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Miztadynamix:
I will just cut the long story short and make it brief. I went on a business trip to the UK and during my stay I met a nice young Nigerian girl that we really clicked from the very first day we met. Along the line we got so close and all that, then on this particular night the moment really set in and trust me the senerio was just too irresistible that the shit happened then she left to her house.
The next morning I know I woke up feeling really fly after the most romantic moment I have ever had in my entire life lol (maybe because I hardly have time for ladies sha), I noticed some little stains of blood on the sheets and my heart skipped. Later that evening after the whole work stuff, we most deff got to see and then along the line I had to chip in the whole blood stains ish and trust me her response kept me dumbfounded. She opened up to me that she was a virgin and she actually gave me her virginity that night before. Like seriously it really touched me and I asked her why she didn't tell me because if she did there was no way I would have done anything knowing am most deff coming back to Nigeria. Then she said she has only dated one guy while she was in secondary school in Nigeria and she really liked him but he broke up with her before she left for UK just because she refused having sex with him and just wanted their relationship to grow without the idea of sex. Now then she said because of how much it hurt her when they broke up then, she really liked me from day one and we honestly clicked wella, she didn't want to loose me just like her first boyfriend which is why she just allowed us flow to that level without saying a word about it.

I am now back in Nigeria and we seem to be apart but just trying to keep up this whole distance relationship stuff but I am someone that hardly believe these distance relationship do work. Though am single and without any kid as well, I am thinking telling her to move on so that I dont make her feel tied down with a guy she is far away from and not yet sure when we going to meet again except she comes to Nigeria and it's so obvious that's till around December next year when she must have graduated.

Do you guys think it will be a wrong move to let her go?

You "deflowered" a girl and didn't know?
It seems you're a novice in regards to female anatomy or she played you!

Amthankful:
I hope the admin put this in the FP...(Its very very long thou) I was born a Christian. mum did all she could to bring me up in the way of the lord and as a little boy I had that fire burning in me to serve God. I was always the churchy type,I was the first to church,I always wanted sunday to come,mama was proud of me. but as I grew older peer pressures,bad friends and the crave to belong to that click of big boys made me far from the truth. I still went to church every sunday,almost every Wednesday,I still partake in the communion, I still prayed everyday but my heart was far from God.

And been a good looking guy I became so close to the opposite sex that I get passes and winks from girls, ladies even whey older than me came for me and I had sex with them and because I also have a sugar coated mouth I can easily make a lady like me and fall for me and all of a sudden I became so addicted to women that I can't stay for 2 weeks without having sex. I was not happy with the way I was living but I could not stop it because I enjoyed it and forgot #proverbs 5 vs 3-4 and #proverbs 6 vs 32-33. I had some steady girlfriends I constantly had sex with and I never used condom with them. I even knew one of the girls always had sex outside because she was a sex addict but I just felt that as a sharp guy I can continue to chop my own and don't care if she had sex outside(God forgive me) and that i can never get HIV,even though I knew HIV is real. the other girl was young so I was sure about her that she can't give me HIV(foolish me,HIV dey show for face?).

I don't know what happened but this my smallie had sex with another guy,I was furious when I found out but due to my foolishness I still made love to her again and my other girlfriend all without condom. then 2 weeks after I had sex with her, the devil came full assault on my soul,he told me a big lie and I believed him, he told me I had HIV. for 2 or 3 days I was battling him in my spirit but due to the fact my spirit man was very weak at that point I fell. And due to the fact I have gone far from God and had no faith in him again I succumbed to the devils ploy to check the symptoms of HIV from google.(That was my mistake but my saving grace) then I checked online. hahahahahhaha now I can laugh but then I thought my end has come.

When I checked,I saw some of the symptoms and do you know guys that the devil is powerful if we give him space or fall to his gimmicks and tricks because he is the trick master (but the fact is that the devil is a toothless lion and not a real lion our God is the lion of the tribe of judah) the next day after checking I had the first symptoms,can u guys imagine? I had severe cough which was one of the symptoms, the following day I started to see rashes on my both hands which are another symptoms of HIV.

hahahahahahahaha the devil is a liar, due to the 2 symptoms I saw in my body I swear fear came ooo(who no go fear) and the devil just needs us scared to have his way in our life #Job 3 vs 25 and due to this fear I started to think, I thought of everything, from my life,my future,my dreams,no pikin yet,and above all my sweet strong mother, she would just die of thinking if she finds out I have HIV. am her dream,am her everything,she brought me up well that sweet innocent woman. as I was thinking I started to get dry ooo, hahahahahah, naso I start to lean ooo. cough no won go,rashes on my hands no won go.

chia in my mind I had already started to think of the best way to end it that is to just commit suicide and write an apology letter to my mum. I thought of The best way to die maybe I should jump into a lagoon,or to take poison,or to enter the road and a moving trailer crush me,my mind was filled with thought,(hahahahahahah I can laugh and smile now but those days were horrible I tell you)

but all of a sudden I remembered that there is a king up there,that there is a healer up there, I gave my life to God again(I go to Living faith church aka winners chapel please am not advertising my church here) and we do something in my church called soul winning,where we take flyers and tract and share to people and pray kingdom advancement prayers.

