging them. Do not do it. Pray and be patient.. understand that comment on potential

YOU DON’T GIVE WHAT YOU DON’T HAVE. FAILING DOESN’T MEAN EVERYONE ELSE WILL FAIL. CALL LETS TALK

Heavenlycherub if you ever get this pls call 0.9.0.3.2.3.5.7.6.7.0

Ineedtoheal if you ever get this pls call 0.9.0.3.2.3.5.7.6.7.0

Giving out BVN? People are notified NOT TO GIVE OUT BVN NUMBERS. SCAM ALERT!!??

obojememe:
my very first time celebrating easter as a bachelor, i couldn’t help eating it while frying

lol carry on Brother. More grace

ogwoliun:
I am a type of person that don't like cooking, but the lockdown has humbled local man.
This is my simple way of celebrating Easter because it's not easy for so many people right now, and I pray that God will take away this plague so that we will go back to our normal life.

This you combo no easy ooo. Ur stomach Na real nuclear reactor. You know what I mean lol

obojememe:
done frying...

U fry meat to the extent Na bone remain. Who u Dey vex with? lol

I have always loved Pastor Chris and attended some of his services as early at late 90s. On this issue I will say NO Sir. This is a Pandemic we have in our hands that needs the utmost care and strategy else it will be catastrophic if it spills out of hand. The church is not only a place of “blessing” but of “healing” as we have always seen.

The scenario we find ourselves demand FULL support at all levels. If we allow it to spill you pastors will lock your doors yourself against your members.

Pastor Chris please support the stay at home initiative and use online medium for your services atleast your organization uses up to date Technology so that shouldn’t be a problem.

Love you all!!!!!

HeavenlyCherub:


I’m sorry if you feel I have been disrespectful in any sense. I don’t come on this platform to make any enemies and don’t let my perspectives ruin your day.

The problem with a lot of men as you have proved by insulting me numerous times above.. calling me stupid etc. is that some men don’t like to communicate. When you tell them your feelings they say you are being aggressive.

Yes I’m not blaming anyone. I don’t want sympathy from anyone. I take full accountability for dating men that had potential and were not materializing that potential. I will never date potential and I put myself in that position because I was truly in search for love.

Money is not everything. I was raised in money so it does not scare me. Before you say I’m money hungry, or trying to show off. My father is wealthy- multi millionaire in usd. I am also doing very well on my own without support from my parents.It’s not the money I was after but love. I just wanted a man who is consistent, honest and loyal at the time I didn’t care where he was in life. But I can’t keep making the same mistakes.

My ex who did yahoo. Although he had money here and there in dry seasons he would expect me to help him with money. He would spend all his money on cars and clothing and expect me to bail him out when he has lavished the money. To this day my ex still owes me money. Hmmm financial responsibility is so important in a marriage. If you can’t plan how to use the resources as a single man. How will you take care of a wife and child?

Surprised still seeing this thread on. My Dear I read through your responses again and found where you talk about communication. This is a very vital ingredient to a good relationship. I will ask you this; Did you ever ask them how the communication broke down? Personally I don’t make judgement hearing one side of the story cos if those Guys are here to respond to your submissions, you will be amazed on what they will point out as flaws you had. Every man irrespective of age, class or status have ego and when that ego is bruised a lot goes South.

Happiness is never far away. Look inward and rediscover yourself and the right opportunity will meet you.

I hope this blesses us all?

Love you all!!!!!

ssegs5:






Hello my friend. I have read through a couple of your responses on other thread and just stumbled on this thread of yours while checking your page.

Am sorry for your experience but you are not going through the healing process with the right mentality. If you fail on a course it doesn’t mean others too will fail. Some men have suffered even same fate as yours including me but will advice men not to help any lady the fall in love with? Hell No. Forgiveness is key my Dear and sadly you lack it. You may have lost a lot monetarily but you didn’t lose your health or your life.

