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Keepinhope:
I am in love with this guy I want to marry him.
He has a child with this girl and he cheated on me with her she is pregnant for him now. So now it means they will have 2 kids together.
He says he doesn't want to marry her, he wants to marry me.
But she stills loves him.
I am confused
I am sure she did it on purpose and If I leave she wins. And I really love this guy.
I don't know he keeps her in his life and he lieks to talk to her on the phone and still sleeps with her yet he says he doesn't want to marry her.

JeffreyJamez:
Stupid imagination from a sick mind

jashar:
Respect trumps Money.

SweetieConstie:
LMAO!!!



This is synonymous with being between the devil and the deep blue sea!

smileysmiley:
hahaha... it is a pity that unlike election, the girl can bounce out before 4years

Tabelachizza:
Hmmmmmmmm

masterblogger:
Please and please this is a serious and delicate issue. Only matured response needed.

layla129:
Maybe something is bothering her. If not, just give her little time to come around or just take the bull by the horn and u guys shld talk it over.
If these doesn't still work, guy move on

sinaj:
eh u can't date her na.

Ow una take meet sef

layla129:
The only way a girl can be that rigid is if she's not into you. What kind of rigidity is that towards a bf? Abi is she shy?

ehix89:
then up your game brov, I know some girls could be very very boring,its on you to bring the fun side of her....

layla129:
Op you don't have to end it yet...too early.Look for ways to spice it up. Ask her what she wants to talk about if she's not responding to your chats, search the internet for answers(i do this alot), give her little space to miss you...maybe u call and text her too often (i hate this), Try to get yourself occupied with something else. She'll crawl back if she's yours.
If you've tried everything and it fails, maybe she has her heart else where.

N.B
Its normal for a relationship to become boring at a point but yours is too early.

ehix89:
she doesn't want sex nd u label her boring....God is watching you o

sinaj:
No chemistry?

greatnaija01:
YOU MUST BE VERY YOUNG AND NOT MATURE YET FOR A LONG LASTING RELATIONSHIP..... ITS A FLING YOU SEEK. PLS DUMP THE GIRL AND LET A BETTER GUY WHO CAN TEACH HER WHAT YOU DO NOT YET KNOW TO DO HANDLE HER...... THIS IS HOW YOU MAY ALSO QUIT ON YOUR MARRIAGE IN FUTURE COS YOU THINK ITS ALL ABOUT HAPPINESS AND YOU DO NOT UNDERSTAND HOW TO GROW TOGETHER AND HANDLE SUCH MATTERS MATURELY.... LADIES ARE NOT THERE TO MAKE YOU HAPPY INFACT ITS THE OTHER WAY AROUND. YOU SHOULD NEVER HAVE ASKED HER OUT IF YOU COULD NOT BEAR WITH HER TO SACRIFICE O. GUY WAKE UP FRO DAY DREAMING COS RELATIONSHIP IS HARD WORK

RexKexMilann:
OP, you are boring and She's boring, why won't the relationship be boring?

ehinmowo:
Sometimes, we get too comfortable in our parents' house that we forget to go and m begin our journey in life.


immediately after university (even without job, just move). if you are not planning on going to university, once you are 22-25