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Dabronze:
If you are just getting into a relationship with a woman above 25 yrs or you are already dating these are the things you should know abou them.
EXPERIENCE
The women of these stage experience with many guyz in thier past relationship some have a lot of fun some bitterly damage
PRETENDS
These women a very good pretender in order to get something frm men they understand so much about psychology of men so use it to their advantage to get thing done their way by displayin kind of niceness to be on good side to get men's commitment they would facade the good girl mentality aslong as the men continue to fall for it
THE WALL
Women of these stage are already approaching the post-wall stage where their beauty will started fadiin away with tym.
MARRIAGE
Women of these stage are dying to settle down as a retirement after their hoeing phase when they are still hot they will be looking for men to provide them with nothig to offer and remain homestead.
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U guys are unbelievable
I married at 32. Happy with my husband and 3 kids.
Non of what u wrote was true Abt me

saphiere:
I've been a victim.

You have been a victim of everything misfortune

RodgersAkpafu:
Na wa

Ini Edo was brought to Eleme few years back by the youth president... I mean Eleme youth president control
Those girls are just shameless

Ikillbrokehoes:
Nothing new. 90% of Nollywood actress are into prostitution, if you know, you know.

Angela okorie,see that one ehn...
100k u go control her

Righteousness2:
What a Heart warming Rescue of the Kangaroo.

In similar manner, Many today are surrounded by trouble, pains , Worries, anxiety, uncertainties, Fears and are at the point of giving up, Just like the Kangaroo.

But if you will Stretch your Hands to JESUS CHRIST. He will Rescue you and Pull you out from the mire . HIS Hands are Wide open waiting for you.

Amen

Deadlytruth:
the only people working very well in Edo State now are the government house photographers.

And social media handlers

habitkiller:
I earlier created a thread asking for help from NL members on why do I date girls not up to my standard... link below

https://www.nairaland.com/6535052/why-keep-dating-women-below

Right now my people, I have the solution, forget it o,no one knows u better than yourself, you are the knower" of your situation, well I simply observed if you want to date classy people you have to get classy with...

1)Good clothes
2)Good perfume
3)A good ride
4)A good ride again
5)A good ride again and again.

With this ladies of class will follow u,so hustle hard my people.
Thank you

Plenty breakup follow u too

Sanchez01:
You clearly don't understand God and the message of Christ. If fear is the anchor of your so-called preaching, you are better off not doing it. Hell is not the main purpose of the Christian calling. If you are going to talk to adamant folks and cause them to turn from their ways, then make them understand what the love of Christ really means. People like you are the reason most non-believers think Christians are bitter sycophants. You can do better than anchoring on disasters around the world to preach hell on earth. Christ didn't ask any Christian to share bad news. Your ignorance is fast becoming irritating.

But there is hell after now for unbelievers.
So it's not bad if he talks about it,after all,it'd the afterlife that matters...
Heaven or Hell.
For me,hell message is speaking the truth,not making anyone scared.
Get it right with your Saviour.

Ppogbae:
I have said this before and I’ll say it again:

The South has never been this bold. We should expect some seismic events in Nigeria’s political landscape not just this decade, but perhaps in a few years. Something big is going to happen. Either civil war or restructuring is coming.


Be prepared.

I said this before another protest is coming,the mother of all

To all legit hustlers. Don't be ashame.
God got u

Indispensable85:
Where's obaseki in all of this?

Oh you mean the dicator,He's on Facebook snapping pinchures

mrdharkchild:
Glorious in the eyes of men. Shameful in the eyes of God. Drop your cameras, people.

This is Ajah axis, many people give those beggars without cameras.
Just look at the faces of the beggars.

May God help us sir...

Slurity:
I am disappointed that you claim to be a woman and this insensitive statement coming from you, just because you can not say such does not mean you can not do something worse than that from another area of relationship, every man has a unique way to manage their wife and you should respect your husband for managing that your own weak area. For you to even publicly advice another man, someone's husband to stop acting like a child has shown that you too is not perfect and need schooling when it comes to settling misunderstanding in marriage.

