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Family / Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Obaad: 1:45pm On Apr 22, 2022
Just talk say Ashawo dey your eyes
uote author=janejjjjj5000 post=112173007]Please, I don't want to be judged. My husband is a good man. We have been married for 14 years. I am 33 years old. He is 39 years old. We have 4 kids - 3 girls and 1 boy. He has never cheated on me. Right from day 1, he has been very open. He is not the type of husband that locks phone and all of that. But I am tired. He has the habit of flaring up around the children and I don't like it. I don't want my kids to be damaged. I know some will say no marriage is perfect but at this point, I don't even want marriage again. I just want to be free and single and look after my kids. I am tired.

Anytime we have an argument, he always talks about how he did this and that for me. In front of the children. I don't want this kind of life. He hardly gets angry, maybe twice or thrice in a year but when he does, he does not have the sense to know he should not be doing it in front of the kids. He apologizes to them and to me but I am done.

He has no other issue apart from this. He has never beaten me or anything but I am tired. Overall he is a good husband to be fair and honest but I can no longer deal with this. I prefer to be single and free than deal with this rubbish.

I feel like pouring out my heart.[/quote]
Romance / Re: I Met This Girl In Less Than 2 Weeks. NOW THIS!!! by Obaad: 11:03pm On Feb 21, 2022
Bravo!!!

IkranDragon:
Hello Guys. Please I need your brotherly advice. I just met this girl in less than 2 weeks.

We are still in the talking stage, this past Val, we exchanged gifts but after that it has been her needing money for this and that.

She keeps whinning about it whenever we talk, we can't even talk for straight 5 mins without talking about her financial needs.

But I always didn't have nothing to say than to keep her hopes alive as I don't offer to support her.

Now, she texted me tonight to lend her 15k to repair her damaged phone. I already told her I am not loaded enough to do that.

How can I skip this issue of money and press on with the game, or should I just leave her?

Please I need your candid advice, I am not so good at this games. sad
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Visit Me While I Was In Prison After All I Did For Her! by Obaad: 12:45pm On Feb 17, 2022
BRATISLAVA:


Men abandon girlfriends for something as little as unwanted pregnancies everyday, and the heavens haven't fallen. They haven't needed washing in the Styx or exorcism.

But you people here want her to stay with someone in prison to prove her loyalty? To what end? Are they married? How many of you have actually tried to sustain a long distance relationship let alone a prison incarceration one? Moreover, what was his crime?

This is how Nigerians expect a widow to swear off sex and any other relationships in her life time just because the thought of a "disloyal" woman, even one whose husband is deceased, is offensive.


Sorry ooo Mr Yemi my love...




Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Refused To Visit Me While I Was In Prison After All I Did For Her! by Obaad: 12:44pm On Feb 17, 2022
Sorry ooo Mr Yemi my lover
quote author=darkstar6971 post=110293737]Hey Nairalander pls I'm here purposely for advice.

I have a girlfriend of mine which we have been together for quit long time and we share everything together even reach a level of buying her an iPhone 11 while I'm managing my Samsung phone...

So one day some incident happened to me that led me to prison for almost 4 months yet for all this period this girl has never tried to pay me a visit...

After winning the court trial, this girl came to me and knelt down asking me to forgive her for what she did yet I have been forgiving her for the previous mistakes.

Guyss pls I really need advice. Is she manipulating me or is this love?[/quote]
Business / Re: Businesses That Can Earn You 10 To 20k Naira Per Day In Nigeria? by Obaad: 2:08am On Oct 27, 2021
Hezzyluv:
Activate hustling mode. Buy Keke napep (maruwa), enter road begin hustle as early as 5:30am depending on your location. Believe you me before 3pm, u don gather 5k. But e no easy, u must makeup your mind.

Keke is for your daily bread. It can never connect you to somewhere bigger.
Family / Re: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Obaad: 2:04am On Oct 27, 2021
Icouldhave:
Hi all

We the children have sat my dad down and talked to him, to the extent we are tired, how can an old man at this stage in life still fornicating.

Money we sent to him for his upkeeps, he is using it to feed another man's children. several times my mom have seen vega 200 in his pockets during laundry.

The annoying thing is this woman he is frolicking with is a known area miscreant, I don't know if he's jazzed or it's something else.

A man at this age is not supposed to have sexual urge, besides while he was young he didn't do like this.

(no insults on my dad please, we respect him, he did alot for us his children both male and female)

Please how do we the children handle this issue?



Allow the man to enjoy

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Health / Re: Why Is That Nigerian Girls Don't Fear STD? by Obaad: 10:49pm On Oct 19, 2021
bodybuilder:
I'm just curious, it seems that's only guys that are cautious of not catching some disease through sex. Most girls won't suggest condom if you don't suggest it first. These girls dey fear me. Most girls aren't scared going raw. E be like say na only guys dey fear am. What could be the reason for this?

Those gender don't � anything
Sports / Re: During Your Childhood, Who Was Your Football Idol? by Obaad: 10:44pm On Oct 19, 2021
[quote author=Vinnie2000 post=106885817]Watching Football as kids was Fun! Emotions attached were not that strong!
Most only watched out for Goals and the Star Players!
Players like Rashidi Yekini, JJ Okocha, Michael Owen, David Beckham, Gabriel Bastituta, Luis Figo, Zinedine Zidane, Didier Drogba, etc..
These are Too Players Kids idolized Way back!!

So Who's Yours?

MINE IS
SUNDAY OLISEH..(can't forget his France 98 Bullet) cheesy
HERNAN CRESPO OF INTER MILAN
THIERRY HENRY OF ARSENAL.. cool



[/quote


Andres Iniesta

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Romance / Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by Obaad: 10:43pm On Oct 19, 2021
Softboy001:

The Lord is your strength bro

When u say things like this it will look as if somebody is not working hard. You have no idea what I have done or been through.

I have done some things(legal) just to survive
But I thank I just got a job in a very popular firm in the country. As a costumer call agent.

The issue here now is the sexual tension am facing every day and my current job which I just started a month ago is not helping matters cos 90% of my colleagues are female. And you need to see what they wear to work.

My brother even if you don't want to be moved. You must move. Dem no born you well...
Everyday I give my self pep talk on how to look but I still look. The sexual tension is much plus the fact that I have not had sex for 2 years now, the Same me that normally have sex back to back...


Right now am just thinking how I am going to survive those ladies at work on Monday and my dick Is already doing me somehow

The Lord is your strength
Romance / Re: Reasons Why I Haven't Had Sex For Over 2 Years Now And Don't Have A Girlfriend by Obaad: 10:42pm On Oct 19, 2021
Softboy001:

The Lord is your strength bro

When u say things like this it will look as if somebody is not working hard. You have no idea what I have done or been through.

I have done some things(legal) just to survive
But I thank I just got a job in a very popular firm in the country. As a costumer call agent.

The issue here now is the sexual tension am facing every day and my current job which I just started a month ago is not helping matters cos 90% of my colleagues are female. And you need to see what they wear to work.

My brother even if you don't want to be moved. You must move. Dem no born you well...
Everyday I give my self pep talk on how to look but I still look. The sexual tension is much plus the fact that I have not had sex for 2 years now, the Same me that normally have sex back to back...


Right now am just thinking how I am going to survive those ladies at work on Monday and my dick Is already doing me somehow

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