₦airaland Forum

bentennyIsBack:
https://twitter.com/YeleSowore/status/1668936330301022208?s=19[/quote]Student loan is a scam if tuition fee will be reintroduced, it can thrive in a corrupt society like Nigeria

uzomakanaki:
Fellow nairalanders, please I need advice from matured minds in this group.

I'm in a two year relationship with my woman, we're both working. I'm 34 while she's 27. My montly salary and commision is over 200k with other side hustle i do that bring in funds for me, i also just got a car i want to register with bolt/uber to still bring in funds in my free time.

My fiancee on the other hand is earning 75k monthly. I take good care of her needs and makes sure she doesn't lack anything I can afford.

We both plan to settle down by December.

Sometimes last month she missed her period, after the test we discovered she's 5 weeks pregnant.

I'm against abortion because of the dangers involved in the aftermath, i suggested she keep the baby while I come and see her family and do some necessary things before the main wedding. But she insisted in aborting the baby, reason being that she can't be pregnant and be working. Unless I place her on a monthly salary.

She has aborted the baby and had complications because of the quack nurse that performed the abortion. I spent a lot to make her back on her feet

I'm gradually losing interest in the relationship cos that single act of her. I've kept this to myself.

I just need advice on how to handle this. Cos I'm already fed up with her with her recent disrespect and the way she talks to me anyhow even in public.

Selfkontrol:
Good day Nairalanders. Pls I need some mature advice because I’ve been in a dilemma for a long time now concerning relocating abroad or staying back in Nigeria.
First of all I’m not a japa advocate. I believe if you’re doing well in Nigeria then there’s no point relocating abroad but I feel there’s so much uncertainty and I don’t know what the future holds for me in this country.

Now I’m a married man of 30 years. I will turn 31 by this September. We have no child yet but wife is preg now. I have a B.Eng in petroleum Engineering but have never worked in my life. My current business is crypto trading which I have been doing for years now. During the 2021 crypto bull run I made lot of money and acquired some properties that’s currently valued atleast 60-70m naira in total. bought my car same year and got married same year to my long time Gf, settled some family members etc . I don’t have any other investments or business aside my properties and crypto portfolio because crypto trading has taken all my time and I won’t complain because so far it has been good. Making money in dollars while in Nigeria is bliss. Even though we have been in bear season since 2022, I still make some money every now and then that’s sustainable for now until we hit another bull run which is likely to happen from next year 2024.

My fear lies here, on the long run crypto trading is not sustainable. If not for 2021 bull run I don’t think I would be in this position and even the projected bull run next year is not 100% certain

I plan on learning a programming skill which is very difficult, I tried learning it late last year but stopped along the line because it was distracting me from trading and missing some opportunities in crypto because making money is most important. Coding would probably take me a few years before I start earning even though it is sustainable long term but crypto trading can be life changing but not sustainable long term . It’s more like a gamble most times.

My plan A, is to gather enough money from now till 2025 which is the duration of the projected bull run if it happens and start investing in real estate development, Like building and selling and other businesses too but I don’t know how feasible that is in our present day Nigeria and if I don’t make my target amount, I might have to start with the available resources present.

plan B, gather some money, learn a skill then relocate to Canada with my family via study route since I don’t have any real work experience aside crypto trading but that would mean me going to study and starting afresh.

For my wife, she also has a degree in Human Resources with just nysc as working experience. She learnt wig making and installation and has been doing her online biz selling wigs etc.

Abroad folks, what are my chances abroad considering my current profile. Is it worth it coming over there to start afresh
And build? I have heard so many things how it’s hard getting a job and you have to rely on survival jobs for the first few years expecially for someone without any work experience.

