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AND YE SHALL KNOW THE TRUTH AND THE TRUTH SHALL SET YOU FREE.........

I have always believed in inner peace and freedom of the mind. And Anything that leads me to that state of mind is my own truth.

Not the unnecessary but damning inner conflict inflicted by inordinate struggle for self righteousness, which to a great extent seems to be a chase of mirage that the Christians/many religions pursue and battle all their life.

As a matter of fact, if you are still under this weight, bearing this familiar but unshakable yoke of guilt and restiveness, then you have not met or known the truth, meaning that you are not free.

Please don't get me wrong, if you belong to any religion that affords you this religion experience of peace and wholeness this religion is probably meant for you. Pls continue and never look back. But if reverse is the case then its not a sin to re-evaluate yourself with respect to the religion or their set of doctrines towards having a better feel and inner control of your life......

(Impressive) I love your spirit.....you are really a researcher!........

Akynzodeighbour:
read the last sentence of the post

Thank you.....i read it all but only the last line.

bigass123:
You either have eye problems or you simply didn't read the post. Just few lines oh.. Chai!

I read it all but the last line.......

You painted your marriage and story like a saint being persecuted for no wrong doing. Remember no smoke is without fire. Even if you are so used to forgetting your wrong deeds after hauling them at him and never seeing the need to evaluate your self, remember forgive-ness only comes when you ruefully and repentantly acknowledge your sin and you are ready to change.

If you dont know, For men, the fastest thing that kills sexual interest in a marriage is bad attitude or misconception they have about their woman. No matter how beautiful or sexy you are , ones your husband is deeply hurt by your acts and attitude (which could be your ego damaging words, cheating, nagging, stubborness , unyielding attitude and unwilling to change) thought of sex becomes irritating to him. You only need to swallow your ego, retrace your step and turn a new leaf by profusely apologetic and promising to change. thats the first and most important step............other tips like praying, spicing up your bedroom, bond-building activitities and all romance rekindling stuffs can now follow.

Remember some men are good at keeping malice for long just to get back at you. Only a matter of time before they start cheating if you fail to salvage your marriage. GO AND BEG HIM TO FORGIVE YOU.....either you remember your wrong or not.....either you were right or wrong....if no changes.....GO TO HIS RELATIVE ...MOTHER OR FATHER TO BEG HIM TO FORGIVE YOU WHATEVER YOU MIGHT HAVE DONE......OR TELL HIS PASTOR TO BEG HIM ON YOUR BEHALF........Am sure before you explore all these begging medium you will know exactly what he has against you. if not he might just tell anyone he has no problem with you, leaving you to suffer in silence.....THE THREE MEDIA BEGGING SHOULD MAKE HIM VOICE OUT HIS RESENTMENT......YOU CAN NOW START TO REPAIR YOUR WRONG FROM THERE....GOOD LUCK.

First and foremost, are you married?.....and how old is he?

lubbish.......see how e be lik bonger fish.

Experience is the best teacher....unless u are skilled at making examples your reality.....

esosa993:
whatever..... mr i know all
pls u dont know me and stop quoting me, i know your type the one that sees every gal as objects and humans with fish brain,pls i beg of u get off my mention.

I can bet my life....you will read this before having rest of mind to sleep.....#everygirllovessmartguys

esosa993:
i can see u an attention seeker......am done

As a matter of fact....you are no way different from those gals.........#allgirlsarethesame.

esosa993:
whatever..... mr i know all
pls u dont know me and stop quoting me, i know your type the one that sees every gal as objects and humans with fish brain,pls i beg of u get off my mention.

i can bet my life you love being mentioned.........smiles......#everygirlclaimsbeingdifferent.

esosa993:
I swear my sis you are so right,if I don't find a guy attractive let him do all the listed points he would just waste his time....

Seriously........and swearing to GOD.....the problem with u gals is dat....pple like you dont knw when being played.......i'm a testament........

ellapius:
sorry dearest that nigga fought hard and cried for weeks b4 he got there .