I intensified in that exercise because God was my last bus stop, and God that God in heaven that don't fail heard my prayers ooo. come see improvement ooo,the rashes dried up and the cough started to go gradually. then on a prayer section (because I literally became a prayer warrior)the holy spirit told me its because I gave in to fear that's why the devil penetrated me.#Job 3 vs 25 (But my brothers who no go fear na,man pikin get cough,him get rash,him no use condom with women that also have sex with other guys and don't use condom) then I started reading my bible more,went for more soul winning and praying more telling God why I didt wana die now.

I became more serious with intense prayers,with the reading of the bible(especially the part that talked about mercy. # deutronomy 4 vs 31 #psalm 103 vs 1-17. Then I started to have joy in my soul again,I became happier,I laughed more,because joy in the spirit is also medicine on it own #proverb 17 vs 22 then i started to regain my flesh back,I started to grow bigger back,My skin started to glow back(in just a week of deep thought of the worst I lost a lot of pound) I got my healing through faith,I got my fire for God back through this experience,maybe its my final warning from God and am not ready to toy with this grace and mercy and love he has shown me again.

Please friends the 30 minutes of pleasure of 3 rounds of sex is not worth it. take it from a brother that has seen it all and nearly paid with his life. even if you don't contact any sickness through sex (mind you its not only HIV you can contact, there are other STD as bad as HIV) ask your self how those God fill after the act? he fills bad and sad.

parent seeing this please tell your kids the dangers of unprotected sex. Draw them close,call them,let them fill your love and advice them. And to the girls also reading these, unprotected sex is bad ooo,in shot sex out of wedlock is bad Jehovah God frowns at it, tell your boyfriends to wait or make them Go, this life is just one please don't toy with it.

and to those reading these that might have HIV to the natural there is no cure but to our God there is abundant cure. don't give up,don't give in, there is healing if only you believe in Christ. look for a bible believing church like RCCG,CHRIST EMBASSY,SYNAGOGUE,TREM,MFM and my church also. but its not about church ok, its primarily your faith Now. #luke17 vs 16 #hebrews 11 vs 6.But you looking for a bible believing church, a bible teaching church,it would help boost your faith level to fight the battle.

Whoever told you that your case is settled na lie them tell you unless you yourself have writing off your case as settled. God loves you,na your papa him be na,he finds no pleasure in your dead or your suffering, he is such a merciful and compassionate father, Look for him,beg for his mercy and second chance and I assure you he would deliver and save you.

I hope I didn't bore you guys with my long epistle. #God loves us. #He can forgive any sin. #From glory to glory. #and never give up unless you wana die but I decided I was not ready to die yet, and am still here, kicking, jumping, more healthier than before and wana live and be a better man to God and to humanity. Faith is the all powerful drug nothing can beat its power or potency. With God and faith is his word nothing is impossible

A Response: "You may still have HIV!"

You're a good example of an id*iot!

- You f*ucked around without condom!
- You "thought" you had AIDS and didn't even go for a medical check!
- Then you showed you're a huge ignoramus by accusing the "devil" for your own st*upidity!
- To make things worse, you ran to a fraudulent church to help you to stop being st*upiid!
- Then you came here to praise your dumb self and "advise" others!

I know most Nigerians are id*iots, but you're beyond id*iocy!

Only in Nigeria would an incompetent and sexist as*shole like Buhari become president!

I thought church preaches forgiveness. Why beat the alleged thieves than handing them over to police?

Oops! I forgot that Nigerian churches are owned by bigger thieves!

He should be grateful that people cared to get an album from him.

If the id*iot cared so much about the baby not being sold, she won't abandon it in the first place!

Anyway, I'm glad she didn't kill the baby.

Nigerians are always signing useless MOU with crappy countries to save enough money to loot!
Portugal is one of the poorest countries in Europe!

He was high on some drugs.

Benita27:
I noticed 80% of our Nigerian mother in-laws threat their daughter in-laws badly unlike their foreign counterparts, and this trend is so common,once a man says he wants to take you to see his parents instead of excitement a certain fear creeps in.
personally i'm not scared of meeting the man's father because i assume father's trust their sons to have made the right choices, but for the mothers is not usually the same, was able to ask someone if she felt same and she confessed feeling worse.
Why are our Nigerian mother in-laws so mean?.
Need your contributions, and Ladies how do you feel when getting to meet them?.

Cc: Aderola15.
Talk2Bella.
IamNawty.
Laveda.

Because mothers know the games women can play to get married. So they're always protective of their sons.

