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 Celebrities › Re: Tupac Shakur Still Alive? 'Rapper pictured Partying' by nj11(f): 6:56am On May 01, 2009 |
Please God i hope its true! |
| Celebrities › Re: Tyra Is The Bomb! by nj11(f): 6:52am On May 01, 2009 |
She is not dating Tyler perry, she is dating a 51yrs old business man from New york,John utendahl,since 2007. He is the owner of the largest African American investment bank in the country. |
| Nairaland General › Re: Declare Your Hieght Here, And Say How It Makes U Feel. . by nj11(f): 8:16am On Apr 17, 2009 |
@ poster 5'7 and loving it. |
| Romance › Re: Being Handsome, So Much Trouble! by nj11(f): 7:56am On Apr 17, 2009 |
Post your picture,am curious. |
| Romance › Re: How Many Times Have You Been Dumped? by nj11(f): 3:07am On Apr 15, 2009 |
@ topic NEVER. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Happy Easter To All Nairaland Members ! by nj11(f): 4:35am On Apr 11, 2009 |
Happy easter my fellow niralanders!!! |
| Romance › Re: Name One Quality In U That Gets U Into Trouble by nj11(f): 7:16am On Apr 05, 2009 |
My kindheartedness, it makes people take advantage of me. |
| Family › Re: I Am Tired Of My Oyinbo Wife by nj11(f): 1:52am On Mar 28, 2009 |
@ poster You sound as if you are already cheating on her with a naija girl that is why you see so much fault in her now. |
| Family › Re: I Want To Leave My Husband For My First Love.pls I Need You Advise. by nj11(op): 10:52pm On Mar 27, 2009 |
@ amebo no1 Thanks for your advise,am trying to make it workout with my husband,it's hard but am giving it a shot. Am still talking to my ex,haven't said anything to him yet,scared of losing him. |
| Family › Re: I Want To Leave My Husband For My First Love.pls I Need You Advise. by nj11(op): 12:08pm On Mar 19, 2009 |
@ Sky-walker Yap, he is a good guy,doing everything to make the marriage work,that is another reason why am still hanging on,don't want to hurt him. Do i sacrifice my happiness for him? @ amebo no1 You have touched my heart,brought me to tears.I still can't let go all the pains I've been through and still going through,because of a selfish father that thought giving me to a man in American will solve all his financial problems.I hate him for it. Should i stay married to a man that i can't hug,never kissed him b4 in our six years of marriage? Cause i can't stand it. |
| Romance › Re: I Think She Jazzed Me! by nj11(f): 8:44am On Mar 19, 2009 |
spoilt:lol. |
| Family › Re: Where Should Babies Sleep? In The Crib Or Beside Mummy? by nj11(f): 6:14am On Mar 19, 2009 |
Mine slept on my chest,later beside me in bed. He is four years old and will not go sleep in his bed room,still sharing bed with me. My advise send them to their room the very first day. |
| Family › Re: I Want To Leave My Husband For My First Love.pls I Need You Advise. by nj11(op): 5:54am On Mar 19, 2009 |
I'm scared of telling my family what is going on,afraid of rejection and being the bad seed in the family.Am loosing my mind here! the only person that knows about it is my younger sis. |
| Family › Re: I Want To Leave My Husband For My First Love.pls I Need You Advise. by nj11(op): 5:50am On Mar 19, 2009 |
@sky-walker My husband knows about us,i told him everything, he is pleading with me right now to stay in the marriage.My ex doesn't need money from me he is doing alright for himself.I have opened my heart to my husband,still nothing is working. @ ezinne1212 Thanks. @ amebo no1 After i got married my ex and i did see each other for a little bit hoping that i could still get out of it. Off curse i thought about my ex,missed him, he was and still is my best friend.After i left he has been in other relationships,but they don't workout. @Delta007 Thanks, i hear you,i'm doing just that,i'm in school, starting a business and i have a good job that can sustain me and my son if things goes bad. @mccloud224 Abeg oh!,i have just one kid and my legs are closed,i'm just not happy.Thanks. Thanks you guys. |
| Family › Re: I Want To Leave My Husband For My First Love.pls I Need You Advise. by nj11(op): 4:32pm On Mar 17, 2009 |
@ okpunor I'm sorry you don't understand how it all went down,but one thing i know i refuse to blame myself for anything. My father did not lure me into marriage,he threatened me into it, when i told him that if he made me get married that i was going to run away,what came out of his mouth more than once was, if you do not get married to this man he will go to the next village and see that i am dead in just a few days,he said that in front of my mother and other family members i called to help me plead with him that i wasn't ready for marriage. My choice was get married or die,and my dear i choose marriage. You know come to think of it i would have gone for death. My ex is not the only reason i'm leaving,i want to be happy,want freedom,tired of being taking care of by people much older. Left my parent house into marriage,never being by my self. If i do go back to my ex let it be my choice. You said something about daughters of celebrities getting married to older men,that was their choice, i wasn't giving one. |