I kant wait for u to dump his ass......i know its a matter of time.......am around the corner to continue his ministry.........

amokeme:
Smiled after reading the whole writeup..
You guys really need to stop the stereotype game


My advice to all guys is this, Just be yourself!
Don't make anyone's rules (probably written out of their moods) the standard in which you live or relate with other people... Funny thing is that most of the "list and rule makers" don't abide by them.


Talking out of experience

Thank you ma......we dont need your advice....keep it to urself or for ur male-child...........we are now liberated from ur friendzone tactics

I don't have any problem on whom the captainship falls. It is the duty of the coach to know who best deserves it to the progress of the team. If a captain is wrongly picked, its aftermath effect on the team would still be blamed on the coach. The reason for picking Musa is a total judgment reserve for the coach, being the boss of the team. Besides, i think he understands every player and knows what he seeks for in a captain and he probably gets it in Musa. So to him, Musa is the captain that will motivate and bring out the best in the team, that would serve as an exemplary model in terms of discipline,that would gel with and consolidate his authority as the coach, that would listen to him without rebellion and possibly convey is instruction better to every member of the team . What else does a coach want?

menix:
Mikel is benched cous he ain't playing real football. Sure he has got talent buh can't transform those talent into being a world class player..

Can u remember mikel was second to Messi, can u in any way compare those two.

Yes, Mikel has that class he enjoys today because he plays for Chelsea thus, most Nigerians would want to see him on the pitch..

Same applied to Martins when he was an Inter Milan player but today who hears about him but this dude is doing great in USA even the highest earned African player in USA above almighty Drogba, ETo nd co..

The class we are talking about here is not conferred by virtue of club. it is inherent , it is a unique style of play and talent not club-wise.......About messi: Messi and mikel never played under the same management and circumstances. though they were compared side to side in their early days. You can never compare the philosophy of barcelona to that of chelsea. Barcelona see a raw talent in a kid and norture it with patience, diligence and belief in a player to get the very best out of him....the likes of Xavi, Iniesta, Busquet were nortured to world class stars When Busquest started out young as a player , he wasnt a better gifted player compared to the early days of mikel but now their philosophy and belief in investing in the potential of a talent has paid off in Busquet. In mikel, this is a player who came to lime-light by reason of his talent and self expression on the ball.Joining chelsea, this self expression and development was hampered by their selfish philosophy. Mikel lost his flair of adventure on the ball as he was even restricted in his style of play to a conservative style. In messi , the opposite was the case .The team was built on him, his confidence was supported, self expression was a mandate given to him anywher on the pitch and the result is a world class star today. Mention any world class player today, this space of self expression and belief in their talent was given to them by their coaches....eg.Fabregas in arsenal, CR7 in man u and madrid , xavi, Pirlo, Rooney, Yaya toure in mancity, Ozil in madrid ,.......the listis endless.

menix:
Definitely u should be banned from P0rn..

No doubt mikel is talented, but talented to be a 1st class benchsman...

Mikel's age is what have kept him in Chelsea..

Yes mikel tends to be the better middle field player we have now because in the land of the blind, a one eye man becomes the king..

Really, u baffle me cous everything argued here is why Musa was made a captain over Mikel, nd all I did was to state Mikel's indiscipline to be the cause.

Being benched does not always mean you are not good or better than your peers. Being benched can be a pointer to your current form or the sentiment a coach hold about a player and of which players have no objection against. The only problem he has is not leaving chelsea for more playing time and not meeting a coach who is interested in his development and self expression right from his early days....My argument is clearly against your view that: 'he is only playing in super eagles cos he plays in chelsea' hes playing cos he has a quality to add to the team which others cant give, irrespective of his predicament in chelsea.

menix:
Baba, some might hate him because hez a chelsea player but can u truly answer this question without being bias.