Man? U spoke like a child.
A baby infact. The Bible says a child is known by his doings,not age

Slurity:
just as if I know where your story will end right from reading just the title of the gist. I imagine my wife in the scenario and that is exactly what i get. My brother, she did not mean 1% of that statement, You will even be shocked, that she will repeat it again as she meant it, n.a. lie. She only loves you but making mistakes on persistent nagging, You can not avoid nagging with women but persisted one is a turn off. Now, on how to handle this issue, pretend that those words she said really hurt you and insist on been alone with a little change in your attitude and magical change in how she will adjust on the nagging thing. Please don't let the misunderstanding prolong than 24hrs, draw her back to yourself if she did not do it first. God bless your home

Don't act like a child.
Do you know she's hurting the man,it's not what the doer does,but who's at the receiving end. She has to stop that nonsense,you don't hurt people deliberately.
I'm married.even in my dreams,I can never tell husband that satanic words.

Anyhow caution ur wife.
That word is so wrong no matter the issue.

If u can't ask ur girl for money,u are a fool and you don't have a girl yet.

Worriedheart:
Beautiful day everyone.
So I had to create a new moniker for this purpose as I'm Well known here.

Got married some two years back. 2019. And things started up fine and later wasn't able to impregnate my wife... But discovered the Egg white method did it and the next month my wife took in.. things started on a very good note. Until I started having issues at one point and was so broke and money wasn't coming in...
Got worried and I had issues with my accommodation and had to relocate to another apartment without money... I borrowed 200k.. paid the rent and started off. Then I meant with a man and did some kinda work... And things started work again.... But I'm always in and out of cash....
Note. Over 30years plus of my life. I've never borrowed money once but now.. after marriage things isn't working fine... And I had no choice than to sort for money...

My worries now. Is that I have a friend she lives overseas she has dreamth about my mother in-law more than 5times appearing in a witch manner to attack her. (This friend of mine we all grew up together and the mom lives in Germany before her death at one point years ago promised to gift this in-law of mine a Car� but I don't know the other part of the story why she didn't... And the mother of my friend is dead now) but my friend had those dreams about her..........
Problem and worries started when my spiritual guide told me that my mother in-law is a Government (witch)... And this has been affecting me emotionally... I don't know how to handle it... And can't even open up to tell my wife...

I've tried to blank out some part....

My question now is that... What effect does it pose having a mother in-law that is a witch.... I lost 6m 15th of August 2021. Things isn't working fine... I'm thinking of running away from the marriage..but I have less than one year old daughter in-between us.. As I don't know what to do....

Please mature advice is needed on best way to handle this.

Brother.
Are u a believer?
Jesus is not old skool. Leave internet gibberish.
Evil is real. Meet a true man of God,break this yoke. Again Evil is real. Your wife may not be the problem.

Egein:
Don't watch this show; but this girl drew me to it. I'm obsessed just seeing her face. Never seen someone so flawless in beauty.

Come North.

This guy is a spy.
This is a secret investigation

TheGiftedOne:
I love eating cooked corn with African pear, hence I use to buy raw ones to save cost. I feel that corn sellers sell prepared ones for inflated prices because customers have no choice than to buy from them. So I buy raw ones and take home with cooked corn, to sit down and enjoy myself.

Today I bought the ones in these pictures, twelve(12) in pieces for #400. It was told #500 initially but my bargain brought it to #400. Na so things come dey cost? This country tire person ooo. If not for the love of it I for no buy seriously. Anyway I'm in Benin presently, how much would this same amount and size cost in your area?

Dem cheat you bros. I'm in same Benin.
I won't buy that at New Benin for 300 naira.

chatinent:
Human government has failed.

Hallelujah!

Charmingrascal:
Creating deceitful thread is hustling legitimately?


We don't buy lies here, Nairaland is not Twitter

Abeg shift. Leave the poor guy.
Btw... How many of una be we?

ElprimaHomes:
Finding a house to rent in Lagos is probably more treacherous than going on a mission to appease the gods and evil forest.
We have heard the most heartbreaking stories from would-be renters. Some have had their money's absconded with by unscrupulous housing agents through dubious schemes. Some have rented houses with no functional utilities, which they only found out about after renting. Yet, many more have been in the market for months searching with no success in finding a house.

