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As civil engineer. I have spoken face to face to more than 500 men within four years. I always discovered one common thing about them..... Majority of them are redpillers.

There are too many men who have swallow the red pill offline.

I have dated a girl who became a thorn in my flesh. She was like, without me, there is no other girl. It was difficult for me to disconnect her from my life without a fight.

In due time I later discover that, the best way to break up with a clingy and trouble some girl is true repentance. Just tell her you want to serve God. And that, you are tired of fornicating, which takes you farther away from God.

Tell her you want to serve God. Trust me, she will painfully let you go.

Blessedmercy8
You know I told you to admit it that, you are a broke girl. Stop seeking attention by creating more thread over this your useless mindset.

I will also advice you to let that your boyfriend go. He will find a more better girl than you who is so broke

PumpumPrince:
..ok am thinking of quitting Nairaland again..... ...the ladies cuss too much!! !

Quit
No way

Do not cry. It was you who asked and I am only sharing my sincere opinion about your question.

Blessedmercy8:
Hahahahahaaaa... Typical of a nairalander.

How a post I made from an unbiased point has been getting a clapback from the male folk on here is really amazing.

Like seriously.. since when has it become a crime to do a simple findings on ones lifes decisions that it now stirs negative reactions from anyone who feels affected in some ways?

If my post struck a nerve in you, why not seek to become a better person than coming here to rant like a wounded lion?

Oh.. I see. I'm being referred to as *broke* because I sought to know if what my man and I are earning can run a home comfortably in this era? How dumb and low. You are the broke one with a broke mentality.

Which white or American babe will even look your way? Lol.. small bumbum too dey shake..

Abeg I'm out!

A Nigeria lady on nairaland asked this Question

Blessedmercy8:
Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere opinion.

He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

https://www.nairaland.com/7289686/it-advisable-marry-man-earning

1 Do not be surprise that, the person who asked this question is a broke girl. She nor get shishi and she cannot support a man. If she loves the guy and makes more money as she claim, why on earth will she be worried about the 100k income of the man if she makes more money than him?

If a man makes 100K and you the woman makes more, then both of you can co power the home comfortable and still have savings.

2 Nigeria girls/ women believes that your money is our money, while my money is my own money. This is one reasons why most Nigeria guys are scared of marriage. They are afraid because Nigeria girls or women don't financially support their men, unlike white girls/woman who co- parent and co support their man financially.

3. Foreign women are just too good. I once spoke to a black american man who told me that, in America everyone works and support the home. If a foreign woman sacrifice her career and be a full time house wife, then during divorce the man will have to pay her alimony for that same amount of years she married him as a house wife. The western laws gives equal right to women and men, so it is the duty of a woman to financially support their home.

Most Nigeria women who travelled abroad later have a change of mindset. They later learn and understand that, they must work and financially support their Nigeria abroad base husband.

But in Nigeria, most men die before their time. Men age old quickly becos, all the financial and family burden are on them. Even most Nigeria women who earn will never financially support their husband, although not all of them but majority of them.

4.The average Nigeria women have evil entitlement mentality. They believes that, a home is financially run alone by only the man. This has been so since time memorial.

This is why we 9ja guys believe that Nigeria girls are useless. They are a massive liability. They have nothing good to offer us becos they offer you nothing.

I clap for Nigerian men. Them dey try a beg.

Miss Jealousy. You fine reach am?

Not at all.

siofra:
Boredberry wasn't typing the nonsense this guy is typing. Don't even compare.

OK. I will publickly show you something.

Princess80:
hehe.
Black ladies rock, our skin doesnt break at old age

Because you are sounding like a ternager. Your church said this. Your church said that.

At your age, na your church go make decision for you.

udede:
must you insult to advise

Sorry. I have forever reject Nigeria girls. ...All of them.

Thebadpolitican:
So young man what do you like white skin

You deserve knock on your skull not on your head but skull

I know with time you will overgrow the obsession for pale skin

I am a 29 years old guy. To you, I now sound like teenager just because I have different views about relationship on (white and black women)

If you like Nigeria babes, does it mean I must like 9ja babes too?

A popular black man by the name Tiger wood, married and divorce a white woman, yet he continue to date only white women. He knows that he cannot endure their black dramas.

Leave me and my opinion alone. I'm in love. I am marrying my white bobors asap

jedisco:
You sound like a teenager who just had his first sex

A man who insults his kind is weak. Most successful Nigerians abroad are married to Nigerians. Most folks who end up in your stare because of papers end up running out in their 50s (if they're lucky) after years of abuse to go remarry Nigerian ladies. Having travelled round, I'd pick a Nigerian lady many times over.

