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FamilyRe: Divorced, Ready For A New Phase by oakson(op): 10:38pm On Jan 07, 2023
Dimples2022:
Who gave you this authority??! LOL! NL!
My dear... the audacity and selfishness off me.

It's on a league of its own.
I can't honour the whatever with a 'he/she'
FamilyRe: Divorced, Ready For A New Phase by oakson(op): 10:35pm On Jan 07, 2023
TheGoodAmerican:
This is a public forum, which I'm sure you're aware of. The same way you opened this thread is the same way people can reply to it. With the way you're attacking people, it's no wonder your wife left you. I can only pity the woman you want to dump your three kids on.
My wife left me you say? You would have me spew things, but i won't be that childish to( ain't saying I'm perfect). Now, that's a dart on your shitty and villainous heart to deal with.

Your choice of words show how much of a bunch, life has left you to deal with.

Are you done pitying yourself?

love and light!
FamilyRe: Divorced, Ready For A New Phase by oakson(op): 9:59pm On Jan 07, 2023
JeffreyJunior:
So is it safe to also say that a single man without kids has no business dating or marrying a single mother with 3 kids?

We men have seen all manner of injustice in this life shaa. cheesy
This exactly is my grouse with him and his jackals.

God bless you!
FamilyRe: Divorced, Ready For A New Phase by oakson(op): 9:43pm On Jan 07, 2023
Dogalmighty17:
This attitude may be one of the underlying causes of the divorce. You put a post on a public forum and yet you tell people to mind their business?
which attitude? I'm yet to read where I said people should mind their business. Are you inferring the guy i shut down(americawhatever)as 'a people'.

Read his comment slowly this time without sentiment and tell me what his last line infers?
FamilyRe: Divorced, Ready For A New Phase by oakson(op): 9:36pm On Jan 07, 2023
Oluneutral:
Dear brother, we're not fighting, as a matter of fact, I was only pointing out what you're expected to have known. This is a public forum, When you open a thread here, it's no longer personal, it has become public consumption. Expect different suggestions, comments and questions. The way and manners you now respond to these good, bad and sometimes ugly comments here says a lot about who you really are. Besides, there's no rule that stipulates the threads any member can respond to. Somebody's business is everybody's business once it gets to the public domain here, same applies to other social media.


By the way, the suggestion given by thegoodamerican wasn't a bad one, it now behoves on you to accept or not.
I smell bullshit from far... hence, my replies.

This post is meant for ladies to respond to, not men with seemingly overbloated ego and megalomaniacs who chose to cocoon their personal struggles and shortcomings, then, come online as dinosaurs to prey on those who were bold enough to come out. You don't sit behind your keypad and type out how someone else should or should not live.

That, I can't and won't accept... you called what that 'americawhatever' said a 'suggestion'? Read it again. He spoke like he's the father and default mind of all ladies; even Father Abraham wouldn't be that absolute in authority over someone else's wishes.

Lastly, it is always worthwhile to read out loud one's comments to one's self and feel it before writing it out to someone else(no pun intended).

Then, and then, would social media be a safe, if not safer place for all!

Abi you get wife for me grin
FamilyRe: Divorced, Ready For A New Phase by oakson(op): 8:56pm On Jan 07, 2023
Oluneutral:
By the way, what was the cause of the divorce that couldn't be resolved even after three beautiful and wonderful kids?
Like you care.... huh
FamilyRe: Divorced, Ready For A New Phase by oakson(op): 8:54pm On Jan 07, 2023
Oluneutral:
If you really wanted people to mind their businesses, you shouldn't have put this in a public domain, you know.
Read your signature and see the contrast in your comment. Must you NL folks really show how petty you are? These coming from men shows how warped and condescending most males on this forum are...

kilode, must you folks spit? Can't you just read, swallow and go in peace or pieces?
FamilyRe: Divorced, Ready For A New Phase by oakson(op): 6:41pm On Jan 07, 2023
TheGoodAmerican:
Go look for a single mother, OP. You need to find a single mother or divorcee like yourself, not a single lady without kids. A single lady without kids has no business dating or marrying a single father with 3 kids.
does it really cost a fortune to mind your business and get busier if need be?
FamilyRe: Divorced, Ready For A New Phase by oakson(op): 5:36pm On Jan 07, 2023
Ishilove:
No it isn't. I pointed it out for ladies that may be interested. My contribution to your search smiley
contribution well appreciated, gracias!
FamilyRe: Divorced, Ready For A New Phase by oakson(op): 5:23pm On Jan 07, 2023
Ishilove:
Pishure or wedonbelivit
I quite understand the intricacies of a faceless and public forum such as this. So, if I say I am what I am; don't doubt me, I Am!