I really don’t like joining the bandwagon cos everyone seems to be leaving, I love to weigh my options and hate taking unnecessary risk that might lead to regrets, at the same time don’t want to regret not leaving since I’m still young and have the opportunity that’s why I’m here asking these questions to learn from experienced and matured family men home and abroad the action they would take. We learn everyday,

For my unborn kids, if everything checks out, my plan is to give birth to them in either Canada or US for the passport and raise them in Nigeria and when they are grown, send them to study there and that is only if I’m not relocating. And if I’m relocating, what are the in-demand skills and professions I have to take since it’s clear I might be going to school because I hate survival jobs. What is your advice pls.
Mature advice pls. Thank you 🙏
@justwise @Disguy

sonature1:
Marriage was happening before religion was brought to Africa!

Children everywhere.

AwoOkeIjero:
You have already answered it yourself... stop porn and masturbation...they are the same as drug addiction. The only reason you should do masturbation is if you want to do SFA (seminal fluid analysis)...and if you continue this way, God help you that you have low sperm count.

Your brain has been reprogrammed by porn and masturbation for self-pleasure that when the real thing comes, you won't be able to get it up. In fact, let them bring that same porn star, white oyinbo with big yansh and creamy p*ussy, you still won't get it up.

To conquer this, re-program your mind by stopping those habits. It is not easy but doable. Rechannel it into making money and being a better version of yourself.

Finally, to regain your confidence, conquer the anxiety and use viagra for the do (this is to regain back your confidence since I assume you are once hard rock before the habits). And when the viagra works, please don't go back to those habits or else it won't work again as you persist in them. Think about when you will get married for your own good.

*Porn should be banned...it is harmful but the godless industry of this world won't allow it.





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TobiAbuja:
Horrific footage shows a Syrian refugee repeatedly stabbing a toddler in its pram in front of his screaming mother in a frenzied attack at a French playground that saw four children knifed.

The attacker, identified as Abdalmash H, 32, launched his 'abominable' rampage in a lakeside park in Annecy, an alpine town in southeastern France, at around 9.45am.

Video shows the attacker running into the small playground and repeatedly stabbing a toddler in his pram while his screaming mother tries to protect him from the attack.

Further dramatic footage shows the attacker, a Syrian refugee who arrived in France last year, later being pinned to the ground by armed police officers at the park after being chased away from the playground by locals.

Horrified witnesses say mothers ran past them screaming 'run, run' in the aftermath of the frenzied attack, which President Emmanuel Macron has condemned as 'absolute cowardice'.

Four children aged around three - reportedly including a three-year-old British girl - and an adult were seriously injured in the attack. Two of the young victims and the adult are now in a life-threatening condition at a nearby hospital.

Witnesses said the knifeman had begun attacking the preschool children while they were playing at a small playground in a scene of utter 'carnage'. They said he had launched his onslaught on the toddlers because they were 'easy targets'.



Source: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12173067/Eight-children-stabbed-knifeman-French-playground-attacker-subdued.html

KlassicJ:
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PapaNnamdi:
apart from touchlite which other heavy usage can itel phones be used for, 6000mah on touchlite will last 3days,


you pay for front page

we the real unpaid consumers will continue to tell the truth about your overpriced products..

Chinese might be worst than Nigerians in lying


only japanese and Japan can be trusted in the whole Asia.

itel and transion stop lying about your products

frog12:
do you know the condition he is suffering from?

Jennyclay:
if my future man has 4 businesses that are bringing millions, I can also support him in running one or two of them.

And that would also make me a millionaire.

paymentvoucher:
Nobody should blame Government, we are to be blame in this country. Wetin Man do Man, Man no fit talk am finish..

TO EVERY PETROL STATION OWNER SELLING FUEL THEY BOUGHT AT SUBSIDISED PRICE FOR MORE THAN ₦185, IT WILL NEVER BE WELL WITH YOU ALL.

YOU ALL WILL LABOUR IN VAIN AND WON'T USE THE EXPLOITATIVE PROFIT FOR ANYTHING GOOD BY GOD'S GRACE.

Nazgul:
During fuel importation we were buying fuel at most N170 per liter. Now that fuel is refined here in Nigeria, are you expecting us to pay above N300 per liter for it?

