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iceberylin:
Moreover she's coming to see ya mom not you

Abi o! Somebody help me tell am.

And the guy is already getting worked up. I hope you'll not be further heartbroken when she drops her wedding invite.

On second thoughts, she could be staging a comback into your life, but keep your cool because the final decision is in your hands.

Segirl18:
Hw would a guy offer to pay and the lady still prefers to do so herself...she's definetely terming him a broke nigga.

If u ask me, il say she's overdoing it jare.. its high-time she allow d guy take up his responsibilities cos nt every guy wud see it d way she sees it...she's telling him she really loves him but nt in a proper way no matter hw rich she mite be.

Naigerian girls and their akprako mentality.

OP, I don't see why you can't date the other girl, afterall you don't owe your ex any loyalty nor explanation since she was the one that left you for another guy.
Abeg go for the other girl if she's a good girl, besides, how do you know the girl has not been admiring you all along and has been too shy to make her feeling known to you (Nigerian girls syndrome).
Since you people are already chatting on watsap, you can take it from there and build a solid frenship from there.

Best of luck.

Genevieve be like

OBJ the living legend.

Like Nelson Mandela, he was jailed for standing up for the down trodden, he was jailed for fighting the evil rule of general abacha. Like Nelson Mandela, OBJ was sent to prison for what fighting against oppression and injustice.

Like Nelson Mandela, OBJ was released from prison and rose to the number one seat in the land.

OBJ, the Mandela of Nigeria.

DieeDiee:
Checked my ego, it's in a healthy condition.

Once and for all: there's nothing wrong with my ego and he never complained about my ego. NO ONE who knows me ever complained about my ego. So ego topic closed.

Lolz.. Is this how you have been arguing with him? No wonder the guy is having a hard time coping with you.

I think you are a nice person and straight forward too, but you seem a bit temperamental with the "I'm always right" feeling to go wth it.
You really do have feelings for this guy which s why I would want you to put in a little more effort in the r/ship to make it work. Besides, what is the posibility that the next guy you'll be meeting will not come with a baggage of his own problems.
Try and be more patient with him and every other person you deal with.

Cheers!!!

DieeDiee:
YAY!!! Was starting to believe I probably some deep issues I'm not aware of. Thank you.

Sorry to be the party pooper here but I refuse to join in the league of those helping you to throw your boyfriend under the bus.
You really do have an ego problem which is why you feel you have to win each and every silly argument which lead to unnesesary quarels.
You also feel he's sooooo "lucky" to have you. Your head is in the skies and I would advice you get off your high horse if not because of this relationship, at least for the next one you might have in case this one doesn't work out.

OP, I think you are the cause of your problems with your head in the skies and your foolish ego. You are always in a power struggle with because you don't have any respect for him and you probably feel you are too good for him which is why you laughed at him when he was asking you out.
You probably dumbed him because some other dudes where chycking you, now that you have seen that not all that glitters is gold, you now want him back. What happended in the 3months your were seperated.

mikkyjagga1:
Tanks for the suggestions bt it's not easy acting when u see someone u didn't expect doing something u see only in home videos, I intended to stop him but before I culd come out he was already out, guess all I can do now is pray for him!
Moreover I hear Nigerian ladies re very much involved wit fettish activities for diff reasons nwdays!
Young men please b careful where and whose food u eat, expecially those that love free food!

OP, the lady probably got the stuff from your sissters because me I don dey fear those your sisters oo. Hmm.. 3 of your sisiers got married in 5 months.

chris4gold:

Abi oo.. Don't mind all those evil fanatic Nairaland Christians. They will burry their head in the sand when they see the evil that their fellow Christians do but will start foaming at the mouth when they see a muslim that does something bad.

Muslims have been involved in evil things just as Christians have also taken their own share of evil.

After all the CAN president Oritshejafor is a major supplier of arms and armunitions to insurgents which has resulted in the death of thausands in Nigeria.

