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Jackanda1:
Shyness can ruin a lot about your person, its even worst if its progresses to social anxiety. Funny thing is people don't think it a problem, they feel you can easily snap out of it.
Don't stop asking for prayers, my cousin got healed that way.

Isaytrash:
Yea, I know life is not a bed of roses but come on mine is filled with thorns
Difficulty, hardship, suffering and poverty.
I ain't fasting yet haven't eaten nothing since Friday I now look sick and scared to go out.
Loan apps soon to expose me to my contacts.
No job, no money, no one to help.
Guess there is really peace in death.
Sorry to my mum in heaven I really tried my best.
Will see you all again if there is truly an Afterlife.
Sniper?
Ropes?
Bridges I guess I will go sha

nickyj19:
If I try 1 cigarette for the first time at 23 will I
become addicted?

Loreettaa:
I'd judge myself to be beyond average physically and intellectually. Not that I'm a miss world.
But I'm a chronic introvert.
Late twenties. Never gotten a Valentine's day gift.
Is something wrong with me?
Help!!

Viiiam:
Since I got into college, there's this young lady in my class who's sort of like the class clown. She's loud, intrusive, and constantly makes insulting jokes or biting sarcastic remarks about people which is intended to be "banter" for some reason. And lately, it seems I've become her main target. Now im a naturally a quiet guy who mostly keeps to himself. I'm not quick witted or jokey. And her hyper attitude is a major put off. For my first two college years, I've taken good care not to get on her bad side, so as not to become the butt of her jokes. So this basically started in my 3rd year. Since I hardly ever speak in class, when I do speak, she starts heckling me, or make jokes out of anything I say. She does this EVERY SINGLE TIME. At first I shrugged it off but it seems the more I ignore her, she tries even harder. I've watched her get into a verbal fight with another girl before and she absolutely broke her down to the point of tears. I know getting into a battle of words with her will only aggravate things and make me lose my temper and act irrationally in public. She's much smaller than I am, probably the smallest in my class, but I don't dare attack her because she's a girl. She's a nuisance to me at this point and I don't know her to deal with her. I confess I've had to intentionally miss some classes because I don't want to encounter her. She's basically made me her new target and I don't know who to talk to about this because nearly everyone in this school thinks bullying doesn't exist. Plus there's this idea that if you tell on others bullying you instead of handling it by yourself, then you're soft. Especially if you're a guy being targeted by a girl. I'm totally miserable at this point. Last night was the last straw. I got a call from a private number and when I picked the call, it was supposedly one of my closest female friends who's in another department in my college. I wasn't surprised it was a strange line because she had told me sometime ago that her phone got stolen. She asked to meet in the school cafeteria and I obliged. I came out that night and sat in a corner of the cafeteria with my phone in my hand, using it. After close to 30 minutes I didn't see her, I phoned the line she used to call me and it didn't go through. An hour passed and this lady bully from my class entered the cafeteria with a bunch of her friends, both guys and girls. They sat about two tables away from me. I refused to make eye contact and remained fixated on my phone still trying to contact the girl who called me. After some minutes, I started hearing giggling and snickering from the table of the bully. I didn't want to look up but, it started becoming distracting. After I while, I decided to glance towards their table and I met them staring right at me, grinning and giggling and pointing. My heart sank into my stomach and I felt so ashamed. It felt like I was in middle school. They didn't even care that I saw them,they kept making fun of me from a distance, albeit in hush, but still somewhat audible tones. After some time I got up and decided to leave the cafeteria. I refused to look at their table. One of the guys there kept calling my name, then the bully girl said something, I didn't hear it clearly, but whatever she said suddenly had all of them bursting out laughing uncontrollably. I felt like a little boy being picked on. It was so embarrassing that I cried silently in my room last night. I started making up theories in my head - questioning if perhaps the call I get was a prank from these people. I didn't know what to feel. This girl is just a thorn in my side and she's so unreasonable. Constantly in Joker mode, it's difficult to have a serious conversation with her. The experience last night, coupled with many other bullying experiences I've had in the past has honestly made me to consider suicide. I'm not proud of such thoughts, but it's how I've felt ever since last night. I've always had this feeling that no one likes or understands me. I try to be social but it sometimes feels like I force myself on people. People don't seem too eager to engage with me. In my life I've had probably just 4-5 really close friends and that's it. I don't mind being an introvert, it's just that when I do crave to be social, it doesn't work out the way I want. I'm feeling really low now and just wanted to get some advice, both on this woman and life in general.

storm001:
Seeking for help is the first step to recovery.
recovering from substance use may not be effective on one contact.
am a psychologist
Call or whatsapp me on 09063899861.
i can also link you with psychologist in your state.

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Rastaramsey:
Damnnnmm
You should be arrested for what you said
As I de look you, you be attention seeker, you never blow weed before


Weed is good for the body gon,it helps to reduce stress...

When am stressed, I go just mole one stick of loud,mole small Colorado, mix am with tiny boweh.... Carry my earpiece, listen to NF- paralyzed.....

You go reason well..

Trust me..

Ezehillary:
Guys will you allow your daughter to marry a guy like you ?

Datboredberry:
Thread for those of us with trust issues who fear intimacy... Who are aware that we can't maintain a relationship... No matter how perfect our partners are... No matter how hard we try to make it work...

Don't wanna settle down because for some reason, we can't... Can't seem to focus... Space- out when things get too serious... Delibrately sabotage the sh** by ghosting...

Perhaps... Past sour relationships... Abandonment issues... Childhood experiences such as neglect... Abuse... Etc.

Can't tolerate romantic gestures... Rather flirt and have sex for the pleasure and to pass time...

There's the guilt... The pressure to be 'normal'... The realisation that something's wrong... But we can't help it... Some people are just broken...

Doesn't mean we don't appreciate love when we see it... Just know we can't truly give it... Might think up scenarios where we do... But in reality, we do the exact opposite...

We've broken so many hearts cause we're the perfect lovers... For that short time, make them feel great, be on cloud nine... But they are just our 'favourites'...