If Mikel was not playing in Premiership nd plays this his backward football he plays in chelsea in some other club, would u advice we invite him

Mikel is relevant today because he plays in Chelsea.
Is Mikel better than Osaze, Ikechukwu U, martins etc buh all this players people don't give a shyte cous they re not in Chelsea, Man U, Arsenal...

People like you should be banned from watching football..You reason and analyse football with prejudice.....if Mikel was not talented he would have been offloaded long time ago from Chelsea ,at least by one of the countless coaches who have managed chelsea over the years... And if you dont know....no reasonable coach ,even if you prefer to wallow in your ignorance of his talent, will handle super eagles without recognising and needing the skill,talent,experience and maturity of Mikel as far as Nigerian football is concerned. Take it or leave super eagles does not have a better player in composure, talent and experience in the holding midfield role than Mikel. not even Onazi cos they are in different class.pls learn to be objective in your reasoning .thank u.

jj

Wisdom comes with experience. This experience should make you do better in your next relationship with women, thats if you learnt anything at all.
To the matter, the problem is , given your age, you were too naive when u started off with her and she's way ahead of you in the game.This u didn't realise earlier. As a man, your love for a girl shouldn't be the priority to perpetuate in a relationship, it should be the respect you get from the woman and your ability to assert yourself over her /control her. If you fail in either or both aspect, you have lost the game from the beginning. At this stage, since you haven't had enough experience to handle the shits of women i suggest you sharply start reading about women, dating, taking charge and commanding respect in a relationship.
As a matter of fact and rescue, forget about this one completely,it's already a spilled milk. My question is : did you get into her pant at all? if yes , then that's your compensation for all her watery poo and your silly investment, so continue with that with all vehemence before dishing her. But if no, that will definitely add more loss and regret to your painful injury and put you in a delusion to endure it even though it will eventually shatter you without repair one day. so just let go.
To ease your pain at break-up, start seeing other girls and stop calling or doing her any favour whatsoever. She's probably not yours after all cos girls like her are mostly cheats and usually yield for asshole niggas. She's been using you to her selfish gains all the while you whine about love. There is no choice other than a break up cos she will eventually dump you if you don't act faster and you know , that hurts like hell.

Ilaje44:
Ugba yi me se oma ana. Me se nile fo ede Ilaje? Emi yi mo wa obele nati Abaala l'obon n'Aiyetoro ugba yi a fi eja mi gba pupuru, garri, abatina etc. Ugba yi ogho nina ti to Igbekun... Me se ni gbede?

Mo mo omi ino ifi. Mo du ghun ojerimade. Bi o tile pe eyi mo ti t'ule, okan mi gbagbe Igbekun. Emi oma ogeemoni agbeinoko ghen'wa. Emi oma imalokun agbabu...

Aigbede: Ede jami ogun
Onegbede: Ede a ru wo oko.

Sugban emi gbo ede Ilaje mi fo. Ule wa a toro.

Omade mo ra o......mo fe bagba je o.......i will like to connect with you Sir.....pls reply my pm.

Ilaje44:
Ugba yi me se oma ana. Me se nile fo ede Ilaje? Emi yi mo wa obele nati Abaala l'obon n'Aiyetoro ugba yi a fi eja mi gba pupuru, garri, abatina etc. Ugba yi ogho nina ti to Igbekun... Me se ni gbede?

lol....wow!....impressive....Nice to meet you......infact you have intimidated me with your deep knowledge of our community and culture...

Ilaje44:
Awa ye o! E le oma bami.

Me ma pe wo le gbo........hope that place is sweet....and dnt forget ilaje needs you here too...Magbagbe ule o....ule nuse!

Ilaje44:
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AYE.MA FU GEE

TRADELYN:
I dey wonder why prostitutes are very aggressive/violent?

The man should be glad say no bi the Kolo she target.

speaking from experience right?....just being curious.

chinoasa:
She is experience enough! She should have bitten of his manhood... Mteeewwwh

Are you a friend to PRECIOUS?....

I tire for here too o