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Chiffy:
Just discovering that this gold digger is 36 years old, while Hakim is only 24 years old.

This means @ the age of 33, she married a boy of 21, with evil intentions.
Let one boy of 30 go and toast a young girl of 21...the ones that can't get a man will start shouting he's a pedophile, he's this, he' that.

KarinaSlim:
But normally, what Hakimi did is not good.

He shouldn't have put his property in his mother's name.

That means he planned for divorce right from the beginning.

Men and trust issues.

Hakimi planned the divorce, but he wasn't the one that filed for divorce. Make it make sense. Man must always take the fall.
Tell me one reason why what Hakimi did is not good.
Hakimi is all shades of right ma. He anticipated her plan, a divorce and a ploy to whisk his wealth from him...he did really well.

zilon12:
She no get her own money? Must she rely on him?

Just saying

They denigrate men, broke shame struggling men, use toxic feminism to propagate hate against the male gender, then will do anything to look for a rich man to marry so they can divorce and get wealth that their fathers could not bequeath to them. One has to be careful about raising daughters these days before these bitter demons will help u reconfigure ur daughter

You divorce a cheating man and rapist (alleged) so that you can have peace of mind and not taint ur image....why u wan go with him property again. U don't want his image buy u have no problems with his assets. You will have custody of kids and still get substantial child support but na half of his property dey enter ur eye. You married him 3 years ago, so half of what he has worked for all his life should go you you because you have a vagina that you put to use.

Jennyclay:
The most funny thing about this Hakimi saga is that broke, poor and wretched men that don't even have single property are the ones putting this matter on their head like gele . #1 they don't have, they can't even send common 5k to their girlfriend/wife to buy common body cream.

Shame!! Shame!! Shame!!!!!!

I believe this is based on your personal experience, why dyu need to be bought common 5k body cream by boyfriend/husband. You people want to be feminist, alpha female, and still enjoy enjoy the privilege of being the opposite.

You wanna get 50% of the sweat of a boy you are 12 years older than...some people no just get shame

Disgusting. She is a cheat, luckily for you she isn't a smart cheat. And she's holding on to some beliefs that should make u forget her totally.
She opened her mouth to tell u she's bored and just needed a new flame..do u really know the meaning of what she said? Are u sure she's not the breadwinner because what nonsense. Meanwhile being the breadwinner is not a justification, it can just be the source of her effontery to tell u that nonsense about bored and wanting to try new flames. Even man wey no want woman again no get confidence to open mouth waaaa and tell the unwanted woman dat nonsense.

2. At some point u said she got angry that u didn't believe her. My people call that Ogboju, she's a manipulator too. See una dey misuse apology na why babes go wan dey manipulate u to pretend like you are hurt knowing the next thing u are apologizing.

3. If u think u have kids with her, now is the time to get that DNA before more of ur money will go towards her colleague or other random guys kids...while u should be investing ur money for ur own verifiable kids with worthy woman.

EXTRA: I'll be surprised if u claim she didn't show signs of dishonesty, lack of loyalty and being close to other men while u were dating. That's if u guys dated and u paid attention. Dating and courting period is not for kissing and taking pictures for the gram to pepper ur ex and kneeling down in beautiful dark room lit with candles to propose alone. Try know the person wey u wan commit to. By your story, your wife isn't so smooth and smart with her cheating moves, and I believe te signs would be there for u to see....abi u no fit resist the beauty and the sex?

Boehly becomes the first billionaire to make a wrong decision and decides to correct it with a wrong decision, only to attempt to correct the 2nd wrong decision with another wrong decision.

Even young low-lifers that will jump at RMD if he wants to marry them are crying age difference for this one

Na only Toke come correct with this bumbum wey dem dey do up and down.....she's a good advert for the doctor that did it.... d rest na just vibes and nonsense

Orfankwagh:
Na only uzor kalu and akpabio fit give that kind bribe

I see what you are saying but u will be surprised that some more can afford to give that money....these men have stolen funds.....the oversight a lot of them have been doing all these years, dem just use am get big contracts approved for the companies managed by proxies. At 500naira, that's 54 billion naira....meanwhile for national assembly politicking, not everyone gets the bribe, ofcourse there are some that are just going to get juicy oversight functions. Some will be promised principal officers and all of that...some will vote for u by default and ofcourse u know them, for senate most likely u won't need to bribe more than 40...u go still fit dangle principal officers to like 10 others a d u should have like another 10 that will genuinely support your cause.

