₦airaland Forum

efficiencie:
Madam you dey venzzz oohhhh! You don't have to insult me to state your point...a wife is there to help her husband and the husband must help the woman to help him. If my wife seeks a machine to do the laundry, a maid to clean the house and do the cooking, a nanny to take care of the kids, a counselor to give her husband advice and a massager to keep her husband relaxed then of what use is she as a wife and of what use is the husband to the wife...The mere fact that my wife does things for me and I do things for my wife bonds us. Yes, I believe machines are made to make life easy and if i can afford them I will get as much as I can but there are some things a woman must do for her husband and her husband must do for her to strengthen the bond!

My wife is not my maid, but I am sure she will be very hurt to hear me complementing my maid, right before her, for the fine dish she prepared...and she will be hurt all the more if she sees that my respect and regard for that maid grows daily on account of her services!

Oga if you like make your wife a maid,it is non of my business. My husband respects himself so much that I also love and respect him in return. Machines were created to make life easier and as long as I can afford them,I must use them. If because a maid helps me out with some chores as a working class woman and mother is a crime,then he can go ahead and do whatever he wants. I can't even keep any maid older than 12 years in my house. I can cook meals for my husband and other things she can't do. But every other chore can be taken care of by the maid. I obviously cannot be a full-time house wife,if he wanted one,he would have married an illiterate or those who don't mind. Then if he is mad enough to seduce and have sex with a 12 year old,then he is just useless and a fool and doesn't deserve me. Gbam.

MIKOLOWISKA:
so you married a beta and gave him vegetable to eat. I'm so sorry for the poor man. mumu, cooking as a job is not the same as being your wife's b.itch.now tell me lazinus, what do you contribute to your household.? nothing or you pay bills too? just wait till he meets real woman. sorry will be your name.

Thank God I have always paid my own bills even before I got married and will keep doing so. Not my fault you end up with liabilities who don't do any other thing but take and spend. Maybe its because they know you don't deserve any better. How are you even better than Mark Zuckerberg and other wealthy men who help their wives with chores? Nonsense.

KevinDein:
You talk about military, how many women are usually at the war front? How many women are in sambisa at the moment? When I talk about risky jobs, I'm talking about jobs like long distance drivers (sokoto to Lagos is a fuuuckinng hell) petrol tanker drivers, high risk military and paramilitary jobs (women aren't sent to chase after dangerous robbers and kidnappers) etc.

Men do these jobs not because it's fun but because they need to provide for their families. Women should appreciate them by doing the little harmless domestic chores abeg.

Women drive those long distance jobs too. If you haven't seen that is your problem. More females would obviously join that sector as time goes by. And the percentage of men who are do that are few compared to normal company or office workers. As for fighting in the war front,same thing. Their percentage is few compared to those who sit in offices or do business. So save your blackmail for someone else. Like I said,all those can never be riskier than giving birth. That is the greatest risk.

Shame! These days men brag with women's fame. Be it your wife,sister,mother or any other female relative. Its still shameful. Can't you make your own name famous like a real man?
Too many sissies calling themselves men. Like that one whose father was OBJ's gateman

MIKOLOWISKA:
feminists are all divorced and look and feel stupid right now.
you that can spell but can't answer simple question?
what does partner do?
so simple yet you went to white woman grandmother green card. such a foul manipulative mind
SMH

Chimamanda and others like me are still happily married so shut your hole. Is it not what you lazy and broke guys do these days? Leeching off old white grannies just to get green card. The pictures are all over the net. Keep wallowing in your astounding stupidity.

KevinDein:
Why do ladies always say the emboldened when asked to make a little sacrifice for the family? Men go through hell, do all sorts of risky jobs that literally put their lives at risk just so they can provide a good lifestyle for their families. Ladies on the other hand always come up with words like the emboldened when asked to make a little sacrifice.

Smacks of selfishness if you ask me.

Pray tell me what hell do men go through that women haven't gone through twice? Is it the jobs that most women do these days same as men? Even military forces now have more female soldiers than before. So what exactly are you saying? Can you carry a pregnancy and risk your life to bring a child to this world? Until you can do that,you have no idea what 'risk' means.