BTW; is that a subtle interest cheesy?
FamilyRe: Divorced, Ready For A New Phase by oakson(op): 5:20pm On Jan 07, 2023
nicerod:
Wish u well bro



Just be careful with this our ladies and don't rush and act desperate



thanks bro
FamilyRe: Divorced, Ready For A New Phase by oakson(op): 5:19pm On Jan 07, 2023
boldx:
You need some time out to reflect on lessons learnt or what went wrong.
lessons learnt.... I guess it's time to grow! Thanks
FamilyDivorced, Ready For A New Phase by oakson(op):
I am in my early thirties. Dark and handsome, average height, witty, sporty, spontaneous, resourceful and lover of good dreams. Based in Lagos, a Christian from the southwest(tribe is not an issue to me),Father of 3 and comfortably doing ok above an average Nigerian. Need a working class or financially stable , educated lady that knows what it means to love and be loved!


N.B.: This is not a recent divorce!
Dating And Meet-up Zone by oakson(op):
Done
Technology MarketRe: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by oakson:
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RomanceRe: The Attraction And Troubles Of Dating An Older Woman by oakson:
undecided
Foreign AffairsRe: See How Close Russia Is To USA Geographically: Photo by oakson: 9:15am On Mar 15, 2022
This is scary
Oshodipikin:
When I read the comments of some children who knows nothing about life not to talk of war here on nairaland, I laff in swahili...


NATO IS AVOIDING WAR WITH RUSSIA FOR YOUR SAKE.
NATO's decision to not close the sky over Ukraine is correct. A shooting war between Russia and NATO should be avoided as much as possible and the way the US has been evading that confrontation is simply the right thing to do.If you think it is cowardice, it is because you don't know and this post will brief you.
Let me set it out in a very brief way.
There are three types of wars:
1. Conventional war - which is fought according to the rules of war: Don't kill civilians and children, don't hit civilian infrastructure, don't shoot surrendering enemy soldiers and PoWs, etc.
2. Total war - which Russia seems to be fighting in Ukraine right now and which it fought against Chechnya in Grozny. In a total war, you just kill everybody you see and destroy everything on your way.
3. Nuclear war.
On a normal day, Russia will fall quickly of NATO engages it in a conventional or a total war and Putin has admitted that much in a speech recently. There is no contest in that. NATO's firepower is extensive and its generals are top level.
However, the mismatch will force Russia to quickly resort to 'final-solution' tactics while it can - it will launch its arsenal of nuclear weapons. Lets be quickly reminded that since the 1970s, both the West and Russia have thousands of nuclear tipped missiles already programmed to hit targets in all major cities on each other's soil. With just the press of a button, those missiles will fly out and head for their targets.
But there are difficulties. Both sides have watchmen that are not sleeping. Every inch of Russian territory is under a 24/7 scan for missile launch by the West, using flare and heat detection satellites. Russia has the same system.
The moment a rocket motor ignites (most missiles are powered by rocket motors. Cruise missiles use air-breathing jet engines - pretty much the same used by aeroplanes, but they could be ramjets or jets with afterburners. Cruise missiles are usually called precision guided weapons), they know in the West. These missile scouts will start to track the missile or missiles and note their number, velocity and heading. They have about 10 minutes to confirm and reconfirm that missiles are being launched against the West. In this case they will mostly be ICBMs (Intercontinental Ballistic Missiles). Well, despite the heavy name, they are actually simple orbital rockets that can get into orbit and then re-enter the earth at the appropriate location - above their targets. At this point, they will release their thermonuclear warheads or bombs (all modern nuclear bombs carry thermonuclear warheads, that is, warheads that uses a small hydrogen bomb to initiate a chain reaction in its main fission bomb of Plutonium or Uranium). These warheads are shaped like cones and they are about 1.2m in height with a base diameter of about 800mm. The real active ingredient, Uranium or Plutonium inside the conical device is not bigger than a football but they are packed with the horrendous power of creation itself, the power of the nucleus of an atom called the Strong Force.
Two things will then happen in line with strictly established procedures it call it Battle Order.
Once a missile attack is detected, the US will immediately move it's president, his family, Pentagon chiefs and a few citizens into a bunker that is about 2 kilometers below the ground and under a mountain. It is suspended upon springs so it can withstand tectonic forces from a nuclear blast on the surface. The bunker contains provisions for two years to sustain the occupants. (I have seen the image somewhere about 25 years ago in maybe Times Magazine). Reporters taken there were blindfolded and flown for hours so they will not have a clear sense of direction. The location is totally secret but it is suspected that it is Nevada. It was not dug out directly but a lateral tunnel was created several miles away to this subterranean site.
1. The West will launch countermeasures at these warheads. (Usually, they will be 13 to 17 on each ICBM and at this stage, they are in their terminal altitude in space). This is the threat level the American THAAD anti-missile system is designed to contain. It will fly into space and try to steer kill vehicles into those warheads and of course, the success rate will understandably only be partial. Some will end up successfully re-entering the earth and dive (under zero power) for their targets. At this point, the Patriot system will come into action and try to swat the warheads. The Patriot complex deals with missiles within the atmosphere.
2. Simultaneously NATO will give orders for its own missile launches and within minutes, you will see missiles rise from silos and from submarines heading East to attack preset targets. B-52s ('Stratofortress'), B1, ('Spirit') and B2 ('Bones') -all long range bombers will take off from the US, Germany and probably Japan armed with hydrogen and Plutonium bombs and head for Russia. There are also about 1,500 nuclear weapons on each side that are currently in the field, mingled with conventional weapons but known to commanders. Those are probably the most dangerous of all these arsenal of nuclear weapons because they are already and permanently dispersed in the field. All - everything will be launched within just about 30 minutes in this make or break final combat.
Everything described above from the moment one side launches its nuclear weapons will not take more than 45 to 60 minutes and it is all over. If the attack takes place at night, right here in Nigeria, if you look northwest towards Europe or east northwest towards the United States, or northeast towards Russia, you will actually see a dull glow in your night sky though you won't hear the thunder of the explosions.
The next three days or even a week will be normal although wind patterns may have become suspect. Thereafter, you will observe that the sky is getting darker and midday seems like dusk. That is the cloud of a global thermonuclear warfare.
The sun will be screened out for months and plants will die off. This will lead to global famine, first step. Of course, global trade is already gone and the world has reverted to primitive levels. The Internet is no more and telephone services have become epileptic.
Next will come the global outbreak of all forms of cancers from radiation carried around the world by the cloud earlier described. Death will become so much more desirable than life that those alive will curse their lot.
There will be survivors of course: those who have been hidden away in military grade silos and have ample supplies to carry them for about two years.
Those who just manage to go through about three years of life as foragers and scavengers and somehow have not been killed by skin cancer, blood cancer and other forms of metastasis. They are the ones that will populate the new world and begin to try to establish a new civilization.
Now you have an idea why NATO keeps avoiding fighting with Russia. It is simply to keep YOU alive.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: 2026!! Marriages For Working Class: Drop Your Contact And Get Your Spouse Now. by oakson: 12:58am On Feb 23, 2022
Hi... Shall we?
Oby09:
I'm a 35 years old working class Lady, AS genotype, chocolate, Igbo, Lagos based and a christian looking for a man between 36-43, AA genotype, Lagos based, God fearing, never been married, ready to settle down and have a stable job or a business. Please say hi and I'll send you a message if you're ready.

