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Re: I Just Need A Family by Ningi2020(m): 2:12pm On Aug 14, 2022 |
[quote author=BirtherOfKings post=115619106]U don't need a second wife but God's help I. Turning the heart of your wife to say the truth so u both can find a solution together..that's what makes a man great and not going against God's will...I can even adopt in the meantime [/quoteln] See them BAD advisers.... |
Re: I Just Need A Family by descartes400: 2:22pm On Aug 14, 2022 |
udede: Is she the head of the house, that she will grant you permission to take a second wife...considering her sole decision to not want kids? Why would you seek her permission when she did not seek your input or understanding when she was taking such a foundational decision... If she had informed you of her intent to not have kids, I bet you will not have either continue with the courtship, talkless of marriage..this a deal breaker...look, its not only infidelity that can invalidate marriage oh, your situation is a classic example of irreconcilable differences. When you marry a second wife and your undivided attention shift to your new tear leather wife who is dropping lovely bouncing baby kids back to back for you, she will get jealous and start making trouble...you will no longer have peace, a man needs his peace! If I were in your shoes, she will sign the divorce paper, then I will proceed to marrying a new wife...if the church says peem, I divorce the church too!. |
Re: I Just Need A Family by udede(m): 2:29pm On Aug 14, 2022 |
descartes400:thank you very much for your very mature advice |
Re: I Just Need A Family by aimalohi: 2:36pm On Aug 14, 2022 |
What is ur family and hers saying? How come u waited this long bfr crying out. Discuss with her and tell her it’s time for d both of u to go ur seperate ways because u both dont hv same vision. How can u b stagnated for ten yrs because of a woman who probably does not hv a womb or something bad has happened to her reproductive organ and she has refuse to tell u. Nothing like polygamous in this matter it’s overdue for u to escalate it to both families and even ur church. Then d truth will b exposed |
Re: I Just Need A Family by Xmen149(m): 3:34pm On Aug 14, 2022 |
micflo28: Pastors now do womb transplant,?.. Nigeria and Africa are becoming more Christian than the people that started the journey with Christ. We will know where the problem is ,instead of taking action putting legal backing in view then sit back for God to bless our effort we will allow evil to prevail and be running to God,.Even faith without Good work is dead. Once you obtain marriage under false pretense (church or court) divorce is allowed straight |
Re: I Just Need A Family by Xmen149(m): 3:47pm On Aug 14, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: You are right. I once dated one Anambra girl,.when we got serious she came plane that she doesn't want to have kids and have dreams traveling all over the world and nothing to hold her back.. We went our ways peacefully..last we chatted she was in SA and still no plans of settling down. But my worry is why it took this long and why she doesn't want to go away lolz,maybe op sabi do the do or she is enjoying comfort and riches..If na Yankee na capital cashout for her church and family permission won't save op from that one |
Re: I Just Need A Family by DeHorus: 5:15pm On Aug 14, 2022 |
Spherica177:He wants it and she doesn't, then the marriage is of no purpose to him. Let her simply vacate the space for serious woman to fill. |
Re: I Just Need A Family by Spherica177: 5:16pm On Aug 14, 2022 |
DeHorus:wait to hear from the other side story before jumping into conclusion |
Re: I Just Need A Family by VenumX: 5:39pm On Aug 14, 2022 |
udede: So why are you here? What else do you want us to tell you? |
Re: I Just Need A Family by ghettochild(m): 6:35pm On Aug 14, 2022 |
udede:Your wife Is Barren |
Re: I Just Need A Family by ghettochild(m): 6:35pm On Aug 14, 2022 |
udede:You see, she gave u permission cos she knows she's barren.. |
Re: I Just Need A Family by skyblue4real(m): 6:48pm On Aug 14, 2022 |
Are you sure that woman have womb? |
Re: I Just Need A Family by DeHorus: 7:27pm On Aug 14, 2022 |
Spherica177:She's not on NL |
Re: I Just Need A Family by Wwwq: 8:39pm On Aug 14, 2022 |
Really |
Re: I Just Need A Family by ShenTeh(m): 9:32pm On Aug 14, 2022 |
Things are often not as they seem -oir as they are presented. Do you have clear evidence that she is unwilling to or she is unable to have children? During our pre-wedding days, went to meet an older family friend of my fiance's family. In my response to his first question of 'why do you want to marry?' I was eager to start by saying 'I love children bla bla...' He responded by saying there is a serious problem, because what I am saying is if my wife is unable to have kids, then the marriage would become threatened. He advised we go back and review our priorities. There is a lot of safety in pre-marital counseling, which we are too arrogant to undergo these days. I am ill-equiped to advise the op, but those coming behind should note that there are no limits to the conversations you should have before you commit your lives into each other's hands. |
Re: I Just Need A Family by Anwakangwizking(m): 10:37am On Aug 15, 2022 |
Your wife is hidden something from sit her and ask her problem maybe she have remove her womb |
Re: I Just Need A Family by Anwakangwizking(m): 10:37am On Aug 15, 2022 |
Your wife is hidden something from You sit her, and ask her, her problem maybe she have remove her womb |
Re: I Just Need A Family by NaijaCover(m): 12:31pm On Aug 15, 2022 |
Edoziesmart: Cha E! Is Just Speechless |
Re: I Just Need A Family by Nonam: 3:39pm On Aug 18, 2022 |
Mr Man. Stop fooling yourself with your senseless excuses. My church said this, my church said that, my church will not allow this. Na church dey fork your wife for you. Your wife has no womb. udede: |
Re: I Just Need A Family by udede(m): 10:22am On Aug 21, 2022 |
Nonam:must you insult to advise |
Re: I Just Need A Family by Sweetvie: 10:54am On Aug 21, 2022 |
udede:Actually he is kinda right apart from the insult part... Stop letting someone decide ur life for u... Your pastor is not you neither is he living with u... This is your own life and marriage ok Be a man... For 10yrs They don't accept divorce but accept second marriage reason it yourself. Silly |
Re: I Just Need A Family by Nonam: 1:29pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Because you are sounding like a ternager. Your church said this. Your church said that. At your age, na your church go make decision for you. udede: |
Re: I Just Need A Family by Tinoakpabio444: 3:33pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Na wa oooo God help us |
Re: I Just Need A Family by Tinoakpabio444: 3:33pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Sweetvie:Hmmm it is well |
Re: I Just Need A Family by Tinoakpabio444: 3:34pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
[quote author=Sweetvie post=115910345] Actually he is kinda right apart from the insult part... Stop letting someone decide ur life for u... Your pastor is not you neither is he living with u... This is your own life and marriage ok Be a man... For 10yrs They don't accept divorce but accept second marriage reason it yourself. Silly[/qu |
Re: I Just Need A Family by Sweetvie: 3:44pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Tinoakpabio444:Yes oh |
Re: I Just Need A Family by Templee333(m): 4:06pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
udede:Pls explain this point to me, do u mean she doesn't want kids or she couldn't have kids? |
Re: I Just Need A Family by Templee333(m): 4:20pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Upworkwriter007:are u sure of what u r saying? |
Re: I Just Need A Family by Templee333(m): 4:33pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
JustforMen:i disagree! |
Re: I Just Need A Family by JustforMen: 4:40pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Templee333: You are very free to! |
Re: I Just Need A Family by udede(m): 8:31am On Aug 31, 2022 |
VenumX:i am here to find a young lady that want to settle down. You may not know how hard it is for a Christian in modern society of today to find a second wife |
Re: I Just Need A Family by satandeterrible: 12:09pm On Aug 31, 2022 |
udede:OYA YOU ARE A SIMP!!! |
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