MIKOLOWISKA:
like I said
only insult you know
so grammar is your argument, I see
your male relatives found women who are willing to pay their bills (like the white women you're obsessed with)
hope some poor schmuck doesn't find you
besides so long as the grandmother can cook and submit she will see husband and happy marriage before you


and you will never be able to speak English half as good as me

bring your waec result mowu compare

troll

and even ajegunle guy will not marry you with this attitude

Try and go back to school and learn how to compose simple grammar. Your educated illiteracy is appalling. You fool,I am happily married and my hubby cooks and cleans like a woman because he was not brought up to be a lazy idiot who waits around for a woman before doing anything. Now you and go and kill yourself. Its obvious you are just worthless. Even the owner of Genesis made his money by cooking,if he was lazy and stupid like you I am sure he would have ended up broke and frustrated like you.

MIKOLOWISKA:
I have green card cos my parents are citizens.
you can see your mindset and why guys want to test you before they commit .
the girlfriend is the maid.
if she maids well she is married
if she doesn't she is used for the only thing she brings to the table, kpekus, which unfortunately is not enough to commit ones life to providing and protecting.
why do you pity the maid I will marry when she will be provided with all the assistance to do the job, appliances, househelp, roof, food, school fees, vacations protection etc
de dia de fool yourself
no go find sugar son to pretend marriage with.

You are just a poor broke fool typing from ajegunle or whichever remote place you are in Nigeria. Citizen who can't even spell or compose simple grammar. I am not your female relatives that have been tested before they got married and not every man is as lazy and stupid as you. My own male relatives do their own chores and don't wait for a woman to do anything for them. I know you are a slave for one white woman somewhere,we see the pictures everyday here on nairaland. So stop consoling yourself as you married your grandmother's mate. Even the young white women know that Nigerian men like you are useless. Or maybe you are pained because a white woman is frustrating your life over there. Thank God the feminism rights there are strong. Let her milk you dry and kill you cos that is what you deserve. Rubbish.

MIKOLOWISKA:
what does a partner do?
it's ppl without green card that do that.
I have green card so if you're not doing housework you can go and marry dangote.
again what is the partners job description?
simple question you cannot answer, only insult, SMH

You have green card after you hooked up with a white woman. Thank God she didn't blow off your brains when you left her. Why didn't you employ a maid when you were single to do your chores instead of doing them yourself? I pity the maid you want to marry. Empty barrels make most sound.

MIKOLOWISKA:
so what is wife. I bet you can't answer

Wife is a life partner. Just as husband is a life partner. It's your type that becomes houseboy for white women but come here to type trash when it concerns Nigerian women.

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It's high time the punishment for rapists become being raped by gays. They would never look at a female again after that experience. Nigerian gays should be useful in prison at least.

efficiencie:
kids...and the way they think! machines are great but if you keep seeking machines to do those little things in the house...yu might just come home one day and find your husband in bed with a MACHINE!

Mrs wife, yu are a helper...if yur husband has no need that yu can address, yu are no different from his mistresses! He'll treat yu all the same way.

You must be mad to have sex with a machine then. I wonder why you bother using any equipment or modern tools if you can do it the old way? If you need a maid,hire one. Wife is not maid. Rubbish

Good morning. Beautiful day right? Yes. We thank God for His mercies.

I write on behalf of most wives. Yes, we know and have read all the memos about 'A good wife.'

The documents always find their way to our desks.

A good wife builds her home.

A good wife never raises her voice on her husband.

A good wife is a praying wife.

A good wife...........

A good wife...........

The list is endless.

It's all well and good. I totally agree.

However, nothing is said about 'A good Husband.'

I am yet to see a memo on this.

That is where I have an issue with.

What exactly will 'A good husband' be doing while 'A good wife' builds the home?

'A good wife' does not raise her voice but 'A good husband' is allowed to do so?

'A good wife' should always give her man good food and sex.

Is 'A good husband' not supposed to give this woman the Love, respect and adoration she also deserves?

'A good wife' does not nag. She should communicate effectively. I agree.