Marriage o, not hook up pls.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: **Second Chance At Love : Divorced, Widowed, Single Parent Or Mature Single** by oakson:
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SportsRe: Senegal Are AFCON 2021 Champions by oakson: 11:02pm On Feb 06, 2022
Bouba Diop
Carlyboi:
The win should be dedicated to their golden generation the 2000-2002 team of Aliou Cisse,khalilou Fadiga,Ferdinand Coly,Tony Silva,Henri Camara,El Hadj Diouf,Omar Daf and all other members of that great Senegalese team that took the 2002 afcon and fifa World Cup by storm.

Really Happy for them was invested as if it was Nigeria playing in the final!finally Senegal are African champions for the first time in their history!
CelebritiesRe: My Birthday Celebration Is Still On. Happy New Year!!! by oakson: 3:03am On Jan 19, 2022
KingAzubuike:
Eeyah.. this sweet and sexy looking girl is actually dead. Truly no one knows tomorrow.

I'm sure you're reading this in heaven, even though we never had any conversation for once on this forum , I pray you find solace in God's place. RIP young one.
Can't believe this... The last time we met was in her office at Fadeyi... So shocked I'm just seeing this now. OMG! Rest In Peace
CelebritiesRe: Dayo Kujore Is Dead by oakson: 7:55pm On Jan 10, 2022
buragidi:
Yap. Those were the three great juju masteros of the 1990s. Others were Olu Fajemirokun (O lomori) and Micho Ade.
On point and Wura Fadaka.... Thumbs up!
CelebritiesRe: Dayo Kujore Is Dead by oakson: 7:53pm On Jan 10, 2022
adedayoa2:
I was a kid when this man was giving us jam, RIP to him.
Like I knew he's time for him... Played His song 2 days ago
FamilyRe: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by oakson:
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RomanceRe: Best Cheap Restaurants on The Island to Visit with your Boyfriend. by oakson:
undecided
FashionRe: Anjy Luminee's Dress To Bobrisky’s 30th Birthday Party Causes Stir by oakson:
cheesy
CrimeRe: Have You Been Hypnotized Before? by oakson:
grin
Christianity EtcInside Life by oakson(op):
......
Christianity EtcRe: Apostle Suleman Dumps Pregnant Stephanie Otobo, Detains Her In Lagos - SR (Pic) by oakson:
huh
Christianity EtcRe: Apostle Suleman Dumps Pregnant Stephanie Otobo, Detains Her In Lagos - SR (Pic) by oakson:
embarassed

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