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mukina2:
my pic ?
check my profile its there

Your profle says: Wenger, Clichy and Van Persie

Do I have to beg you , okay show only me then if you are shy.

mukina2 we still dey wait for the pic over at the other thread,

mukina2 baby show ur piksur,
mukina2 baby show show show show ur piksur,


i think ikamefa is scared cus of sharia in the arabian peninsula,

@mukina2 and @Ikamefa, All we are saying, upload your pix,


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@oxone, am a dude, hence i don't know why you are asking me to upload my pix,

mukina2, am still waiting,

dat na eddie murphy, dat no be u

mukina2:
My pic has always been on my profile


yesssssss

I never see am since i started using nairanland,

mukina2:
Yes " " " "

mukina2, mukina2, mukina2, mukina2, mukina2

You know you are my paddy even if we fight a lot,

With no sense of remorse, no apology, no shyness , no humility, no shame, no reservation, no excuse and no moderation whatsoever, I hereby euphorically post my Top 10 Prettiest Babes as far as Nairaland is concerned.

1.

2.

3.

4. Thoniaslim

5. Stillwater (the legs alone na die)

6. Lady-Bam

7. Riskie

8. Tope2000 (the 40DD was the secret weapon)

8. Thief of Hearts

9. SexyHotMom

10. spikedcylinder


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@amebono1 i never see your picture before so I no fit grade you in absentia,

@starstruck I am not sure you are the person on your profile hence i no fit grade you either,

@mukina2,  ,  at least give us a single picture to grade, even if it is with Hijab,

Kerri Hilson - Return The Favor (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5gsN3OLV7R4)

Kerri Hilson - Knock You Down (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HQ6sp3X_LVk&feature=related)


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James Blunt - You are Beautiful (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ztc4V3ttlso)

Akon - Beautiful (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OTnWYsAakio&feature=related)

Beyonce - Halo (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qZ0FhVZce2o)

James Blunt - You are Beautiful (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ztc4V3ttlso)

Akon - Beautiful (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OTnWYsAakio&feature=related)

Beyonce - Halo (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qZ0FhVZce2o)

@gabrywl how u dey, hope all is well even inside the well,

@poster

, He has numerous doubts but wants to marry me,  He came and beat me black n blue one day when he thought I was lying and suspects me of having an affair with someone!

I am processing my Visa to go and marry this guy and will get it soon as early as next month. The guy says he loves me but treats me like Sh#t, is this because of distance and will get alright with time? or will this never change>?

I am independant, good looking, smart girl but he doesn't seem to treat me well.  I dunno what to do,, I can't go away and stay around!!! He never makes an eye contact or even lets me walk out of the relationship!!! Says he loves me a lottt, n can't let me go. He needs our family, he is 35 and I am 28, this is the peak age we should get married! I am in a experinecing a great emotional instability right now.

Tell  me what do I do? I am very badly getting affected by the whole thing

- First and foremost, no one can tell you what to do, you are an adult hence[b] you should be able to make sensible decisions based on outside friendly advice[/b], cus at the end of the day you alone are responsible for anything that goes wrong or bad.

- Let me tell you the truth, as a guy, our best behaviours is usually during the stages of pursing and courting you ladies. Hence if your guy's behaviour is already inappropriate as of now, am not going to deceive you, it would take a miracle for him to change once you are married.

-A man that truly loves a woman would never hit that woman, the best that can happen is that such a man would simple leave the woman alone when he's angry and let that woman be. A man that truly loves a woman considers that woman as part of himself, hence hitting that woman amounts to hurting himself and his relationship with her.

- Marriage is never something to rush into, as a matter of fact I would advise you to sit your parents down, and tell them exactly what it is that the guy has been doing to you. Since they have been married for a long time, it would be easier for them to give you a candid advise about marriage and concerning the guy. Nothing good can come off trying to please the public instead of making a choice beneficial to your own happiness and future.

-I understand the fact that you are a woman (who has a biological clock), nevertheless that is not enough reason for you to stay in an abusive relationship so much so that you are not even yet married and you are already unhappy enough to seek advice on nairaland.

- Long-lasting Marriage is all about mutual happiness, Happiness in a marriage is a two-way street, hence that you love a guy who does not love you enough not to abuse you, means your own happiness might be taken away over time.