Forgive completely and look forward with an optimistic mindset. You will discover you have true peace and rejuvenation of your total being will commence bringing out a better you waiting for a better chance.

There are red flags you obviously didn’t noticed.

You will be happy again, TRULY HAPPY.

Am not too good at long write ups but I can share voice messages especially on the red flags.

I AM A PROUD SURVIVOR


Have toke my time to read some of your responses on other trends and your but one thing I notice is this ''unforgiven mind '' and you are a type that complains alot(from my point of view). In life when you hold on to one thing and you keep on nursing it, it will be difficult for you to see better things around you, all because you place your focus on one thing ( what i mean is that; you have focus your mind set that poor guys are bad guys, and your pain and hatred for them didn't allow you to see that there are best option for you). Someone is somewhere watch and willing to have someone like you, someone that know your value, your worth but your unforgiven attitude and hatred will not allow good and serious men to come around. Why not work on yourself, forgive and forget and dont put unnecessary pressure on yourself, put up a smiling face, trust in God, be good and move on, I know for sure that that man will surely show up. Please check my signature for my contact you can just hi me I will like to further discuss with you. Stay happy

Totally wrong my friend. My previous comments doesn’t portray me as a person with an I forgiven mind. Most of my responses are on topical political topics and off course almost all Nigerians share almost same sentiments towards our politicians which is obviously so true,

Lastly am not a female as you equally got it wrong. Am a happy young man from Agbor in Delta State.

Thank you again for your inputs

HeavenlyCherub:
Hi everyone,

I always feel any time I'm on nairaland I have drama. This platform has helped me as a release over the years. I don't understand why I have been unlucky in love but I hope my posts can help someone. Last time I was here my boyfriend of years got another woman pregnant he still wants to marry me BUT I dont think I can deal with the deception. Lying is one thing but having a whole baby is something else.

So I met someone new. It felt like he was my bestfriend. I put my life on hold for him. I gave up my life for months so that I could help him be a better man. I gave up my home, finances, my car everything to push his vision. I'm a working class woman late 20s and he was a student with a part time job. It didnt bother me he didn't have much because I loved him.

He was kind and loving but I always felt I had to reassure him of his position in my life and to tell him he is enough. This man always made it seem like I didnt respect him because he didn't feel accomplished and wasn't happy of my support of the relationship. He always made me feel bad for being successful.

It's hard for men to accept women when they attain a certain level of success. Men say that they want a woman to be there for them when they are at their lowest, I was that woman but this man broke me emotionally and made me feel small.

I will not date a man with less money than me anymore they are insecure. I just want to advise other women not to over invest your time, emotions and finances in someone who is not your husband.

We women want to over invest because we believe we are showing love. Don't walk away with a broken heart and empty wallet.

-he did not cheat, but his insecurities got the best of the relationship and I decided to walk away even if I loved him.

Hello my friend. I have read through a couple of your responses on other thread and just stumbled on this thread of yours while checking your page.

Am sorry for your experience but you are not going through the healing process with the right mentality. If you fail on a course it doesn’t mean others too will fail. Some men have suffered even same fate as yours including me but will advice men not to help any lady the fall in love with? Hell No. Forgiveness is key my Dear and sadly you lack it. You may have lost a lot monetarily but you didn’t lose your health or your life.

Forgive completely and look forward with an optimistic mindset. You will discover you have true peace and rejuvenation of your total being will commence bringing out a better you waiting for a better chance.

There are red flags you obviously didn’t noticed.

You will be happy again, TRULY HAPPY.

Am not too good at long write ups but I can share voice messages especially on the red flags.