Some "good" Birom Christians killed Muslims on Sallah day on Eid praying ground in Jos, roasted and eat their flesh.

https://www.nairaland.com/844296/birom-christians-eat-roasted-flesh

LaurelP:
I've come to realise that men don't really like wooing or befriending ladies who are very confident. Ladies who can speak up at any place and time and aren't afraid of anybody.

Such ladies are often single and don't get as much attention from men as the more reserved ones. I know of this lady who is very beautiful and has assets that every man would love. But this very lady is just too confident; she doesn't care she can walk up to anybody and strike up a conversation, she says her mind the way she feels. As in, she no send anybody! Infact I was in a seminar with her and immediately she came until the end, everybody already knew her.

I realize dat men are usually intimidated by such ladies. Why

OP, you have just described a lousy lady.

Confdent ladies are not lousy.

OP, I think the girls really liked you initially but on getting close to you, they latter found out that you are too soft as a man.

Try and man up.

OP, the title of your thread is very misleadng, you and your aunty have already convicted him without evidence, also that your aunty is a wicked and haertless woman which explains why her husband is finding it difficult to live with her.

Habba!!! What is there in food that she can't give her husband. Even total stranger begging for food don't deserve such not to talk of her husband.

Some people have heart of stone sha.

Some Nairalanders. Dumb gaan o!


The pix is about palyfull boyfriends and how interesting they can be. Every girl loves a guy they can play and have fun with.

Later all these dumb guys will be opening threads all over the place moaning about how the girl they love so much has left them.


Dumb guys better upgrade, otherwise they will keep loosing smart girls to smart guys like me.

If not for a silly country like Nigeria, that conman called Oyedepo would be in jail by now.

I pray the OP get well soon. Insha Allah.

Please the doctors and other medical personnel in the house should help the OP by telling him the best hospital to go to for treatment. I would not advise him to go back to LUTH again because if they could not treat him the first time, why would they treat him this time. They will just scam him like they did before.

switosman:
You, the lady cut him to pieces and reduce him to nothing with the only weapon you have and when he reacts with his own weapon, you call him a beast, while you made him one not long ago.

I hate to beat a lady and I hate to be run down by one. that's why I keep my space and I look before I leap with the ladies.

for the ladies, you get what you ask for: you abuse him verbally, he will disabuse you one way or the other.

keep the peace, what is good for the goose is also good for the gander, my piece......

Don't mind the OP and her supporters club. In as much as I hate violence against women, the OP failed to say exactly what she said or did that lead to the querrel. Some women have such bad mouth that their mouth is like razor blade cutting on your skin. Or maybe the OP slept with her boyfriend's bestfriend.

My advice to guys, please know the kind of girls you hang out with, not girls like OP that will provoke you into doing what you might later regret.

ayswags:
25 ke?There are lots of 16yr old girls with big tummies.Very nauseating

Sadly true.

onihaxy:
This numeriacal tesblik again?, from the first time I encountered you on my thread, I have always seen you as a potential terrorist. Everything about you is always war, kill, hatred and destruction. The op simply stated that "why muslim girls date xtian guys?" That's all. And you are here propagating another E-war as usual. Pls wait a minute, I want to ask you some simple questions.
1. Did u choose a particualr religion while coming from heaven?
2. Were you born when the religion was introduced?
3. If you belived that your own religion is the only true religion, why is the other religion praying to the same GOD and he answers them if he is not biased?.

I read through all the posts before yours, including the one you quoted and nobody talked about the bombings, killings, and terrorism your religion has caused to this nation and yet you are here spewing trashes about christianity. Why should I even be suprised. Your fellow tebliks always take their time to read the Bible only to dig out words and issues they will use to preach against the christians wen they mount on the microphone with their 3-quarters short-trouser. Get a life dude and live your life. Stop carrying religion on your head as if its a collateral to get a GTbank loan. Sometimes, people of your type is the reason why most people believed that a muslim-muslim ticket will ruin this nation. You simply lack the words "love", "tolerance" and "peacefull co-existence". Get a life abeg. Mtcheeeew

Na wa o! See how this one has gone into a frenzy and is foaming at the mouth with huge rolling eyes.