- Ask yourself whether or not you are willing to endure the same treatment from the guy, assuming the situation remains the same 15years down the line.

- Is your worry based on whether or not you have you slept with the guy, (Please note that Sex is not a valid reason to remain in an abusive relationship) . Seek your parents advice cus sex should never be the basis of a marriage.

- Is your worry based on whether or not you lost your virginity to the guy, (Please note that trying to keep your dignity assuming you lost your virginity to the guy is not reason enough for you to remain in an abusive relationship). Seek your parents advice cus loss of virginity is not enough to submit yourself to abuse.

- Is the guy very good in bed or something, (Please note that even male prostitutes are sometimes also good in bed, yet that does not mean that they are husband or family material). Seek your parents advice cus extremely good sex is not enough to sustain a marriage

- Do you want to marry the guy because he's based abroad or do you sincerely want to marry a man whom you love and who loves you back. (Material wealth or success itself is not a basis of a good marriage). Seek your parents advice cus marriage remains whether or not their is wealth or not, hence wealth, location or success should never be a basis for marriage.



At the end of the day, please ask yourself,


- Would you still want him if he becomes impotent as a man.
- Would you still want him if he no longer stays abroad.
- Would you still want him if he becomes poor.
- Would you still want him if he never stops abusing and beating you.
- Would you want your own daughter(in future) to marry someone like him.
- Would you still get married assuming he was never born.

Please consider all these things and also please please sit down with your parents and discuss the situation with them (they are in a better position to give you advise based on years of experience and their love for you as their child).

I hope you get the right solution for your predicament, be blessed.

ThiefOfHearts:
No you are boring me to sleep

, back to the topic, you were saying,

ThiefOfHearts:
How can you have the strength when it's 1am in the UK and you're still here

Because am nocturnal,
Because I just woke up about 30mins ago,
, blah blah blah, should I continue,

ThiefOfHearts:
I hear Eze Goes To School is still around

Look for it since that was hard for you to understand.

Toyin , okay you win , can you let it go already. (i don't have the strength for bickering right now, )

190:
ahhh egba mi ooo
na me Bleep am, wen u say i get hand in it,  

190:
@poster
Bleep all wot these ppl are sayin
go do an abortion man,  

Please please please completely ignore @190 he obviously does not know what he's talking about,

@poster of @topic please note that:

i hope and pray u find a good solution to the dilemna cus sincerely, even though i still have no idea what the right next step is supposed to be.

Nevertheless:

1. Abortion is wrong and unbiblical, hence please i beg you not to even consider it as an option under any circumstance.
2. Abortion is not the solution.
3. Abortion amounts to murder of someone innocent and defenseless.
4. Abortion would only make things worse mentally, medically, spiritually and psychologically for the two of you.

PLEASE[b] DO NOT[/b] EVEN CONSIDER ABORTION UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES

ThiefOfHearts:
Rumor has it that, that was used for you which is why you are unfortunately here with us today.

Ive noticed that you like to claim people, lets just hope she doesnt deny you sha if she replies

and I didnt "single you out", merely said your last comment was out of line. Did anyone else say such?

- Please go through my profile and posts, cus i think you are confusing me with someone else,
- What do you mean by the phrase "Rumor has it that, that was used for you" i can't decipher the english,
- Thank you for not singling me out then,

ThiefOfHearts:
OP, tell her your dont believe her until she shows you the test. If it's true, bear your cross. condoms arent expensive in Naija or maybe you used plastic bag sef.

what is your business with the chic? Is she the only one who replied? You last sentence is out of line.

Wonder if this thread was by a female you'd say "blah blah people make mistakes". Frauds, the lot of you.

- @Thoniaslim was not the only one who replied, funny enough she's actually an acqquitance of mine, hence my statement was utter out of humour and nothing more,
- My comment towards her was not an insult, (notice that i clarified it later on), instead my comment was more of humour.
- @ThiefofHearts, do i know you or something this one that you have also decided to single me out for ridicule,
- @ThiefofHearts, have you ever used plastic bags before hence why do you suggest one,

Because its more interesting for me to do, moreover it makes it easy to attack the islamic terrorist on nairaland, as i no wan make dem use WMD on me,

Also i am enjoying the mental gymnastic that dayokanu is going thru just to try and determine who i am, I just dey laugh since with regards to the possible options that he has been suggesting,