I AM A PROUD SURVIVOR

desari:
Nairalanders,

I am a career woman in my late 20's living in the U.S. It has been almost impossible for me to meet good Nigerian men much less Nigerian men at my financial level. As you all know the U.S is very big; i generally don't hang out with Nigerians..not that i don't want to, i just don't know where and how to go about meeting up with my people. When i do go out to naija lounges or clubs in my area, all i find are little kids playing around or 419ers( which i would rather remain single than have anything to do with them). I have tried the church avenue, but i am catholic, and catholic churches in the U.S are much different from naija catholic churches. I live in NYC, so anyone that can give me pointers on where to meet eligible professional Naija men would be great.

I have been very blessed and fortunate in my chosen career, and i would want a partner that can pull his own weight financially in a relationship. Though i have accepted that i would most likely do much better than a potential partner, i can never respect a man that would find it hard to give me money to cook food in the house and take care of some bills, instead of assuming i will take care of it since i make much more. Akatas and white men chase me all day, but i would rather settle down with a Nigerian man(preferably yoruba) i am half yoruba and half something else I grew up in naija, so i speak yoruba and can cook naija food well well.

Let me add that i am well mannered and come from a great family. Guys and girls, if you have single brothers who are financially stable, between 29 and 35 years old looking to settle down, please IM me. Thanks!

Hello my friend. This is not a good approach to make a search. Your write up clearly gives room for more of the wrong sets of Guys to get you. Would be best creating a thread on possible places to meet Nigerians and then allow a potential man discover your true worth by himself. He will appreciate and value you more since he found out himself rather than you telling him your true worth. Wish you well

HeavenlyCherub:


Thank you for seeing my perspective. A lot of women have been abused, used. That is why they’re afraid of people new to the US. Majority will want to be supported or want a green card.

If you want this support just find someone you genuinely love and don’t hurt people for your own gain.

Your experience is normal as so many have equally suffered same both men and women but the reality and bitter truth is that such experiences will teach us life lessons that humble us in so many ways.

Sadly many suffer burn out and then tune themselves off from the beauties of life. They become a ghost of them selves, their true worth and beauties lost due to depression, anger, bitterness and frustration.

Am a survivor myself having gone through very bitter and harsh experiences but I learnt early to live my life and find happiness atleast in my job if for anything.

I urge all those who have suffered heartbreaks and selfish attitudes from lovers, it’s difficult and often times extremely difficult to fight off such pains but thankfully you are alive and healthy. These are key virtues in preparing yourself for true healing and better opportunities again. Better opportunities will locate you and that is a fact so work on yourself, find dependable friends, bury yourself in your job, look your best at all times and just love God and you will see him give you beauty for ashes.

As a survivor am happy I went through that road, I have forgiven, am alive and at peace with my self and my God, whatever I lost are only MATERIAL so truly speaking I lost nothing.

I WILL BE TRULY HAPPY AGAIN BUT TILL THAT OPPORTUNITY COMES I WILL CONTINUE LOVING MYSELF AND MAKING THE BEST OUT IF MY LIFE.

Love you all!!!!

Egungun don enter town. Masari pull off Agbada and start work

All Na wash wash.

GIVE IT TO CHADIANS AND OUR SAFETY IS GUARANTEED AS A NATION

Americafighter:
army is trying there best... But the government is not supporting

When a Government can’t take full responsibility for it’s soldiers then they are failures. Gross Failures they are and they have my sympathy.

Audio defeat lol lol lol

Leaders we have NONE

Lamanii22:



My mom still spoke about that match few days ago lol... She hasn't given birth to me then... She said the match pained her to her bones lol...

It was so heart broken. Unfortunately it was played in the evening Nigerian time and NEPA did the unimaginable by taken light few minutes to end of the game. It was a trauma finding sleep that night. Anyways that is sport for you lol

Reality of the days we live in

Can someone send this piece to Tony Momoh. Our leaders are truly out of touch of reality.

Very unfortunate if Tony Momoh said this. If life is of any value in Nigeria, Mr. President would be in the fore front in the fight against Boko Haram. It’s of HIGH priority leading the fight against insurgencies.

Well said

SCAM ALERT !!!!!