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Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by menxer: 7:58am On Oct 20, 2015 |
I feel your pain. You just got friend-zoned in your marriage, how so sad. Anyways remember the days the romance was hot, what are you doing differently now? Arrange and go to a nature Park, just the two of you on a date, spend some quality time to talk and listen to each other. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by namcyll(m): 8:00am On Oct 20, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara:be sensible for ones in ur life time. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by revolt(m): 8:01am On Oct 20, 2015 |
JoeboyEbuka:bachelor advice. Mtchweeee |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by tosyne2much(m): 8:01am On Oct 20, 2015 |
misspicy:You sef no go wan try am. You know I love kitty-cat so much |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Nobody: 8:07am On Oct 20, 2015 |
call me on 08100392181 and i will give it to you everywhere and corner. i am in abuja Hi55: |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Luvdmx(m): 8:09am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Larryklef: I honestly feel you pain but you don't have to live your life on the edge. If i am in your shoe, i PROBABLY will forgive but if you can't, walk away
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Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by hugo2802: 8:11am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Madam, I wish there was a way we could talk to you outside this forum. I've been through the same situation, and I believe I can help. OK, here is my email address. ugo_onyx@yahoo.com |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by OkoAnike(m): 8:12am On Oct 20, 2015 |
classicB: |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by misspicy(f): 8:13am On Oct 20, 2015 |
tosyne2much:Then make sure you don't offend me,if not,we will go on sex summer break |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by cardoctor(m): 8:15am On Oct 20, 2015 |
There are two sides to every coin. What's his own story? |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by daniel56(m): 8:16am On Oct 20, 2015 |
U have try but u should give time and ask him pls can I talk to u,tell him maybe u have done wrong tin to him, u are sorry that u, after that give a day and tell him, sweetheart can we make love do ur best if he refuse, my friend it is over or look for reason by ur self why ur husband refuse..and quit d marriage if u don't see reason. So people may have somemore to tell u. Have a nice day. Hi55: |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by kasimshafii: 8:17am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Make sure you always dress neatly and sexy everyday in other to attract his attention towards you. Respect him, care for him, definately one day he will approach you and always be prayerful. Ooops! Lastly, go get artificial Dick to be satisfying yourself before he comes back to his senses.... |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by tosyne2much(m): 8:18am On Oct 20, 2015 |
misspicy:I will also deny you joystick |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Kossy23: 8:19am On Oct 20, 2015 |
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Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Nobody: 8:20am On Oct 20, 2015 |
legendsilver: Its the same thing. Emotional torture is even worse, cos your partner wouldnt even know why youre acting all funny |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Artistree: 8:22am On Oct 20, 2015 |
[quote author=Kossy23 post=39158500][/quote] Thank you, Minister of women affairs. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by dinachi(m): 8:22am On Oct 20, 2015 |
The husband is absolutely right in keeping his distance from that evil beast Op who has confessed openely that she can murder her spouse! Pray tell who wants to sleep in the same bed with a murderer? The man should divorce her already,before she kills him! |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by victorkushquan(m): 8:26am On Oct 20, 2015 |
pray 2 GOD |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by bummyla(m): 8:26am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Hello Dear! In every relationship someone does the extra all the time! If you really love your husband like you said, communicate it to him, don't scream, shout or fight him, swallow your pride and beg him. if he still doesn't change and you still love him deeply: Clean-up your tears, dust yourself up, don't mention it anymore to him or any other person, increase your services to him, but put up a bold smiling face. Some men feed on others insecurity - And such men are always afraid when they stop being the center of attraction. Some men panic when them stop getting attentions from their loved ones and friends, but still treat him like a King, but no more tears and whining! You can even allow him have the bedroom as the king while you moved to the guest room, lets see how it goes http://www.bummyla.com |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Nobody: 8:28am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie:This babe get better oyel for head walahi. Hi55 hope you saw this oo |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by sukkot: 8:31am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Hi55:post your pinshure so i can diagnose the problem. you do know after 2 kids most nigerian women start looking like rugby players |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Libra38: 8:32am On Oct 20, 2015 |
dinachi: THANK YOU |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Nobody: 8:38am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Campus4u: Aren't you silly? Did a woman jilt you because of the size of your pocket? However from what I can gather form the above, she must have jilted because of the size of your grey matter 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Tex42(m): 8:40am On Oct 20, 2015 |