Because women are like little children.

Selfish and self conscious.

DamnnNiggarr:
How Come We Never See Father In-law & Husband Fighting? Why Is It Always Wife & Mother In-law?

Why?!!!!

Mynd44 lalasticlala RoyalRoy Dominique

I pitty you old man.

Despite your old age, you still do not have any sense. The most important thing for you in a woman is big ass and big breast.

Chaiii.

Take this money and buy sense

Thebadpolitican:
You be mumu man I swear...Wetin you see for white woman chaiii women wen nor get yansh and bress las las them go purcho you comot for your house...and your children will never set foot in Nigeria

African women any day any time

I know you would be nothing less than 19yrs
Which I have constantly advise the mods to put age restriction pertaining to creating a post

Well, I will not argue with you. But as long as I don't cheat, I have no worries. It is better I have dual citizen than to have nothing in dating your sisters who have nothing good to offer me.

blazingblender:
1.And you didn't notice that none of them above the age of 18 are virgins
2. That they are so domineering that they can pursue you out of the house if you make them vex...
3. You are just another simp trying to get citizenship.
4. Bro you are not in love you are being used.
5. The only things you mentioned they are just positive characteristics wbt the negative side

God1000:
Hmm, but I still prefer marrying from my village

It is ok. As long as your wife from the village can makes you happy.

I am marrying white asap. Their attribute melt my heart.

My heart belongs to white bobors.

I am in love. I am deeply in love with a caring young white girl I met. In what I noticed about white girls is that, they are obsessed with men with good looks. The way 9ja girls are after your money, that is how white girls are after guys or men with good looks.

You will see a 29 year lady in love, dating and wanting to marry a 22 years old guy because he is handsome. You will see a 48 years old white woman in love, dating or ready to marry a 25 years old hot guy becos of his good looks. But due to the age difference, they will be the one in charge of the relationship. They are very caring and giving. They just know how to love deeply and dont easily double date. They also give so much and spend on their guy

Another thing I observe is that, they hate lies. You can easily deceive them as their trust and love is so deep. They can also cry for your Love. Unlike Nigeria girls who will cry becos your money and cars..

Image: Google source.

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Bad belle kill na go kill you.

Mitchew.

White girls don't you for your money. Heir love is real and life changing.

You look good.

In fine past all of them..

Infolenka:
Post your pic, maybe I'll edit my list

When they get to 23, they instantly loss their beauty and become ugly.

Funny man.

You speak the truth.

MaxInDHouse:
Better to go to the house of mourning than to the house of feasting, for that is the end of every man, and the living should take it to heart. Ecclesiastes 7:2

That's what God's word says!

So if a prominent religious leader who claims to be a Christian dies and you are also of that caliber then your absence means MOCKERY to the God speaking here!

At least just few words of condolence is enough to show that you believe in God's word. But total abstinence then coming to say some people mocked you when you're bereaved shows you don't even know what you're doing!

Max I salute.

Double.

MaxInDHouse:
That's what you should have done in the first place since you're not a believer!

Uselessness is claiming to be a minister of Christ yet turning against the teachings of Christ. Jesus calls them WORKERS OF INIQUITY (LAWLESSNESS) Matthew 7:21-23
WHY?
Because if he doesn't believe in mockery then why mock his fellow religious leader at death by ignoring him even at death when people from all over the world came to Nigeria and many even send in messages.

Ọmọ for him to claim man of God in Christ but misrepresent Christ by action makes him useiless in fact a disgrace to the faith!

More salute.

MaxInDHouse:
Dude do you have a problem with TRUTH?

A question you should ask adeboye.

Wilgrea7:
Dude... Do you have a problem with Adeboye?

You have my salute.

MaxInDHouse:
Useless man!
Did you console TB Joshua's family when they lost him?
At least TB Joshua sends his condolence when your own son die nah!

Adeboye is one of my most despise preacher.

Wilgrea7:
Listen... We're not doing this today...

All i was asking was why you called him a useless man

Mr Man.

Stop fooling yourself with your senseless excuses. My church said this, my church said that, my church will not allow this. Na church dey fork your wife for you.

Your wife has no womb.

udede:
our church don't grant divorce unless you have evidence of adultry. The church granted me permission to marry a second wife, and she is very ok with it

You should keep pressing. Help will someday come from the unexpected source.

Truvelisback:
Yes, many may see the smile but won't see the pains u are going tru and the tears u share secretly.