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verminnel:
Op let's talk

missyojo:
Hello Op, any update as regards this thread. It's more than a year now, hope you have gotten your better half

Mom007:
*smiles

Small boy.
I saw your track record so I was expecting your juvenile response. You didn't disappoint. Ladies, see the boy behind the puffed up profile... proceed at your own risk!

Mom007:
Divorcee with 3 children... that's alot of baggage son
Plus you in early 30s so you never wise, and the mouth on you... smh!
Still very vain because you have small raba and live 'above average '.
If you so fly, why did your first marriage not work out? what aren't you telling us? Better climb down your high horse a couple of notches. You not all that. In fact, a single lady with all the properties you listed up there will not touch you with a long stick!

Mom007:
Read, swallow and go in peace ke? Are you paying for anyone's time here? Or did you buy their data that you presume to tell them what to do with it? If you don't want unsolicited comments and advice, then don't put your business in public domain for everyone to read! Once you do that, all bets are off, you get the good, the bad and the ugly and it shows a great deal of immaturity that you choose to fight everyone who expresses an opinion different from whatever you had in mind when you cooked up this post. If you can't stand the heat, carry yourself and your post out of the kitchen joor

Ishilove:
I'm from the South-South but I don't know what this guy is talking about... Seriously...


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missyojo:
This Op is very BRILLIANT, Omo see how he dey attack like AK 47
You passed through school, your school fees ain't a waste at all. Some of your Big Big grammar sef, I haven't heard it before

faithfull18:
Interesting but OP, just curious to know what could have caused the divorce that couldn't be resolved, you are in your early 30s, I am guessing your ex is in her early 30s or 20s too, hmmn.

Aurelius1:
You may think he's talking nonsense but he's saying the truth. It would be difficult getting a woman without kids to love your 3 kids as her own. Even women who had kid(s) in their earlier relationships often maltreat their step kids. My cousin is a living witness. The woman came into the marriage with 2 kids she had in an earlier relationship. My cousin had 4 kids before they met while she had 2. They have a daughter together. This woman made sure my cousin sent his own children away from the house while her own remained. To cut long story short, she finally divorced him after he lost his job and fell sick..................
.this is not meant to discourage you because who knows, you might just be lucky to meet a good woman. Good luck in your search.

Magnoliaa:
Lmao, men have always gotten that grace, by the way. Always. Classic one is the Malignant dude or whatever.

They can be hypocritical to any levels they wanted, and their fellow men will still find excuses for that.

I am sure the number of women that hailed Uche's husband pales in comparison to the men that dragged her.

Just a few people are dragging this OP, and that itself is even an exception where threads of these kind are concerned.

Magnoliaa:
I hope ( NOTE; "I hope" ) you are certainly not one of these guys here, but in other skins.

This is certainly not the first time I'll be seeing something like this here, after all...one just came, some months ago, ohhh, and he has a daughter too. I remember now. And he was looking for a woman or something like that, but he was supposedly ashamed, or so he said, because he has posted nonsense about women many times and trolled them.

If that's not the same with your case, then I wish you goodluck...

Ishilove:
I was thinking I'll see Achebe, Soyinka et al I'm your African list, but Tolstoy and Eliot are not bad. In hindsight, Hadley Chase has very good stories but his prose, not very strong. They are uncomplicated, except for a few that went deep like Malory and There's a Hippie on The Highway, which ironically was one of his early stories.

I'm not one for motivational books. Their prose is often too bland to hold my attention. I'm all about the style of the prose, which is why Stephen King is one of my all time favorites. I'm currently on Thinner and boy, am i on a journey!

I see your interests shifted, and you are now more about the actual intricacies of society rather than their fictionalisation. Life does that to ya.