classicB:Word....! |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Horlamidey25(m): 8:40am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Summon courage and call ur husband attention to it, settle ur scores with him and end the dispute amicably. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Nobody: 8:41am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Hi55:It could be that he doesn't even know what he's putting you through. Talk to him biko. You'd be amazed what some few minutes of discussion can do. Be open minded and calm. By the way, your last statement isn't necessary. It can be very hurting, yes! But two wrongs don't make a life. Don't take someone's life that you didn't create. Imagine your son's wife kills him because he cheated on her. Would you want that for him? If you find out he's cheating, the best you can do is to sort yourselves out or opt for a divorce. Killing someone isn't an option. Take care. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Nobody: 8:42am On Oct 20, 2015 |
dinachi:Joker! |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by NiRfreak(m): 8:45am On Oct 20, 2015 |
You painted your marriage and story like a saint being persecuted for no wrong doing. Remember no smoke is without fire. Even if you are so used to forgetting your wrong deeds after hauling them at him and never seeing the need to evaluate your self, remember forgive-ness only comes when you ruefully and repentantly acknowledge your sin and you are ready to change. If you dont know, For men, the fastest thing that kills sexual interest in a marriage is bad attitude or misconception they have about their woman. No matter how beautiful or sexy you are , ones your husband is deeply hurt by your acts and attitude (which could be your ego damaging words, cheating, nagging, stubborness , unyielding attitude and unwilling to change) thought of sex becomes irritating to him. You only need to swallow your ego, retrace your step and turn a new leaf by profusely apologetic and promising to change. thats the first and most important step............other tips like praying, spicing up your bedroom, bond-building activitities and all romance rekindling stuffs can now follow. Remember some men are good at keeping malice for long just to get back at you. Only a matter of time before they start cheating if you fail to salvage your marriage. GO AND BEG HIM TO FORGIVE YOU.....either you remember your wrong or not.....either you were right or wrong....if no changes.....GO TO HIS RELATIVE ...MOTHER OR FATHER TO BEG HIM TO FORGIVE YOU WHATEVER YOU MIGHT HAVE DONE......OR TELL HIS PASTOR TO BEG HIM ON YOUR BEHALF........Am sure before you explore all these begging medium you will know exactly what he has against you. if not he might just tell anyone he has no problem with you, leaving you to suffer in silence.....THE THREE MEDIA BEGGING SHOULD MAKE HIM VOICE OUT HIS RESENTMENT......YOU CAN NOW START TO REPAIR YOUR WRONG FROM THERE....GOOD LUCK. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by islandmoon: 8:47am On Oct 20, 2015 |
hmmmm, we are looking for good women to settle down with , some have but treats them like trash, my girl has betrayed me many times and i had to quit it cos if i continue, she will be the one to kill me! a greedy woman can kill you cos of money, shes the most selfish person on face of the earth! extra ordinary selfish and greedy. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Rilwayne001: 8:47am On Oct 20, 2015 |
sukkot: www.nairaland.com/attachments/180447_ROTFLMAO_gif3d0c775232c7f27cf80592785b9635b6 true talk bro.. lmao. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by sukkot: 8:49am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Rilwayne001:when the man no be gay na. how him go dey attracted to rugby player ? as in ehn 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Wfmopraiz: 8:50am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Hi55: Hello madam, I can feel your pain, cos I've a friend's wife passing through same issue. This is the advise I gave her. She told me few days ago that the advise and prayers are working like magic. 1) fast and pray for 3days. Commit his heart unto The Lord. Pray with this bible verse proverb 16 vs 3 "Commit thy works unto the Lord, and thy thoughts shall be established". Commit his work unto The Lord, commit his mind, thought, body, spirit, your marriage, your kids unto The Lord. And all shall be establish. After the 3rd night of fasting n prayer, wake him up very early in the morning for few discussion. Make sure you appreciate him very well(you can be in your knees if you're a yoruba woman, cos our men do appreciate that), thank him for taking care of you since the day you've met him, thank him for taking good care of his kids, appreciate him in every area. the appreciation is just to make him listen to you. Now to main thing, Tell him you've notice something's about him, that you believe he can always share anything going on in his private life with you or maybe you did something wrong to him. That he's now a changed person. Tell him the thing is killing you. Let him know how important he's to you. 2) don't be too bored for him, you should understand this part very well. The prayers and fasting won't work perfectly if you're too bored for him in bed. You can be your husband LovePeddler. I'm sorry if that's too dirty. But the Fact need to be told. Don't dress too ancient, make sure you're always been updated with the street, lol. dress well, you should know the clothe a married woman should put on, use nice body pray n perfume after taking your bath at night. I'm sure he will always want to come near you. You should know the things he love most about you. Maybe your hairdo, clothes, and some other things. 3) cook nice meal for him, there's a saying "to win man"s heart is through is mouth" Call him sometimes when he's at work to ask what will he like to take for dinner, make him feel very important. because he's the Exexutive Governor of your home. Respect him more, pray for him more, I'm very sure he'll definitely change his way. Please don't think of divorce. There are hard times in marriage. I pray The Lord will help you through this period. With your story I know your husband is a nice man. Is just one of those things men pass through some times. |
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