But why is 'A good husband' exempted from good communication skills?

Please listen up. They asked that I tell you this:
***********************************************

Good marriages are not made in heaven. They are made here on earth and it takes the input of both the man and woman.

The family is the bedrock of the larger society. I strongly believe a great number of societal vices can be curbed if the family is well grounded and raise healthy kids.

Yes. These kids are watching.

'A good husband' is not one who only provides financially.

Please draft your own document. Keep to the terms and we 'the good wives' will do our part too. It will come naturally.

I make this promise on their behalf.

Thank you.

A hopeful 'good wife,'

Nkiru Uzoh

Boyooosa:
There are some things you don't take personal in life... My comment did not call for a spade.

You took it personal first that is why I said what I did! Wetin concern me if you don't have a sense of humor?

teacherbim:
Tonto Dike could have safe her marriage if she really married the guy for love but she decided to SOCIALMEDIAAA everything and it crumbled,I've seen men that have sidechicks but still love their wives.

We know your husband cheats on you and still loves you. Very good! But speak for yourself. When he also brings back STDs and his kids from another woman also clap for him OK? Finally,if he kills you, its still okay at least he can now marry another woman. Rubbish!

kyaagbanairaland:
Then d old bitch should stop disturbing us with all her pix everywhere on d web. Her early morning wake up pix, her bathroom pix, her bedroom pix. Soon she will start posting pix of her being fvcked. Do u think everytime I come across her private pix on d web I feel delighted for her? Who is not minding their biz now oga Sabi Sabi? Someone posting pix of everything she does on the web or me living a comfortable solo life here? Think with ur brain not your kidney

Oya go and die if it pains you so much. Last time I checked nobody forced you to click and open the thread. You think through your asshole and you sound miserable.

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Boyooosa:
How? He just unleashed the truth

He unleashed his stupidity and mediocrity. Must you guys make everything miserable like your lives? Loosen up, life isn't that serious abeg. Someone is trying to spread humor and laughter and your dousing it with your negative mentality. Jeez!

SUPERPACK:
modern day tithe is simply an indoctrination by the pope and church, do the levites still exist?

Why mention the Pope? The catholic church doesn't emphasize on tithe like protestant churches. Only in recent times, they just announce it for the sake of formality. Its never emphasized. Say what you are sure of. I don't get how those who have never stepped into a Catholic church for one day get to criticize them.

Truth is I didn't go to church today because religion is a scam. I believe in God and His son Jesus Christ but I don't need to go to church every Sunday to make heaven or validate my belief. Humanity is what matters.
PS: once you understand Christianity is a way of life and not a religion, you would get what I am saying.

kyaagbanairaland:
She is turning into grandma and not yet married. By the time she becomes old and inactive, she will feel so deserted and lonely. Nobody to assist her at that time then she will regret not having a helper. Abi u think say she no go grow old? Unless she won turn to babies mama becoz na dream of young ladies like u of nowadayz be dat.

Is it your old age? How does that put food on your table? Una get time and strength. Learn to mind your silly business.

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Only northerners want Nnamdi Kanu’s rearrest — Afenifere

The National Publicity Secretary of the pan-Yoruba sociocultural organisation, Afenifere, Yinka Odumakin, tells TOBI AWORINDE that President Muhammadu Buhari’s resolve to clamp down on hate speech will worsen the issue

Why are you against calls for the rearrest of pro-Biafra agitator, Nnamdi Kanu?

To start with, experience has shown that arrest cannot resolve the question of self-determination. Two years ago, who knew Nnamdi Kanu? Maybe he was just on the Internet or Radio Biafra. But when he was arrested and detained for over a year he became popular. You realise today that when he is addressing crowds in the South-East, thousands gather and follow (him). They (government) made him popular. If they rearrest him, they are going to further popularise him and bring into focus the issues he is fighting for. Why don’t they deal with the issues, solve the nationality question and render his achievements ineffective? His arrest will not resolve the matter. Even if they sentence Kanu to death today, another person will rise — once they refuse to resolve the matter.

