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Fearcom:
Why aren't I surprised? Whwre did the man admit to cheating Did I bring your mother into this conversation you blidering idiot

Doubtless you're an animal in human skin. Don't bother responding the message won't be read by me.

you dont need to bring my mum into our discussion you demented pig. I AM SOMEBODY'S MUM AND YOU CALLED ME CRAZY?
fuq off

Do you do china visa?

Fearcom:
The only maybe in this story is this: May be you're crazy. His Wife is cheating. Period

Go and sit down, foolish fool
and the man isn't cheating ?
bloody bully, go and speak to your mother like u did to me
ewu

desoul2004:
Professor of feminism, just be ready to turn into a witchcraft at your old age because that's when the reality of life will set in. I pity any guy that would come close to you as a suitor, his future will be miserable if didn't realize himself on time.

just like okoroacha predicted, so many graduates who cant speak or write properly
I pity anyone who will.call you father someday, because you will transfer stupidity to them
let me advise you, die single.

desoul2004:
A feminist spotted. You didn't even read the story and his responses to some questions, all you cared for is to lay down the blame on him.

proudly feminist
choke on my feminism
You guys are just silly, any lady with a different opinion from you daft beings gets tagged with feminism or insulted.
what manner of humans are littered all over this platform

Galaticos444:
i pity d person way married u(thats if u ar married)cos u will jst send dat one to his early grave and i also pity d guy dat will marry u(if u ar still single)cos its obvious u ar a narcicist

plenty mumu full nairaland and it makes me sad
You just quoted me to insult me, are you not mad

mandate12:
Another mad woman on the loose...

like your mother and all the women in your life, idiot
they are mad like that

mbatuku1:
What you need the most is a source of income. Why you are bothering yourself over a woman who doesn't want you is strange?

You don't need to get married to enjoy female companion.

Get another lady and forget this joke you call a wife.

Get someone pregnant. Stop dulling.

Asking a broke guy to get someone pregnant
you guys are jokers, everything seems easy for you bachelors until marriage resets your brain

pcicero:
Many of you would not even cut the person narrating his own story any slack before venting.

Do you know what some men go through in marriages?

Men are also victims in many cases.

If I were to narrate my own personal story because I am still regretting why I opted for reconciliation in spite of glaring indifference and rash decisions of my own spouse, much to the disappointment of al lot of my friends and relatives, I am sure you would still attack me.

My own wife traveled outside the country while we were just having a minor disagreement which was resolved.

She traveled to see her folks and promised to be back after a week.

She took my kid and stopped talking to me after 3 days.
Two weeks later she traveled to another country for a week.

She had bought the ticket and procured visa without informing me.

She kept staying out late giving excuses on business and accused me of not been supportive of her enterprise.

I was paying the bills oo and gainfully employed.

I got provoked and had some hot exchanges and resolved which led to her traveling to see her folks.

Her folks kept saying they did not know about her decision but I didn't believe them.

I was just advised to move on by people close to me but kept thinking of my son.

Until we later reconciled after 7 weeks of her departure.

I am regretting that decision because nothing has changed.

she was wrong traveling without telling you
she was wrong taking your kid but you need to sit down and discuss with your wife about her business.
Ask her how u can support her.. You may be doing something wrongly

Tunagee:
[b]My wife started behaving strangely immediately I lost my job in April 2017. She leaves home to her mum at the slightest [/b]disagreement without even communicating or making to express her feelings; and to worsen it, her mum gives her a great welcome with a room and parlour for her to stay, without even calling me to discuss what the problem. Whatever her daughter says is always the final, and she concludes on that.
My wife literarily destroyed my image before my in-laws to such an extent that I can't even visit them again. She tells them i insult her and her parents, and i make negative remarks about them, that i abuse her verbally at the slightest provocation. Several lies against me that I did not allow her travel out, I don't give her money, I told her not to have another kid, that I told her not to work, her mother has decided to keep her with her as I speak without even calling me to discuss, even despite all my appeals. She has been with her mum now for almost ten months(my wife is a fully grown legally married faithful woman of almost 40 years)
All these disrespect, probably cos I lost my job two years ago of which I fulfilled all responsibilities to the home. i don't drink, i don't smoke, don't womanise(even till now) I have never beaten her, I never another child out of my matrimonial home, and never impregnated another woman.
Rather than resolve her marital problem by discussing with her husband, she takes it to her family claiming emotional abuse. Fine, I agree I get provoked cos of her persistent shortcomings, and of course, frustration which leads to unguided vocal utterances towards her, but this could have been resolved easily without having to involve her whole family. Now what she keeps telling my family is that her family said she should still hold on at her mum's place. This is the 10th month since October 2018.
The last time my mum went to her mum's house precisely June last month, she was asked if she was still interested in her marriage, and she said yes, that she does not intend leaving her marriage; but we should give her time.Her mother practically told me to go and do something meaningful, and that there is time to marry, separate, reunite and hustle. Her mum is the one controlling her movements and everything about her for now; not even giving her room to give me audience.
Pls advise on what to do.
We are legally married.

you are too proud, ego is your major problem which you need to work on.
see how you painted your wife , you just want us to see the demon in her and perfect husband in you.
for 10months your inlaws didn't call and you didn't bother calling nor visiting to know how she's fairing.
That woman should just leave you and focus on being better because being with you will never be productive.

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bluefilm:
Bitch I say shut up.

Bitch you can continue to corrupt your daughters alone.