If you have heard or read these horror stories from house hunters about their terrible experiences in house hunting in Lagos, and have always wondered how to uccessfully house hun in the Center of Excellence, read the following unbreakable steps, which will serve as a guide on your house hunting journey.


1. Know What You Want:
A duplex? A bungalow? How many rooms?
These and so many questions are vital in keeping your search focused. In my experience as an agent, a lot of house hunters have no specific type of house they want, and this eventually leads to wild goose chases and frustration on both the part of the renter and the agent. You can increase your chances of success, and save yourself some time, energy and resources, and those of your agent as well, by knowing exactly what you want and sticking to it.

2. Know Where You Want It:
In addition to point 1 above, having a particular location in mind is another unbreakable step. Having an area in mind streamlines your search and guides you on which agents to work with. You may go to any area of your choosing and ask residents in that location about a trusted housing agent, and many people will be willing and happy to help you out. Alternatively, you can simply google estate agents in that location and take a pick from the results Google presents.

3. Ascertain The Average Cost:
You may be wondering how to do this, but all you have to do is visit property listing websites like Jiji, or Nigeria Property Centre. On thee sites, a lot of the kind of house you are looking for will be listed. By looking around these websites, you should be able to confidently determine if you can afford the house in that locality if you have to look in another neighborhood.

4. Size Up Offerings:
Closely related to Point 3. As you're looking at prices you should also look at the quality of the houses listed, and how much they cost. Two houses side by side, on the same street could have a gulf in cost of rent based on nothing other than quality.
Such things to consider are:
i. UTILITIES: Is there any provision for running water, or will you have to see to that yourself? Are the bedrooms ensuite, or does the whole house share only one bathroom and toilet? Is there a general generator or are you supposed to come with yours? Are the rooms tiled? Are there already cabinets in the kitchen or do you have to have a have to contract a carpenter to make them? Does your compound have cleaners? Etc
ii. SECURITY: In addition to neighborhood security arrangements, does the house you look into rent have a security/gateman or not?

5. Make Contact:
If you have gone online to search for a house and found any to your liking, you should then contact the listing agent (their contact details are usually posted along with the houses).
You can then ask any further questions, and confirm that the house you are interested in is still available. If that particular one is longer on the market, you can ask if the agent has others, and be sure to request pictures of any unlisted but available houses. If you are satisfied with the pictures shown, fix an appointment for an inspection.

6. Go On Tour/Inspection:
This may be one of the most difficult aspects of house hunting because a lot of agents take advantage of house hunters by repeatedly charging them inspection fees (which are usually between ₦3, 000 and ₦10, 000).
If, however, if you have gone through steps 1-5, this should be a formality and more of a confirmation exercise that your desired house is indeed available in the condition the pictures depict.
With regard to the inspection fee, you can avoid paying it if you rent the house immediately after inspection. This way, your only expenses are the cost of the rent, and any transport costs you may have incurred going on the inspection. If you decide not to pay for the apartment, then you may have to pay the inspection fee.

7. Meet The Landlord/Caretaker
If you decide you like the house and wish to pay, then meeting the landlord or caretaker should be your next step.
I strongly advise against paying any money to the agent as it may end in tears. The caretaker, could be a Facility Manager or lawyer or an informal representative of the landlord, and is authorized by the landlord to receive payments and issue receipts bearing your name, the amount paid, and the duration of your rent.

8. Pay And Take Possession Immediately:
Well, no time to waste. If you like the house and wish to move in, it will be wise to make the payment as soon as possible. Chances are, you aren't the only house on town the market, our landlords only loyal to money. There are instances of landlords returning money to would be renters who refused to take possession immediately they paid because someone was willing to pay a higher rent and even higher legal and agency fees.
You should demand the keys for the house as soon as you have made payments. If possible, change the locks immediately or install a new padlock. If the landlord returns your money there's nothing you can do, but start the house-hunting process afresh.

9. Move In:
Well, after going through steps one to eight above the next logical thing is for you to move in and begin to enjoy your new house. You should even launch a bottle of wine to celebrate your success.



