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Can we get scriptures that says masturbation in couples is a sin. Op said couples. So how is it a sin

God is merciful

totorimi:
...but why is this Oliseh bringing back all his croonies from abroad instead of developing local content blended with some seious foreign professional. We dont want people who will come here and deplete our scarce resources while their families are abroad and after wrecking havoc in our national team they will leave us worse of. I am saying my own now while it is still early not when things get from worse to worst. Anyway the goal keeper is not well known only Oliseh knows him and his capability.

Guess you are one of the few who are hearing his for the first time. He keeps for Wolverhampton wanderers

nobilis:
U told us half of the story.
What were u guys arguing about?
What did you tell her before she finally told you what she told you?

In an argument, people say things that they might not mean. And some other times, in arguments, people say things that they have been bottling up inside.

U must have said something to her that made her tell you all that in order to hurt you more.

If she doesn't love you, why hasn't she left you for those other guys she was talking about?
If she doesn't love you, why is she still begging you to forgive her?
These are things you'll ask yourself.

As for her being approached by guys better than you, what do you think?
If she is beautiful or even not so beautiful, it is obvious that she will be approached by men who are better than you are.
But if she chose to stay with you, that means she loves you.

You should even be proud enough that even with all the better guys who are approaching her, she still wants to be with you.

You have said it all

Egungun be careful.

The gods wan open provision store

[quote author=Genycharl post=37298768][/quote]lol, at least it is yielding some results. By the way, I think she meant what she said

freecocoa:
I believe marriage should be between two people who understand and love each other, if that's what you mean by "equally yoked".

Confirmento. It saves the debate on who does what in a relationship

freecocoa:
Ephesians 5:28 "In the same way husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies, he who loves his wife loves himself"

Read further down it goes on to tell more on it.

I think marrying someone you are equally yoked with is important

shizzy7:
I think she was just being sarcastic..

No nah. She was on point.

Dollyak:
I can list many. Now tell me how many went completely broke(not bankrupt). The few on top of my head were prosecuted and fined.

So you believe the man said the whole truth about how he lost his money.

Dollyak:
I doubt he is was a billionaire in dollars. You simply don't go broke from those numbers easily

Meaning that you have not heard of 'ex billionaires' in US. At times it is easier to lose money than to make it

Sweetyie:
Eeeyah. I'm willing to lend him

If I hear.... Oya lend him now.

Gurgle:
This lady didn't seem like she particularly wanted a younger guy, just a guy.. if she had landed a guy 8 years older than her it would have been better for her self

Remember that she was 8 yrs older. The guy must have told her his age, or she must have asked him. There is no way issues of age would not been mentioned. I know of someone that is presently doubting his wife's age. The guy is also worried that the 3yrs seniority he thought he has over is less than 2 yrs. We are not even sure that it is 7yrs

whao:
My friend, think and think again!

What if he is the one at menopause due to sin he has committed in the past and the devil want to use it against him? Don't forget he himself didn't undergo fertility test but blaming the wife for helping with some lope hold.

I don't believe the problem is from the wife but the husband. You can be young and still can't impregnate a woman, I wish you advice him to check himself rather saying those scrap of not taking shiiit;

If you re' a believer you will know age 47 is not a barrier to having children, Sarah the wife of Abraham had hers at age 90, Hannah and others even here in Nigeria had theirs at late age!

Don't spoil their wonderful home filled with true love and care for just children that re' coming till they tell God its enough.
Let him not marry another lady that ll give him thorn to life and restless peace just because of lack of patience.

Do you know what it means to have a wife who truly love you, cares for you and stand by you despite the odd? Ask a married man who wish never to have married by having the wrong woman and you will praise God and telling the #op to kneel and pray rather than getting a replace.

#teampraytoGod and #checkyourfertility

Did you read where he said that the wife had one miscarriage and one stillbirth? He is not impotent!

Gurgle:
The thing is that OP couldn't have imagined that the lady would lie about such a thing, that's why he didn't bother to cross-check her

So the moral is that all of us should just check these things very well..I keep leaving this thread and coming back because I really cant believe it..

I have come across ladies who have spent their years grooving, and who insist that they want to get married to guys much younger than them.

sweatlana:
I lied about my age too. I'm not proud of it but after we got married my husband found out I was 3 years younger. He wasn't angry it was no big deal cos I opened up.

Forgive her and move on. She did the wrong thing for maybe the right reason...

Your case is different from OP. The problem here is that she is older, nearing menopause, though I believe God can still bless them with children.

