Fruit4me:
October mamas how una Dey? I have been schedule for elective cs because of my baby’s weight 4.2kg,
I’m so scared. I don’t even know how to tell my mother Inlaw, she isn’t in support of it. I’m so confused oh. Pls I need encouragement or word of advice

Your life, your baby, your choice.
Just pray about it and go for it dear.

Op run away.
Even if you are being forced by your parents, gather money and travel to a different part of the country and start a new life.
Many many women have died, are now dead and will continue to die because of abusive marriages .

How will you gather money? I don’t know but necessity is the mother of invention.

Behold girls and women, better have a skill, a job or qualifications that can help you survive anywhere before you get married.

Even Joseph and Mary had to run away with baby Jesus when Herod wanted to kill him.

E no start today .

Men too, do not force yourself into a marriage you would not be happy in. Do not allow a woman, pastor or parent emotionally blackmail you to marriage. Women abuse/kill too.

09085607453king:
Please permit me to brief this story because I'm not good in typing.

I have been hanging out with this lady my wife before marriage she told me that we will never have sex until we get married and that is her policy, I accepted and got married to her our first night in bed, I discovered she is not a virgin 3 days after, I was infected with gonorrhea after asking a pharmacist about my difficulty in passing urine.

I Am confused on what to do we are newly married and she told me lies all these years. I just want to know if someone that don't have sex randomly can have such disease? I check google, I asked persons as a way of research but it was not possible. What do I do now??

Sir, I’m so sorry this happened to you.
Sit her down to ask her about her sexual history. With this foundation of lies, I hope she would tell the truth because human beings are just too deceitful.
And marriage is for life.....

1. If you are a Christian, know that God hates divorce. This is it. You have entered and it is till death do you part
2. Have a heart to heart talk. Forgive her for lying to you.
3. Take her to hospital and do several tests for stds including gonorrhoea.
4. Start doing fertility tests and to check her Fallopian tubes and womb to know if she is actually fertile. Also check yours too. This will help you know what you have entered.
5. Pray to God not to have bitterness of heart.


Please to all intending couples, do not blindly trust people. Even Jesus trusted no man because he knew the heart of men.
No matter how beautiful or handsome, rich or poor, it would mean nothing when you know you have been deceived.
Even God has not forgiven Lucifer since.

FalseProphet1:
If the colonial masters hadn't invaded African and colonized this continent, and the slave trade didn't happen, by now Africa would have still be living in the stone age, adults both male and female will still be walking naked, we would have been slightly higher than animals.

This I have seen.

I can confidently assure you that there are lot of medical errors in USA healthcare. Also do you know that cesarean section originated in Africa.
Please never you think the Black man is inferior.
You are indirectly opposing God.
Please

GraciousGod190:
Am hurt, 4 years relationship about to go down the drain.first time meeting her parents was last week Sunday, they did welcome me with a smiling face.
After all the introductions and making my intentions known to them I like to marry their daughter.

my girlfriend called me on phone yesterday that she's coming over, which she did and start saying that her elder bro and her mum is kicking against our marriage. i asked why? she said because am an Ssce holder.

yes I might be an Ssce holder, but am self employed doing well for myself (I noi de beg to chop) isn't that enough.

can't an Ssce holder marries a bsc, msc or a phd holder.
why the discrimination towards a brother because of a white man education?
because of a white sheet of paper.

Oga sorry o. Rejection is painful but you will be alright last last. Maybe you can look for an SSCE holder like yourself and you two can prove to the world that the white man’s education or paper is insufficient for wealth creation. Many have done it before.

It is good to have academic integrity. This is when your academic value is truly a reflection of your personal work.
There are people that cheat at exams, or have others not in their assigned group do their projects or write their reports or final thesis or whatnot.
Please it is not good. That is why we have a lot of unemployable graduates in Nigeria who only manage to continue through life through sorting or begging others for help.

