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I had one of the strictest fathers, who used every opportunity not to spare the rod while we were children. My mum supported him to an extent in this ministry. But none of them continued in this ministry when we turned 17. He always said at that age we have to decide who we want to become. That helped us a great deal to right, from a position of self determination and responsibility

He went through that experience, yet he remains one of the people milking out the country via fraudulent oil subsidy claims. So, how did get out of the debt problem? Invention? Loans? Corrupt Govt patronage? Smh

OP, what do you want? Be direct. I don't think having us castigate your brother and his wife will change anything. If it is money, how much?

nnachukz:
Good. Let it start. It will now be easy for us to go our separate ways or they can now start thinking in the line of true Federalism.

I don't think you should have any problem with them finding oil over there. This may lead to true federalism

NL. ladies, he is single o. What are you waiting for?

Soso990240:
lie and u will go to hell. as of last 2 seasons did u knw anything about Mahrez or Vardy? did u believe in them? if No,then go and sleep.. cause d Coach has a plan.

Dude, there are two things you are mixing up. 1. Did Ranieiri know Musa before this summer transfer, yes. He played in the champions league for four seasons. 2. Can he improve under Ranieri, that waits to be seen, and I hope so. A sad reminder is Ideye's case at WBA, after a club record fee. Mahrez and Vardy were relatively unknown quantities before last season, but Musa is coming in with a club record signing fee. So what do you think. Yeah, I will sleep till the season starts.

femi4:
Olodo! Musa is not a top striker. His primary duty is to assist the top 9 by providing intelligent crosses

That is where his problem lies. Mostly unintelligent passes. He is one of the worst passers of the ball Nigeria ever had. Meanwhile, he has been used severally as a top striker at CSKA.

obiorathesubtle:
who be this lout?



Oya na.. Gan buy 11 ahmed musas and put in a team because they're all playing in Europe..


Look at the level of your thinking.. Just because he's playing in Europe.

The guy does not know jack. Can you imagine him saying any player in europe is good. Musa is too inconsistent.

Bolustic:
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See Nigerian youths supporting illegality, tell me Dino's profession in the last eight years if not politics. Nothing made him popular other than the fight during Dimeji Bankole's time. Even when it's very obvious that your money is being lavished on toys, you're hailing him.

I'm sure you and your ilks would shout WITCH HUNTING to the highest heaven immediately EFCC invites him just to explain some knotty issue.

The sad thing for you is that Dino doesn't know you. Even if you run to him for help, he wouldn't help you.

Very sensible post. He "fought" corruption through demonstrations as a youth wing leader right from Obasanjo's govt. Now some people hail him, wishing to be like him. This same people complain about epileptic light, school fees,unemployment, multiple taxation etc

Village celebrities, lol

Diamond ring stands out for me

A great actress. So many wonderful films under her belt. RIP mama

babdap:
This is my chance to play for barca, I won't let this oppourtunity pass me by. But wait can a 35 years old adimitted?

Even a 50 yrs old

My brother you have done well. I am impressed. For those criticizing him, you surely did not get the message. 1. He observed from a vantage position how the woman was scorned with indifference by people (man's inhumanity) . 2. He gave her food and not money, yet the woman appreciated with smile (hunger). 3. He ate with her (love). 4. Begged with\for her (selflessness). 5. He shared it with us( motivation not show off)

AishyWemsy:
Even under the same umbrella, at the end of the day is always about selfish interest not for the love of masses.

one plate of hot akpu and nsala for this comment. It is always a case of playing the victim when they are in trouble

Roseey0:
Am even scared they have a wider plan.
Op needs to pray a lot too.
Going all public about it may lead to suicide. I love the route he is taking.

keeping it private for a non reprobate or impressionable wife is also dangerous

Olopsy01:
...That's because the temper isn't normal now. Very soon normalcy will return and she will realize she has done more harm than good to her Man.

I am of a different opinion that in such a situation as depicted by the OP, her first reaction should be convincingly that of obvious remorse and regret. I feel she would only see weakness in her husband's action when things settle down

Roseey0:
Your family has to be on the know. Talk to your dad.

Exactly my advice to him. The beef those sisters have towards the guy's family is an issue

Olopsy01:
May God take Control...But don't be dismay by the way we exclaim,every home has its peculiar challenge only when discussed openly we get to know how terrible they are. Yours isn't the worst case. There is nothing new under the sky. Please don't discuss the shortcomings of your wife with your Family....they won't forgive her. She can repackage you before her people and you will be accorded the respect you think is lost.

But from OP's update, the wife is grieving out of fear for betraying her sister than out of remorse for her action

I have skimmed through many opinions and advice. Based on the update, OP I will advise you to do one very important thing, let out the cat from the bag. Since you believe she is more devastated that she has betrayed her sisters than betraying you, then IT IS IMPORTANT you inform atleast your dad. You should have taken the advice of the people on calling an expected urgent meeting after the incident. If it was just a case of disagreement between both you, that can be resolved by the two you. Her present state is too precariously dangerous.

I NEVER HATED ANY SUBJECT, THOUGH I FOUND PHYSICS AND MATHS QUITE TOUGH

Ronaldinnioh:
English, Mathematics, Biology, Chemistry, Yourba language, Physics, Agricultural Science and Economics.,Accounting, Government, Literature, Commerce and CRK were my worse Subjects.

IN ONE WORD, YOU HATED BOOKWORK

STUMBLED ON THE FORUM

bigtt76:
He was just the fall guy

EXACTLY. HE MUST HAVE GOT PRAISES WHEN HE GOT THEM THE ACCT