Xmen149:
Love..love..love every were...cnt you see its all a game from the start..nawa o,..1)she knws the age gap..2)she kept quite knwing her chances of making babies is thin,.and wnt let u decide if u wnt that too...here is her game sumary bro..:play 100% good to trap his hrt and emotion 4ever weakening him to his feet..then shut-up and get married..allow years to passby to make divorce seem like a childsplay..then burst the truth bubbles..now he is week and down by the unrecoverable yrs/my goodnes and tears that wl still keep me in his house..everytin stil going wrng? I stil has his hrt as he wl 4ever be weak so i still dictate and my resolve is we adopt a baby and i raise it,this mother and child display will finally smelt his hearth in my palms that now its vivid am going no-were.............sorry u featured in 'GAME OF MARRIAGE BRO'....bt vacancy for the producer stil exist....try this game:.rent a woman with a bit grown child teling her they are 4rm ur past or ua sorry u hv bn cheating all these yrs and this is the result and see everyting u thought exists in her is a mirage....i likia iburu ihe na esi,anyi akpo gi ori mai-mai.

You passed across an important message in that play act.

kikelomojessy:
OP, I know it hurts cos the age differnce is to much. But let's see it dis way, if you happened to be the one seeking her forgiveness wudnt u want her to forgive u so that both of u can continue as before.

I tink she must hav been a very beautiful woman for her age not to had shown (late 50's ). And u neva bother to know how her feminine side was doin ( irregula menstral period etc)

My advice wud be that u sit down with her and talk tins out, u can adopt (its not always bad to adopt, afterall is not all parent dat is proud to call dir biological kids dir own) or wait and seek God face. He alone gives children.

I hav witness a virgin lady that got married and didn't hav a child till after 7yrs. And hav seen older women givng births like Hebrew women.
There some situations where men take out a second wife or mistress to bare a child but the child did not live long enuf to bless his parents.

Pls Go down on ur kneels and ask God for direction. Pray with ur wife and wat ever decision both of u decides on will be the best.

You said she is a wife material and u love her. So do Wats best.

Wise counsel

mzjaney:
Tanks dear.

u are welcome

mzjaney:
Na u sell the bleaching cream to her


She's an out cast

Half cast

He was a very good doctor. Highly efficient and dutiful. A great loss and disappointment. His hospital is well respected

Daninya11:
I strongly believe that this 5 will make the final cut to Tanzania. .

Gk-Olufemi Thomas

Defender - Solomon Kwambe/Orji Kalu

Midfielders - Ifeanyi Mathews and Kingsley Sokari

Strikers - Gbolahon Salami or Bright Ejike..

. I don't see either of those midfielders making it

changeagent:
Why didn't Oliseh invite me? I am a professional footballer and I play for Lion Star fc Ibadan. Ask anybody

check supplementary list coming out in october. Better still gate crash joor

Kayruks:
Does it mean that it is not advisable to run a Post Graduate programme with NOUN? If the school is not that ok, why do a Federal body like NTI set to train quality teachers still affiliated to them?

You can't possibly accept the op's false stand seriously. Their prgs are regulated by NUC, and as such their PG prgs are recognised.

Vivly:
Stop embarrassing your closed university. It's gotten and given. You have to learn your tenses well from your readily available reading materials before you go for NYSC and disgrace yourself. peace.

That was a sucker punch! You are 'spareless', meaning you take no prisoners, lol

As a category c member, I concur,appreciate and applaud this write up. We waited on GEJ to do the needful for 5yrs and some months before election, so we will wait for 3yrs and some months b4 election. Well articulated piece

bravesoul247:
I seriously don't know how it started but all I can say is I love my boss. I started working with this travel agency recently and there is this charming lady I always meet anytime I have issues with a client and we solve it together, so in the process of tackling these problems together I will always tell her she's looking beautiful and all.

One day, a client came with her daughter to book flight, while the woman was with this my boss I was having a light chat with her daughter but I never knew that my boss was watching me, after the whole booking she was like "so I'm toasting that woman's daughter abi, in fact all guys are the same'.

She kept on talking about it and stuffs like I have guts, my voice sounds like a flirt's own( I do it on purpose though). I arrived my office one fateful morning and greeted all my colleagues then a colleague of mine that I seem to be having a crush on told me that my boss told her that me and my colleague are having a crush on each other and that we are always hugging ourselves everywhere, later my boss left her office and came to our office then I purposely started flirting with that my colleague to see my boss' reaction and she repeated that same statement again.

Now I dreamt that I saw my boss in my dream and we kissed, lol. The problem is that she talks too much (make no go cast me for my other ogas front in case I wanna make any move) and she's older than me maybe with 3 or 4 years or 2 self and she's a big and classy lady, she get ride sef while me still de trek. I'm just so confused because I hate it when I love someone and I can't express it or tell it to the person because she's my boss. Please I need you guys to advice me, I don't know what to do.

Your story does not add up. Seems you are clutching at straws

Enemy of state. No time and money for elections. He wanted to right the wrong done to him

The guy dey vex. So, he wanted to do the deed in the church. Na wa

I can't, but its cute and crazily creative