Benita27:
I noticed 80% of our Nigerian mother in-laws threat their daughter in-laws badly unlike their foreign counterparts, and this trend is so common,once a man says he wants to take you to see his parents instead of excitement a certain fear creeps in.
personally i'm not scared of meeting the man's father because i assume father's trust their sons to have made the right choices, but for the mothers is not usually the same, was able to ask someone if she felt same and she confessed feeling worse.
Why are our Nigerian mother in-laws so mean?.
Need your contributions, and Ladies how do you feel when getting to meet them?.

Cc: Aderola15.
Talk2Bella.
IamNawty.
Laveda.

Because mothers know the games women can play to get a man. So they're always protective of their sons.

Bunch of id*iotic losers!!

What a st*upid girl!

Those 16 id*iotic senators should be arrested for leaving their constitutional job to accompany a known thief to the court!! Where on earth would this happen?

Shame on Nigerians for allowing this rubbish to happen in this useless country! This is unbelievable!

Why bring up this thief?
The way st*upid Nigerians worship thieves is unbelievable!

Gentlelife50:
onye ofe nmannu

You thought I'm Yoruba? What an id*iot!

Seeing the picture of the governor on T-shirts pisses me off big time!
Corrupt Nigerian politicians do this! That's what dictators do - they want their pictures on everything and everywhere!

Just another empty brain!

This failed Buhari administration is a good example that Northerners are a curse to this country!!
Northerners have ruled this country more than any region and they f*ucked everything up!

In this 21st century, it is heartbreaking that most Nigerians still believe in charms and juju!
That's what happens when there's no viable education system in a country like Nigeria!

This is what happens when you privatize electricity.
PHCN is very corrupt and mostly use inferior quality transformers in order to have more money to loot!!

Gentlelife50:
I must check name, ayam tempted to.
He's igbo...
This tribe won't be happy, that's the AFONJAS.
See their faces like they fought with hundred lions.

Na me and them for this nairaland

Why not make some sense for a change?
Some say Nigerians are id*iots and you're proving them right!

One of the worst militaries in the world, celebrating a failed nation!

The traveler-in-chief while the country burns!!

I wish they could aim the drones at Aso rock and NASS!

You see? Other countries are advancing in science while Nigerians are religious id*iots!

Nigerians are terrible in everything except corruption! That's why the country is a complete mess!

Thieves!!

Jeromejnr:
So its the same thing then, you just happen to believe what someone or some group of people wrote on listverse.

Well, from the same internet I can also give you reason why you should beleive in God.

http://www.bethinking.org/does-god-exist

http://www.70x7.com/10reasonsgod.htm

But as usual, you would select the one that appeals to your own desires.

If you check the first you gave, scroll down, you will get this link: http://www.bethinking.org/does-god-exist/stephen-fry-and-god

The second link doesn't prove anything at all.

In fact, the below link has 50 simple proofs your god doesn't exist by using quotes from your own bible. Tell me where you disagree;
http://godisimaginary.com/

Jeromejnr:
Hmm!

You sound really sure.

So enlighten us why we should believe you (not an illiterate goat herder but a basic and common Nairalander) on the Non- existence of the spiritual kingdoms.

What proof do you base your disbelief on? Where do you draw such conlusion from? Is it just an assumption? A self denial?

Or the truth?

Enlighten us with reason.

Read this: http://listverse.com/2013/03/23/10-reasons-for-man-to-leave-religion-behind/

10 Reasons for Human to Leave Religion Behind

Read this: http://listverse.com/2013/03/23/10-reasons-for-man-to-leave-religion-behind/

I cannot do that rubbish! I will forgive but not take her back.

If you must cheat on me, then also prepare to leave me. I would respect a woman who leaves me for another ma, than the one that cheats on me and still wants to be with me!

Jesuobu:
Well, I asked this question but I will give a response which I think the answer is and maybe you can give a different response which you think the answer is.

Sickness is a state where good health is missing and can also be described as something that is corrupting a good and healthy state of being. When Adam sinned, he condemned all of humanity to suffer the consequences of that sin, one of which is sickness. The sickness of someone can be the will of God but not in all cases because some people sick because of their own negligence and nonchalant attitude towards their own health and well being.

But again some ailment in some believers can be the will of God to bring about His sovereign purpose to glorify Himself and to exalt His holy name. God can devise so many approach to draw you close to Him and one of which is sickness and after your tussle with the ailment and your mind is finally made up to follow Christ, He will take away the ailment eventually and you will live your life like a new born baby.

God can also use sickness as a method of discipline or as a judgement against sin, though sickness is certainly the result of the fall of man into sin but God is very much in control and will never allow Satan to go beyond his boundaries in the life of a sick believer and the case of Job is an example of this.

So my dear nairalanders, do you think otherwise? If yes, please give your reasons. Thanks and God bless.

You said, "The sickness of someone can be the will of God but not in all cases because some people sick because of their own negligence and nonchalant attitude towards their own health and well being."

Do you think you actually made sense? You claimed your fictitious god make people sick and then contradicted yourself by saying "he doesn't cause all sicknesses".

Does anyone still wonder why religious people are confused and illogical?