He must have really bleeped the poo outta her brains....
What a sad ending to one's life?

Sam_Ikenna: I think shes good, not really great but I might be wrong. Maybe its too much Pizza, Burger, American Idol, America got talent, CNN, Fox, ABC, Sarah palin, Obama, Mcdonnald, and other America-ish things that have messed with my head. I guess I need to go home and eat some ofe uha with pounded yam, ugba, and nkwobi with nice Oriental Brothers' song on full blast then come back and listen to Mercy (aka Chinwo Nnenda) 'cause right now I'm not feeling it.

I agree with you...

This is the Easter greeting from Hon. Patrick Obahiagbon: “Beyond the fugacious razzmatazz of the moment,I seriously call attention to the rutilanting and coruscating modus vivendi of Master Jesus the Christ and I dare pontificate that save and until we viscerally emblematize the virtues of self-immolation,quintessential abnegation,eulogizeable simplicity,Christ-like humility and immerse ourselves in a platonic emotionalism of agape love and communalistic service,we would have woefully failed in learning and imbibing the true meaning of EASTER.We must elevate this moment from a proscenium of joie de vivre into one of meditative transcendentalism...”In his latest interview, Hon. Patrick Obahiagbon stated, “Some Nigerian Youths engage in Political Halleluyarism"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l6XRlZ_xcRM&context=C4ff13dbADvjVQa1PpcFMsjvYo7gggh6MDKDMJx16tWmepE8rd1RU%3D

Follow your heart, erase all stereotypes from my mind.
Love is blind, if you have a chance to experience true love in your lifetime, grab it and run.
It's best not to go into this relationship with preconceived notions, it will just ruin everything,
Goodluck.

What is this story leading to now?

What of some of us don't want to get married.
All my married friends wished they were single. Marriage and it's drama, smh,

It's very important as women to pray for God's Grace to deal with whatever challenges life throws at us. We can plan and pray to have the best men ever, but life throws different things at us, the Grace to deal with that is a more realistic prayer, people change overtime.

Worst gift given: Condoms, to my ex, cos he used to travel to 9ja a lot especially during Xmas , so I'm always like, I know what u are capable of doing when u go home, take this and be a good man for me, and he never returned back with any of the condoms I gave him,, the relationship had to end somehow,, infidelity was too much,,,,.

Thanks a lot guys, Comments appreciated.
I have 1 hour 45 mins more to meet him at the airport, hopefully no flight delays,
As soon we have dinner tonight, I'll come back here to give yáll some updates, He will probably be very tired to do any kind of talking at all, Yes I'm an extremely anxious young lady, been looking forward to this day like 4ever, and Yes I can't breath, that's how excited I'm, judge me for all u want, this guy rocks my boat, I hope I am not disappointed, Love u guys, and thanks

Britta:

Oh wow! how 1daful! have you seen any bebe? if not.

I can give you one of my goats' hand in marriage; she is even in heat now, if na to marry dey scatter your head now

Damn that was harsh, Nigerian women are desirable all over the world, abeg free d guy, pls, Not that I would respond back to his email sha,

sauer:

No, she doesn't need help. She is who she is. Quit making her feel guilty with your actions. A g/ay individual can't really use your friendship, since you'd think such person needs help. If she told you wierd, self-implicating, sorry stuffs, your job is to discourage her from thinking something is wrong with her. You'd start off best with this by first eliminating that crippling thought that she has a problem!!

I appreciate your comment, I will always be her friend, but based on the discussion we had, she tells me she does need help, so I will always be there for her, peroid, Thanks again, There is absolutely nothing wrong with her, but she has sure been through a lot, we live in a society where you are judged by everything, and trust me I am not just one of those ppl, I love her as my friend and I will be the best friend I can to her, I am not perfect myself, my own issues full ground remain; and I would definitely hate for anyone to judge me too, friendship bond stronger after our conversation for sure,

All of una wey dey yab me, all of una don dey madt, lol, long story short, yes i spoke to my friend, and yes she needs help, cos she's a lesbian, I'm going to post another thread where I can discuss what she told me and maybe some of yáll can help me help her, I love this site already and I'm so new on here, I appreciate all of your comments, noone knows you as much as you do, so I know myself and I know my friend, nuff said, Love yáll,