| Family › Re: I Want To Leave My Husband For My First Love.pls I Need You Advise. by nj11(op): 4:21pm On Mar 16, 2009 |
Thank you guys so much for your advise,you guys are awesome,i am finally able to talk to somebody about what has be en eating me up for years. I am very much trying to find something to love in my husband,all there is,is that he loves me genuinely,which is hard to find now and he is a very kind individual. My thing is the attraction,when you are not attracted to somebody is hard to enjoy being around them,intimacy is a problem,when it comes to that am still withdrawn, feels like being raped,waiting for it to be over. I don't trust my ex 100% ,but am happy when am around him can be myself,i think he feels thesame way too,at-least he showes to be so into me,has that energy I've been longing for. My only pain in it all is my child,don't want to hurt him,but i want to be happy. |
| Family › Re: I Want To Leave My Husband For My First Love.pls I Need You Advise. by nj11(op): 4:23am On Mar 16, 2009 |
@ osisi, you are right, he is very controlling,he was always accusing me of flirting with other men,when we go for grocery shopping,church or a party,i use to cry my eyes out when the accusations start trying to defend myself,but as i got older i was like to hell with what he thinks. Just stoped going out with him to avoid fighting. |
| Family › Re: I Want To Leave My Husband For My First Love.pls I Need You Advise. by nj11(op): 5:06am On Mar 15, 2009 |
@oyb He was in the states while my inlaws did all the marriage thing,that was in august turned eighteen in November,so everything was okay,stayed in Nigeria for almost a year after that. He did visit. He is over twenty years older, he is a good guy,i just can't find anything to love and it makes me sad. |
| Family › Re: I Want To Leave My Husband For My First Love.pls I Need You Advise. by nj11(op): 4:32am On Mar 15, 2009 |
[quote author=**osisi link=topic=247559.msg3598405#msg3598405 date=1237086838]poor girl. does this man know how you feel about him the husband I mean[/quote]Yes,told him the very first day i got to meet him,he said i might end up loving him,which is not working. |
| Family › Re: I Want To Leave My Husband For My First Love.pls I Need You Advise. by nj11(op): 4:09am On Mar 15, 2009 |
davidylan:@Davidylan You can whatever you feel,did not marry to get out of the country,i was only seventeen years old ,the last thing on my mind was to leave my mom and my family to far and new country,i did everything i could not to go but dad threaten and had his own plans. In africa fathers have the last say. |
| Family › Re: I Want To Leave My Husband For My First Love.pls I Need You Advise. by nj11(op): 3:54am On Mar 15, 2009 |
Badriyyah:My marriage was an arranged one,he needed a wife,and my dad agreed to give him one of his daughters.He is a good man, we are just two different people,from different generations. |
| Family › Re: I Want To Leave My Husband For My First Love.pls I Need You Advise. by nj11(op): 3:47am On Mar 15, 2009 |
brownbonno:We did not get married, cause we were still very young. Being in a marriage with out love is the worst thing anybody have to go through,is like being in jail,hating everything around you. |
| Family › Re: I Want To Leave My Husband For My First Love.pls I Need You Advise. by nj11(op): 3:41am On Mar 15, 2009 |
emilyone:Yes we have a four year old together. |
| Family › I Want To Leave My Husband For My First Love.pls I Need You Advise. by nj11(op): 5:28am On Mar 14, 2009 |
I have been married for six years to a man that am not inlove with, been trying to work it out so far,but this past Christmas holiday i went home to visit my family and met my first boyfriend,all the feelings i had for him came rushing back,he tells me he feels thesame way too.Now that am back i can't stop thinking about him and its causing lot of strain in my marriage,can't stand my husband anymore.So am thinking the best is for me to leave the marriage. I need help,advise pls!!! |
| Romance › Re: Cud It Be Dat He Stil Luvs Me,guyz Tel Me Abeg by nj11(f): 4:58am On Jan 11, 2009 |
@ mezdim, The way you write is a turn of from this topic,very childish, you have enough space use it and spellout complete words. |
| Family › Re: Would You Buy Designer Clothes For Your Kid? by nj11(f): 8:09am On Nov 21, 2008 |
Oh common on guys,is not what you think,it just sometimes when he bends down to pick up stuff it shows,it happens to us all. @ DavidDylan, am not breeding a drooping pants gangster,that is an on fair thing to say. Am a mother,i breed my son to be God fearing and kind to others. I don't think any mother breed their child to be a gangster,we all pray for the best for them. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Is Beauty A Curse. by nj11(f): 1:40pm On Nov 19, 2008 |
smooooooth: |