On the other hand, when you talk about the rule of law, that lady that symbolises justice is blindfolded. The essence of that is, she is no respecter of persons — she delivers justice to whomever offends the law. But then, you begin to go after Kanu and some people get up in Arewa land to say leave our land. The Kaduna governor says, ‘Go and arrest them.’ The vice president says, ‘Arrest them.’ The minister of interior then says, ‘No, they said they were misquoted.’ The thing the minister said they were misquoted on, they sat with governors from the North to say they were suspending the order (notice to quit given to Igbo in the North), and they were holding a press conference in Sheraton.

In fact, one of the (Arewa) youths, when they were looking for them, said, ‘If I’m declared wanted, I will give myself up.’ Even (for security agents) to invite them for a 30-minute chat and let them go, they didn’t do that. When you refuse to do that, you create problems for the rule of law; you show that there’s a double standard. That is not how to build an inclusive country. Not that we endorse everything that Kanu is doing, but we are saying in order not to overheat the polity, what we need now is (for the Federal Government) to address the issues that have given rise to agitations. If we begin the process of restructuring this country, the separatist groups will be at bay. But if we don’t address these issues, you’re giving them, added energy.

Do you agree that Kanu has violated his bail conditions?

That is left for the court to decide. I’m not the court. The court granted him bail and gave him conditions. The Federal Government should go before that court and let that court decide if he has violated the bail conditions. There are sanctions for it. But it is not the executive, the police or anybody that can determine whether he has violated his bail conditions. It is the court. They should go back to that court and if the court is complaining that he has violated his bail conditions, there are appropriate laws to deal with that.

Do you think his utterances and actions have been justifiable?

If there are things he said after he was granted bail that are in conflict with the conditions of his bail, put that before the court. Let the court adjudicate. But it is not Arewa youths that will determine that. It is not Tanko Yakasai; it is the court that will determine that ‘these are your bail conditions, you have violated them and these are the sanctions.

But that is what the Federal Government is doing. It has gone back to the court to determine whether Kanu has violated his bail conditions.

When you are granted bail, that is not the end of the matter. The bail means you can go home while the case continues. They have a case in court; let them go to the court. It goes beyond the whole question of courts. Kanu has not been put before the court for killing anybody, burning property or doing anything wrong. All they are taking him to court for is for statements they said he made. Arewa youths made statements that threatened the unity of the country; they (government) said they should be arrested. The police did not arrest them. The minister of interior came out and started making excuses that the youths said they were misquoted. Why didn’t he say Kanu said he was misquoted? Now, those who are in favour of (Kanu’s) rearrest are from the same section of the country where the Arewa youths come from. People can begin to draw insinuations that they are quick to ask for Kanu’s rearrest because he is not from their section of the country, while they are shielding those who are from their section of the country. That’s why I’m talking about inclusiveness. So, it goes beyond taking Kanu to court. It’s on the basis of the same question of what Kanu said that they arrested him in the first place. Arewa youths made pronouncements that threatened the unity of Nigeria. To date, the police could not invite them for a chat; (not) even to take them to a five-star hotel and interrogate them over drinks, pepper soup and groundnuts. To let them be roaming free and even for the minister of interior to be making very lame and unintelligent excuses for them — what kind of country are you building? The boys never said they were misquoted. When they suspended their notice to quit, they repeated everything they said. That minister should have resigned by now. We are not holding the fort for Kanu at all. We are saying if you want to apply the law, you must apply it evenly; not a law for a section and another law for another section. That cannot work. In fact, that will create more problems and give more sympathy to Kanu.

But Kanu has again made provocative statements, saying anyone who tries to rearrest him will die. What do you make of that threat?

If he threatens anybody, there are laws that deal with that. Like I told you earlier on, this is not about Kanu. It’s about the rule of law. I’m not saying Kanu has not committed any offence on which he can be charged or tried. But we are saying, follow the due process of law. However, your rule of law should not be for Kanu only. The law you want to enforce against Kanu, should be enforced against anybody who has violated the law of the land, no matter where they come from. But when you flex your muscle and say you are doing a selective application of the law against somebody from a section of the country, you open yourself to all kinds of charges.

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