This post don land me for hot water, time to have a matured grown up discussion with my friend, yáll wish me luck, This stuff is serious,

omega25red:

hmm you seem to be very hyper sensitive. so what if she is a lesbian? what does that mean for you? would she still be your friend or is the friendship over?

have you ever considered that instead of her being a lesbian, she could just have had some really bad relationships which has left her jaded by guys or maybe she is hiv positive and is still dealing with how she got it or she could just be an Asexual person. Even if she was a lesbian does that mean she is automatically into you?

do yourself a favor and ask her out right because if you are going to act like a child and hang up on her when she calls or not pick up calls because someone refers to you as love then you might as well ask her and if that destroys the friendship then so be it you were already backing out anyway.

word, gbam, thanks for that

LMAO, @ manless state, lol, She has never talked about a guy, before, NEVER, You know how women joke around and say, "hey that guy is cute right", 'etc, she has never said anything like that before, that part definitely worries me, I don't want to bring up that discussion, cos what if she's really not interested in guys, then what is she really interested in, at that age, just sounds a bit scary to me, that's all,

My 2 cents, Judge not; Please if your comment is to insult this young/old man, abeg waka go, We all know the stigma already associated with this illness and to think that this guy came on ere hoping not to be stigmatized and someone starts calling him wicked and all those stupid names, it's totally not necessary. No one is perfect. Whatever you decide to do, commit in the hands of God.

The validation is always important because at least if anything goes wrong, you know who to report to,

Pls remove your email my dear. Now it's a safety issue. Good luck, your bone of your bone is coming.
Ignore societal pressure, there are a lot if married people wishing they were single, now pls se ope tie.

Nigerian music today is better than what we heard in the 90's. It's definitely a big upgrade, I'd like to be nice but I honestly doubt that Nigerian music is better than American music. U know a good music/artist when it's recognizable all over the world. We see Lady Gaga for instance perform in different  countries and everyone recogizes her songs. The same applies to a lot  American songs. That's what makes one music better than the other. With the help of YouTube and other social networking sites, Nigerian music is going places, but it's just not there yet.

Thanks guys. I'm still trying to decipher the difference between lust and love. Correct me if I'm wrong, Love is when u want someone to be very happy and wish them nothing but the very best. I feel that love is more permanent and lust is tempoary. I pray that every good thing happens to him in life. He's become part of my everyday prayer schedule. I honestly doubt if that's lust.

Again, i need some clarifications, Any guy who calls u, let's u in his world via Google Video and spends approx. 3 hours a day talking to you isn't playing around. I honestly doubt that, he's willing to meet my parents without hesitation, I still can't figure what his hidden agenda will be. My dad ran a background check on him, and it came out clean. (, Dad trying to protect his not-so little girl ). Somedays I sit down and ask myself, is this really lust?, I'm also confused, but yea when we meet I'm sure i can figure out how real this is, and take it from there.

I can't believe I meet him in about 24 hours, that's just crazy, we have Been talking consistently for about 8 months, and finally meeting him is just really driving me gaga right now, i cant even sleep, someone pls tell me to go to sleep,

@ Lepasharon, Is that good or bad, when u love someone, u see them in ur future, i see this guy in my future, I picture us together, obviously we have to go thru the dating game and all, for some reason, he connects to my soul, and he tells me the same as well,, one of us has to do the move, and he's more than willing to do the move to be with me, he has a decent job and a nice flat and am established life in the UK, For him to take the initiative to do the move, is that still love or lust, I'm confused as shit right now, I swear,

Oro agba thanks Orikinla, Thanks for that, the whole thing is definitely confusing, Could u say I love you to someone you faintly remember and someone you barely know, Once we meet, def no xxxx involved, we can revisit the relationship over again I guess, but I wonder why i think abt him a lot, I also wonder why he says he thinks about me a lot too, is someone lying?

yea, my dad is a cop, so yea, fingers crossed and eyes opened.We will keep things under control. He's just visiting the US, and he will stop by my place for brunch or something sometimes on the 27th, so it's not like he's staying in my house or anything, nah nah nah, my parents are like really strict,