This is sad. In this day and age. Please advise your friend well that every child is a blessing from God. No one knows which will be what in future, that is why we should appreciate them when we have them. There are folks out there who would be glad to have triplet girls. A friend is still looking for kids almost 13years now. Another just had a child after 7 years. For all he knows his wife probably feels the pain of not having a boy more than he does, so he should appreciate what he has.

It may always be good but not as frequent because many things will begin to take your time and attention but you have to ensure that an open unadulterated line of communication is always open between you and your hubby so that WHEN you begin to fell neglect it will be easy to talk about it.

If there are enough rooms then they should be separate. However where there is insufficient space, then boundaries and limits should be set. You would be surprised at the rate of incest these days, innocently started.

The problem is you didn't really get to know him before you married him and unfortunately now that you are getting to know him, its proving that you know you would.t have married him if you had gone out longer.

Advice: Get with the program. Start learning to appreciate the good things about him. It may be difficult but try. You can make this work because there's no perfect man anywhere. There's no telling what pains you might have had even if you had married the other guy. So make it wok. Look for the good points and work with those. Also stop seeing him as the rebound guy and start treating him like the king of your heart and he may just reciprocate. Don't forget he also is only beginning to know you and he may not be liking what he's seeing.

I really feel sorry for your situation. I do not advise you to divorce your husband under any situation. It is hard but it does not solve anything plus you would just be giving up your home to the other woman. You alone know what you stand to lose. Rather I would advise you to calmly respond to this situation.When he comes home treat him well. Later when he's rested, and you've adjudged his mood, talk to him, ask him why he did not call and why he allowed another woman to disrespect you by calling you on his phone. No matter what happens try to be calm so you can actually hear what he says. His response should allow you to ascertain whats been going on.

After this, I advise you to concentrate on your studies, get a side business going (tell him you want to start a business and make him give you the funds. (Don't agree to nothing less). Also focus on trying to give him what he's looking for outside, even though sometimes no matter how hard you try, they will cheat. Nothing to do with you.

And now the philandering husband is free to sleep around all the more. The only one who lost is her family. Hopefully no children left to suffer needlessly. Suicide is never the answer. She could have done so many other things but kill herself.

It is a sad situation.

The problem with the educational sector has very little if anything to do with EPL, Nollywood or whatever. The problem is foundational. GO to any public school today whether east, north or west and what you will find majorly are many teachers who are not qualified and have very little interest in teaching the students. This problem didn't start recently, we are just beginning to see large scale result of long outstanding foundational errors. When I served many many years ago,in the school where I taught, the students were about to write their SSCE exams and 99.8% of them could not read the English so how were they to read the questions before even being able to understand them? Well the solution was "simple", the teachers read the question to them in Hausa. But that left the matter of answering the questions, most of them just answered in Hausa as best as they could. My family friends who studied Education in the Tertiary institution always have woeful stories to tell of how horrific their teaching practice period was even in Lagos, with SS2 students not knowing how to spell simple words.

In my opinion, government needs to recruit better teachers who would undergo serious training before and during employment on how to be better teachers. Of course better teachers require better pay so that they will focus on teaching and not trading during school hours.

The father had watched part of the video where the nanny had left the baby unattended for a long time and based on that had fired her that day only to watch the rest of the video later in the day to find out the horrendous beatings the child had endured. According to him, if he had watched it fully before firing her, he might have committed murder. The parents became suspicious of the nanny when their other child had a black eye earlier and the father decided to install a nanny cam.

To think that according to the father this person was a familiar person to them.

The nanny said she reacted the way she did to the baby because she had beef with the parents.

God help us. I hope she goes away for a very long time.

Actually it should be more like what can you do to give her a baby boy, cos its all down to YOUR chromosomes! Don't know if gender selection kits work though but maybe a little googling will help.

Child rearing is not a walk in the park. Not just pregnancy but the whole shingding. Its absolutely not easy for most women.Some women don't have any problem with it but majority of others do. Having had 2 kids, being pregnant and labour plus looking after them must have taken its toll on her, so rather than put pressure be careful to understand her fears/concerns or whatever she feels about the issue. It doesn't even matter if you decided to have 5 before you got married, talking about it and experiencing it is another matter altogether.

I remember after having my first I categorically told my mum I was never having another, but I went on to have another,so give her plenty of time and don't make her feel like she's just a baby making machine.

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And just in case you have nannies taking care of your kids you might want to discreetly install a nanny cam please.

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How to get your bath tub/tiles white again
If you have a bath tub that is turning brown, use harpic toilet cleaner. Put a little of the cleaner on a foam sponge, spread all over the tiles of tub and leave for a few minutes. You will see the tiles become white again in no time. Ensure to wear rubber gloves however as the stuff is quite toxic, even the smell is horrid but it will do the job.

Oh heavens! Why would anyone be like that? I think I'm going to put up cameras immediately. That child could have died and who knows what kinds of injuries the child suffered. God protect us.

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Please note that the car seat and stroller are not new but the other items are.

Help!!! Its beginning to look like more than i bargained for. I don't know who to give what as more than one person wants an item. People advise, how to give out the items?

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I no longer need them. Some are what my babies used and others i bought and didn't use.
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I actually gave bags and bags away recently to an orphanage but i kind of got the impression they had too much stuff so i think i will be willing to give to anyone who might have a need of any of the items here or if anyone knows of anyone who might.

I have more. A Mamalove Playpen.









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I want to give them away but if you're more comfortable with buying them, well no problems.







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I'll check but I don't think so.








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Carseat. Not exactement as in the picture but very close. Used, not new but in very good condition.

Sorry Caporegime, Cant help you with that.

I also have a Butterfly Play gym, which is new but a bit dusty.

The Moses Basket is brand new but it does not have a stand. it is pink. brand is mothercare.







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I have a few items I want to give away to anyone who needs them. I'm in Lagos so if you need them you have to figure out how to pick them up. No hidden agenda at all, I just want to give them out. Some I bought a while back and have not used, others are not brand new but still very good.