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After the one Jesus did?

Everyone has that person or persons who just don't fit in with their crowd, and you wonder, how is possible for somebody to be this way. Always contradicting everything you stand for, doesn't share your values, opinions, way of life, etc. Never on anyone's good side, always a bad person.

Here's how to relate with such anomalies people:

- As Nigerians say, don't carry it on your head. Live and let live, stop giving yourself unnecessary stress by constantly making efforts to get them to be like you. They are not you.

- Understand they are individuals and their temperament does not match your own. That's ok, it's not a crime and it's how God made them just as he made you with your own temperament.

-Let them be if you don't understand them. Stop trying to.

-Don't try to make things more difficult for them with your constant criticisms and nonacceptance. If they are not disturbing you, don't disturb them or invade their personal space. (A Nigerian thing). Respect the boundaries they set for themselves even if you feel such boundaries are unnecessary. Remember, you are not them.

-They provoke you in some way during your interactions? (Some people might be experts at quiet provocation). Avoid them for your own peace of mind.

-Recognize your own prejudices when present

- Look at your exact reasons for disliking or hating this person or persons. Be honest with yourself, are you biased against them?

-Just run your own race and let them run theirs. Your paths don't have to cross. Don't force interaction.

In some cultures, women cross the street when they see a black person.


It depends on where you are.


As per the topic, is it not exhausting always being fixated on sex and sexual matters? I dont know how you folks do it.

I went through some of the comments and was just smh.

jimyjames:
Just trying to help

None of these people care for your pathetic behaviour, quit using their photos to try and intimidate me.

All your scheming is getting you nowhere , work on yourself.

If you like gather millions on my behalf with the expectation they are fighting me for you, ara tie lon se.

Have you helped yourself, talking about helping another person.

I'll soon report your posts so they can be removed and I also recommend you for a ban. Jobless fellow.

jimyjames:
Pls

Sorry for you.

Would you like me to do the same thing you're doing, or you feel some Yorubas have a problem with me mentioning amala?


Either way, its pathetic you're like this.

jimyjames:
I can't take what is rooted in my DNA if I like call it xenophobic

Fixed.

What kind of immaturity is the OP displaying?

I went through some of your topics and was smh.



For example, you say you're based in a particular part of Nigeria yet you're typing anyhow on the forum like someone lying?

jimyjames:
If we don't stop what will you do?

We Igbo's don't look up to anyone, we developed our region by ourselves with no federal presence, we fear no one, we worship no one , we dominate wherever we go with no favours , we are proud, boastful , successful , and there is nothing anyone can do about it, you all tried to finish us , since in 50tis till date from killings of Igbo's in Kano, civil war etc but we are still here , you can do nothing


We boast to let you know we can't be broken

Dont speak for Igbos if you are a xenophobe.

That's not what they need right now.

raker300:
read the first post again..

Did you check my posts on the thread?


Any resemblance between both photos?

jimyjames:
I know your problem


Pls help yourself with this

Xenophobic, just like I thought.

Quite obvious, really.

Can anyone clear up this confusion about the identity of the person in the video?

This is Mr Anderson Madubike

https://www.sunnewsonline.com/envoy-hails-nigerians-in-china/

https://www.sunnewsonline.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/madubike.jpg

jimyjames:
And who are you pls

Who are you?

jimyjames:
Amotekun verbal warriors right now

We all have to share this continent, don't post if you have nothing to say.

Also, quit following my posts.

Ambassador Onadipe

https://i.imgur.com/7ONAVAB.jpg

chennaija:
Yoruba Muslims are not pure Yoruba blood. Yoruba Christians, look at Yoruba Muslims, do they look like you? When you see a Yoruba Muslim, just fixate very well for 20 seconds, look at him very well and you will be shocked; he is not one of you. 90% of Yoruba Muslims are skinny and very dark skin compared to Yoruba Christians who are brown to medium dark and with big body.

Yoruba Muslims you observed might be skinny due to paying attention to their diet and weight.

Many Yorubas are dark, same as other Nigerians, therefore your colour comment is not entirely valid.

You folks are implacable. Been looking for where/when to drop that word.

There are no credit unions in Nigeria though.

They're called something else.

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This is the Nigerian Consul General in China:

http://shanghai.ngconsulate.org/en/

Can site admin do something about all these fake news and fake threads.

ok, why are there multiple topics on nairaland showing Igbos who say they don't have accommodation in foreign countries?

darfay:
You either dragging pot of soup with minority tribes

People were minding their own business when some folks took it upon themselves to accuse Yorubas of appropriating Egusi soup.

Was it Yorubas who started that or why are you saying Yorubas are dragging other people's soup?

Go through all the soup threads on nairaland, you'll see Yorubas have never debated anybody's soup nor shown unnecessary interest in soups that are not theirs. The provocateurs here are not Yorubas. Why would Yorubas be dragging soup with any tribe? They're not that immature.

1. Where is this?

2. Have the Nigerians received assistance for their predicament ie have they found accommodation?

3. Where are Nigerian officials and their names so people can actually verify this story/video

4. What are the official mediation channels for that type of situation?

5. Is the Nigerian embassy aware?

6. Is there a liaison office or department on ground to handle issues like these?

7. If the Nigerian embassy cannot get involved for whatever reason, have the state governments and/or cultural organizations been contacted?

BruncleZuma:
I am asking from experience with two different Embassies in two different countries. And it's obvious you think highly of them. For the aspersion, I mentioned you so I deserve that. I should have a wonderful week and stay safe.

If you say you're Nigerian and need assistance in a foreign country, especially in a situation like this, the first place you go if you know nobody, is the Nigerian embassy.

I wasn't aware this is to be debated.


The embassy does not have the answers to everything but they should at least be told there are Nigerian citizens in the situation described by the op and the video?

You people should also stop saying anyone who has a contrary opinion to yours, is "thinking highly" of "your enemy". Emotionally subjective discourses are not always what's required, learn to consider other stuff.

What did your experiences at two Nigerian embassies involve?

You can check these, dunno if they're real or not:

https://www.nairaland.com/5784064/nigeria-official-confronts-chinese-official#88272102

https://www.nairaland.com/5784020/breaking-nigeria-ambassador-china-collected

darfay:
Egusi is Benin, not Yoruba!!!!
You guys are terrible cooks?
Where in Yoruba Land have you historically grown egusi?
Igbos have a better claim than you?
But it's still benin

scholes0:
Tell us what YOUR OWN TRIBE ISOKO has contributed to Nigerian cuisine instead of your unnecessary hating and bickering.
All these minorities and their low self esteem ehn?! It stinks to the high heavens.

I'd have asked when did Isoko and Yoruba start quarreling, but there's one ahnie lady who specializes in jumping people for no reason.

Continue looking, it's a free world?

www.nairaland.com/attachments/11335821_environmentalissueshazmathazardousmaterialtoxicmaterialsnuclearfalloutradiationmbcn1942low_jpegaebff06babb2d4358a2f444e034c6391

Anything like a disinfecting mat?

Any pictures forwarded anywhere should be with the owner's knowledge and consent.

If not, you are breaking the law.