Practice begets excellence. It may take some time but you will surely learn the ropes and excel. People who have done it before do not have 2 heads.

Please commit to be academically fit.

Thanks

sugah:

So women are being punished for their sins?

There are some instances in the Bible that just women were delayed greatly in childbearing ( think Sarah)
There are some instances were women with a past were given second chances and were matriarchs of great lineages ( think Rahab)
Some women were outrightly cursed for their sins ( think Milcah, Saul’s daughter)

Medically, some infertility matters can never be cured. At that point is it not only God the person can run to?
If then it is God one runs to, God is righteous and just and demand clean hands and pure hearts.

What do you think?

Please what is the full meaning of BHT?

1. There is nothing God cannot do
2. Medically, you would need a sperm donor for your wife.

Women are trying o. All of these treatments and trials! May the Lord honor your efforts and prayers with multiple children.

I don’t want to preach but please it is God that gives children. We know of a late beauty queen that tried EVERYTHING but had to adopt a baby girl due to resounding infertility.

If there is anything in your heart that is not right with God Almighty, or any situationship that is not right, legal, godly, or true, please consider and repent.

If God says yes, nothing can say no.
If God says no, nothing can say yes.

Nigerians like to play with their lives.
Na so politicians follow Dey destroy am pata pata.

Could be CoVID. Do a test.

https://www.reuters.com/article/us-germany-crime-children-idUSKBN24023

Germany uncovers massive online child abuse network | Article [AMP] | Reuters


(Reuters) - German cyber crime authorities have uncovered a massive online network of at least 30,000 people who share child pornography and exchange advice on how to sedate and abuse minors, law enforcement authorities said on Monday.

Peter Biesenbach, justice minister in the western state of North Rhine-Westphalia, said investigators were stunned by the scale of the network and that a special task-force has been set up to find the suspects and bring them to justice.

"People log on to a chat, not on the dark web, but on messenger services on the normal web," said Biesenbach. "They get instructions from other users on what sedatives one should give children in order to abuse them.

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"A discussion ensues on which children can be abused," he added.

Some users admit that they had long wanted to be part of such networks but had never dared to do so. They get encouragement from more experience users.

Biesenbach said the task-force would have to act quickly before the chats were deleted, which would make it almost impossible to identify the suspects.

"I felt sick when I heard it but it has also made us more determined to pursue this inquiry," he said. "I fear it is going to be more than 30,000 suspects."

(Reporting by Joseph Nasr; Editing by Nick Macfie)

https://www.theguardian.com/global-development/2020/jul/01/petrol-sold-to-nigeria-from-europe-dirtier-than-black-market-bush-fuel[/quote]

Summary

1. Nigeria is blessed with the best and the sweetest crude oil which she almost completely exports

2. Artisanal and unscrupulous refineries in Europe produce the most toxic petrol and diesel, mixed with sulphurs and benzene, which they sell as African grade petroleum product to Africans. These fuels are specifically made for the African market and for some poor Latin American countries

3. African fuel importers purchase this cheap, dangerous and health-degrading fuels for their brothers and sisters,

4. Most of the respiratory, cardiovascular, immune and skin diseases may be attributable to exposure to toxic and carcinogenic by-products of these fuels

5. Port harcourt, Lagos, Onitsha and Kaduna are worst affected.

6. The rich keep getting richer while the middle class and poor suffer in the noxious ‘gas chambers’ powered by motor fuels. Expect life expectancy to be lower and more sudden deaths.

7. Even the illegal refineries produce better fuel than what Europeans, specifically the Dutch and Belgians sell to us.

8. Nigeria’s commercial cities are more polluted than India.

When are we going to have standards ( and stick to them) in this country??