Omo the stakes are really high...they know they can steal as much as they like with Tinubu as president, so any amount of investment will be recouped in no time

Jokerman:
My wife is my next of Kin.

My mom was My Dad's next of Kin.

The ideal situation...genZ and the generation before genZ have turned the world upside down....still good women out there though

PrinceofSarcasm:
You must be new here..alot of these useless ani.als.here beat their mothers. We have someone some open threads about how useless their own biological mothers are, some have used the B word in describing their own mother's here.

Alot of these guys are cursed. From their comments we dey take know them

See I know there are boys that are not respectful to their mothers...some think being rude to everyone including their mother is what shows they are woke, some just open these silly threads for clout, some just want attention but believe me, a boy/man beating his mother go dey very very rare, if we dey cry, e no mean say we no go see road....I am not saying there are not idiots like that, but in reality a boy beating his mother isn't on the increase, maybe just isolated cases of some cursed boys

PrinceofSarcasm:
All these ones who beat up their mothers are talking 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Rubbish USELESS comment

Anyone dey beat their mother? Even wild animal dey look face...except under a spell

EponObi:
Achraf Hakimi divorce story really touched this one

E pain am.....that gender dey fear me. It's all about a man's money or wealth. I can't marry a poor man, why is hakimis mum still controlling him....they are not even talking about Hakimis wife about to be free from the man as they always celebrate, they are all bashing the guy and his mum....these vagina people, na just few of them good.

saphiere:
Please drop your answer with reasons.

For me, I'd say his wife.
My reasons;
1. His wife takes care of his children.
2. He grows old with his wife.
3. His mum might die before him.
4. His wife is always there by him.

When his mum dies, there will be another conversation...

You do not automatically become next of kin because you have vagina that you are putting to use, you are not a housewife, build your personal wealth and stop having palpitations over another persons wealth. If you divorce him, it should be for ur peace of mind and opportunity to enjoy ur personal wealth in peace, not the one u plan to inherit. Anyone a man trusts should be his next of kin. In these days of paternity fraud, I'd just say be careful. You never die dem dun dey corner ur resources to raise another man pikin, imagine when u die

Looks like you really don't have direct issues with your husband as a person. It's unfortunate that his family are making life unbearable for you. You are left with no option than to focus on your life, your birth family, your husband(if he doesn't change) and your daughter.
Life is unfair, serves all of us some sort of not-so-beautiful experience. Just try to wade through yours with grace. If your husband ever turns against you, DO NOT HESITATE TO TAKE YOUR LEAVE..... let him chit chat with his sister, as long as he's being a good husband and father ...just look away.....and let's tell ourselves the truth blood is blood, to love our siblings is effortless, we are bound to see their shame as our shame and their glory as ours, the bond with our partners we are working hard to build and sustain.

Meanwhile, your story paints you very very good with little to no flaws or blame in the whole matter...I hope that's the true state of things....otherwise tell yourself the truth and do the needful.

Kakamorufu:
sope OTILO

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patapata

Ode ni e o....a very big one... why do u people let love take over your ability to reason....... you don't rate yourself....that's the only thing I see here..... how do u people love someone that's not crazy about you...even at that why is it so difficult for u people to respect yourselves and stop loving a partner that decides to break up with u OR stops loving u..... why not master how to have significant control over ur emotions.

Anita Ofili killed her friend because her friend snatched her boyfriend.....but man is not a trophy....If u check am well well Anita Ofili fit be one of these girls shouting feminism up and down....

As useless as the job is, it is still for the hawks

Effectively Todd Boehly admits his stupidity for sacking the perfect coach for chelsea

yarimo:
is he the governor? This is very simple question

Obviously he isnt

yarimo:
Without your permission are you the governor?

Tinubu's team already accompanying the president on economic trips, Elrufai says the governorship candidate of his party joins has been joining state council meetings.... the right thing to do for any reasonable outgoing administration is to invite the incoming ones so there won't be total shutdown or pause of governance when the new ones come in...... in this case the incoming sees what the outgoing has been doing and the right thing to do is to sound a note of warning to anyone doing financial business with the outgoing.

The DSS is the biggest empty barrel that is making noise in Nigeria. Department of State Security service, but u will hear them release beer parlour statements like
"We know those causing unrest, we will share their names soon"

The west should rest already. How can you want to dictate what holds in other people's society.
They label polygamy as evil but homosexuality is human right.

Ceenachi:
Hopefully this isn't true Sha. But this man has exposed his family too much, too many eyes, good and evil are on them.

You see polygamy is not a thing to joke with , may this not be true oooo

People in monogamy lose their kids too