I guess it has to do with her manner of approach. And I don't think one should for any reason just throw such question without any previous discussions which were similar to death blah blah blah.

I will read your post 100 times and still not comprehend.

I'm sure you're not handicapped. Go and work your freaking a$$ out. Dance to the tune. Are you a learner?

Kabba7, Listen to yourself, you said they were not married.

Affiliated:

I brought up the animal same sex because the person i was replying to was inferring that animals don't practice it which is a blatant lie. If you're so morally inclined, why not advocate for sharia law? Then Africa would be saved

Sharia law is inhuman. Besides it was never practiced by Africans.

[size=15pt]I hope those "my pastor" followers are reading this. There is no correlation between one's partner and going to a pastor to pray about it.

Shall we now say Chris Okotie didn't pray about it the first time and second time?
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Oh well, I will call Pastor Chris Okotie and ask him to pray regarding my fiancee.

Another ‘Lovers Day’ is coming and along with it comes the attending expectations, breakups and sudden love realisations.

Perhaps it’s just me, but the expectations seem to have risen this year. Inflation? (Of course, we must find a way to tie everything to the removal of the fuel subsidy). Anyway.

There seems to be this preconceived notion about what women want or expect from their men this season. Well, I’m here to address that. For the purposes of this article, I use the term ‘we’ loosely to refer to the ‘average girl’ but I’d like to state that seeing as I don’t like to wear earrings, there is a strong possibility that my views and opinions may not represent those of general womenfolk.

But you’re here so you might as well continue reading, yes? No? Ah well.

Nigerian Twitter was in an uproar the other day because a guy supposedly got an iPad, a MacBook Pro, a pair of Christian Louboutin shoes and the latest Blackberry Porsche as pre-valentine gifts for his love interest. (Pre-valentine? Really? What does that even mean?) A rough estimate of the cost of all this is about half a million naira or so. I wonder what the Valentine gifts itself would be like. A front row seat in heaven?

Most Nigerian men believe that the average Nigerian woman just wants expensive presents for Valentine’s. While this may not be entirely erroneous, I beg to differ a little.

First of all, the gifts do not have to be expensive. If you can afford to spoil us silly by paying for deep tissue massages at a French spa and treating us to dinner at the palazzo, please by all means do so. But if you cannot afford it, we do not expect you to sell your kidneys to do so. It makes no sense to spend all your life savings on Valentine’s and then end up drinking garri the rest of the year. No. It is never that serious.

If you’re really sure it’s love you’re celebrating (not lust and its other variants), then I believe you’re with a partner who knows and understands your financial position. The only thing we’d find irksome is if you can conveniently afford to do something really nice but then you decide to cheapen out and buy her Mr. Biggs cake.

Such behaviour is not acceptable. The problem isn’t about the cost of the cake really but the gesture itself. It just looks like you don’t care enough, or are too cheap to treat her specially.

And that whole ‘I don’t believe in Valentine’s day’ line? The absolute worst! Is it possible that you really don’t believe in it? Yes sir, it is. But Oga, if your madam believes in it then you better go ahead and do something special for her. Love is about compromise and doing ‘foolish things’. So if it would make her happy for you to treat her to dinner and buy her something nice, then you better go right ahead and do so. Wise men know that her happiness = your happiness.

Do we like gifts? Yes. But even more than gifts, we like attention. We like to know that you’re thinking about us; that you actually put some thought into what happens that day. If I had to pick between having you to myself that day and, not spending time with you but receiving a Blackberry Porsche, Macbook Pro, iPad and pair of Louboutin’s, I’d pick the former in a heartbeat. And it is my humble submission that any girl/woman/lady/female that picks the latter is more into your money than you.

My two cents? At the end of the day, people are different. So know your woman. Know what gets to her and do all WITHIN YOUR CAPACITY to give her that. If she’s worth your time, she’ll recognise that and give you an A+ for trying.

Source: Daily Times

That's one perfect example of a dumbo.

lol. Free puccy. Get da fuckkk on.

Blah Blah Blah Blah.

Next time, be elaborative and your post comprehendible.

Na wa ooo. Them these parents no dey won understand say love is involved. They keep going the way of "just go and bring a girl that will produce babies, if we like her, you can get married to her"

shegzyvic: pls i need an advise cos i dont have work and no business to do pls what next

Mynd_44:
Open your own thread

And don't open it in Romance faculty. Unless you are a WHOREE, fine!