Petrol sold to Nigeria from Europe 'dirtier' than black market 'bush' fuel

John VidalWed 1 Jul 2020 07.30 BST
Global development

Petrol sold to Nigeria from Europe 'dirtier' than black market 'bush' fuel


Samples from illegal refineries in Niger delta found to be of a higher quality than imported petrol in new analysis

Black market fuel made from stolen oil in rudimentary “bush” refineries hidden deep in the creeks and swamps of the Niger delta is less polluting than the highly toxic diesel and petrol that Europe exports to Nigeria, new laboratory analysis has found.

Shell, Exxon, Chevron and other major oil companies extract and export up to 2m barrels a day of high quality, low sulphur “Bonny Light” crude from the Niger delta. But very little of this oil is refined in the country because its four state-owned refineries are dysfunctional or have closed.

Instead, international dealers export to Nigeria around 900,000 tonnes a year of low-grade, “dirty” fuel, made in Dutch, Belgian and other European refineries, and hundreds of small-scale artisanal refineries produce large quantities of illegal fuel from oil stolen from the network of oil pipelines that criss-cross the Niger delta.

The net result, says international resource watchdog group Stakeholder Democracy Network (SDN) in a new report, is that Nigeria has some of the worst air pollution in the world, with dense clouds of choking soot hanging over gridlocked cities leading to a rise in serious health conditions as well as damaged vehicles.

The extreme toxicity of the “official” fuel exported from Europe surprised researchers who took samples of diesel sold in government-licensed filling stations in Port Harcourt and Lagos. They found that on average the fuel exceeded EU pollution limits by as much as 204 times, and by 43 times the level for gasoline.

Laboratory analysis also showed that the black market fuel was highly polluting but of a higher quality than the imported diesel and gasoline. The average “unofficial” diesel tested exceeded the level of EU sulphur standards 152 times, and 40 times the level for gasoline.

“Our research suggests that Nigeria is having dirty fuel dumped on it that cannot be sold to other countries with higher and better implemented standards. The situation is so bad that the average diesels sampled are of an even lower quality that that produced by artisanal refining camps in the creeks of the Niger delta,” said Florence Kayemba, SDN programme manager.

With more than 11m, mostly old, cars imported from Europe and Japan on the roads, and hundreds of thousands of inefficient generators used by households and businesses for electricity, Nigeria ranks fourth in the world for deaths caused by air pollution. It has been estimated that 114,000 people die prematurely from air pollution each year.

The air quality in cities like Port Harcourt, Aba, Onitsha and Kaduna has reached crisis levels of pollution in recent years, and there is mounting evidence of rising asthma, lung, heart and respiratory diseases.

More than half of developing countries, mainly in Africa and Latin America, still use high-sulphur fuels which have long been illegal to burn in western countries. In Nigeria the practice is encouraged by an opaque fuel subsidy system that keeps prices relatively low at the pumps, but is widely thought to fuel corruption. Refineries in Europe are allowed to make the fuel if countries agree to accept it.

The SDN report, part-funded by the UK Foreign Office’s anti-corruption conflict, stability and security fund, calculates that around half the air pollution in Port Harcourt, a city of more than 3 million people, comes from the burning of official and unofficial fuel. The rest comes from nearby gas flaring, other industries, and the burning of rubbish.

Levels of particulate matter in Port Harcourt and Lagos, says SDN, are 20% worse than Delhi in India, the most polluted capital city in the world, where emergency levels of photochemical smogs are common. In 2016, the River Niger port city of Onitsha was said by the World Health Organization to be the world’s most polluted city, the concentration of PM10s – soot particles – was recorded at 594 micrograms per cubic metre; compared with the WHO safe limit of 66.

“The Niger delta already suffers environmental, health and livelihood impacts from decades of oil spill pollution, gas flaring and artisanal refining. This research indicates that it not only experiences the repercussions of producing crude oil, but also in the consumption of dirty official and unofficial fuels,” said the report.

According to industry sources which track legal and illegal oil cargo movements – who asked to remain anonymous – around 80% of Nigeria’s petroleum products come from the Netherlands and Belgium. The two countries have some of Europe’s largest refineries.