Sorry I'm derailing your thread o. Ma bi nu

Piptocoin:
[color=indigo]Now I see the comment of mine that has galvanized your irrational volcanic eruption. Since the meaning of my first post has been unable to penetrate your mind like water on the back of a duck it is needless to offer you clarity. Furthermore, your vituperation has lost its purpose on me. Unlike you, I am not chockfull of acrimonious bile waiting to slip at the slightest hint of antagonism. Nah, I won't smear you with dirt because I have none to give.[/color]

Ishilove:
Guy...guy... This your English! If I was still single i for DM you just for the sake of the English alone. See as you just dey finger my brain

Who are your favourite writers (African and non-African)?

Dimples2022:
I’m not going to lie, I’m enjoying your roast but some people are taking it too far. You deserve what you want and can’t no miserable people take that from you. You could meet your someone but these bitter people don’t want that LOL!?

Dimples2022:
The man came looking for a wife but you people are offering what was never asked of you!!! Why are you guys (dickblockers) blocking his attempts

He never asked for advice but he asked for a wife ready to accept his faults and marry him! What’s with all these 2 cents everybody wants to drop

Piptocoin:
[color=indigo]Why are you pugnacious over the innocuous sentiment of a faceless man in the street? You seem to relish the exercise of punching the air. I am not your enemy; you are. Peace.[/color]

SerikiFulani:
OP

A distant relative of mine,a divorcee with 5 kids got married to a single, virtuous, resourceful and super gorgeous nigerian woman.

Don't let anyone discourage you on here.

Piptocoin:
[color=indigo]Reality tastes like Alomo Bitters. I am not in the way of the Op seeking his heart's desires, but when he has sailed too far from the shores of truth he risks being lost in his imagination. Whoever attempts to fill the vacuum of his desires must by no means have a heart of leather knowing that mothering three step kids will drain such lady empty of her emotional reservoir and make her feel like an "upgraded nanny" rather than a wife. TheGoodAmerican has a point in his suggestion but that is not a constant. The Op is asking far too much and I'm sure he has not thought this through. You have also expressed the less admirable but significant aspects of his search. That notwithstanding, I wish him luck in his endeavour.[/color]

Klass99:
There's nothing wrong with your list, all your expectations are valid especially the last two (i.e. 4 & 5) May you find what you seek.

pocohantas:
There is nothing to say OP can’t have or shouldn’t desire a single woman. From his opening post, he didn’t even specify, so why are you guys assuming and attacking him? Uche Ogbodo just remarried and I saw ladies hailing her husband as a real man. Let’s extend the same grace to men too.



I wish you the best OP. It takes a lot of strength to try again…and I pray you get to be loved the way you desire this time.

Kelechi009:
Meaning you don't have sense with your expectations, you need to lower it to find true love & not a leech.

efficiencie:
What if she meets all the criteria above but she is also a divorcee like you?

Kelechi009:
Yes I will jump at you but not because I love you, my aim would be to take every single penny you have and leave probably after few years just like what every celeb on IG is doing.

So better give yourself some sense.

Kelechi009:
You have 3 kids, why should a single lady marry you? Do you think it's fair bringing a lady to take care of 3 kids that aren't hers?

If you're muslim, then that might make sense but you aren't. The lady will just maltreat your kids

Windscribe:
99% of comments here are laced with negativity, bad energy and all, and you expect him not to get mad?

Is he Jesus Christ or what?
Even Jesus Is going to get mad at the destructive criticism on this thread.

Facebook pages and groups is a nice place to find a partner.

frozen70:
I think your concern and interest now is to focus on how to look after your children and their future

Since their mum is no longer living with you guys, you have to play double roles

Searching for a financial stable woman shows that you can't even take care of those children needs

You really painted yourself as a good looking man, if that's what you are, then you don't need to advertise yourself

Forget about being in a hurry to get another woman

Go and arrange your self properly because you may have a bigger issue when another woman comes in, to fit into the shoes of trying to be there mother

bigjackass:
I can already see some of the reasons why your marriage didn't work out . Marriage is not for you guy. Nanny and casual flings is better

TheGoodAmerican:
It's my opinion, and I'm entitled to it. Clearly, you're a single mother. There's no need to be pained over my comment.


No wonder. Get help and go look after your kids instead of arguing with a stranger on the internet. Loser.