No shortcut to success. The way to success is zigzag. Tell your friend to start hunting. 80% of Nigerian girls cannot be compared with chameleon.

binger: You can try mopping a pond or felling trees or even hunting wild animals...

LOOL. SMH.

Wife!

Even at the point of death that I should pick who I will save between my mum and wife, I would pick my wife. I believe in normalcy no mother will want to see his/her own child die before her. Life is turn by turn.

Iru tips wo li eleyi ooo? Lol.

seedord247: 30 pound road Aba.

6 ebipenjo lane idumota

213 Iweka road Onitsha

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LMAO! Who would have the time to read all these? How does this reduce the price of the unmentionable?

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Its like you don't understand what you are saying yourself. Same sex marriage is an indecency to me. That doesn't mean I have to impose my own morals on other people. There's a place for morals and a place for laws. If a muslim government were to take over and were to make a law that all female dresses must be 8 inches below the knee, would that make sense to you? If you don't understand the implication of that law, you could be sentenced to 7 years imprisonment for hugging the same sex for too long. Mixing your own private morals and laws of the land is more asinine

No, you're the one who doesn't understand yourself. First it was about how some animals practice same sex. Now you're talking about morals and laws.
Perhaps, when these Gays get married, what will be the outcome? What will be the fruitfulness? Insanity!
If we are to go the way you're putting it, we should also legalise weed smoking, etc since it's a choice and no one should look into anyone's private life.
The western countries are really upon us. Whatever is bad for them is bad for us. Whatever is good for them will be imposed on us to be good for us too.
This is Africa, any sane human being knows that Gay is mental disorder and a taboo in Africa.


Africa is finished!

Shollypopz: www.nairaland.com/attachments/946096_Aloziey_jpgeaad485a84a4db09d04df3986585d1f2

Is that a n*aked woman covered in mud at the back of you?? WTH?!!

I think they practice cannibalism in his village or his village is yet to be discovered. Let's call our colonial masters.

profola2be:
I guess you are talking about the Cup giving to our own Super Eagles by the Cataluyans after that match that we played 1-1?
If it is that one,yes,they will bring it to Nigeria!!!

LOL. The country is in a state of coma. I say we back off! Corruption is lurking all over the country.

No. 1 and 7 .

The only thing that will make me always keep up with no. 7 is marrying a lady that is gorgeous and loves me.

The Nigeria of today is for the corrupt ones and that is why immorality, indecency, bombing are fast growing. If the country continues this way few years to come, one might just be living illegally in Nigeria by pledging his/her loyalty.

Oya, let them go and carry the AFCON. Bunch of rookies.

Goldie has gone to see her Malay boy friend. The wire gang.

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I know stupidity is prevalent in Nigeria but yours is just legendary. Many animals practice same sex in fact 90 something percent of all giraffe sex is same sex.
Nobody is advocating for same sex marriage people are advocating for equal rights. I'm sure you would be among the hypocrites that would just love to stone people to death in the name of Christianity. If you don't have anything to say, don't let people know

You're not advocating for same sex marriage but you're an affiliate for same sex marriage. One thing you people fail to understand is that, human being cannot be compared with animals in every way. Can you have sexxx with your mother? I guess the answer is NO. But of course, this act is being carried out by animals and it is seen as indecency to humans. Please let's always be humane when we comment. Sorry to say, your comment is asinine.

harobed81:

If u read my post well u'l undastnd and my child however will be taught the religion(christianity) i blv in, which no matter what anybody says does not support homosexualism.My bible says teach ur child the way he should go and he will not drift from it,therefore i'l TEACH him right from wrong and IF he goes the other way i'l leave him to God-his creator.....and God will know i've played my part as a parent.

Are you saying those that engage themselves in this immorality were not brought up "in the way to go"? As much I also agree that a child should be brought up the way to go, I'll also want you to understand that this a world of temptations and circumstances of which one can easily be lured.

Take for example, people that smoke marijuana. Some of these people that smoke were influenced one way or the other.

Well, I'm so speechless. It doesn't matter what you tell him if he's unrepentant. I think you should confront him and talk about it. Fine, he's heckler, and so what?

You don't have any choice than to let him know what you observed and how you feel. Truly, you love this man? Cover yourself in tears, he'll definitely be remorseful and pray he changes. The assertion "The only woman who is 100% sure of where her Man is every night is only a widow" is true after all.