“This is even more concerning at a time when Nigeria is facing an outbreak of coronavirus. High levels of pollution and pre-existing respiratory and other health conditions may increase the risk that Covid-19 poses to the health of the population,” said Matthew Halstead of Noctis, which conducted the laboratory research.

The SDN report substantiates allegations made in a 2016 Public Eye investigation and a Dutch government report in 2018, [b]that European refineries and commodity brokers were blending crude oil with benzene and other carcinogenic chemicals to create fuels hundreds of times over European pollution limits for the weakly-regulated African market. [/b]This was said to be causing significant particulate pollution, damage to vehicles, and adverse health impacts for local populations.

Nigeria, along with Togo, Ghana, Ivory Coast and Benin promised in 2017 to stop the imports of “Africa quality” oil products as part of a UN environment programme initiative. But while Ghana has acted, reducing sulphur from 3,000 to 50 parts per million, Nigeria has argued that it needs more time to adapt.

However, the recent collapse in oil prices because of Covid-19 means that imported fuel no longer needs to be subsidised and should no longer be a barrier to Nigeria adopting higher standards.

Illegal artisanal refineries are said by SDN to be growing fast in number and scale, now producing 5-20% of all the gasoline and diesel consumed in Nigeria from the estimated 175,000 barrels of crude oil stolen each year.

The bush refineries are highly dangerous and frequently explode, adding to air, water and soil pollution in the mangrove swamps. But they are an important source of income for communities.

According to SDG, if Nigeria insisted on diesel imports that complied to the country’s intended fuel sulphur standards, particulate emissions could be reduced by 50%, greatly improving pollution and reducing health costs. It recommends that Nigeria enforces its proposed sulphur standards as soon as possible and considers engaging with artisanal oil refiners in future.

• This article was amended on 1 July 2020. An earlier version incorrectly said in the final paragraph that particulate emissions could be reduced “by 500%”, rather than 50%.

https://www.theguardian.com/global-development/2020/jul/01/petrol-sold-to-nigeria-from-europe-dirtier-than-black-market-bush-fuel

It's better to celebrate parents when alive than during burial.

Enemies within and without!

Save us Lord!

Karma is best served [i][/i]cold!

But then Papa Ayo Bling bling is lying low for now, with all this Dasukigate things currently

Church seems to have become a joke now.

What's with all the comedians performing in what is supposed to be a sacred and Holy place?

Probably because, the performing pastor is out of new acts?

Few millions....

To people like Dangote, Adenuga and most Banana Island landlords, it could be up to 239 million.

But it's just business isn't it, Ms. Linda?

Thanks for clearing the malodorous air (of #Dasukigate/ Otueke man) from your head.

Fake, cheap and dull girls every where.

We need to watch and pray more than ever.

We shall not die but live to give God glory, Amen!

Jesumed:


You are perhaps the one who lacks understanding here. Next time, learn to mind your own business. I never quoted you. Idiot!

It's difficult to answer without abusing, isn't it.
The school in question is an Academy. Even if you didn't see that, at least you would have seen 'SS 1A' in the result.
But then, you only see what you want to see.

Jesumed:


LJC is a secondary school. We are talking about a university here. Are you the sugarbelly that was gang-bleeped from behind after graduating from Loyola Jesuit College?

Learn to read. Then spend sometime understanding before you go ahead and type absolute nonsense on a public forum.

Seems this man is just all shades of wrong.

Then again, there must be something about not just only being a chief, but a HIGH CHIEF.

Oh well, what do we know!

She has to remain relevant for the family as Yobo sinks into oblivion

Religion indeed is the opium of the masses.

And people will be clapping, having a little song and dance round the end time car with hunger in their bellies.

PDP falling like a pack of cards.

Cute.

But on NO ACCOUNT should you eat this animal in any form- boiled, roasted, fried or even as sushi.

Say yes to animal conservation!

Only time will tell