You might want to go through this list again to make sure you haven't missed anything or you can just bookmark this thread and refer to it when next you're looking for a house or share with a friends and family.

I guarantee that by following these steps religiously, you cannot go wrong when it comes to house hunting in Lagos.

Good luck.

Steps without solution

Fahdiga:
Their own TB Joshua. Rip to him

Trash

coconutjuice:
This is how he toured all LGAs and still could not win common ticket

He's doing what is done in saner climes

BluntTheApostle:
Then, he can sue their ass.

Already, by sending nasty messages to his associates, they have made themselves guilty, and have turned him to the victim.

No lender has the right to harass a debtor. Highest is to report him to a regulating body. And because these lenders don't even largely operate within the ambit of the law, they prefer to use harassment and threats to get their money back.

You say the Truth bro.i once owed five months ,they begged me to pay,I told them if my contacts are messaged it's the end.
I dared them inshort.

AntiWailer:
Of course I am aware I was just a random contact on the phone.

But I need to be in the classmates shoe to understand why engaging those sharks is not worth it.

She is alive but they are broadcasting that she is dead.

Imagine that kind of message sent to people u av not spoken to for over 10 years.

In my world, humiliation is not normal. There will never be a reason to borrow money from any app.

Also you can lose your job, if such message gets to your organization mistakenly.

So the message is simple


IT IS NOT WORTH IT.

I get you bro.
I get.

Me I will just start a new life men.
And Nigeria of Today,no one send u.
It's all personal hustle.


But if the guy don't have,he won't steal na.

AntiWailer:
I know inner workings does not translate to I work with them but if that is how far u can comprehend no problem.

Keep Ur integrity intact. If u borrow money, pay back. It should be that simple.

Like I said u av been relating with people who are reasonable with u that is why u dey dare them to message Ur contact.

The ones I know will not ask for ur permission to engage Ur contact. They even sent message for one of my old class mate person claiming she is owing them but now dead and she used me as guarantor.

Is that the humiliation u will rather suffer for 15k ?

Relax man.
Humiliation is normal in this world.
Even Buhari.

Don't drive the guy to nuts.
Sorry Abt ur classmate.

You were not a guarantor.
Except you were contacted before she took the loan. U were just a random contact .
Truth is if any message is sent to my contacts,I won't pay a dime.

AntiWailer:
Don't dare them. I know the inner workings.

Nobody will come and attack u and tell u who sent them..

They av moles in Telco, with Ur mobile number to know where u sleep is as easy as ABC

As for the kidnap and beating , u will attribute it to bandits.

Like I said , borrow and pay back or stay away from them.

Story. Story.
No wonder,u work with them,you guys put fear in people at the end na mouth.

So they will pay Telco for 15k loan.
They have ur contact cos u permit them,five months I dey my house,I warned them to dare message my contacts.
See you.

My brother pls pay back,

AntiWailer:
Madam Lapo na structured MFB.

Most of this app no even get lending license they are just hiding under digital app.

Have u interacted with some of their recovery people and see how terrible and unprofessional they communicate ?

I do know.
But it makes it worse,because they don't even have cbn backing.

Physical contact is a long way bro.
Nor try am.
Me I know what I'm saying,if they beat by mistake,that money don go except the person na ode.

Even ifeayi una dey owe.
Talk with them.

Even dem.dey fear.

Sokoloan wasn't fined by CBN ,but NITTDA. Yes they were fined

AntiWailer:
Just stay away from borrowing money and not paying back.

I av seen it happen leave aluu 4 out of the story.

Ok o.
Of course pay back,even Lapo nor dey beat,they only sieze props if u have one,or u agree to pay even if it's a kobo daily.
Nor go do pass ursf.
He didn't steal,he borrowed

AntiWailer:
U are dealing with those who are a bit normal or they allow u because u are engaging them like a normal person.

Ignore them completely and see what can happen

Leave story baba.
Beat ke!

You talk like a baby. Even cultist nor dey carry beat. You go come person area,beat am.
Go ask Aluu 4.

If anything happens,that money is forfeited. They way the country is,will I go and beat someone In his house ?