But bitch please, I take God beg you, leave our own daughter out of it.

Bitch...

e painam
continue living in denial, e go soon clear
Go ask baby mama's how they became pregnant
zu out

bluefilm:
Bitch, shut up.

When you have your own daughters, teach them to start _fucking around so early.

After all, that's exactly how you started.

Bitch.

Ezi ofia
Your name is bluefilm and you are talking about morals? I was right after all, you are a product of one night stand
Africans and useless Mentality, you lots are the reasons your daughters cannot open up and inform you if she dares become active. She might die on an abortion table because idiots like you will rather live in denial than reality.

Beating a sexually active girl will not stop her from committing the act
Ewu gambia

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VULCAN:
Stop reciting what you heard somewhere without applying common sense.

They have stopped beating kids in the West more than 30yrs ago. Indeed they say counselling is the best.

Yet there is an epidemic of teenage pregnancy there. As a matter of fact, it is a thing of pride to so many girls that they are having their baby at 15.

So stop reciting what you were told instead open your eyes and observe what is happening.

There are more baby mamas in Lagos today then there was in the entire country 40yrs ago.

and you with an uncommon sense thinks beating is the best way to prevent teenage unwanted pregnancy abi?

Jaysolu:
This is why i don't want to have girl children

Please before quoting me jst try and understand
I've seen the things women go through and i don't want to have a child who will go through thesame things
I can't stand seeing women cry.. talk of ny own daughter
Please i know its selfish but just try abd understand

Make sure you don't get married because another person will not come and born the one you will rough handle.

African mentality
Beat her for having sex?
Because of the beating she might become a single mother and raise an unwanted child in your house.
The best approach is counselling and not beating
mtcheww

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Kylekent59:
There are good samaritans every day. When you eat with your neighbours, you are sharing. Good Samaritan is not just about helping a beggar or beggar related .

Helping a helpless and hopeless person defines it better.

Saving someone who has tyre put round his neck about to be set ablaze shows you are a good samaritan

Helping people with money in a difficult situation shows you are a good samaritan

Pushing a bus for a driver whose car went off in a traffic shows you are a good samaritan

Helping a girl with money also shows you are a samaritan, but when sex is involved alters your samaritanship.



So it's not about only helping beggars.

One of the ladies who shared her experience in church said she was to travel from Lagos to the south and discovered she was robbed at the point of getting her ticket.
she said the robber tore her bag with a razor and she didn't know that all the content in her bag fell including her purse so she was stranded until someone saw her crying at the park and asked her to follow him.
He paid her fare and gave her money for food and transport fare that will take her home once she arrives her destination.

her story really touched me. people are nice when they truly want to be

soulpeppersoup:
Yes!

Yesterday I was waiting for a friend, these two girls walked up to me with their tale of hunger. I bought them food and gave them some money.

On my way back I saw same girls begging another person.

I felt scammed.

I am a good Nigerian but a great Igbo.

Those ones were hungry Nigerian scammers
But please never stop doing good

So today in my church the gospel reading was about the good Samaritan and the priest asked people to share stories about help rendered by strangers, or any person at all.
People shared heart warming stories about total strangers rendering help to them and I remembered my service year.

I was posted to Kogi state for my Youth service and I didn't know anyone there. I stayed at the catholic lodge where we were so many sharing a room and I was so uncomfortable.

fast forward to my PPA, I told one of the staff about my accommodation issues and begged him to assist because as at then we were paid 9000 naira as allawee.

He promised to get back to me and after some days he introduced me to his sister. She was married and was living in a beautiful home with her children. Her husband comes to town once in a while so most of the time she stays alone for months.
She told me she has a BQ and she was willing to give it to me at no cost

The boys quarters was fully furnished ooo, with a TV, bed, in fact I moved in with just my bag. wow
For a year and half I was offered accommodation by a total stranger whom I didn't know. She was IGALA and the purest soul you can ever meet.

Some days she feeds me oo, each time she travels she always brings food items for me and gave me free access to her house. She made me believe in humans again, especially with the kind of news back then that Nigerians can never be of help to anyone. Truly there are good samaritans. Each time I remember her, I pray for her and ask God to give me the ability to help people in their most difficult times.

Have u encountered or met total strangers who rendered help to you without expectations?
Share stories below

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Harmony92:
I just checked ur posts on nairaland n I found out dat u are very abusive. U don't go about sayin evil words to people... Learn to read n ignore or read n comment without attacking people, u dont knw d people u are saying those tins to n stop usin evil words as if u are some kind of god.God bless u.

get lost
I am here for people like you and you are a lady for that matter.
how do u think Linda feels with all these insults from u people? you can't stomach the insult given to u yet you say nonsense about Linda.
Are u ok?

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Harmony92:
She is looking very old

Is she suppose to look 15?
Does older people irritate you?

and we just started next level oo

why are we discussing herdsman and RUGA settlements bikonu?
what of technology, economy nko what is happening in this country ?

is that not Ubi Franklin I am seeing?
let me zoom closer
Congratulations on your engagements

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Joromi12:
she has a child. There are several single rich babes in my office looking for guys to marry. The office guys are going for nysc or younger grads. No crime in a woman being bread winner abeg. After all woman did not work during the creation of marriage

toh may your daughters feed a man they call husband alone.
May your daughters get married to broke men in their 20s and feed their husbands after all women above 30 with stable income are evening newspapers abi
Amen to my prayers