You must be the newest yabaleft escapee.
Guy! You need help! I could hardly comprehend what you typed.

maybe a Muslim guy snatched the stoopid OP's girlfriend or a Muslim girl has rejected him because the boy is in some kind of serious pain. i feel sorry for him sha.OP, pele. why dont you try other girls instead of coming to nairaland to come and rant all over the place like a mumu kid that you are.

I know your type very whell. When they get turned down by a muslim girl because of his bad characters, instead of him to try and change his evil and useless ways, they run to online forum and start bad mouthing Muslims

Nelsizzy:
These r d kind of pple dat causes E-war

This are the fvcking hypochrytes that fail to see that the e-war was started by his fellow Christian brother.
You turned a blind eye to what the stoopid OP is saying but found fault in my reply. Mumu cow

rahymat:
Most muslims have cheating nature even d guy im datin nw sef,its unfortunate dat cool,caring nd responsible guys turned out to be xtians nd i end up nt datin dem because of parent religious policy

Check yourself and the people you hang out with. Because I know Christians are the most sexually ravaged people the world over. HIV/AIDS is highest in Christian dominated areas. Alcoholism, prostitution, lies, armed robbery, yahoo-yahoo, drug-pushing, cultism, etc are their stock intrade. Even the few Muslims that are involved in all these social vices were initiated by their Christian friends.

Even the poster's argument should convice you that Christians have sold their soul to the devil when the only thing their so called "men of God" can offer is sexxual apeal. Little wonder their is so much moral bancrupsy in the churches nowadays, even big name pastors have not been left out with scandals on the pages of newspapers evryday.

robosky02:
1.It’s not your job – When a man likes you, it’s obvious…his ____ gets hard
2.It takes the FUN out of the GAME – Friends. Courtship. Dating…and so on and so forth. Know how to play. You can’t court him!
3.It makes you look easy breezy – When dating, no one wants to be LOW HANGING FRUIT or DESPERATE
4.I’m GOING to Bleep HER – Runs through his head…is that what you want? TO GET DISRESPECTED…
5.Don’t Turn Into Halle Berry – David Justice (Love Note), Eric Benet (Backstage Stalking), Gabriel Aubry (Rascist Rundown)
6.You’re too Good for that – Why would you have to pursue what’s falling at your feet and leaving a trail of tears…don’t settle for a man you have to Jock like Jay-Z
7.Better things to do – Like getting courted by people that LOVE & Deserve you More
8.Love don’t Hate – But don’t wait, if he’s not making moves…fill up your time with someone that is
9.Divine Order – If he’s not asking you out…there is a REAL Reason: Gay, Taken, STD…Come on now!
10.Finally: You Don’t Hit on Men, They hit on You – If a man likes you, loves you, and wants more of you…he will drink your bath water, move heaven and earth until angels sing…don’t hate the player hate the game

OP is a very imature person.

OP, how do u expect such a nice and cool dude to approach you when you have baricaded yourself by hanging on the arm of the "most wanted guy" in your level. So much so that most people think you are dating. You get loads loads of attention from all the guys in your level buy flirting with them.

Must you have every guy in your class? He's the last one remaining and you must have him even when you know he has a favourite girl.

I don't think you really love him. You only want to conqure him since he's probably one of the few guys left that is not really bothered by you.

@ OP,
Kai wawa ne.. Infact ode ni e.
Kai! How dumb can some guys be.
Ur girl requested for money when u didn't have, u promissed to give her in a few days time but she wasn't patient and she went and had sex in a hotel with another man. To make matters worse she has now twisted the whole thing to make you feel guilty and the eediat is now on hs knees begging her.