And it has nothing to do with his loans...

NzogbuNzogbu:
which peace has he ever sued for?

Someone that told his thugs publicly never to allow people bring down their "vibe"

I looked at the message above and didn't see where he said he wants peace for tinubu inuguration expressly but attention seeking

JagabanBorgu:
The most informed man on earth, I celebrate you.

JagabanBorgu:
I Know, that's what CIA agents tell people, unfórtunately, u think u know so much by watching Western news day and night, boom!!!
U have become an expert.

JagabanBorgu:
We appreciate Russia because they doñ't pokenose and impose their ideas on people like America.

828Stony:
Libya will forever be destabilized and arms plus militias will keep coming from there to destabilize the northeast and northwest of Nigeria, we both know the guns this people use don’t come from the ports but from the desert, if you have been up north before, you will know how porous security is, unlike down south where the police is ready to flag anybody down if not anything but to extort,, same goes for congo, but you have conceded that the US is the avengers of the world, I can only pray we don’t get on their bad side cuz we are a very easy country to destabilize. Good thing you know your history, you should also know, the US attacked cuz Hussein was planning to change the dynamics of oil trades against the USD, same goes for Libya, this countries were not the only terrible dictators of then, but never go against the US selfish interest. Do you think the US cares about the citizens of those nations? They don’t,that’s why they never bother to help them rebuild, the goal is to destabilize them so they can’t make any policies that affects the US. Now the citizens that went around shouting for the US to save them, how is their lives now, they don’t even have a nation to call their own, if Nigeria pitted itself against the United States during the Biafra war, do you know how much they would have backed Biafra with weapons? Just to make sure we remain destabilized. Omo no go dey think say this people get sympathy for you oo,, all na selfish interest. You said it’s a game between two bad guys but why are y’all agitated because Putin deployed nukes to Belarus. Let the other bad guy do his thing in peace and let’s watch.

JagabanBorgu:
They successfully took over Afghanistan and still ran away?
LOL.
The body language is not one of negotiation.
It's one of accepting dèfèàt and leaving after wasting 20 years.

Moniya4Real:
But you need to realize the US actually supported worse repressive regimes than the ones you highlighted below. They once supported Saddam , remember? They supported Mobutu to overthrow a democratically elected you Lumumba. It’s funny how you believe the US is advancing the course of democracy but their interest.

828Stony:
you just dropped a good argument, If you are the president of present day Russia, will you allow this vast land Acquired by your ancestors to be taken from you in your lifetime, they obviously started out as different tribes and hamlets but they grew under one language and held their ground, will you be willing to loose those lands and be a shame to your ancestors, not withstanding you already lost the Soviet Union, not by military occupation but by manipulation from a distant power. I really wish to know what you would do in putin’s shoe, what I see is everyone bashing him for not being a coward,, and of course the black man was a coward and still a coward ruled by vanity, look at nations pitting themselves against the western agenda and you will see their culture is conservative and their people less greedy and loyal to the course of their nation, Russia,North Korea, and china, trust me, if this nations were occupied by the black man or Africans , the US would have compromised and destroyed them from within just as they did Iraq,Libya and same thing they are planning with Iran, Vanity is the downfall of every nation or ideology.

JagabanBorgu:
Ukrainian game is a game that drags on.
Russian engagement mostly drags on.
US dislodged Taliban yet, somehow, Taliban took over afghan.
LOL.
The story no clear.

JagabanBorgu:
If we insolate the US and take awày nukes, u think they can beat Russia?
LOL.
They needed nukes to tame Japan decades ago.
Farmers and cattle rearers in Afghanistan róàstëd US military with mortars and AK-47.
U think we if US is isolated and deprived of it's nukes, it can beat Russia?

Badassniggga:
Go check history, Russia never lose, never! Hitler and Napoleon did worse using more brutal approach and still lost to Russia.

dealhunter:
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Irete26:
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2.4m
Location is Osogbo, osun state
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